Lawler v. Lawler

175 N.W.2d 103, 1970 Iowa Sup. LEXIS 784
CourtSupreme Court of Iowa
DecidedMarch 4, 1970
Docket53618
StatusPublished
Cited by7 cases

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Lawler v. Lawler, 175 N.W.2d 103, 1970 Iowa Sup. LEXIS 784 (iowa 1970).

Opinion

MASON, Justice.

This is an appeal by defendant-husband from a decree awarding plaintiff a divorce and attorney fees. October 4, 1967, Joan K. Lawler filed petition for divorce against John P. Lawler seeking custody of the parties’ children, allowance for their support, alimony, award of personal property, attorney fees and other relief, alleging in a single division, but in a separate paragraph, cruel and inhuman treatment such as to endanger her health and life and that defendant had since their marriage become addicted to habitual drunkenness. Defendant filed answer denying the basic allegations of the petition and alleged condonation as an affirmative defense thereto.

After the petition was filed the parties resumed marital relations until sometime in 1968 when plaintiff moved to Wall Lake; May 23 plaintiff amended her petition alleging that recurrence of the cruelties and excessive use of alcohol by defendant as originally charged nullified any contention of condonation.

Following trial in March 1969 the trial court found defendant guilty of such cruel and inhuman treatment as to endanger *105 plaintiff’s life and health, that after marriage defendant had become an alcoholic and ordered him to pay plaintiff’s counsel $1500 in addition to the temporary allowance previously awarded. The decree reserved the matter of custody and support of the children, alimony and property division until further hearing under a local rule of court which we are advised provides in all contested divorce or separate maintenance actions there shall be a separation of issues and a trial first had on the issue of whether there shall be a decree of divorce or separate maintenance. All other matters shall be reserved for later trial, if not moot, after the appeal or appeal time has expired.

Defendant asserts six propositions for reversal: Error of the trial court in (1) granting plaintiff a divorce on the ground of habitual drunkenness, (2) granting plaintiff a divorce on the ground of cruel and inhuman treatment, (3) granting a divorce where testimony showed • plaintiff had made no effort to use her influence to keep defendant from drinking, had failed to assist or encourage him to receive professional help and had participated in drinking sessions, (4) considering matters outside the record, particularly his own experience in Alcoholics Anonymous, (5) fixing any attorney fees until the matter was fully submitted and (6) granting a divorce where plaintiff’s testimony was not properly corroborated.

I. This suit being in equity, our review is de novo. Rule 334, Rules of Civil Procedure. Joan and John Lawler were married June 1, 1957. At the time she was 18. At the time of the trial she was 30, he was 31. They have five children, John Michael, 11; Donald Kenneth, 9; Kathi Jean, 8; Teresa, 7; and Diana, 5. After marriage they lived on a 320-acre grain farm south of Wall Lake. Defendant also fed some livestock.

Plaintiff testified that after Teresa was born John started drinking heavily, getting worse each year. At first it was during the winter, but during the last couple years it was year round. If plaintiff hadn’t done the chores by the time defendant got home from drinking, he would insist that the boys get out of bed and help feed silage and corn to the cattle and water the pigs. The oldest boy was then in kindergarten.

When Mike was six, John became intoxicated a couple times a week. He would get mad and talk two to three hours. In the last couple years John started throwing plaintiff and the children around, hitting the children and breaking the furniture. She estimated her husband’s drinking problems started approximately seven years before trial. Plaintiff related one incident when they went to the hospital to get Teresa and had to stop so defendant could have a beer. He would start out on beer and end up on whiskey.

She told of another occasion in May 1967 when John had taken the boys to Breda and he began drinking. About 2 a. m. a strange car entered the yard bringing them home after the Lawler car went into a ditch. Defendant insisted that Mike drive the tractor to the scene and get the car out. When plaintiff interceded, John started throwing dishes until she finally told him to take the tractor and she would bring the boys in the pickup. Instead, she went to defendant’s mother with the children. John’s two uncles finally went over and pulled the car out.

Two or three weeks after this event, when defendant had been drinking he hit plaintiff in the mouth with his fist, grabbed her arms, threw her across the room — inflicting bruises which lasted two to three weeks. When the oldest boy tried to defend his mother, his father threw him against the deep freeze.

When she returned to defendant after starting the divorce action he again started drinking excessively. Defendant made no threats but “sure gave her a lot of hell”. If he didn’t pick on the oldest boy, he was picking on one of the girls. Once when Donnie came home from school unable to *106 walk because his leg, broken a couple years before, was bothering him, defendant came into the house mad and drunk, ripped the boy’s pants and underwear. After plaintiff called the doctor, she and defendant took the boy to town. At the doctor’s office John couldn’t even talk to the doctor, was “too drunk to walk down the hall”.

Plaintiff had been taking nerve pills and was under doctor’s care for about two years. When her husband was drinking heavily she broke out in hives. She was positive she couldn’t live with him any longer, didn’t have any love or respect for him, didn’t trust him because she didn’t believe he was going to quit drinking. Plaintiff felt if she continued to live with John she would be a nervous wreck and end up in Cherokee, as she had almost reached that point.

There are other instances throughout the record of his behavior while drinking.

Plaintiff admitted she never suggested defendant seek professional help because of his drinking habits. She didn’t know where he would go and it wasn’t until she decided to leave that he asked her help. Until defendant started drinking about seven years before trial they had a good marriage.

Defendant as a witness in his own behalf testified he had had some problems with drinking in the last few years, but never intentionally harmed anyone or deliberately went out and got drunk. He knew he was an alcoholic and couldn’t stop at an average drink; he drank to the point he couldn’t remember and concedes he was probably as cruel to his wife with his tongue as he could have been with his fist and it wasn’t good for the children to live in fear of their dad coming home in that condition. Until he joined Alcoholics Anonymous he never realized the terrible fear his wife had of his coming home drunk. After the divorce action was commenced, he quit drinking for two and one-half months, but right before Christmas he couldn’t stand the urge and finally gave in. He had not had a drink since his wife left on the last occasion.

Plaintiff offered testimony of two other witnesses.

II. Defendant’s first, third arid fourth propositions for reversal bear on plaintiff’s allegation that since marriage defendant had become addicted to habitual drunkenness. We, therefore, consider these assignments before passing to those propositions relating to the charge of cruel and inhuman treatment.

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