ELIZABETH A. McCLANAHAN, Judge.
The estate of Lewis R. Hackler appeals several rulings arising from a divorce proceeding between Lewis R. Hackler, deceased, and Janice W. Hackler. Husband’s estate contends that the trial court: (1) erred in appointing a conservator during the proceedings; (2) erred by not abating and/or dismissing the divorce action upon the death of husband; (3) erred in awarding wife $77,437; and, (4) abused its discretion in awarding conservator’s fees, to be paid by husband. Wife presents an additional question, which is whether appellant failed to timely appeal. Both parties have requested attorney’s fees and costs. For the reasons that follow, we affirm in part, reverse in part and remand for further proceedings consistent with this opinion.
I. Background
Husband and wife married in 1984 and separated in 1999. In November 1999, husband filed a bill of complaint for divorce, and husband sought adjudication of the parties’ property rights. Wife cross-filed and requested pendente lite relief.
On November 15, 1999, the court entered a pendente lite order providing, inter alia, that husband support wife and provide for her health needs and that the parties be enjoined from selling, disposing, or concealing marital property until further order of the court, except for making reasonable [57]*57expenditures for living expenses, attorney’s fees, court costs and reasonable costs associated with the case.
Almost immediately husband violated the court’s orders. Over the next couple of years, the court held several hearings to address husband’s failure to abide by the court’s pendente lite orders and his failure to respond to discovery. Several times, the court ordered husband to pay spousal support and medical bills, to provide health and medical insurance coverage for wife and deliver her medication to her, to desist from selling or otherwise transferring marital assets, and to respond to discovery, including interrogatories and a motion for production of documents.1 Subsequently, the court twice found husband in contempt. The court entered against husband a rule to show cause, citing
defendant’s continued violations of this Court’s previous orders regarding spousal support, health bills of the plaintiff not covered by insurance, dissipation of marital assets, and the defendant’s continued failure to answer the discovery previously propounded by the plaintiff in this case, which discovery the defendant has been ORDERED previously by this Court to answer.
The order directed the husband to show cause why the court:
should not entertain any and all appropriate motions under Rule 4:12 of the Rules of the Virginia Supreme Court, including, but not limited to, appointing a conservator or guardian to manage the marital assets in the control of the defendant until a Final Decree can be entered in this case.
[58]*58Husband did not appear at the show cause hearing. The court found him in contempt of its previous orders as cited in the show cause order. To remedy the situation, the court appointed a conservator to take receipt of all funds and accounts under husband’s control. The court entered a separate order appointing the conservator, which outlined the conservator’s duties to receive the funds and accounts under husband’s control, maintain an accounting of the accounts, pay husband’s obligations as previously ordered by the court, and to provide a monthly report on the accounts to both parties.
After appointing the conservator, the court held several more hearings for status updates and to receive reports from the conservator. In spite of the court’s appointment of the conservator, further violations of the court’s orders by husband were reported.
Then, in June 2002, it was reported to the court that husband had died and that his son was executor of the estate. Husband’s counsel moved for the immediate transfer of the funds under the conservator’s control to the estate, arguing that the case was abated due to husband’s death. Wife’s counsel represented to the court that she would take a nonsuit and pursue the estate, but also argued that the court’s orders were still in effect and required further rulings. The trial court denied the motion to abate, continued the matter until September 2002, and ordered counsel to submit letters outlining their respective positions. At that time, the conservator submitted a statement of his fees to the court for $5,700.
Wife submitted that the court could still rule on the contempt dispositions. She contended that in cases of civil contempt for the violation of an injunction the court could impose punishment in the form of a fine or imprisonment or afford the injured party remedial relief for the violations. She requested the court to order remedial damages in the amount of fifty percent of the amount of the funds husband had transferred out of the estate.
Counsel for husband submitted that the divorce action abated upon the death of husband, thus relieving the court of [59]*59any jurisdiction to make any further determinations in the ease, including ruling on the contempt disposition. Husband’s counsel asserted that the deceased could not purge himself of contempt and if the court ruled on the contempt disposition, it would punish the estate. Counsel also argued that the court could not determine remedial damages because it had no evidence before it with regard to the precise amounts transferred, the value of the marital estate, or whether the marital estate even exceeded the assets in control of the conservator. Husband’s counsel further argued that wife would receive her portion of husband’s estate and, therefore, she did not need to be awarded any remedial relief.
After hearing argument on transferring the assets under control of the conservator to the estate, the court issued an opinion letter, dated September 6, 2002, ordering, among other sums, that the conservator pay wife $77,437 in order to purge husband of contempt. The court also ordered the conservator to pay itself $5,700 for its services, and to file a final accounting. Husband’s counsel requested a stay of disbursement pending appeal.
The court entered a “Final Order” on January 31, 2003. The order provided that “[ajfter the final accounting [by the conservator] is reviewed and approved by this Court, this Court will end the cause.”
In February 2003, husband’s counsel moved the court to rule on his stay of disbursement of funds pending appeal. The court granted the request for stay, but ordered the posting of a $100,000 appeal bond.
On June 18, 2003, as a result of an earlier teleconference with the parties, the court ordered the February order abated, denied the motion to stay disbursement of funds, and ordered funds to be disbursed to wife at her request unless and until husband posted a supersedeas bond in the amount of $100,000. The court stated that the order was final for purposes of appeal, but not for the conservator, whom the court found to be under a continuing duty to file a final accounting once the funds were disbursed according to the court’s orders.
[60]*60Husband’s counsel, on behalf of husband, filed a notice of appeal on July 11, 2003. In August 2003, by order of the court, husband’s estate was substituted for husband in this matter. The court entered a •written statement of facts in September 2003.
II. Analysis
In her reply brief, wife presents a question on appeal asking whether appellant is properly before this Court because it failed to timely file a notice of appeal after the court’s “final order” of January 31, 2003. Wife contends that the January order disposed of all the issues in the case and left only a final accounting by the conservator, effectively ending the cause. Because we must decide wife’s question before addressing husband’s estate’s questions, we discuss it first.
A. The January 31, 2003 Order Was Not a Final Order for Purposes of Appeal
To perfect an appeal to this Court, an appellant must satisfy the jurisdictional requirements as set forth in the applicable statutes and Rules of the Virginia Supreme Court. In addition to filing a notice with the trial court, Code § 17.H07, the notice of appeal “shall be filed within thirty days from the date of any final judgment order, decree or conviction.” Code § 8.01-675.3; see also Rule 5A:6(a). Otherwise, “[n]o appeal shall be allowed....” Id. Rule 5A:3(a) states that “[t]he times prescribed for filing the notice of appeal ... are mandatory.”
Husband’s estate did not file a notice of appeal within thirty days of the entry of the trial court’s January 31, 2003 order. However, husband’s estate did file an appeal on July 11, 2003, which was within thirty days of the trial court’s order of June 18, 2003, which stated that it was to be considered a “ ‘Final Order’ for purposes of appeal, should either side wish to appeal____” Because husband’s estate did not file a notice of appeal from the January 31, 2003 order, we must decide whether that order was final and appealable.
[61]*61Rule 1:1 of the Rules of the Virginia Supreme Court states:
All final judgments, orders, and decrees ... shall remain under the control of the trial court and subject to be modified, vacated, or suspended for twenty-one days after the date of entry, and no longer.... The date of entry of any final judgment, order, or decree shall be the date the judgment, order, or decree is signed by the judge.
“Generally speaking, a final order for purposes of Rule 1:1 ‘is one which disposes of the whole subject, gives all the relief contemplated, provides with reasonable completeness for giving effect to the sentence, and leaves nothing to be done in the cause save to superintend ministerially the execution of the order.’ ” James v. James, 263 Va. 474, 481, 562 S.E.2d 133, 137 (2002). See also Daniels v. Truck & Equip. Corp., 205 Va. 579, 585, 139 S.E.2d 31, 35 (1964) (citations omitted); Erikson v. Erikson, 19 Va.App. 389, 390, 451 S.E.2d 711, 712 (1994) (citations omitted).
In this case, the trial court signed a document labeled “Final Order” on January 31, 2003. The last paragraph of the order reads: “The Conservator shall then file a final accounting with this Court. After the final accounting is reviewed and approved by this Court, this Court will end the cause.” This language indicates that the trial court considered that the cause was still open until it reviewed and approved the conservator’s final accounting. At that point in the case, the final accounting was more than just a ministerial action for the purpose of executing the order. The final accounting was crucial with regard to what was in the estate, disbursements made by husband prior to his death, and whether the relief granted by the order was satisfied. The order stated that the court would end the cause after the final accounting was reviewed and approved. It did not say that the cause was ended.
The court did end the cause in its order of June 18, 2003, stating, “This Order is a ‘Final Order’ for purposes of appeal, should either side wish to appeal----” At that point, the trial [62]*62court had stayed any further disbursement of the funds under the conservator’s control upon the posting of an appeal bond. Therefore, the conservator’s final accounting was not necessary to ending the cause for purposes of appeal.
Accordingly, we hold that the January 31, 2003 order was not a final, appealable order. Because husband’s estate filed a notice of appeal within thirty days of the June 18, 2003 order, we have jurisdiction to consider its appeal.
B. Husband’s Estate’s Questions on Appeal
Husband’s estate raises four questions on appeal: (1) whether the court erred in appointing a conservator during the proceedings; (2) whether the court erred by not abating and/or dismissing the divorce action upon husband’s death; (3) whether the court erred in ruling that wife be awarded judgment in the amount of $77,437 from funds controlled by the conservator; and, (4) whether the court abused its discretion in awarding conservator’s fees, to be paid by husband.
1. The Trial Court Has Authority to Appoint a Conservator
On November 15, 1999, the court entered a pendente lite order providing, inter alia, that the parties be enjoined from selling, disposing, or concealing marital property until further order of the court, except for making reasonable expenditures for living expenses, attorney’s fees, court costs and reasonable costs associated with the case. Less than one month later, wife moved the court to hold husband in contempt for violating the court’s order. On December 9, 1999, the court entered a second pendente lite order reaffirming its previous order.
Over the next couple of years, in response to wife’s motions to hold husband in contempt for violating the court’s orders and failing to respond to discovery, the court entered several more orders requiring husband to: (1) pay spousal support as ordered; (2) pay medical bills and provide health and medical insurance coverage for wife; (3) deliver wife’s medication to her; (4) desist from selling or otherwise transferring marital assets; and (5) respond to discovery. The discovery violations included husband’s failure to respond to interrogatories [63]*63requesting information on tax returns, financial accounts, including savings accounts, checking accounts, money market accounts, certificates of deposit, retirement accounts, stock accounts, bond accounts, trust accounts, etc., real estate, a $5,000 Internal Revenue Service refund check, which husband may have cashed or negotiated by signing wife’s signature, and withdrawals husband had made from the financial accounts, and failure to produce documents, including six years of state and federal tax returns and copies of the previous year’s statements of any financial accounts in which he had an interest.
On January 16, 2002, the court entered a rule to show cause against husband citing, among other things, the husband’s dissipation of marital assets and continued failure to answer the discovery propounded by the wife that he was previously ordered to answer, much of which related to financial issues and marital assets. Husband was to show cause why the court should not entertain motions under Rule 4:12 including appointing a conservator to manage the marital assets in the control of the husband.
Husband did not appear at the show cause hearing, and the court found him in contempt. As a remedy, the court appointed a conservator to take receipt of all funds and accounts under husband’s control. The order appointing the conservator required the conservator to receive the funds and accounts under husband’s control, maintain an accounting of them, pay husband’s obligations as previously ordered, and provide a monthly report on the accounts to both parties.
Rule 4:12 provides that a court in which an action is pending may sanction a party for failure to obey discovery orders. “Rule 4:12 gives the trial court broad discretion in determining what sanctions, if any, will be imposed upon a litigant who fails to respond timely to discovery.” Woodbury v. Courtney, 239 Va. 651, 654, 391 S.E.2d 293, 295 (1990). Subsection (b)(2) of the Rule states that the court “may make such orders in regard to the failure as are just” and provides several options for orders that the court may take. One of the options listed [64]*64authorizes the court to invoke its contempt powers for failure to comply with discovery orders. Subsection (b)(2)(D) allows the court to enter “an order treating as contempt of court the failure to obey any orders except an order to submit to a physical or mental examination.”
A court may find a party in contempt for “[disobedience or resistance ... to any lawful process, judgment, decree or order of the court.” Code § 18.2-456(5).
The power to punish for contempt is inherent in, and as ancient as, courts themselves. It is essential to the proper administration of the law, to enable courts to enforce their orders, judgments and decrees, and to preserve the confidence and respect of the people without which the rights of the people cannot be maintained and enforced.
Carter v. Commonwealth, 2 Va.App. 392, 395, 345 S.E.2d 5, 7 (1986) (citations omitted). See also Va. Const. art. IV, § 14; Gompers v. Buck’s Stove & Range Co., 221 U.S. 418, 450, 31 S.Ct. 492, 501, 55 L.Ed. 797 (1911); Nicholas v. Commonwealth, 186 Va. 315, 321, 42 S.E.2d 306, 309 (1947); Forbes v. State Council of Va., 107 Va. 853, 856, 60 S.E. 81, 82 (1908); Yoder v. Commonwealth, 107 Va. 823, 828-29, 57 S.E. 581, 585 (1907); Carter v. Commonwealth, 96 Va. 791, 807-08, 32 S.E. 780, 782 (1899); Wells v. Commonwealth, 62 Va. (21 Gratt.) 500, 503 (1871); Wilson v. Commonwealth, 23 Va.App. 318, 322, 477 S.E.2d 7, 8-9 (1996). Upon a finding of contempt, a trial judge has discretionary power to enforce decrees of the court. Code § 18.2-456.
Courts are clothed with power and charged with the duty of maintaining the dignity of the law. Decrees are mandates of the courts and courts must have power to enforce them if organized society is to be maintained. The degree of punishment for contempt is within the sound discretion of the trial court.
Local 333B, United Marine Div. v. Commonwealth, 193 Va. 773, 786, 71 S.E.2d 159, 167 (1952). An adjudication of contempt will be reversed “only if we find that [the court] abused its discretion.” Barnhill v. Brooks, 15 Va.App. 696, [65]*65704, 427 S.E.2d 209, 215 (1993) (citing Wells v. Wells, 12 Va.App. 31, 36, 401 S.E.2d 891, 894 (1991)).
“The punishment in a civil contempt proceeding ‘is adapted to what is necessary to afford the injured party remedial relief for the injury or damage done by the violation of the injunction to his property or rights which were under the protection of the injunction.’ ” Rainey v. City of Norfolk, 14 Va.App. 968, 974, 421 S.E.2d 210, 214 (1992) (citing Deeds v. Gilmer, 162 Va. 157, 262, 174 S.E. 37, 78-79 (1934)). Certainly, in a situation where a party is twice found to be in contempt and repeatedly refuses to answer discovery requests relating to asset identification, status, use/misuse and dissipation, the court can, within its discretion, determine that the appropriate Rule 4:12 sanction is to appoint a conservator, which allows both parties access to the financial information sought through discovery and preserves the marital assets from being further dissipated by one party prior to the final decree. It would be anomalous that a chancellor’s broad powers of contempt would, as a matter of law, never include the power to appoint an asset manager in cases where such repeated discovery violations relate to asset identification and dissipation.
Moreover, in addition to the authority provided by Rule 4:12, the trial court has authority pursuant to Code § 20-103(A)(vii) to enter any order that may be proper during the pendency of a divorce suit in order to preserve the estate.2 In pertinent part that code section provides:
[66]*66In suits for divorce, annulment and separate maintenance ... the court having jurisdiction of the matter may, at any time pending a suit pursuant to this chapter, in the discretion of such court, make any order that may be proper ... (vii) to preserve the estate of either spouse, so that it be forthcoming to meet any decree which may be made in the suit....
Under this section, the court is authorized to appoint a fiduciary to prevent the dissipation of funds. This statute provides an even broader basis upon which the court is authorized to enter such orders in a pending divorce suit. The clear intent of the General Assembly in enacting Code § 20-103(A)(vii) was to empower the trial courts to prevent dissipation of marital assets during a pending suit, in order to assure that the funds are available to comply with the court’s final equitable distribution ruling.
The record supports the trial judge’s findings that the services of a conservator were required in this case because husband was continually violating the court’s orders, refusing to respond to discovery regarding financial information about the marital assets, and dissipating the estate. Therefore, whether by contempt power authorized by Rule 4:12, or by statutory authority provided by Code § 20-103, the court had the power to appoint the conservator to determine the infor[67]*67mation wife requested in discovery and to preserve the estate and allow the suit to proceed.
2. The Divorce Proceedings Abated upon the Death of Husband
Husband died before the trial court entered a final decree. Husband’s estate argues that the divorce suit abated upon the death of husband and the trial court was therefore divested of its jurisdiction in the proceedings. We agree.
The trial court is authorized to conduct divorce proceedings. “[Jjurisdiction in divorce suits is purely statutory, conferred in clear, detailed language.” Sprouse v. Griffin, 250 Va. 46, 50, 458 S.E.2d 770, 772 (1995) (citing Lapidus v. Lapidus, 226 Va. 575, 578, 311 S.E.2d 786, 788 (1984); Steinberg v. Steinberg, 11 Va.App. 323, 328-29, 398 S.E.2d 507, 510 (1990)). Code § 20-96 provides that “The circuit court, on the chancery side, shall have jurisdiction of suits for annulling or affirming marriage and for divorces.”
However, “[a] divorce suit abates when one party dies while the suit is pending and before a decree on the merits; this is because the death terminates the marriage, thus rendering the divorce suit moot as it relates to the parties’ marital status.” Sprouse, 250 Va. at 50, 458 S.E.2d at 772 (citing Simpson v. Simpson, 162 Va. 621, 633, 175 S.E. 320, 325 (1934), cert. denied, 295 U.S. 735, 55 S.Ct. 648, 79 L.Ed. 1683 (1935)). Actio personalis moritur cum persona — a personal action dies with the person. See Grubb’s Adm’r v. Sult., 73 Va. (32 Gratt.) 203 (1879). Therefore, the divorce proceedings abated upon husband’s death, divesting the court of jurisdiction over the cause.
3. The Trial Court Erred in Ruling on the Contempt Disposition and Awarding Wife $77,437
During the course of the proceedings, the court twice found husband in contempt for failing to obey the court’s orders on support and discovery, but deferred ruling on the disposition of those findings. On June 20, 2002, husband’s counsel in[68]*68formed the court that husband had died, and moved the court to disburse the funds under control of the conservator to the estate because the cause had abated. Wife argued that the contempt orders were still in effect and that in cases of civil contempt for the violation of an injunction, the court could impose punishment in the form of a fine or imprisonment, or afford the injured party remedial relief for the violations. She requested the court to order remedial damages in the amount of fifty percent of the amount of the funds husband had transferred out of the marital assets.
The court denied husband’s counsel’s motion and continued the case until September 2002. The court held another hearing on husband’s motion to transfer the funds to the estate and took under advisement the issue of to what extent husband could still be held in contempt, in spite of the fact that he was dead. Shortly thereafter, the court issued an. opinion letter ordering the conservator to pay wife $77,437 to purge husband of contempt for violating the court’s pendente lite order not to transfer funds out of the marital estate.
The court’s authority to enter pendente lite orders in divorce suits is statutory. Code § 20-103 allows a court to make orders pending suit for divorce, including “to preserve the estate of either spouse, so that it be forthcoming to meet any decree which may be made in the suit.” Code § 20-103(A)(vii). Code § 20-71 also provides:
At any time before the trial, upon motion of the complainant, with notice to the defendant, the court may enter such temporary order as seems just, providing for the support of the neglected spouse or children, or both, pendente lite, and may punish for violation of the order as for contempt.
Jurisdiction to enter pendente lite orders rests on the pending divorce suit. Death of the payor spouse, which abates the divorce action, also renders the pendente lite order void. Decrees for spousal support or maintenance terminate upon the death of either party. Code § 20 — 109(D); see also Code § 20-107.1(A). In this case, the pendente lite orders, which [69]*69husband was found to have violated, became void upon the abatement of the divorce proceedings due to his death.
The question then becomes whether the court erred in entering a disposition for contempt of those orders once the orders were void and husband was dead. Code § 20-71 allows the court to punish violation of a pendente lite order as contempt.
“Proceedings for contempt of court are of two classes — those prosecuted to preserve the power and to vindicate the dignity of the court, and those instituted to preserve and enforce the rights of private parties. The former are criminal and punitive in their nature; the latter are civil and remedial.” Drake v. Nat’l Bank of Commerce, 168 Va. 230, 239, 190 S.E. 302, 306 (1937) (citing In re Nevitt, 117 F. 448 (C.C.A.8 Mo.1902); Gompers, 221 U.S. 418, 31 S.Ct. 492, 55 L.Ed. 797; Terminal R.R. Ass’n of St. Louis v. U.S., 266 U.S. 17, 45 S.Ct. 5, 69 L.Ed. 150 (1924)). This second class of contempt includes compensatory civil contempt sanctions, which, as the name suggests, compensate the plaintiff for losses sustained because of the defendant’s non-compliance or disobedience of a court’s order. Bagwell v. United Mine Workers, 244 Va. 463, 475, 423 S.E.2d 349, 356 (1992), rev’d on other grounds, 512 U.S. 821, 114 S.Ct. 2552, 129 L.Ed.2d 642 (1994); Powell v. Ward, 15 Va.App. 553, 558, 425 S.E.2d 539, 543 (1993). In the case at bar, the court’s contempt order falls within this second class.
The court ordered the conservator to pay wife $77,437 out of husband’s funds “in order to purge the plaintiff of contempt.” “Compensatory actions are essentially backward looking, seeking to compensate the claimant through the payment of money for damages caused by past acts of disobedience.” United Mine Workers v. Clinchfield Coal Co., 12 Va.App. 123, 129, 402 S.E.2d 899, 902 (1991).
In appropriate cases, the violator may be punished by forcing him to restore the status quo as it existed before the violation, or by adjudicating against him as if that status quo had not been interrupted or by an award of damages [70]*70against him in favor of the injured party sufficient to indemnify [her] for the pecuniary loss occasioned to [her] as a result of the act or omission which violated the injunction having injured or damaged property or rights which [she] was entitled to have protected or preserved by the injunction.
Deeds, 162 Va. at 262, 174 S.E. at 79. See also French v. Town of Clintwood, 203 Va. 562, 569, 125 S.E.2d 798, 802 (1962) (citing Deeds, 162 Va. at 261, 174 S.E. at 79); Rainey, 14 Va.App. at 971, 421 S.E.2d at 212 (citing Leisge v. Leisge, 224 Va. 303, 308, 296 S.E.2d 538, 540-41 (1982)). The court was attempting to compensate wife for husband’s removal of assets out of the marital estate in violation of the court’s pendente lite orders.
“[A] civil contempt proceeding is between the original parties to [the] litigation and is instituted and tried as part of the main cause.” Powell, 15 Va.App. at 560, 425 S.E.2d at 543 (citations omitted). It is a proceeding ancillary to and in support of the divorce suit and its decrees. Eddens v. Eddens, 188 Va. 511, 521-22, 50 S.E.2d 397, 402 (1948); Lindsey v. Lindsey, 158 Va. 647, 652, 164 S.E. 551, 553 (1932). When, as in this case, the jurisdiction to enter a decree in the main cause ends, no jurisdiction survives as to matters purely ancillary to that object.3 That is because “[a] civil contempt may be prosecuted in the cause out of which it arose and not as a separate proceeding____” Local 333B, United Marine Div., 193 Va. at 781, 71 S.E.2d at 164. See also Carbon Fuel Co. v. United Mine Workers., 517 F.2d 1348, 1349 (4th Cir. 1975) (holding “a civil contempt proceeding is in effect a continuation of the main action and therefore a party to a suit [71]*71may not review upon appeal an order fining or imprisoning him for civil contempt except in connection with appeal from a final judgment in the main action” (citation omitted)). “A judgment, decree or order entered by a court which lacks jurisdiction of the parties or of the subject matter, or which lacks the inherent power to make or enter the particular order involved, is void.” Robertson v. Commonwealth, 181 Va. 520, 536, 25 S.E.2d 352, 358 (1943) (citations omitted); see Mardula v. Mendelson, 34 Va.App. 120, 125, 538 S.E.2d 338, 341 (2000) (citing Robertson, 181 Va. at 536, 25 S.E.2d at 358).
Moreover, contempt is a personal action Contempt “is directed at the person of the recalcitrant.” Edwin B. Meade, Lite’s Equity Pleading and Practice § 301 (3d ed. 1952) (emphasis in original). “ ‘It has long been the constitutional rule that a court cannot adjudicate a personal claim or obligation unless it has jurisdiction over the person of the defendant.’ ” Hayes v. Hayes, 3 Va.App. 499, 505, 351 S.E.2d 590, 593 (1986) (quoting Vanderbilt v. Vanderbilt, 354 U.S. 416, 418, 77 S.Ct. 1360, 1362, 1 L.Ed.2d 1456 (1957)). “No order can be made directly binding on a person unless he is properly in court, neither can his rights or interests in the property, if any, be foreclosed.” Mardula, 34 Va.App. at 126 n. 3, 538 S.E.2d at 341 n. 3 (citation omitted). A contempt fine may not be imposed unless the defendant is present in court or has been served with a rule to show cause why the fine should not be imposed. Higginbotham v. Commonwealth, 206 Va. 291, 295, 142 S.E.2d 746, 749 (1965).
[N]o court or judge shall impose a fine upon ... [a] person for disobedience of its process of any contempt, unless he either be present in the court at the time or shall have been served with a rule ... requiring him to show cause why the fine should not be imposed and shall have failed to appear and show cause.
Code § 19.2-11. See also Pettibone v. United States, 148 U.S. 197, 207, 13 S.Ct. 542, 546-47, 37 L.Ed. 419 (1893). Although the court entered a show cause order against husband while [72]*72he was still alive, that order, and the order following the show cause hearing on the contempt matter, did not contemplate that any fine would be imposed against husband. The order awarding wife the $77,437 was not entered until after husband was dead. Once husband was dead, he, obviously, could not be present in court, nor could he be served a rule to show cause why the fine should not be imposed. See Code § 19.2-11.
In addition, a civil contempt sanction is not appropriate where a defendant has no ability to purge himself. Husband, personally, had no ability to purge himself of the contempt fine. Punishment may not be imposed in a civil contempt proceeding when it is established that the contemnor is unable to comply with the terms of the order. “Where compliance is impossible, neither the moving party nor the court has any reason to proceed with the civil contempt action.” United States v. Rylander, 460 U.S. 752, 757, 103 S.Ct. 1548, 1552, 75 L.Ed.2d 521 (1983).
Furthermore, although the court may have been attempting to compensate wife for any loss occasioned to her as a result of husband’s violations, there is no evidence in the record that wife was injured in such an amount, or that the court even determined that she was entitled to relief. “[T]he court may only impose a compensatory fine ‘measured in some degree by the pecuniary injury caused by the act of disobedience.’” United Mine Workers v. Covenant Coal Corp., 12 Va.App. 135, 146, 402 S.E.2d 906, 912 (1991) (quoting Gompers, 221 U.S. at 444, 31 S.Ct. at 499). See also Leisge, 224 Va. at 308, 296 S.E.2d at 541. Such a remedial fine should be based on evidence of complainant’s actual loss. See Carbon Fuel Co., 517 F.2d at 1350. Although husband was ordered not to transfer any marital funds, his doing so did not ineluctably lead to the conclusion that wife was entitled to one-half of the monies he transferred. The court cannot attempt to fashion an equitable distribution award in a cause that has abated due to husband’s death because it no longer has [73]*73jurisdiction over the parties’ property.4 There was no proof that wife had been damaged by the violation and, therefore, she was not entitled to have such remedial punishment imposed upon husband. See Deeds, 162 Va. at 263, 174 S.E. at 79. Although the court had in its power the authority to punish husband for his contempt, husband’s death has the effect of forever denying wife the right to have the court make findings on any pecuniary loss she may have sustained due to husband’s acts of disobedience during the pending divorce suit.
The court did not have jurisdiction to dispose of the contempt holding once the divorce suit abated, therefore the order directing the conservator to pay wife $77,437 out of husband’s estate “in order to purge the plaintiff of contempt” is void. Accordingly, we hold that the court erred in ruling on the contempt disposition and awarding wife $77,437.5
4. The Trial Court Abused Its Discretion in Awarding the Conservator’s Fee Against Husband
The court appointed the conservator pursuant to its contempt power, authorized by Rule 4:12, because of hus[74]*74band’s continuing violation of the court’s orders. Rule 4:12 requires the party failing to obey “to pay the reasonable expenses, including attorney’s fees, caused by the order, unless the court finds that the failure was substantially justified or that other circumstances make an award of expenses unjust.” Rule 4:12(b)(2). An award of actual costs and damages for civil contempt enforcement includes all reasonable expenses incurred in enforcing the civil contempt.6
The conservator rendered services on behalf of husband and was properly paid from husband’s estate pursuant to Code §§ 64.1-171 to -173. However, none of the expenses incurred by the conservator after husband’s death can be imposed on his estate, because the purpose for the conservator was extinguished upon the death of the husband. Because the court appointed the conservator to prevent husband from further violating the court’s orders, and those orders became void upon husband’s death, future compliance was not required. In other words, once husband died, the need for the conservator was obviated, and his role ceased. See e.g., Major v. Orthopedic Equip. Co., 496 F.Supp. 604, 614 (E.D.Va.1980) (holding that the purpose of the contempt had been obviated, therefore the court could not determine that any other goal would be served by holding the party in contempt).
Upon husband’s death, husband’s son, Thomas P. Hackler, Sr., became executor of husband’s estate. Upon notification that husband had died, it was incumbent upon the court to abate the action, transfer the funds in the possession of the conservator to husband’s personal representative in accordance with Code § 64.1-57.1, and determine the reasonable amount of the conservator’s fee for which husband was responsible. When a decedent dies, title to his real estate vests immediately in his heirs at law, subject to divestment by a valid will. Broaddus v. Broaddus, 144 Va. 727, 742, 130 S.E. 794, 798-99 (1925) (citing Elys v. Wynne, 63 Va. (22 Gratt.) [75]*75224 (1872); Mills v. Mills’ Ex’ors, 69 Va. (28 Gratt.) 442 (1877)). Because the estate was not a party to the proceeding and was not in contempt, there was no reason for the conservator to continue in its role, or for the fees incurred after husband’s death to be charged against the estate.
We remand this issue to the trial court with instructions to ascertain the reasonable amount of the conservator’s fee that was accrued at the time of husband’s death on June 3, 2002. See Francis v. Francis, 72 Va. (31 Gratt.) 283, 290 (1879). The conservator may then submit that amount, as a judgment that arose from a lawful court order, as a claim against husband’s estate. See Code §§ 64.1-171 to -173.
C. Attorney’s Fees on Appeal
Both parties request that this Court award costs and attorney’s fees incurred on appeal. See O’Loughlin v. O’Loughlin, 23 Va.App. 690, 695, 479 S.E.2d 98, 100 (1996). Upon a review of the record, we find the litigation addressed appropriate and substantial issues and that neither party generated unnecessary delay or expense in pursuit of its interests. Therefore, the requests are denied.
III. Conclusion
In conclusion, we hold that the January 31, 2003 order was not a final, appealable order. Our jurisdiction to hear the appeal is proper because husband’s estate filed a notice of appeal within thirty days of the June 18, 2003 order. We affirm the trial court’s appointment of the conservator pursuant to Rule 4:12. Because the divorce action abated upon the death of husband, every proceeding ancillary to it also abated, divesting the trial court of jurisdiction to make further determinations in the case. Husband’s estate is responsible for the amount of the conservator’s fee accrued until husband’s death. Accordingly, we affirm in part, reverse in part, and remand to the trial court to determine the reasonable fees of the conservator accrued to the date of husband’s death.
Affirmed in part, reversed in part, and remanded.