In re Marriage of Trapkus

2022 IL App (3d) 190631, 207 N.E.3d 1043, 462 Ill. Dec. 740
Appellate Court of Illinois·Decided June 8, 2022·No. 3-19-0631·Published·Cited by 16 cases

Opinion

2022 IL App (3d) 190631

Opinion filed June 8, 2022

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS THIRD DISTRICT

2022

In re MARRIAGE OF ) Appeal from the Circuit Court ) of the 14th Judicial Circuit, JANELLE TRAPKUS ) Rock Island County, Illinois.

)

Petitioner-Appellee, )

) Appeal Nos. 3-19-0631 and 3-20-0005 and ) Circuit No. 11-D-376 )

CHRISTOPHER TRAPKUS, )

) The Honorable

Respondent-Appellant. ) Kathleen Mesich, ) Judge, presiding.

JUSTICE McDADE delivered the judgment of the court, with opinion.

Justices Daugherity and Schmidt concurred in the judgment and opinion.

OPINION

¶1 The petitioner, Janelle Trapkus, and the respondent, Christopher Trapkus (Chris), married in 2000 and divorced in 2013. In 2018, the parties filed cross-petitions for modification of the dissolution judgment and other postjudgment orders. After a trial in 2019, the circuit court issued a decision denying Chris’s petition to modify parenting time, granting Janelle’s petition to vacate two rules regarding the scheduling of health care appointments and requiring the parties to

maintain a 10-foot distance from each other, and granting Janelle’s request to vacate a rule prohibiting her from entering onto Chris’s property. We affirm in part and reverse in part.

¶2 I. BACKGROUND

¶3 The circuit court’s 2013 dissolution order allocated the physical care and custody of the parties’ two children, P.T. (born March 13, 2004) and K.T. (born August 12, 2006), to Janelle and granted Chris certain visitation rights. A detailed holiday schedule was also enacted “ending at 8:00 a.m. the following day, or with transportation to school the following day, as the case may be, excepting Christmas.” Notably, in ruling that Janelle would have physical care and custody of the parties’ two children, the court found that joint legal custody was inappropriate due to the animosity existing between Janelle and Chris but that “as time goes by communication between the parties may improve, as the parties’ animosity dissipates, such that the Court would entertain a future request for joint custody.”

¶4 In July 2014, the circuit court entered an order that, inter alia, required Janelle to “endeavor to schedule all health care appointments for the parties’ children for a time when both parents may appear and participate.” To facilitate this requirement, Janelle was ordered to provide Chris with three available dates for medical appointments (hereinafter the Three- Appointment Rule).

¶5 On December 5, 2014, Janelle filed a petition to modify visitation and requested a ban on Chris’s girlfriend, Kathleen, from attending any of the children’s activities. Following an April 2015 evidentiary hearing, the circuit court denied the petition after finding no cause for the restriction. However, based on an agreement by the parties, the court entered the “10-foot Rule,” which required the parties to remain at a distance of at least 10 feet from each other at all

extracurricular and other activities. The rule also applied to Janelle and Kathleen, who submitted to the court’s jurisdiction for the limited purpose of instituting that rule.

¶6 In November 2016, after an evidentiary hearing on several pending motions, Janelle was found in indirect civil contempt of court for violating the 10-foot Rule on at least two occasions. The court also enjoined Janelle from entering onto Chris’s property for any reason. The court further modified parenting time and ordered both parties to deliver the children to their extracurricular activities with their equipment 10 minutes before the activity’s start time.

¶7 In January 2018, Chris filed a petition for modification, clarification, enforcement, and adjudication of contempt and other relief. Chris sought, inter alia, equal parenting time with the children, alleging that a substantial change of circumstances had occurred since the entry of the allocation judgment in 2013 in that (1) five years had passed and (2) the children had intermittently asked for more time with him. Chris also requested an order finding Janelle in contempt for failing to comply with the Three-Appointment Rule. Additionally, Chris alleged that the parties could not agree on the exact number of days in the summer vacation schedule. He requested an order clarifying the exact number of days in the summer vacation schedule to ensure that each party was receiving half of those days. He also sought compensatory parenting time for the periods during which he was sent out of the country to work during the year because Janelle would generally refuse to accommodate such requests by Chris.

¶8 In June 2018, Janelle filed her own petition for modification, enforcement, adjudication of contempt, and other relief. The petition sought, inter alia, a change in the holiday parenting schedule; the elimination of the Three-Appointment Rule, the 10-foot Rule, and the prohibition on her from entering onto Chris’s property; and an order adjudicating Chris in contempt for failing to follow specific orders including the 10-foot Rule. Shortly thereafter, Janelle filed her

proposed parenting plan in conjunction with the parties’ cross-petitions in which she suggested the parties alternate all significant holidays in an odd/even year allocation from 8 a.m. to 8 a.m. the following day for each holiday.

¶9 The circuit court heard evidence over three days on the parties’ cross-petitions. Janelle testified, inter alia, that P.T was a freshman in high school and K.T. was in the seventh grade. Both children excelled in school and were involved in extracurricular activities. During the school year, Chris had alternate weekends, every other Monday, and overnights on Wednesdays. To accommodate her work schedule as a physical therapist, Janelle sometimes asked Chris to pick up the children on Fridays, to which he usually agreed. During the summer, Chris’s parenting time included alternating weekends as well as Tuesday and Wednesday nights.

¶ 10 Janelle sought the elimination of the 10-foot Rule because it was difficult to adhere to in certain situations and because she believed it made the children uncomfortable. She also sought the elimination of the Three-Appointment Rule because it was overly burdensome to her as well as medical professionals. Janelle suggested that she alone should schedule the children’s medical appointments. Further, she sought the elimination of the order prohibiting her from entering onto Chris’s property, as doing so would normalize pickups and drop-offs by allowing her to pull into Chris’s driveway. In that regard, Janelle noted that Chris had purchased a new house, which was set back farther than his previous house, and that when she parked on the street, she was in the way of Chris’s neighbors. Chris wanted each of these rules to continue because he believed they helped alleviate confrontations between the parties.

¶ 11 Chris testified, inter alia, that he wanted more parenting time because the children were older, had matured, and were approaching a point at which he had a lot of experience to share with them, both from work and athletics. He wanted the relatively equal parenting time schedule

from the summer to apply to the entire year. Chris also stated that Janelle would rarely agree with his requests for additional parenting time. He wanted the 10-foot Rule, Three-Appointment Rule, and prohibition on Janelle entering onto his property to continue. He claimed that those rules have brought stability to the children’s activities and have prevented conflict and embarrassing situations.

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