In re Marriage of Zagorski

2023 IL App (2d) 220216-U
CourtAppellate Court of Illinois
DecidedFebruary 15, 2023
Docket2-22-0216
StatusUnpublished

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In re Marriage of Zagorski, 2023 IL App (2d) 220216-U (Ill. Ct. App. 2023).

Opinion

2023 IL App (2d) 220216-U No. 2-22-0216 Order filed February 15, 2023

NOTICE: This order was filed under Supreme Court Rule 23(b) and is not precedent except in the limited circumstances allowed under Rule 23(e)(l). ______________________________________________________________________________

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS

SECOND DISTRICT ______________________________________________________________________________

In re MARRIAGE OF ) Appeal from the Circuit Court DAMIAN ZAGORSKI, ) of McHenry County. ) Petitioner-Appellant, ) ) and ) No. 20-DV-611 ) ANNA ZAGORSKI, ) Honorable ) Justin M. Hansen, Respondent-Appellee. ) Judge, Presiding. ______________________________________________________________________________

JUSTICE KENNEDY delivered the judgment of the court. Justices Jorgensen and Schostok concurred in the judgment.

ORDER

¶1 Held: The trial court did not err in awarding a majority of parenting time to the respondent mother. Therefore, we affirm.

¶2 Petitioner, Damian Zagorski, appeals the trial court’s allocation of parenting time. Damian

argues that the trial court erred in awarding respondent, Anna Zagorski, a majority of the parenting

time. We affirm.

¶3 I. BACKGROUND 2023 IL App (2d) 220216-U

¶4 Damian and Anna were married on June 6, 2008. During their marriage they had one child,

P.Z., born October 13, 2014. On August 26, 2020, Damian petitioned for a dissolution of the

marriage.

¶5 The matter proceeded to a bench trial in November 2021. Anna testified as follows. At the

time she was 34 years old and married to Damian. They were residing in the same household, the

marital residence located in Lake in the Hills, with P.Z., who was seven years old. Anna had lupus

and epilepsy. When she was under “extreme stress” or was overworking, she might get a seizure.

Lupus for her was “kind of like arthritis.” Because of the condition, she was often tired, but her

current work schedule allowed her to “sleep like a normal person,” which helped “take stress off”

her health conditions.

¶6 Anna worked at Snap-on Tools in Crystal Lake. She began working there in February 2018

and was hired as a distribution associate in December 2018. By August 2020 she was in her current

position as part of the company’s Rapid Continuous Improvement team, which required her to “do

almost everything,” including research and development. Her current hours were 6:30 a.m. to 3

p.m., and she sometimes worked overtime. She made $19.92 per hour. She believed she could

afford living at the marital residence after the divorce. She acknowledged it may be difficult to

afford, but she cited her ability to get overtime work and that her friend, Beata, would be living

with her. Beata planned to move in with her after the divorce, and she would pay rent. P.Z. “really,

really like[d]” Beata. She was requesting the marital residence because P.Z. needed a stable home.

¶7 Anna did not believe it was in P.Z.’s best interest for Damian to have an active role in

parental decision-making, but she did believe he should be involved in educational, medical,

religious, and extracurricular decisions. She would consider Damian’s opinion on those matters

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even if she were granted sole decision-making responsibility. She and Damian were both Catholic

and would like for P.Z. to follow that faith.

¶8 Over the past six months, she and Damian had been doing an “every other day” parenting

schedule: she had P.Z. one day, and Damian had him the next. The schedule provided for “more

or less” equal parenting time—she sometimes would have to spend extra time caring for P.Z.

during Damian’s scheduled time when he was unavailable. P.Z. was adjusted to his current

schedule, but she qualified, saying, “I’m always there. And whenever he needs something, he will

always find me.” If P.Z. wet the bed at night, he went to Anna’s room, not Damian’s. Anna made

almost all of P.Z.’s appointments with the doctor and dentist; Damian “didn’t even know the name

of the doctor.”

¶9 P.Z. was in the first grade, and Anna wanted him to remain in his current school district.

He knew people in the neighborhood and had friends. P.Z. was doing very well in school. He never

missed any homework assignments, and he was able to communicate in three languages: Polish,

English, and Spanish. Anna was the one who registered P.Z. for school and coordinated after-

school care for P.Z., and Damian told her she had done a good job choosing P.Z.’s babysitter,

Michelle. Michelle was a neighbor who lived about two blocks from the marital residence.

¶ 10 Anna noted examples where Damian was supposed to be caring for P.Z. but left him to do

something else. She testified that Damian was easily frustrated and that, in the past, he did not deal

much with anything related to P.Z.—Anna provided the care. She cooked for P.Z. and Damian,

and she was the one who bought P.Z. clothes and taught him to tie his shoes and ride his bike. She

noted some past incidents where Damian had made derogatory comments about her in front of

P.Z., including calling her a “dumb bitch” in 2020, and calling her stupid in 2019 after remarking

that she could not even clean the kitchen.

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¶ 11 Ultimately, Anna believed Damian was a good father and that it was important for him and

P.Z. to have a relationship. Anna wanted a parenting schedule that allowed for Damian to be home

and spend time with P.Z. She requested that, following the divorce, P.Z. would have one overnight

with Damian per week, preferably Thursday. That way, when there was an every-other-week

schedule, Damian would have Thursday through Sunday, and she could get P.Z. ready for the next

week of school. She wanted the parenting schedule to be different during the summer than the

school year because she believed Damian did not discipline P.Z. as he should when he misbehaved

at school.

¶ 12 Beata Trzcinski, Anna’s friend, testified as follows. She was a self-employed hairstylist,

and she had a six-month old daughter. She described Anna as her “nonbiological sister.” For the

last nine years they were “very, very best friends. Talk every day. Spend a lot of time together, on

even holidays and special occasions.” She had taken care of P.Z. for Anna and Damian on several

occasions, and P.Z. called her “ciotka” or “auntie” when he saw her.

¶ 13 She and Anna had discussed living together if Anna were awarded the marital residence.

They planned to “split all the bills, rent, gas, electric, food.” They intended to split the expenses

35/65, with Beata paying the 35%. Beata estimated that she would pay $750 a month, which

included contribution toward the mortgage payment.

¶ 14 Beata described Anna as an “amazing” parent. P.Z. always came first. She was affectionate

and fun with P.Z. but also had rules for him to follow. She made sure P.Z. was ready for school in

the mornings and made sure he ate healthily. When asked if she thought Damian was a good father,

she responded that “he was more like a buddy-buddy to P.Z.” She described trying to take Anna

out for her 30th birthday. Damian was supposed to watch P.Z. while they were out, but he

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repeatedly texted and called Anna about how to care for P.Z., and Anna went home early to care

for P.Z.

¶ 15 Damian testified as follows. He was 35 years old and currently living with Anna at the

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