Gregory Rietdorf and Brenda Rietdorf v. Michelle Rietdorf (mem. dec.)

CourtIndiana Court of Appeals
DecidedSeptember 25, 2019
Docket19A-MI-695
StatusPublished

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MEMORANDUM DECISION Pursuant to Ind. Appellate Rule 65(D), this Memorandum Decision shall not be FILED regarded as precedent or cited before any Sep 25 2019, 6:10 am court except for the purpose of establishing CLERK the defense of res judicata, collateral Indiana Supreme Court Court of Appeals estoppel, or the law of the case. and Tax Court

ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANTS ATTORNEYS FOR APPELLEE Nicholas J. Hursh Michael A. Setlak Shambaugh, Kast, Beck & Williams, Perry D. Shilts LLP Shilts & Setlak, LLC Fort Wayne, Indiana Fort Wayne, Indiana

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

Gregory Rietdorf and September 25, 2019 Brenda Rietdorf, Court of Appeals Case No. Appellants/Cross-Appellees - Petitioners, 19A-MI-695 Appeal from the Allen Superior v. Court The Honorable Charles F. Pratt, Michelle Rietdorf, Judge Appellee/Cross Appellant - Respondent. The Honorable Sherry A. Hartzler, Magistrate Trial Court Cause No. 02D08-1801-MI-26

Robb, Judge.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 19A-MI-695 | September 25, 2019 Page 1 of 20 Case Summary and Issues [1] Gregory and Brenda Rietdorf (collectively, “Grandparents”) filed a petition

seeking grandparent visitation with their grandson, T.R. The trial court granted

the petition but imposed certain conditions and restrictions on Grandparents’

visitation. The trial court also ordered Grandparents to pay $10,000 of

Mother’s attorney fees. Grandparents appeal the trial court’s order, raising the

following consolidated issues for our review: 1) whether the trial court erred in

placing conditions on Grandparents’ visitation with T.R., and 2) whether the

trial court erred in awarding attorney fees to Mother. Mother cross-appeals,

requesting attorney fees under Indiana Appellate Rule 66(E) for defending this

appeal. With respect to Grandparents’ appeal, we conclude the trial court’s

order granting Grandparents visitation with T.R. under certain conditions was

not clearly erroneous, but there is no statutory authority for the trial court’s

award of attorney fees to Mother. Therefore, the trial court’s order is affirmed

with respect to visitation and reversed as to attorney fees. On Mother’s cross-

appeal, we conclude appellate damages are appropriate in this case and remand

to the trial court for a determination of the amount of appellate damages to

which Mother is entitled.

Facts and Procedural History 1

1 Grandparents have not stated their facts in accordance with the standard of review, instead stating the facts so as to portray themselves in the best possible light. However, Mother has gone overboard in criticizing

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 19A-MI-695 | September 25, 2019 Page 2 of 20 [2] T.R. was born on January 23, 2016, during Mother’s marriage to Anthony

Rietdorf (“Father”). Father is the son of Grandparents. During Mother and

Father’s marriage, the parties enjoyed a close relationship that included

frequent family dinners with Grandparents and extended Rietdorf family

gatherings. After T.R.’s birth, this close relationship continued, and the parties

would see each other two to three times per month. Sometimes, Mother and

Father were present while Grandparents visited with T.R. and sometimes,

Grandparents visited with T.R. alone. Mother knew Grandparents to be good

caretakers at that time and thought the relationship “felt healthy.” Transcript,

Volume 2 at 27.

[3] On September 11, 2016, Father passed away from injuries sustained in an off-

road utility vehicle accident. Mother was driving the vehicle at the time of the

accident. After Father’s death, the relationship between Mother and

Grandparents deteriorated rapidly, in part because Grandparents blamed

Mother for Father’s death. When Father was alive, Grandmother regularly

took T.R. from swim school to his babysitter because Mother had to work but

after Father’s funeral, she told Mother she would no longer be able to do that.

In October, Mother and Grandparents had a face-to-face meeting that lasted

approximately three hours. Following the meeting, Mother sent Grandparents

a letter because she was “very hurt by [the] 3 hour interrogation last week and

Grandparents’ statement of facts when simply stating the facts appropriately in her own brief would have been sufficient.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 19A-MI-695 | September 25, 2019 Page 3 of 20 must protect myself and [T.R.] from any toxic relationship[,]” Exhibits, Volume

1 at 47, and felt that “we all needed to have a third-party interaction and

counseling to come together to have a healthy relationship for the best interest

of [T.R.].” Tr., Vol. 2 at 47. Mother’s letter stated that she would be unable

“to continue further conversations . . . until [Grandparents] are ready to move

forward to a healthy relationship with me.” Exhibits, Vol. 1 at 47. Mother

asked Grandparents to “[p]lease contact me when you are ready to move

forward” and suggested mediation or counseling in a neutral location. Id.

Mother’s intention was not to quash the relationship between Grandparents

and T.R. See Tr., Vol. 2 at 18-19.

[4] Grandparents did not reach out to Mother after receiving her letter and by their

own decision, have not seen T.R. since receiving Mother’s letter. After

receiving the letter, Grandfather felt “it was very clear . . . that [Mother] cut off

the relationship . . . with [T.R.] and any hope of meeting again to work out our

differences.” Id. at 207. Grandmother indicated that at the time they received

the letter, she did not want to work on having a healthy relationship with

Mother. See id. at 136-37. In fact, she did not want any further relationship

with Mother. See id. at 168-69. Instead, Grandparents called a family meeting

and told Grandfather’s siblings that “either you’re on [our] side or you’re on

[Mother’s] side[,]” id. at 103; passed out a “poison file” of information about

Mother to the Rietdorf siblings at that meeting, id. at 198; refused to attend

extended family gatherings because Mother was still invited to attend even after

the family meeting; specifically declined to attend a gathering at which a group

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 19A-MI-695 | September 25, 2019 Page 4 of 20 family photo was to be taken to celebrate the Rietdorf patriacrch’s ninetieth

birthday but said “they were sure that [Mother] would immensely enjoy it and

that [the family] would be honored by her presence[,]” id. at 195; and chided

their daughter, Amber, for choosing to remain friends with Mother, began

arranging to see Amber’s children during her ex-husband’s parenting time so

they did not have to see Amber, and believe Amber has been “working against

[them] in this grandparents[’] procedure[,]” id. at 160. Mother took T.R. to

“every family gathering hoping that [Grandparents] would come[.]” Tr., Vol. 3

at 51.

[5] In January 2018, Grandparents filed a petition for grandparent visitation.

Receiving this petition was the first time Mother had heard from Grandparents

since October 2016. Mother acknowledges that she and Grandparents may

never see eye to eye, but she is willing for them to see T.R. “[w]hen they are in

a mentally healthy place[.]” Tr., Vol. 2 at 25. Currently, she does not believe

they are in that place, because of “things that they have said directly to me and

to family members and written that have tried to tarnish my reputation and they

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