In Re Long and Fregeau

244 P.3d 26
CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedDecember 14, 2010
Docket28377-1-III
StatusPublished
Cited by21 cases

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Bluebook
In Re Long and Fregeau, 244 P.3d 26 (Wash. Ct. App. 2010).

Opinion

244 P.3d 26 (2010)

In re the Meretricious Relationship of Jeremy R. LONG, Respondent, and
David R. FREGEAU, Appellant, and
Kirsten Fregeau, Intervener Appellant.

No. 28377-1-III.

Court of Appeals of Washington, Division 3.

December 14, 2010.

*27 Samuel Benton Gordon, Gordon Jones PLLC, Seattle, WA, Travis S. Jones, Law Office of Travis S. Jones PLLC, Spokane, WA, for Appellant.

Gary R. Stenzel, Gary R. Stenzel PS, Spokane, WA, for Respondent.

Kenneth H. Kato, Attorney at Law, Spokane, WA, for Appellant Intervenor.

BROWN, J.

¶ 1 Dr. David R. Fregeau appeals the trial court's equitable property division to Jeremy R. Long and the meretricious relationship determination from which it flowed. The parties use different, sometimes confusing terms to describe their relationship. Our Supreme Court has noted "meretricious" carries negative and derogatory connotations and has chosen to substitute "committed intimate relationship" for meretricious relationship. Olver v. Fowler, 161 Wash.2d 655, 657 n. 1, 168 P.3d 348 (2007). Intimacy and commitment are just two non-exclusive relevant factors a trial court can consider in deciding if equity applies to support an equitable property division.

¶ 2 Here, the parties agree they had an intimate relationship neither disparages; *28 and, they view the meaning of commitment differently. The parties largely agree on the facts, but they disagree if those facts sufficiently raise equity to support an equitable property division. Characterizing their liaison as merely a dating relationship, Dr. Fregeau mainly contends his intimacy with Mr. Long lacked mutual commitment and sufficient duration to justify equitable relief. He asserts equity does not apply, and if it does, the property division is incorrect. Given this background, we use the phraseology "equity relationship" as a neutral, more accurately descriptive, substitute term in analyzing the common fact-equity issues found in this subject area.

¶ 3 We hold the trial court did not err in analyzing the relevant factors and concluding an equity relationship existed. We affirm the equitable property division, except for consideration of one separate retirement account, the Rockwood plan, belonging to Dr. Fregeau that does not show any contributions during the relevant time. We reject arguments from Dr. Fregeau and his intervening daughter, Kirsten Fregeau (holding part title in one property), that the court lacked jurisdiction over that property because she was not joined as a necessary party. Accordingly, we affirm and remand for an amended property division order.

FACTS

¶ 4 Jeremy Long and David Fregeau, a married man, met in March 1999 and soon began dating. In fall 1999, Dr. Fregeau left his family home and moved into Mr. Long's home on Valleyway where they lived until 2003. Dr. Fregeau formally separated from his wife in September 2000. For some time, Dr. Fregeau stayed at Mr. Long's house without paying rent. While there, the pair shared living expenses.

¶ 5 In fall 2002, the pair found an investment property, the Wellesley house. Title and financing was put in the names of Mr. Long and Dr. Fregeau's daughter, Kirsten, as a divorce accommodation to Dr. Fregeau. Ms. Fregeau paid rent to Mr. Long while she lived at the Wellesley house. Mr. Long paid the mortgage. At times, Dr. Fregeau paid Kirsten's rent. After Kirsten moved out, the pair jointly rented the Wellesley house to others.

¶ 6 In 2003, Mr. Long and Dr. Fregeau decided they wanted a larger house on Havana and worked together to acquire it. Because of Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) restrictions, Mr. Long could not take title, so while he paid the earnest money and each paid one-half of the down payment, title was put in Dr. Fregeau's name. Before moving into the Havana house, the pair equally shared renovation expenses and later shared other improvement expenses, except for disputed 2004 landscaping expenses paid by Dr. Fregeau. The pair continued living together at the Havana house and sharing expenses, except for a three-month separation beginning March 2006. Dr. Fregeau's children occasionally visited.

¶ 7 In September 2006, Mr. Long added Dr. Fregeau to one of his bank accounts so Dr. Fregeau could deposit $48,000 to conceal the funds from his wife. Mr. Long transferred the money to Dr. Fregeau as needed for his bills. Dr. Fregeau removed his remaining funds from the account after the parties finally separated.

¶ 8 The parties agree their relationship was loving and intimate. They cared for each other during illnesses and after surgeries, spent holidays with their families, purchased furniture and housewares, worked on their joint and separate rental properties, and vacationed together. Dr. Fregeau paid for vacationing if Mr. Long could not afford it. The parties often discussed their future together. Mr. Long named Dr. Fregeau as a contingent beneficiary on a workplace retirement plan. On the other hand, the pair did not engage in mutual estate planning or buy and insure vehicles together.

¶ 9 In September 2001, after Dr. Fregeau discovered Mr. Long's infidelity, some months elapsed without full intimacy, although the pair continued to sleep in the same bed and remained otherwise intimate. Dr. Fregeau later admitted a similar indiscretion. Dr. Fregeau testified Mr. Long's sexual behavior was an ongoing concern and argued it showed lack of commitment. In *29 March 2007, Dr. Fregeau suspected Mr. Long was again cheating and later confronted him. Mr. Long minimized his behavior as merely recreational and without diminished commitment to Dr. Fregeau.

¶ 10 Dr. Fregeau divorced in February 2007. That month, Washington allowed same-sex registered domestic partnerships. The pair attended a seminar on the subject. In summer 2007, they attended joint counseling to maintain their relationship. During this time, Dr. Fregeau filled out papers to register as a domestic partnership, but Mr. Long declined. At trial, Dr. Fregeau asserted the relationship had ended in July 2007, even though Mr. Long permanently left the Havana house in February 2008.

¶ 11 In March 2008, Mr. Long sued for an equitable property division. Before trial, the parties mediated most property issues. After a bench trial, the judge concluded an equity relationship existed and considered the parties' remaining property and debt— the Havana house, the Wellesley house, and the parties' retirement accounts. The court awarded one-half of Wellesley to Mr. Long, noting the remaining one-half was "titled to Kristen [sic] Fregeau." Clerk's Papers at 49. The court ordered a $60,815 equalization judgment for Mr. Long without disturbing the titling of property. Dr. Fregeau appealed. Ms. Fregeau successfully intervened on appeal.

ANALYSIS

A. Marriage did not Bar an Equity Relationship

¶ 12 The issue is whether the trial court erred in deciding Dr. Fregeau's marriage did not prevent the creation of an equity relationship.

¶ 13 We review a court's conclusions of law de novo. Gormley v. Robertson, 120 Wash.App. 31, 36, 83 P.3d 1042 (2004).

¶ 14 An equity relationship is a "stable, marital-like relationship where both parties cohabit with knowledge that a lawful marriage between them does not exist." Connell v. Francisco, 127 Wash.2d 339, 346, 898 P.2d 831 (1995) (citing In re Marriage of Lindsey,

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