In re Marriage of Trapkus

2022 IL App (3d) 190631, 207 N.E.3d 1043, 462 Ill. Dec. 740
CourtAppellate Court of Illinois
DecidedJune 8, 2022
Docket3-19-0631
StatusPublished
Cited by16 cases

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Opinion

2022 IL App (3d) 190631

Opinion filed June 8, 2022 ____________________________________________________________________________

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS

THIRD DISTRICT

In re MARRIAGE OF ) Appeal from the Circuit Court ) of the 14th Judicial Circuit, JANELLE TRAPKUS ) Rock Island County, Illinois. ) Petitioner-Appellee, ) ) Appeal Nos. 3-19-0631 and 3-20-0005 and ) Circuit No. 11-D-376 ) CHRISTOPHER TRAPKUS, ) ) The Honorable Respondent-Appellant. ) Kathleen Mesich, ) Judge, presiding. ___________________________________________________________________________

JUSTICE McDADE delivered the judgment of the court, with opinion. Justices Daugherity and Schmidt concurred in the judgment and opinion. ____________________________________________________________________________

OPINION

¶1 The petitioner, Janelle Trapkus, and the respondent, Christopher Trapkus (Chris), married

in 2000 and divorced in 2013. In 2018, the parties filed cross-petitions for modification of the

dissolution judgment and other postjudgment orders. After a trial in 2019, the circuit court issued

a decision denying Chris’s petition to modify parenting time, granting Janelle’s petition to vacate

two rules regarding the scheduling of health care appointments and requiring the parties to maintain a 10-foot distance from each other, and granting Janelle’s request to vacate a rule

prohibiting her from entering onto Chris’s property. We affirm in part and reverse in part.

¶2 I. BACKGROUND

¶3 The circuit court’s 2013 dissolution order allocated the physical care and custody of the

parties’ two children, P.T. (born March 13, 2004) and K.T. (born August 12, 2006), to Janelle

and granted Chris certain visitation rights. A detailed holiday schedule was also enacted “ending

at 8:00 a.m. the following day, or with transportation to school the following day, as the case

may be, excepting Christmas.” Notably, in ruling that Janelle would have physical care and

custody of the parties’ two children, the court found that joint legal custody was inappropriate

due to the animosity existing between Janelle and Chris but that “as time goes by communication

between the parties may improve, as the parties’ animosity dissipates, such that the Court would

entertain a future request for joint custody.”

¶4 In July 2014, the circuit court entered an order that, inter alia, required Janelle to

“endeavor to schedule all health care appointments for the parties’ children for a time when both

parents may appear and participate.” To facilitate this requirement, Janelle was ordered to

provide Chris with three available dates for medical appointments (hereinafter the Three-

Appointment Rule).

¶5 On December 5, 2014, Janelle filed a petition to modify visitation and requested a ban on

Chris’s girlfriend, Kathleen, from attending any of the children’s activities. Following an April

2015 evidentiary hearing, the circuit court denied the petition after finding no cause for the

restriction. However, based on an agreement by the parties, the court entered the “10-foot Rule,”

which required the parties to remain at a distance of at least 10 feet from each other at all

2 extracurricular and other activities. The rule also applied to Janelle and Kathleen, who submitted

to the court’s jurisdiction for the limited purpose of instituting that rule.

¶6 In November 2016, after an evidentiary hearing on several pending motions, Janelle was

found in indirect civil contempt of court for violating the 10-foot Rule on at least two occasions.

The court also enjoined Janelle from entering onto Chris’s property for any reason. The court

further modified parenting time and ordered both parties to deliver the children to their

extracurricular activities with their equipment 10 minutes before the activity’s start time.

¶7 In January 2018, Chris filed a petition for modification, clarification, enforcement, and

adjudication of contempt and other relief. Chris sought, inter alia, equal parenting time with the

children, alleging that a substantial change of circumstances had occurred since the entry of the

allocation judgment in 2013 in that (1) five years had passed and (2) the children had

intermittently asked for more time with him. Chris also requested an order finding Janelle in

contempt for failing to comply with the Three-Appointment Rule. Additionally, Chris alleged

that the parties could not agree on the exact number of days in the summer vacation schedule. He

requested an order clarifying the exact number of days in the summer vacation schedule to

ensure that each party was receiving half of those days. He also sought compensatory parenting

time for the periods during which he was sent out of the country to work during the year because

Janelle would generally refuse to accommodate such requests by Chris.

¶8 In June 2018, Janelle filed her own petition for modification, enforcement, adjudication

of contempt, and other relief. The petition sought, inter alia, a change in the holiday parenting

schedule; the elimination of the Three-Appointment Rule, the 10-foot Rule, and the prohibition

on her from entering onto Chris’s property; and an order adjudicating Chris in contempt for

failing to follow specific orders including the 10-foot Rule. Shortly thereafter, Janelle filed her

3 proposed parenting plan in conjunction with the parties’ cross-petitions in which she suggested

the parties alternate all significant holidays in an odd/even year allocation from 8 a.m. to 8 a.m.

the following day for each holiday.

¶9 The circuit court heard evidence over three days on the parties’ cross-petitions. Janelle

testified, inter alia, that P.T was a freshman in high school and K.T. was in the seventh grade.

Both children excelled in school and were involved in extracurricular activities. During the

school year, Chris had alternate weekends, every other Monday, and overnights on Wednesdays.

To accommodate her work schedule as a physical therapist, Janelle sometimes asked Chris to

pick up the children on Fridays, to which he usually agreed. During the summer, Chris’s

parenting time included alternating weekends as well as Tuesday and Wednesday nights.

¶ 10 Janelle sought the elimination of the 10-foot Rule because it was difficult to adhere to in

certain situations and because she believed it made the children uncomfortable. She also sought

the elimination of the Three-Appointment Rule because it was overly burdensome to her as well

as medical professionals. Janelle suggested that she alone should schedule the children’s medical

appointments. Further, she sought the elimination of the order prohibiting her from entering onto

Chris’s property, as doing so would normalize pickups and drop-offs by allowing her to pull into

Chris’s driveway. In that regard, Janelle noted that Chris had purchased a new house, which was

set back farther than his previous house, and that when she parked on the street, she was in the

way of Chris’s neighbors. Chris wanted each of these rules to continue because he believed they

helped alleviate confrontations between the parties.

¶ 11 Chris testified, inter alia, that he wanted more parenting time because the children were

older, had matured, and were approaching a point at which he had a lot of experience to share

with them, both from work and athletics. He wanted the relatively equal parenting time schedule

4 from the summer to apply to the entire year.

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