In Re The Marriage Of: Ralph Nilssen v. Elise Nilssen

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedMarch 5, 2018
Docket76164-1
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

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IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

In the Matter of the Marriage of No. 76164-1-1 RALPH NILSSEN, (Consolidated with Appellant, No. 77091-8-1)

and DIVISION ONE

ELISE NILSSEN, UNPUBLISHED OPINION ) Respondent. ) ) FILED: March 5, 2018

LEACH, J. — In these consolidated appeals, Ralph Nilssen challenges a

dissolution decree, child support order, and parenting plan. He also challenges

an order denying his motion to vacate those decisions. Because his briefs

repeatedly violate our Rules of Appellate Procedure and settled principles of

appellate review and because his claims are not persuasive in any event, we

affirm.

FACTS

Ralph and Elise Nilssen married in August 1997 and separated in June

2015. They have five children. At the time of trial, the children were between 10

and 15 years old.

After a lengthy trial, the court entered a dissolution decree, parenting plan,

child support order, and findings of fact and conclusions of law. The court No. 76164-1-1/ 2

ordered Ralph to pay $3,500 per month in maintenance. It concluded that Elise

had "a need for this support and the petitioner has the ability to pay this support

while also meeting his own needs." The court noted that Elise did not work

outside the home while she raised the children and needs "education and job

skills in order to become self-sufficient."

The child support worksheet listed Ralph's gross monthly income at

$10,000.00 and his child support obligation at $1,766.51.1 The court found that

both parties incurred significant attorney fees and that Elise needed, and Ralph

had the ability to pay, $30,000.00 for a portion of her attorney fees. The court

added that "the sheer volume of declarations, emails and other-communications

from petitioner related to this litigation has been an abusive use of conflict that

has created or exacerbated the danger of serious damage to the children's

psychological development."

The court entered extensive findings regarding Ralph's acts of domestic

violence. It found in part that

[c]redible testimony from respondent and her witnesses, and the totality of the evidence in this case makes clear that the outward

1 The court's findings also noted,

Shortly after trial concluded, attorneys for the parties notified the court that petitioner has been hired to begin work in the next few days. As a result, both parties submitted proposed Washington State Child Support Worksheets to the court listing petitioner's gross income as $10,000. This level of income is consistent with his historic earnings.

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image of this family was very different from the reality at home. In reality petitioner was verbally, emotionally and physically abusive to his wife and children, especially Zane. The petitioner pinched, grabbed and shoved the children, especially Zane, in a manner that was physically and emotionally abusive.

All five children have been in therapy since October 2013 or before. All have been diagnosed by their therapists with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder due to either witnessing or experiencing domestic violence. The children suffer from anxiety which manifests itself differently with each child.

Significantly, the court found that "[t]he GAL [Guardian ad Litem] and FCS

[Family Court Services] social worker reported the father had admitted to certain

abusive, controlling, or scary behaviors" but now "asserted that they had

misquoted him." The court expressly found Ralph's trial testimony "not credible."

The court ruled that the children would live with Elise and imposed

residential restrictions on Ralph under RCW 26.09.191.2 The restrictions were

due to Ralph's "physical and repeated emotional abuse" of the children, "a history

of domestic violence. . . or assaults which causes grievous bodily harm or the

fear of such harm," and his abusive use of conflict. The court ordered Ralph to

make progress in a domestic violence perpetrator treatment program and obtain

individualized domestic violence treatment from Katy Stanfill, PhD. Supervised

2 The trial court's decision referred to the "primary residential parent." Ch. 26.09 RCW does not recognize primary residential parents or secondary residential parents. Such shorthand may be convenient but unfortunately and inappropriately implies that one parent is more important than another. The Parenting Act of 1987, chs. 26.09, 26.10 RCW, attempted to defeat such labelling implications by removing the designation of one parent as custodian and the other as visiting.

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visitation would commence if he complied with treatment. Visits would become

unsupervised once he completed 26 weeks of treatment and attended a

Wellspring DV [Domestic Violence] Dad's Class. Overnights would commence

once he complied with these requirements for 16 weeks.

Ralph moved for reconsideration, challenging portions of the parenting

plan and child support calculations. The court granted the motion in part:

The petitioner's monthly earnings must be imputed considering the absence of reliable proof of actual earnings. The court finds petitioner's current annual cross earnings should be imputed at $90,000 based upon the minimum earnings amount he is guaranteed for the first year fofl his new employment, the current opportunity for commissions that would increase annual earnings to $120,000 at the new employment, and the petitioner's work experience, skills, and historical earnings over $100,000.

The court finds the appropriate amount of monthly spousal maintenance that respondent needs and petitioner has the ability to pay is $2,850 per month for 48 months. This amount includes consideration of the costs petitioner will necessarily incur to comply with the phased-in visitation schedule set forth in the Parenting Plan. Using these revised earnings and maintenance figures results in a reduction in Child Support transfer payments from $1,767 to $1,011.14 per month for 5 children. This is a reduction in child support of over $750 per month.

(Emphasis added.) The court denied Ralph's request to reduce or eliminate his

obligation to pay $40,000 of Elise's attorney's fees ($10,000 awarded pretrial and

$30,000 after trial). Ralph filed a timely notice of appeal.

On May 23, 2017, Ralph filed a motion to vacate the court's orders under

CR 60(1), (4), and (11). He argued the orders were "contrary to the actual trial

evidence/testimony," demonstrated "the court's extreme bias and prejudice

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against the father," were "devoid of judicial balance and fairness," and required

vacation "as a matter of justice." The court denied the motion to vacate. Ralph

filed a second notice of appeal.

On April 14, 2017, Ralph filed an opening brief in his first appeal. The

brief addressed only financial issues and sought "immediate emergency

relief. .. to survive financially." The brief acknowledged that "these emergency

requests do not address the [Parenting Plan] issues...,but the Appellant will

address these issues in a non-emergency venue through a Motion to Vacate the

Parenting Plan."

In June 2017, Ralph moved for permission to file a supplemental brief in

his first appeal.

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