James Albert Aurilio v. Antonia Concepcion Aurilio

Court of Appeals of Virginia·Decided May 2, 2023·No. 0642224·Unpublished

Opinion

COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA UNPUBLISHED

Present: Chief Judge Decker, Judges AtLee and Friedman Argued by videoconference

JAMES ALBERT AURILIO

MEMORANDUM OPINION* BY

v. Record No. 0642-22-4 JUDGE FRANK K. FRIEDMAN MAY 2, 2023

ANTONIA CONCEPCION AURILIO

FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF STAFFORD COUNTY Victoria A.B. Willis, Judge

Thomas Woehrle (Woehrle Dahlberg Yao, PLLC, on briefs), for appellant.

Beth A. Bittel (Bittel & Anthony, P.C., on brief), for appellee.

James Albert Aurilio (husband) appeals the circuit court’s final decree of divorce. Husband argues that the circuit court erred by awarding Antonia Concepcion Aurilio (wife) $3,500 per month in “indefinite” spousal support because it failed to consider wife’s “actual gross earnings” from her home-based businesses and her minimal efforts to pursue “regular full-time employment.” Husband further asserts that the circuit court erred when it “coerced” him to pay the loan on wife’s car, despite the parties’ agreement that wife would be responsible for the loan payments. In addition, husband contends that the circuit court considered “excessive” housing expenses for wife when it determined spousal support notwithstanding evidence from husband’s expert about the real estate market. Husband also argues that the circuit court adopted an incorrect date of separation for the parties. Finally, husband challenges the circuit court’s ruling requiring him to maintain wife as the

*

This opinion is not designated for publication. See Code § 17.1-413.

beneficiary of his two life insurance policies. We find no error and affirm the circuit court’s judgment.

BACKGROUND

“When reviewing a trial court’s decision on appeal, we view the evidence in the light most favorable to the prevailing party, granting it the benefit of any reasonable inferences.” Nielsen v. Nielsen, 73 Va. App. 370, 377 (2021) (quoting Congdon v. Congdon, 40 Va. App. 255, 258 (2003)).

Husband and wife married on December 31, 1998, and two children were born of the marriage.1 During the marriage, husband was in the Marine Corps and deployed on three combat missions. In September 2012, husband retired from the Marine Corps, and in late 2012 or early 2013, obtained a civilian position with the Department of Defense. Wife was the primary caretaker of their children. She had a high school diploma and had taken a few college courses. During the marriage, wife worked periodically, but her last full-time job was in 2001.

In August or September 2019, husband admitted to wife that he had reconnected on social media with an ex-girlfriend. Husband subsequently moved out of the marital bedroom and into the basement, so that he would have “time to think.” On September 22, 2019, husband moved out of the marital residence and moved into a townhome. Although husband opened a separate bank account on October 1, 2019, the parties maintained their joint bank accounts, and husband continued to pay the household expenses.

After husband left the marital residence, wife changed the locks and garage code, installed cameras on the house, and boarded up a dog door. In November 2019, wife asked husband if they could work on their marriage and told him that she would “do anything” to save

1 Both children were emancipated adults when the circuit court entered the final decree of divorce.

their marriage. For the next several months, husband and wife exchanged text messages, went on dates, and engaged in sexual relations. Wife purchased husband’s groceries, cooked his meals, and picked up his prescriptions. They celebrated Thanksgiving, Christmas, and their anniversary together. They planned trips together and held themselves out to the public as a married couple. Although husband never returned to the marital residence to sleep overnight, wife occasionally slept overnight at husband’s townhome; she did not leave any of her clothing or toiletries at his house.

On July 27, 2020, husband emailed wife with a proposal for separating their finances and told her that “the marriage [was] no longer in his best interest.” They then separated their financial accounts, and wife stopped grocery shopping and cooking for husband. He continued to pay the mortgage, homeowner’s association dues, utilities, and wife’s car payment.

In September 2020, wife filed a complaint for divorce of fault grounds of desertion and adultery. Wife alleged that the parties had separated as of July 27, 2020, the date of husband’s email. She requested an award of spousal support, equitable distribution, and attorney fees and costs. Husband filed a demurrer, answer to wife’s complaint, and counterclaim.2 Husband asserted that the parties had separated on or about September 22, 2019, when he moved out of the marital residence. He requested a divorce based on the parties living separate and apart for more than one year, as well as an award of equitable distribution and attorney fees and costs.

On September 23, 2021, the circuit court entered an “Agreed Order Pendente Lite.” The parties agreed to list the former marital residence for sale, and husband would continue to pay the mortgage and homeowner’s association fees until the house sold. Husband further agreed to pay the loan payment on wife’s car, name her as the sole beneficiary of a life insurance policy he

2 The circuit court subsequently entered an agreed order sustaining the demurrer to wife’s allegation of adultery. Wife filed an amended complaint for divorce. Husband filed an answer to the amended complaint and counterclaim.

had through his employment, and list her as a fifty percent beneficiary, with the children as the other fifty percent beneficiary, of the Prudential life insurance policy.3 In addition, the parties agreed that husband would pay wife $1,700 per month as spousal support, and wife would “actively seek out employment.”

On January 12, 2022, the parties appeared before the circuit court for a hearing on the grounds for divorce, equitable distribution, spousal support, and attorney fees. At the beginning of the hearing, the parties informed the circuit court that they had resolved some of the issues and presented the court with their written stipulations. The parties had agreed that wife would retain her vehicle and be responsible for the loan payment, insurance, and “all costs of ownership” for her car. The parties also had agreed to the division of the proceeds from the sale of the former marital residence.

The circuit court heard evidence that the parties had been married for twenty-three years and had enjoyed an “upper middle class” standard of living. Both parties testified about their separation. Husband argued that the date of separation was September 22, 2019, and wife asserted that they separated on July 27, 2020. Wife testified that the “only thing different” with their marital relationship between November 2019 and July 2020 was that they were living in separate houses. Wife, however, believed that they were “still in a marital relationship” until July 27, 2020, when husband sent her the email stating that the marriage was no longer in his best interest. According to wife, after that email, the parties “stopped being a married couple.” It was clear to wife that husband intended to end their marriage. On the other hand, husband testified that he had intended for the parties to live separate and apart permanently when he

3 Husband had an approximately $100,000 life insurance policy through his employment and a $750,000 life insurance policy through Prudential. During the marriage, husband had named wife as the sole beneficiary of both life insurance policies. After they separated, he “removed” her as the beneficiary of the Prudential life insurance policy and named their children as the beneficiaries.

moved out of the marital residence on September 22, 2019. His “intent to be separate” never changed because their attempt at reconciliation “never really went beyond an attempt.”

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