Lovett v. Lovett

164 N.W.2d 793, 1969 Iowa Sup. LEXIS 759
CourtSupreme Court of Iowa
DecidedFebruary 11, 1969
Docket52998
StatusPublished
Cited by17 cases

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Lovett v. Lovett, 164 N.W.2d 793, 1969 Iowa Sup. LEXIS 759 (iowa 1969).

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MASON, Justice.

This is an appeal by the wife from decree denying her a divorce, alimony, custody and support of minor children, what she considered an equitable property settlement and holding she failed to establish con-donation as affirmative defense to the husband’s counterclaim for a divorce.

I. July 27, 1966, Donna Lovett filed petition for divorce against Gerald W. Lovett seeking custody and support of their children, alimony, property settlement and other relief alleging cruel and inhuman treatment such as to endanger her health and life. Defendant filed answer denying the basic allegations of the petition and a counterclaim asking divorce on the same ground and alleging affirmatively that plaintiff had absented herself from the home, neglected the children, was a bad influence upon them and unfit to have [796]*796their custody. He asked custody of the children and award of the property owned by the parties. Plaintiff filed answer to the counterclaim and alleged condonation as an affirmative defense thereto.

Following trial, defendant was granted a divorce, custody of their children subject to reasonable visitation rights to the mother, the equity in their Prairie City real property, the automobile, household goods and insurance policies as his exclusive property. Donna Lovett was awarded $5000 established as a lien on the Prairie City real estate until paid and $1250 toward her attorney fees to be taxed as part of the cost.

Plaintiff relies on three propositions for reversal: Error of the trial court in (1) denying her petition for divorce, (2) finding she had not established condonation on the part of defendant and (3) awarding custody of the minor children to defendant.

II. The parties were married in 1952. There were three children born to the marriage. At the time of trial Gary was 13, Linda 9 and Gregg 8. Plaintiff, 34, was a high school graduate. The husband, 43, also graduated from high school.

After graduating from high school and prior to her marriage plaintiff had been employed in Des Moines as a mail clerk, clerk typist, receptionist and secretary. After marriage she worked either full or part time until the oldest son was born in 1954, then part time at various jobs until 1965 when she obtained full time employment at Allied Construction Company in Des Moines where she worked until June 1966. After terminating this employment she devoted her time to housekeeping.

Defendant was drafted at the age of 18 after finishing high school, became a prisoner of war until 1945. Upon returning from overseas defendant began work with the Internal Revenue Service in January 1946 and at the time of trial had attained the grade of GS-9 earning an annual salary of $9000. His duties require him to travel outside the state on occasion.

During their marriage the parties built a modern, three-bedroom, one-level home with attached garage in Prairie City at a cost of $13,500 which was encumbered at the time of trial by a mortgage in the principal amount of $2700 with monthly payments of $88.88, taxes of approximately $200 a year and insurance premiums of approximately'$60. The parties did much of the work themselves. In addition they had a line of furniture and a 1961 Oldsmobile.

Before considering plaintiff’s evidence offered in support of her alleged ground for divorce we repeat some general rules of law set forth in Beno v. Beno, 260 Iowa 442, 149 N.W.2d 778, 780, which are well established and supported by authorities cited therein.

“A party seeking divorce on ground of cruel and inhuman treatment endangering life has the burden of proof.

“To entitle a party to a divorce under Code section 598.8(5), it is necessary two elements be proven, (1) inhuman treatment and (2) danger to life therefrom.

“Life may be endangered by impairment of health.

“Danger to life is sufficient where the danger is reasonably apprehended.

“Proof of physical violence is not always necessary. Any mistreatment which deprives a spouse of needed rest, peace of mind, and affects the nervous system so that health is undermined, may endanger life as effectively as physical violence.

“A long continued, regular and persistent course of faultfinding, criticism and belittling, on the part of one spouse, may amount to cruel and inhuman treatment and where there is also a persuasive showing that such conduct has affected the health, physical or mental, and to some extent has thereby endangered the life of a spouse, a sufficient cause has been made to justify a divorce.

[797]*797“To determine whether ground for divorce under the allegation of cruel and inhuman treatment exists, it is necessary to consider the entire record of the married life of the parties.

“Our review is de novo. We give considerable weight to the fact findings of the trial court but are not bound by them.

“Whether a course of conduct is such as will justify a decree of‘•divorce on ground of cruel and inhuman treatment must be determined in each case upon its facts.”

These general statements are repeated with approval in Sigler v. Sigler, 260 Iowa 748, 150 N.W.2d 287, 288-289.

III. Although plaintiff does not contend there was physical violence, she maintains the facts show that throughout the marriage whenever defendant was displeased with her he gave her a silent treatment by refusing to talk to her, often for days at a time; that embarrassment she experienced through this treatment and other matters mentioned by her made her extremely nervous and caused loss of weight.

The husband had two life insurance policies issued by Bankers Life for $2000 each naming his mother as beneficiary and one Government policy of $10,000 in which plaintiff and the children were beneficiaries. Plaintiff was bothered by the fact the husband failed to change the beneficiary in the two Bankers Life policies as she suggested after the birth of each child.

Another of plaintiff’s complaints stems from an occasion when her bowling team was to attend a tournament in Sioux City. The other members had planned to stay overnight but defendant insisted plaintiff return the same day. She returned about 2:00 the following morning. She asserts this embarrassed her as she felt like some little girl who couldn’t do what other people could do.

She was further embarrassed when she had made arrangements two or three weeks in advance with three other couples to attend the movie “My Fair Lady” and it became necessary to cancel the engagement because of defendant’s refusal to attend. Plaintiff had discussed the matter with defendant before contacting the other couples and when he didn’t say much she assumed they were going. However, on the appointed evening defendant refused to go and plaintiff had to call the other people to cancel arrangements.

At the Allied Construction Company’s Christmas party in 1965 plaintiff was again embarrassed. On the way to the party at the golf and country club plaintiff and defendant had stopped at a couple’s home and had a few drinks. When they got to> the party defendant stayed around the bar, drank too much, became intoxicated and sick. It was necessary for some friends to take him from the party and put him in his car. However, plaintiff continued at the party and had another drink.

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