In re: Marriage of Carrillo

CourtAppellate Court of Illinois
DecidedApril 13, 2007
Docket1-06-2274 Rel
StatusPublished

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Opinion

SIXTH DIVISION April 13, 2007

No. 1-06-2274

In re MARRIAGE OF ANNA CARRILLO ) Appeal from the ) Circuit Court of (Anna Carrillo, ) Cook County ) Petitioner-Appellee, ) ) and ) ) Carlos Carrillo, ) Honorable ) Grace G. Dickler, Respondent-Appellant). ) Judge Presiding.

JUSTICE MCNULTY delivered the opinion of the court:

Before the trial in this divorce action, the trial court

ruled on temporary custody of the minor children of Carlos and

Anna Carrillo and set a schedule for visitation. After the trial

but before entry of the final judgment, Carlos moved to hold Anna

in contempt for violating the visitation order. The court left

that motion unresolved at the time of the judgment that finally

disposed of all issues concerning custody and property

distribution. Six months later the court dismissed the motion

for the contempt finding without hearing any evidence. Following

that dismissal Carlos filed an appeal from the judgment and the

order dismissing his motion for a contempt finding. We find that

we have jurisdiction to review the final judgment as well as the

denial of the motion for contempt. We affirm the judgment and

reverse and remand for further proceedings on the contempt claim.

BACKGROUND 1-06-2274

Carlos married Anna in 1988. They had four children: Carlos

Jr., Enrique, Lilliana and Gabriel. Anna and Carlos separated in

2002. Carlos, who acted pro se throughout the divorce

proceedings, agreed to entry of an order of protection against

him in October 2002. Anna petitioned for divorce. Carlos

opposed the petition, as he argued that divorce would not serve

the best interests of the children.

He also petitioned for an order to protect him and the

children from Anna. He alleged:

"Mrs. Carrillo frequently stayed out in bars while her

husband took care of the children.

***

*** On September 29, 2002, Mr. Carrillo discovered

an email that confirmed his suspicions of an affair.

Several months earlier, he had found condoms, sex

jelly, and sex candy in [Anna's] car."

The court appointed Dr. Peter Nierman to evaluate the

family. Also, the court granted Carlos weekend visits with his

minor children. But the court entered a new plenary order of

protection, in effect for six months, directing Carlos to stay

away from the family home.

As grounds for a motion for interim fees, Carlos alleged

that, "despite the fact that Anna Carrillo is guilty of

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infidelity, intimidation and many other crimes against [Carlos]

and his children, she has enjoyed unparalleled protection under

the law." Carlos separately petitioned for an injunction to

"prohibit[] Anna Carrillo from carrying out her illicit affair

*** in the presence of the children." The court denied Carlos's

motions but reduced his temporary support payments.

On one of the support checks Carlos wrote, "proof that

cheating and lying does pay"; on another he wrote, "adultery and

false charges are rewarding to a woman."

Anna moved out of the family home in 2004, alleging that

Carlos continued to harass her despite the order of protection.

Judge Grace Dickler entered a third plenary order of protection

on December 17, 2004, ordering Carlos to stay away from Anna's

new home and her workplace. The order on its face provided that

it would expire on December 17, 2006.

Carlos petitioned for a change of venue. The trial court

treated the motion as a request for substitution of judge and

assigned the motion to a different judge for disposition. That

judge denied the motion. In February 2005 Carlos moved to

reconsider the denial of the motion, relying on the "history of

prejudicial rulings" against him. He also filed an affidavit in

which he swore that his children told him "[Anna] and her lover

were frequently fighting in front of [the children] ***. ***

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[The lover] often got drunk when they argued." Carlos said that

because of Judge Dickler's rulings, "the affair continued along

with the mental abuse of [the] children." He added, "It is so

frustrating to see the discriminatory legal system applaud

[Anna's] infidelity and abuse of our family."

Also in February 2005, Carlos moved to vacate the order of

protection. He alleged:

"Anna Carrillo's obsession with her lover has caused

her to follow a reckless pattern of devastating acts of

physical, mental and emotional abuse against [Carlos]

and his children.

* * *

*** Anna *** [has] maliciously misused the

domestic violence laws *** in order to freely pursue

her adulteress lifestyle... an affair that started well

before the part[ie]s separated."

Carlos admitted that he had approached Anna at work, but he

characterized his behavior as "numerous acts of kindness." The

court amended the order of protection to permit Carlos to contact

Anna in case of a documentable medical emergency.

In an effort to divorce amicably, Anna offered to let Carlos

have custody of their youngest son, Gabriel. Carlos Jr. had

attained majority and Anna had already agreed to let Carlos have

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custody of Enrique for the remainder of his minority, while he

finished high school. Thus, Anna would retain custody of only

Lilliana, an autistic and disabled child who needed nearly

constant care. Anna asked only half the value of the marital

home as part of the proposed settlement. Carlos accused Anna of

trading Gabriel for money.

At a hearing in May 2005, Judge Dickler explained to Carlos

her perspective on the case:

"[Y]our case *** is one of the most challenging I have

ever had. You refuse to see what is really going on.

You continue throwing darts at everyone. You refuse to

get an attorney no matter how many times I pleaded with

you to please hire an attorney in your best interests.

You continue filing the same motions. You

miscomprehend what is going on. You continually act in

your child's opposite of best interests by involving

them in these proceedings, telling them to write

letters, *** and you continue this time after time

after time."

In September 2005 Carlos petitioned for a rule to show cause

why the court should not hold Anna in contempt for violation of

visitation orders.

We have no transcript and no bystander's report for the

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trial on the issues of custody and distribution of marital

assets. However, the record includes Dr. Nierman's report

concerning the Carrillo family. Dr. Nierman found:

"[N]either parent has conducted themselves in an

exemplary fashion ***. The constant strategy of making

allegations, the inability to compromise, the legal

protections, the lack of communication, and the failure

to insulate children from the fracas are all poor

prognostic signs for the future. ***

*** Gabriel is essentially a positive child who

loves scouting and sports, has a good outlook on

school, [and] loves both his parents ***.

*** Through his anticipations and expectations, it

was clear his father was the more dominant parental

figure as his father was truly functioning more as his

guide through scouting, school, sports, video games,

and friendships. It was also clear that Gabriel

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