In re Marriage of Warren

2025 IL App (3d) 250368-U

• Court: Appellate Court of Illinois
• Decided: December 22, 2025
• Docket: 3-25-0368
• Status: Unpublished

Opinion

NOTICE: This order was filed under Supreme Court Rule 23 and is not precedent except in the limited circumstances allowed under Rule 23(e)(1).

2025 IL App (3d) 250368-U

Order filed December 22, 2025 ____________________________________________________________________________

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS

THIRD DISTRICT

In re The MARRIAGE OF ) Appeal from the Circuit Court ) of the 18th Judicial Circuit, DAMON WARREN, ) Du Page County, Illinois. ) Petitioner-Appellant, ) ) Appeal No. 3-25-0368 and ) Circuit No. 21-D-1300, 21-OP-1072 ) KASHARA WARREN, ) Honorable ) Neal W. Cerne, Respondent-Appellee. ) Judge, Presiding. ____________________________________________________________________________

JUSTICE BERTANI delivered the judgment of the court. Justices Holdridge and Peterson concurred in the judgment. ____________________________________________________________________________

ORDER

¶1 Held: (1) Modification of the parenting plan to give mother equal parenting time was not in error when mother’s move constituted a substantial change in circumstances and the court found the modification was in the best interests of the minor children; (2) no error occurred when the court chose not to consider bank statements father failed to admit into evidence; (3) the court improperly awarded mother decision-making responsibilities over professional acting jobs when the issue was not before the court.

¶2 Petitioner, Damon Warren, appeals the Du Page County circuit court’s decision to modify

the parties’ parenting plan giving respondent, Kashara Warren, equal parenting time, arguing that Kashara’s recent move was not a substantial change in circumstances and had been contemplated

in the parenting plan. He also appeals the court’s denial of his petition for rule to show cause and

its decision to give Kashara decision-making authority over the children’s employment activities.

For the reasons that follow, we affirm in part and reverse in part.

¶3 I. BACKGROUND

¶4 This matter concerns allegations of contempt and parenting responsibilities following the

entry of a 2023 judgment for dissolution of marriage. Damon appeared as a self-represented litigant

for both the post-judgment proceedings and in this appeal.

¶5 Damon and Kashara were married for 15 years before Damon filed for dissolution on July

15, 2021. Three children were born from the marriage; they are all currently minors. Shortly after

the case began, the court appointed Angel Traub as guardian ad litem (GAL) to offer a

recommendation regarding parenting time.

¶6 A trial began in July 2023 and continued into the fall. On November 9, 2023, the circuit

court issued a judgment for dissolution of marriage, a letter opinion addressing financial issues,

and a parenting plan and allocation judgment. Both parents received joint decision-making

responsibility for all major health, medical, and psychological decisions and Damon received sole

decision-making authority for educational and extracurricular decisions. The court described the

situation involving the extracurriculars as “[e]ach parent is very supportive of their children and

the children have been actively involved in many extracurricular activities, including professional

acting and competitive dance.” It supported its decision to grant Damon sole decision-making

responsibility over extracurriculars by noting that the parties could not agree on their children’s

activities. It further found that:

2 “the children have been actively involved in many arts-related extracurricular

activities. However, under the current circumstances, the parents have

demonstrated an inability to work together to choose, schedule, and/or transport the

children to their activities. Mother wishes to have the girls continue to pursue their

dancing, music and acting careers; Father seeks to have the girls be more ‘well-

rounded.’ ”

Specifically, the court found Damon did not agree with the children’s heavy involvement in

competitive dancing. No other description for what constituted an extracurricular activity is

provided in the order.

¶7 In its factual findings, the court noted that Kashara lived in Oak Park, Illinois, while Damon

lived in Naperville, Illinois. The children attended school in Naperville. The court also noted that

Kashara refused to move back to Naperville but indicated she would do so if the court ordered that

the children would primarily reside with Damon. It awarded Damon majority parenting time, and

Kashara received time on alternating weekends and Tuesday and Thursday evenings. The order

did not reference Kashara’s statements regarding moving back to the Naperville area when making

this decision.

¶8 The letter opinion found that Kashara had improperly removed funds from the accounts

used to deposit the children’s professional acting jobs and ordered her to repay the withdrawn

amounts within thirty days. Once the funds were repaid, Damon and Kashara were to close the

accounts and split the money equally between them. The opinion did not state how much money

was removed from the accounts or how much Kashara was required to repay.

¶9 Shortly after the court issued its rulings, Kashara filed a motion to vacate or amend the

parenting plan and allocation judgment. The court denied the motion. Six months later, on May 1,

3 2024, Kashara filed a petition to modify the parenting plan and allocation judgment pursuant to

section 610.5 of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (Act). 750 ILCS 5/610.5

(West 2024). She cited her move back to Naperville as a substantial change in circumstance that

justified modification. She argued that her move from Oak Park to Naperville allowed her to spend

more time with the children because there was significantly less travel time involved and asked

the court to award her equal parenting time.

¶ 10 Also pending at this time was Damon’s petition for rule to show cause requesting that the

court find Kashara in contempt for her failure to repay the children’s acting accounts, for

attempting to enroll the children in a different school even though he had been awarded sole

decision-making authority for their schooling, and for failure to pay child support. He also alleged

that one child had recently received a paid dancing job and that Kashara arranged for payment of

the job to be deposited into an account that was only accessible to the child when she turned 18.

Damon argued that creating the new bank accounts and arranging for the payments to be deposited

in them was in violation of the parenting plan and allocation judgment because he had sole

decision-making authority over extracurricular activities. He alleged that, when he questioned

Kashara’s decision to do this, she stated that the child’s paycheck was not an extracurricular

activity, and he did not have decision-making authority over the payment for the jobs.

¶ 11 In response to Damon’s petition for rule to show cause, Kashara stated that she had been

behind on child support payments but was now up to date. Regarding enrollment in a different

school, she argued that she did not attempt to enroll the children in another school, but merely got

aptitude tests completed for the children, which she did not believe was prohibited under the

court’s orders. She also stated that she did not believe she violated the order regarding decision-

making on extracurricular activities because where the children’s wages were deposited was not

4 an “activity.” She responded to Damon’s allegations that she had not paid back the original funds

in the children’s accounts by stating she did not have the funds to make the necessary payments.

¶ 12 A hearing on all pending pleadings began on January 29, 2025. Kashara testified that she

moved to Naperville in July 2024 and that her residence was a seven-minute drive away from

Damon’s home. She also changed jobs to a position that would allow her to be more present in the

children’s lives. She requested a modification of the parenting plan because she lived much closer

and had the time to spend with the children.

¶ 13 On cross examination, Damon questioned Kashara regarding whether she considered the

children’s acting jobs extracurricular activities. Kashara responded that she did not view them as

extracurricular activities because they were actual jobs that paid a wage. She also argued that the

circuit court in the original judgment did not specifically list acting jobs as extracurriculars so she

did not believe they should categorize them as such now.

¶ 14 Damon testified that Kashara currently had substantial visitation and that he did not restrict

her time with the children. He conceded that the children wanted to be near their mother and that

now that she lived closer the logistics were easier. However, Damon believed she would move

again in the future and opposed reallocating time because of this belief.

¶ 15 Traub testified that the original schedule she had recommended was based on Kashara’s

Oak Park residence. At that time, Kashara lived too far away to reasonably create a schedule that

could give her equal parenting time. Traub stated that modifying the parenting plan to give each

parent equal parenting time would be in the children’s best interests and in line with their wishes

to spend more time with their mother. She stated that the reasons for this recommendation were

included in her GAL report; that report has not been included in the record on appeal.

5 ¶ 16 At the end of the hearing, the court indicated it would give an oral ruling that Kashara’s

attorney could memorialize in writing later. It ordered a 50/50 parenting schedule, noting that the

parties now lived less than ten minutes apart. Regarding the children’s paid acting jobs, the court

found that the jobs were employment activities, not extracurriculars. It granted Kashara decision-

making responsibility for employment decisions and payment from those jobs but required her to

share all relevant information regarding the bank account with Damon. It denied Damon’s request

to find Kashara in contempt for her failure to repay the money taken from the children’s accounts

because the initial letter opinion did not provide a dollar amount that had to be repaid; therefore,

the court did not know what was currently owed. On a later date, the court signed the written order

drafted by Kashara’s attorney.

¶ 17 Damon filed a motion to reconsider on March 28, 2025. He claimed that the court erred in

making a sua sponte determination that Kashara should have authority over acting jobs and in

deciding that it was not an extracurricular activity. He also challenged the court’s decision to give

Kashara equal parenting time. The court denied Damon’s motion. This appeal followed.

¶ 18 II. ANALYSIS

¶ 19 On appeal, Damon raises several arguments challenging the court’s decision on Kashara’s

motion to modify and his petition for rule to show cause. We will address each in turn.

¶ 20 A. Modification of the Parenting Plan

¶ 21 The first issue before us is whether the circuit court erred in modifying the parenting plan

to give Kashara equal parenting time. The parenting plan and allocation judgment detailed that

Damon shall be the residential custodial parent and have sole decision-making authority over

educational and extracurricular activities. While the court noted that Kashara indicated she would

move to Naperville if Damon received majority parenting time, it structured the plan based on

6 Kashara’s residence in Oak Park and the travel time required at that location. The modified

parenting plan created a schedule for Kashara to have equal parenting time because she had moved

significantly closer to Damon and the children.

¶ 22 Damon appeals this decision, arguing that Kashara did not show a substantial change in

circumstance that justified modifying the parenting plan. He contends that the court’s

acknowledgement that Kashara would move back to Naperville if he received majority parenting

time demonstrated that the move was not a substantial change in circumstance or was otherwise

unknown at the time of the original parenting plan.

¶ 23 Section 610.5(c) of the Act addresses modifications to the parties’ parenting plan and

allocation judgment. Specifically, it provides:

“the court shall modify a parenting plan or allocation judgment when necessary to

serve the child’s best interests if the court finds, by a preponderance of the evidence,

that on the basis of facts that have arisen since the entry of the existing parenting

plan or allocation judgment or were not anticipated therein, a substantial change

has occurred in the circumstances of the child or of either parent and that a

modification is necessary to serve the child’s best interests.” 750 ILCS 5/610.5(c)

(West 2024).

Thus, two requirements must be met: (1) a substantial change in circumstance has occurred, and

(2) a modification is in the best interests of the children. In re Marriage of Virgin, 2021 IL App

(3d) 190650, ¶ 43. Damon argues that Kashara’s move back to Naperville was already

contemplated in the original order, and because it was already considered, cannot constitute a

substantial change in circumstance. Whether a substantial change in circumstance has occurred is

a factual determination that we will not reverse unless that decision is against the manifest weight

7 of the evidence. In re Marriage of Trapkus, 2022 IL App (3d) 190631, ¶ 31. “A finding is against

the manifest weight of the evidence only if the opposite conclusion is clearly apparent or if the

finding itself is unreasonable, arbitrary, or not based on the evidence presented.” Nicholson v.

Wilson, 2013 IL App (3d) 110517, ¶ 22.

¶ 24 Damon’s argument that the court already considered Kashara’s potential move when

creating the original parenting plan is misguided and unsupported by authority. Damon contends

that the court specified the future event of Kashara moving when it created the original parenting

plan, indicating it took the event into account when drafting the parenting schedule. However, a

court may only implement a schedule based on current circumstances. Virgin, 2021 IL App (3d)

190650, ¶ 50 (“[A] schedule must be implemented based on the current circumstances.”). While

the court mentioned that Kashara indicated she would move if Damon was awarded majority time,

it was in the context of her intention not to move back to Naperville at all. It would not be

appropriate in this instance to create a schedule based on something that may happen sometime in

the future but was not certain. See id. The court here simply stated that Kashara may move if

Damon received majority parenting time and noted that there were no articulable plans for that

future move. Thus, while acknowledging that Kashara may move at some time, the court created

the parenting plan based on Kashara’s current location. It did not place any conditions in the

parenting plan that would indicate consideration of Kashara’s potential move when allocating

parenting time.

¶ 25 Damon also argues that Kashara did not establish that modifying the parenting plan was in

the best interests of the children. The Act requires the court to consider 17 factors when

determining if a modification would be in the best interest of the children, and Damon argues the

court did not consider any of them. 750 ILCS 5/602.7(b) (West 2024). While the court must

8 consider all relevant factors when deciding whether a modification is in the children’s best

interests, it is not required to make any explicit findings for any particular factor. In re Custody of

G.L., 2017 IL App (1st) 163171, ¶ 43. Indeed, it is not necessary to reference those factors at all.

Id. Instead, we may presume that the court knew the law and applied it appropriately unless the

record indicates otherwise. Id.; In re N.B., 191 Ill. 2d 338, 345 (2000).

¶ 26 The court order modifying the parenting plan and allocation judgment detailed that the

GAL’s report was comprehensive and based on the best interests of the children. While Damon

failed to provide the report in the record on appeal, we may presume that it provided sufficient

support for the court’s finding. See Foutch v. O’Bryant, 99 Ill. 2d 389, 391-92 (1984) (“[A]n

appellant has the burden to present a sufficiently complete record *** and in the absence of such

a record on appeal, it will be presumed that the order entered by the trial court was in conformity

with law and had a sufficient factual basis.”). Additionally, the testimony heard at the hearing

indicated that the children wished to spend more time with their mother and that Kashara had

moved and taken a new job to make it easier to see the children. We may presume that the court

followed the law and considered all the necessary factors when modifying the parenting plan

unless Damon can provide an argument to rebut it. In re N.B., 191 Ill. 2d at 345. Damon can point

to no statement or finding from the court that indicates it did not follow the law; thus, the

presumption remains unrebutted.

¶ 27 Kashara’s residence has changed since the parenting plan was set, constituting a substantial

change in circumstances that was not present when the original schedule was created. The court

drafted the original plan based on Kashara’s residence in Oak Park and granted the modification

based on her new location in Naperville. Accordingly, we do not find manifest error in the decision

that Kashara’s move constituted a substantial change in circumstance justifying a modification in

9 the parenting plan and allocation judgment. Additionally, the court found that equal parenting time

was in the children’s best interests, and we find nothing in the record to indicate that this decision

was unsupported. We therefore find no error in the court’s decision to modify the parties’ parenting

plan.

¶ 28 B. Rule to Show Cause

¶ 29 Next, Damon challenges the court’s decision relating to his petition for rule to show cause.

The letter opinion ordered Kashara to repay the funds that she removed from the children’s acting

accounts. After doing so, the parties were to close the accounts and split the funds equally. Damon

alleged in his petition that Kashara never repaid the money she took. Damon now argues that the

circuit court refused to let him introduce evidence in the form of bank statements to demonstrate

how much money Kashara still owed. He contends the court did not permit him to refresh

Kashara’s recollection with the bank statements. It is important to note that he does not argue that

the court erred in making its decision to deny his petition—only that it did not allow him to admit

certain exhibits. We review a circuit court’s evidentiary rulings for an abuse of discretion. In re

Leona W., 228 Ill. 2d 439, 460 (2008).

¶ 30 The original order requiring Kashara to repay the bank accounts did not contain a dollar

amount that Kashara must deposit. The court, noting this, decided it would not enforce this order

without knowing what those amounts should be. Damon argues that the bank statements he

attempted to introduce would show how much Kashara needed to repay. The fatal flaw with this

argument is that Damon failed to properly offer the statements to the court to admit the statements

into evidence. Damon argues that he attempted to enter the bank statements into evidence when

he tried to use them to refresh Kashara’s recollection. However, the use of documents to refresh a

witness’s recollection does not alone admit them into evidence. See Capsel v. Burwell, 2024 IL

10 App (3d) 230170, ¶ 38. Damon made no other offer to admit the bank statements into evidence,

and because of this error, the circuit court must exclude them from consideration in its ruling. Jill

Knowles Enterprises, Inc. v. Dunkin, 2017 IL App (2d) 160811, ¶ 23 (following the “general rule

that a document must be offered and admitted into evidence” before a court may consider it).

¶ 31 Damon also argues that the court could have taken judicial notice of the bank statements,

citing Illinois Rule of Evidence 201(b) (eff. Jan. 1, 2011). This rule does not permit the court to

review new evidence; it allows a court to take notice of facts that are not in dispute, either in the

form of a court order or through a source that is readily accurate. Id. Damon provides no argument

as to why the bank statements should be considered a record that is readily accurate and qualifies

as a fact for which the court could take judicial notice. Further, Damon never asked the court to

take judicial notice of the statements. “A party desiring to have a fact judicially noticed should

bring the matter to the attention of the court, on the record.” People v. Clifton, 11 Ill. App. 3d 112,

114 (1973). The court was not required to take notice of anything without such a request. People

v. Varnado, 66 Ill. App. 3d 413, 419 (1978). Thus, even if the bank statements were records of

which the court could take judicial notice, it was not required to do so because Damon never asked

it to take notice of them. Thus, because Damon failed to properly present the bank statements to

the court, he cannot now argue that the court improperly excluded them from consideration.

¶ 32 Moreover, the circuit court was correct in determining the judgment itself lacked a

concise directive that could be enforced via contempt in that it failed to identify the amount to be

restored to the account. See, e.g., People ex rel. City of Chicago v. Le Mirage, Inc., 2013 IL

113482, ¶¶ 66-67 (A circuit court’s order must be clear, concise, and easily understood to

support a finding of contempt.); In re H.S.H., 322 Ill. App. 3d 892, 897 (2001) (If the court’s

order is unclear, one may not be punished for any perceived violation.). Contempt occurring

11 outside the circuit court’s presence is considered indirect civil contempt. Hursey v. Calhoun,

2020 IL App (5th) 190276, ¶ 67. “Proof of willful disobedience of a court order is essential to

any finding of indirect civil contempt.” In re Marriage of McCormick, 2013 IL App (2d) 120100,

¶ 17. Whether a party is guilty of contempt is a question of fact left to the circuit court’s

determination. In re Estate of Lee, 2017 IL App (3d) 150651, ¶ 38. We will not disturb this

determination unless it is against the manifest weight of the evidence or the record indicates an

abuse of discretion. Id.

¶ 33 The court here correctly noted that it could not enforce the prior order because it did not

clearly set out what Kashara must do to replenish the accounts. The need for Damon to resort to

bank records to argue the amount in question is illustrative of those shortcomings. Given the lack

of a clear directive in the original judgment, the court did not err in declining to enforce the

order’s provisions via indirect civil contempt.

¶ 34 C. Acting as an Extracurricular Activity

¶ 35 Finally, Damon argues that the court improperly entered an order sua sponte that gave

Kashara decision-making authority over the children’s acting and the payments for those jobs.

Damon argues which parent had decision-making authority over professional acting jobs was not

before the court because it was not raised in any of the pleadings being argued. The motions before

the court were for modification of the parenting plan and his petition for rule to show cause alleging

that Kashara violated the original order by diverting the children’s payment for jobs into a new

bank account, not who should have decision-making authority over those activities. Moreover,

Damon already had decision-making authority over extracurricular activities, and the children’s

acting jobs should remain categorized as an extracurricular activity.

12 ¶ 36 Both parties agree that neither specifically requested a ruling of whether the acting jobs

constituted extracurricular activities. Generally, if an issue is not presented to the court through

the filing of proper pleadings, the court cannot on its own adjudicate the issue. Suriano v. Lafeber,

386 Ill. App. 3d 490, 492 (2008); Ligon v. Williams, 264 Ill. App. 3d 701, 707 (1994 (“[W]here

no justiciable issue is presented to the court through proper pleadings, the court cannot adjudicate

an issue sua sponte.”). Without the proper pleadings requesting such relief, the parties are deprived

of their right to notice and an opportunity to be heard. In re Custody of Ayala, 344 Ill. App. 3d 574,

586 (2003).

¶ 37 Section 610.5(a) of the Act provides that:

“no motion to modify an order allocating parental decision-making responsibilities,

not including parenting time, may be made earlier than 2 years after its date, unless

the court permits it to be made on the basis of affidavits that there is reason to

believe the child’s present environment may endanger seriously his or her mental,

moral, or physical health or significantly impair the child’s emotional

development.” 750 ILCS 5/610.5(a) (West 2024).

Damon argues that because two years had not passed and there was no reason to believe the

children were endangered without modifying the original order, the court could not modify

parental decision-making responsibilities as provided for in the original order. See id. We agree.

The absence of any motion seeking modification of parental responsibilities, let alone including

the requisite affidavit establishing serious endangerment, precluded the court from addressing the

issue.

¶ 38 Alternatively, Kashara argues that, while not directly raised in a pleading, the court could

award her decision-making responsibilities over the children’s acting jobs because the issue was

13 discussed during the hearing. See In re Marriage of Hochleutner, 260 Ill. App. 3d 684, 689 (1994)

(The conduct of the parties and introduction of evidence on issues during a hearing precludes a

party from objecting that an issue was not formally raised in the pleadings.); see also Nerini v

Nerini, 140 Ill. App. 3d 848, 851 (1986) (“Where a party proceeds with the case as though his

adversary’s pleadings joining issue were on file, he waives the adversary’s failure to plead.”). By

introducing the discussion during Kashara’s cross-examination, she argues Damon “opened the

door” for allowing the court to decide whether acting was an extracurricular and who should have

decision-making authority over those activities.

¶ 39 Kashara also argues that the parenting plan and allocation judgment did not categorize

acting jobs as an extracurricular activity and did not assign either parent decision-making

authority; thus, it was appropriate for the court to award her those responsibilities when the issue

was raised in the context of Damon’s petition for rule to show cause. She also argues that the court

did not include acting jobs in the original order because the parties could not agree on whether it

was an extracurricular activity. However, it is the court’s role to resolve those conflicts between

the parties through its rulings. It would be illogical for the court to decline to rule on an issue that

created such conflict for the parties. Contrary to Kashara’s reading of the parenting plan and

allocation judgment, it is clear that the court included the children’s professional careers as an

extracurricular activity. The order explicitly included “professional acting and competitive dance”

in its description of what constituted an extracurricular activity. It is with this in mind that we

examine the court’s ruling.

¶ 40 The matter before the court related to Damon’s allegations that Kashara made unilateral

decisions regarding the children's employment by creating new bank accounts for their paychecks.

The issue was not whether the acting jobs were extracurricular activities, but whether depositing

14 paychecks into a bank account was an action in decision-making for that activity. In the prayer for

relief, Damon requested that the court find that managing the bank accounts was the responsibility

of the parent with decision making authority. We cannot construe this request and the arguments

that followed at the hearing as a request to modify the parenting plan to separate acting jobs from

extracurricular activities and to allocate decision-making responsibilities for them. Thus, Damon

did not receive notice that the court might take away any of his decision-making responsibilities

at the conclusion of the hearing on his petition for rule to show cause. See Ayala, 344 Ill. App. 3d

at 585; City of Chicago v. American National Bank and Trust Co. of Chicago, 171 Ill. App. 3d

680, 688 (1988). Given that no pleadings requested the court allocate the responsibility of the

acting jobs to a parent and Damon had no notice that the court would decide this issue, he had no

opportunity to be heard on the matter. See City of Chicago, 171 Ill. App. 3d at 688. Therefore, the

court exceeded its role in awarding Kashara decision-making responsibility over the children’s

acting, and we must reverse this ruling. Id.

¶ 41 III. CONCLUSION

¶ 42 The judgment of the circuit court of Du Page County is affirmed as it relates to its

modification of the parties’ parenting plan and the denial of Damon’s petition for rule to show

cause. We reverse the court’s decision to allocate decision-making responsibilities for the

children’s professional acting jobs to Kashara, as that issue was not properly brought before the

court to decide.

¶ 43 Affirmed in part, reversed in part.