In Re Brick Earl Harris, And Robert Hobson Brimlow

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedJuly 1, 2024
Docket84501-2
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

In the Matter of the Committed Intimate No. 84501-2-I Relationship of DIVISION ONE BRICK EARL HARRIS,

Respondent,

and UNPUBLISHED OPINION

ROBERT HOBSON BRIMLOW,

Appellant.

BOWMAN, J. — Brick Harris and Robert Brimlow lived together for 16

years. In that time, they held themselves out as a couple, shared resources, and

bought two houses together. When they separated, Harris petitioned for a

division of assets, alleging a committed intimate relationship (CIR). Brimlow

opposed the petition, arguing he and Harris were only housemates and business

partners. Following a bench trial, the court ruled for Harris. It then awarded

Harris one house and Brimlow the other. Brimlow appeals. Because the record

supports the trial court’s conclusions and it did not abuse its discretion in dividing

property, we affirm.

FACTS

Harris and Brimlow met at a mutual friend’s birthday party in January

2003. At that time, Harris worked at Home Depot and owned a home in Everett. No. 84501-2-I/2

Brimlow was a flight attendant for United Airlines and renting an apartment in

SeaTac. Brimlow also owned investment properties in Burien, Tacoma, and

Seattle’s Columbia City neighborhood.

After the birthday party, Harris and Brimlow exchanged numbers and got

to know each other by phone. They went on dates, and about eight or nine

months into the relationship, they had sex. After having sex once, the two

concluded they were not “compatible sexually,” and seldom expressed their

affection to one another physically. Still, within six months, Brimlow gave Harris

a key to his home, where they spent nearly every night in the same bed together.

In those early years, Brimlow often read Harris to sleep.

During their time together, Harris and Brimlow enjoyed seeing movies,

going out to restaurants, and attending music concerts, theatre performances,

and Cirque du Soleil shows. They also enjoyed travelling together. Harris

estimated that over the course of their relationship, they took at least 30 to 35

vacations. And the couple shared an interest in construction and renovation.

Between 2003 and 2005, they worked on renovations on all three of Brimlow’s

rental properties.

In summer 2005, Harris and Brimlow bought a home from a friend’s

grandmother—a “tiny fixer-upper” in Green Lake. The couple wanted to

renovate, and they thought it would be a good opportunity to earn equity for

retirement. To afford the house, Brimlow told Harris they could qualify for an

interest-only loan, but Harris’ income could not support their mortgage

application. Brimlow said the bank would only finance the purchase if they listed

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Harris as a renter to show the property had income. But the parties agreed that

they would refinance into a conventional mortgage when they could qualify and

own the home jointly. So, at first, the mortgage, deed, and title to the Green

Lake house named only Brimlow. And the parties executed a joint venture

agreement (JVA), which showed the bank that Harris was a renter, but also

allocated Harris a financial interest in the house.

After purchasing the Green Lake property, Harris and Brimlow moved into

the house together. They agreed to sleep in different bedrooms because they

“both slept better when [they] slept alone,” so Harris set up his bedroom in the

basement “because it was cool down there.” Harris then sold his Everett

property in 2006. And in 2007, Harris and Brimlow bought another house in

Burien to renovate and rent.1 Harris believed both men were on the title to the

Burien house. They shared a joint bank account for projects on their houses, a

Costco card, and the same homeowner’s and car insurance.

In 2011, the parties refinanced the Green Lake house, putting both Harris

and Brimlow on the deed and title. After refinancing, Harris tore up the JVA in

front of Brimlow. Harris and Brimlow also added each other as domestic partners

to their employers’ medical and dental coverage. And in 2012, when marriage

became available to same-sex couples in Washington, Harris bought rings for

him and Brimlow to wear. Harris also added Brimlow to his will and granted him

1 This is a different property than the rental property in Burien that Brimlow owned before meeting Harris. Brimlow eventually sold his rental properties in Burien and Columbia City. Brimlow’s Tacoma property was not at issue in the CIR proceedings.

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a limited power of attorney, including health care decisions. Throughout the

years, the couple gave each other Valentine’s day cards and sent joint Christmas

cards to their neighbor.

Around 2019, Harris started feeling unhappy with the relationship. Over

the next couple of years, he realized it was ending. In early 2021, Harris

consulted a family law attorney because Brimlow kept requesting that he sign a

quitclaim deed relinquishing his rights to the Burien house. Then, in March 2021,

he found Brimlow having sex with Harris’ coworker in their home. Harris

described this as “the final straw” and, soon after, moved out of the Green Lake

house. Harris then petitioned the court for a distribution of property, alleging he

and Brimlow were in a CIR. Brimlow opposed the petition, arguing that their

relationship was solely roommates and business partners.

The case went to bench trial in July 2022. At trial, Harris testified to the

above facts and entered into evidence photos of him and Brimlow on several

vacations. He submitted images of joint Christmas cards they sent a neighbor

that each of them signed. One card showed a picture of them together. Harris

testified that between 2005 and 2016, they exchanged Valentine’s day cards. He

entered some of those cards into evidence. Several cards were signed “Love,

Rob” in Brimlow’s handwriting. Harris testified that in their relationship, “[w]e

treated each other like we were married. We were best friends. We were

boyfriends. We were business partners. To me it was just like a normal

relationship.”

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Harris called as witnesses Conlyn MacInnis, Challie Brooks, Renee

Higbee, and Gloria Grimm, who all testified about the nature of his and Brimlow’s

relationship. MacInnis, a work friend of Harris’, testified that Harris and Brimlow

“acted like any couple would.” She testified that they were “not overly

affectionate,” but they would hold each other and say “kind words to one

another.” Based on her observations, MacInnis “just knew that they were in a

relationship.” Brooks, a neighbor of the Green Lake house, testified that she

“always thought [Harris and Brimlow] were a couple” because they always did

things together. She testified that they “arrived to block parties together,” made

plans together, vacationed together, and sat next to each other at dinner parties

like couples do. Higbee, a former coworker of Harris and longtime friend,

testified that she observed Harris and Brimlow “[h]ugging and kissing, . . . the

normal stuff . . . couples do.” And Grimm, a longtime friend of both Harris and

Brimlow, testified that she believed they were a “couple” based on “their body

language and the way they acted around each other.” She said they were

“affectionate” toward each other.

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