Doe v. Doe
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Opinion
BORDEN, J.
This dissolution of marriage case involves a custody dispute concerning a minor child who was conceived by artificial insemination between the defendant husband2 and a surrogate mother (surrogate) whose parental rights and whose then husband’s parental rights, if any, have now been terminated. Although the surrogate turned the child over to the plaintiff wife and the defendant upon the birth of the child, and although both parties raised the child, who is now age fourteen, as their daughter, no adoption proceedings were ever instituted by which the plaintiff would have become the adoptive mother of the child.
The trial court, Stanley, J., ruled that it had no subject matter jurisdiction to adjudicate the custody of the minor child incident to the dissolution proceeding because she was not a “ ‘child of the marriage’ ” within the meaning of our dissolution statutes. The principal issues on appeal involve whether the trial court had subject matter jurisdiction, pursuant to General Statutes § 46b-56, to adjudicate the child’s custody, and whether the plaintiff legally may be considered to be a parent of the child for purposes of that adjudication.
[406]*406The plaintiff and the minor child, acting through her attorney appointed by the trial court, jointly appeal from the judgment of dissolution challenging the trial court’s determination that it had no jurisdiction to adjudicate the custody of the child. The defendant also appeals from the judgment challenging the trial court’s determination regarding the causes of the marital breakdown, and its awards regarding allocation of the assets of the parties, alimony and attorney’s fees.3 We conclude that: (1) the child is not a child of the marriage within the meaning of our marital dissolution statutes; (2) nonetheless, the trial court had subject matter jurisdiction, pursuant to § 46b-56,4 to adjudicate the custody of the [407]*407child as between the defendant, as the child’s father, and the plaintiff, as a third person asserting a claim to custody of the child; and (3) for purposes of that adjudication, under the undisputed facts of this case the statutory presumption afforded by General Statutes § 46b-56b5 has been rebutted as a matter of law. We also conclude that the trial court’s determination regarding the causes of the marital breakdown is supported by the evidence. Accordingly, we reverse the judgment in part and remand the case for a trial on the issue of custody and on the necessarily related financial issues.
The plaintiff brought this dissolution action in January, 1991. In her original complaint, she alleged that she and the defendant had one minor child “issue of their marriage,” who was bom on April 30, 1983. On February 11, 1991, the plaintiff and the defendant entered into a signed stipulation for temporary orders, without prejudice to the right of either party “to reclaim [408]*408all matters to the court so that the court at a later date could have a full hearing” on any of the matters covered by the stipulation. The stipulation provided for joint custody6 of the child “but with the principal place of residence” of the child with the plaintiff, and also provided that the child would reside with the defendant on certain weekends.7 This stipulation was approved by the court on the same date.8
In June, 1993, however, the plaintiff amended her complaint by deleting the allegation that the child was the child of the marriage, and alleged instead that “[t]he plaintiff and the defendant have been acting as the parents of [the child] since the child’s birth. The plaintiff is neither the biological mother, nor has she legally adopted the minor child. The plaintiff has no knowledge whether the defendant is the natural father of said child or not, and the defendant has not yet legally adopted said child to the best of her knowledge.” The plaintiff included in her claims for relief orders for sole or joint, custody of the child, visitation rights and support. The defendant, in his answer filed in December, 1994, left the plaintiff to her proof regarding her allegation that [409]*409she had been acting as the child’s parent, denied that the plaintiff did not know whether the defendant was the child’s natural father, and admitted the rest of the allegations, namely, that the defendant had been acting as the child’s parent, that the plaintiff was neither the biological nor the adoptive mother of the child, and that the defendant had not legally adopted the child. In addition, the defendant, by way of special defenses, claimed that the child was not a child of the marriage and that, therefore, the court lacked jurisdiction “to determine any issues with respect to her in the context of this action.”9
In December, 1993, the defendant filed a petition in the Middletown Probate Court for termination of the parental rights of the surrogate and her now former husband, who was married to her at the time of the child’s birth. The defendant also filed a petition in the Probate Court for a determination that he is the father of the child. The Probate Court had not acted on either of these petitions when the trial of this case began in January, 1995. On June 28, 1995, however, the Probate Court granted the defendant’s paternity petition and adjudicated him to be the father of the child. On September 6, 1995, the Probate Court granted the petition for termination of the parental rights of the surrogate and her former husband on the ground of abandonment.10 [410]*410These orders have not been appealed, and they are, therefore, final.
Meanwhile, however, the trial of this case had been proceeding. After seventeen days of testimony, beginning on January 4, 1995, and ending on June 9, 1995, the trial court, in a memorandum of decision issued on November 15, 1995, found the following: the parties’ marriage has broken down irretrievably; there is no prospect of reconciliation; and, therefore, the marriage should be dissolved. The court found further that the plaintiff, who had been bom in India while that nation was under British rule, had been married in England to another British subject and had three children from that marriage, all of whom are now more than eighteen years of age. In 1967, the plaintiff came to this country and worked as a companion and housekeeper for the defendant’s mother. In 1971, the parties began a relationship, and in April, 1982, the plaintiff obtained a divorce in Florida from her first husband. Both parties desired to have children, although the defendant was determined to have a child with or without the plaintiffs cooperation. The plaintiff, however, had undergone a tubal ligation, and an attempt to reverse it was unsuccessful. The plaintiff also suffered from permanent injuries as a result of an automobile accident in 1972.
The trial court also found that the defendant, through an advertisement in a Connecticut newspaper, sought a surrogate mother to carry and deliver a baby. The court found further that the surrogate responded, that financial arrangements were made, and that, at the surrogate’s home in Connecticut with both the defendant and the plaintiff present, the surrogate was “impregnated with the defendant’s sperm by use of a syringe [411]*411. . . ,”11
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Opinion
BORDEN, J.
This dissolution of marriage case involves a custody dispute concerning a minor child who was conceived by artificial insemination between the defendant husband2 and a surrogate mother (surrogate) whose parental rights and whose then husband’s parental rights, if any, have now been terminated. Although the surrogate turned the child over to the plaintiff wife and the defendant upon the birth of the child, and although both parties raised the child, who is now age fourteen, as their daughter, no adoption proceedings were ever instituted by which the plaintiff would have become the adoptive mother of the child.
The trial court, Stanley, J., ruled that it had no subject matter jurisdiction to adjudicate the custody of the minor child incident to the dissolution proceeding because she was not a “ ‘child of the marriage’ ” within the meaning of our dissolution statutes. The principal issues on appeal involve whether the trial court had subject matter jurisdiction, pursuant to General Statutes § 46b-56, to adjudicate the child’s custody, and whether the plaintiff legally may be considered to be a parent of the child for purposes of that adjudication.
[406]*406The plaintiff and the minor child, acting through her attorney appointed by the trial court, jointly appeal from the judgment of dissolution challenging the trial court’s determination that it had no jurisdiction to adjudicate the custody of the child. The defendant also appeals from the judgment challenging the trial court’s determination regarding the causes of the marital breakdown, and its awards regarding allocation of the assets of the parties, alimony and attorney’s fees.3 We conclude that: (1) the child is not a child of the marriage within the meaning of our marital dissolution statutes; (2) nonetheless, the trial court had subject matter jurisdiction, pursuant to § 46b-56,4 to adjudicate the custody of the [407]*407child as between the defendant, as the child’s father, and the plaintiff, as a third person asserting a claim to custody of the child; and (3) for purposes of that adjudication, under the undisputed facts of this case the statutory presumption afforded by General Statutes § 46b-56b5 has been rebutted as a matter of law. We also conclude that the trial court’s determination regarding the causes of the marital breakdown is supported by the evidence. Accordingly, we reverse the judgment in part and remand the case for a trial on the issue of custody and on the necessarily related financial issues.
The plaintiff brought this dissolution action in January, 1991. In her original complaint, she alleged that she and the defendant had one minor child “issue of their marriage,” who was bom on April 30, 1983. On February 11, 1991, the plaintiff and the defendant entered into a signed stipulation for temporary orders, without prejudice to the right of either party “to reclaim [408]*408all matters to the court so that the court at a later date could have a full hearing” on any of the matters covered by the stipulation. The stipulation provided for joint custody6 of the child “but with the principal place of residence” of the child with the plaintiff, and also provided that the child would reside with the defendant on certain weekends.7 This stipulation was approved by the court on the same date.8
In June, 1993, however, the plaintiff amended her complaint by deleting the allegation that the child was the child of the marriage, and alleged instead that “[t]he plaintiff and the defendant have been acting as the parents of [the child] since the child’s birth. The plaintiff is neither the biological mother, nor has she legally adopted the minor child. The plaintiff has no knowledge whether the defendant is the natural father of said child or not, and the defendant has not yet legally adopted said child to the best of her knowledge.” The plaintiff included in her claims for relief orders for sole or joint, custody of the child, visitation rights and support. The defendant, in his answer filed in December, 1994, left the plaintiff to her proof regarding her allegation that [409]*409she had been acting as the child’s parent, denied that the plaintiff did not know whether the defendant was the child’s natural father, and admitted the rest of the allegations, namely, that the defendant had been acting as the child’s parent, that the plaintiff was neither the biological nor the adoptive mother of the child, and that the defendant had not legally adopted the child. In addition, the defendant, by way of special defenses, claimed that the child was not a child of the marriage and that, therefore, the court lacked jurisdiction “to determine any issues with respect to her in the context of this action.”9
In December, 1993, the defendant filed a petition in the Middletown Probate Court for termination of the parental rights of the surrogate and her now former husband, who was married to her at the time of the child’s birth. The defendant also filed a petition in the Probate Court for a determination that he is the father of the child. The Probate Court had not acted on either of these petitions when the trial of this case began in January, 1995. On June 28, 1995, however, the Probate Court granted the defendant’s paternity petition and adjudicated him to be the father of the child. On September 6, 1995, the Probate Court granted the petition for termination of the parental rights of the surrogate and her former husband on the ground of abandonment.10 [410]*410These orders have not been appealed, and they are, therefore, final.
Meanwhile, however, the trial of this case had been proceeding. After seventeen days of testimony, beginning on January 4, 1995, and ending on June 9, 1995, the trial court, in a memorandum of decision issued on November 15, 1995, found the following: the parties’ marriage has broken down irretrievably; there is no prospect of reconciliation; and, therefore, the marriage should be dissolved. The court found further that the plaintiff, who had been bom in India while that nation was under British rule, had been married in England to another British subject and had three children from that marriage, all of whom are now more than eighteen years of age. In 1967, the plaintiff came to this country and worked as a companion and housekeeper for the defendant’s mother. In 1971, the parties began a relationship, and in April, 1982, the plaintiff obtained a divorce in Florida from her first husband. Both parties desired to have children, although the defendant was determined to have a child with or without the plaintiffs cooperation. The plaintiff, however, had undergone a tubal ligation, and an attempt to reverse it was unsuccessful. The plaintiff also suffered from permanent injuries as a result of an automobile accident in 1972.
The trial court also found that the defendant, through an advertisement in a Connecticut newspaper, sought a surrogate mother to carry and deliver a baby. The court found further that the surrogate responded, that financial arrangements were made, and that, at the surrogate’s home in Connecticut with both the defendant and the plaintiff present, the surrogate was “impregnated with the defendant’s sperm by use of a syringe [411]*411. . . ,”11 The court also found that “[t]he surrogate mother became pregnant”; see footnote 11 of this opinion; and that, throughout the prenatal period the defendant accompanied her to doctors’ appointments, where she used the plaintiffs name, social security number and other statistical data regarding the plaintiff. Also, on occasion the plaintiff would accompany the defendant and the surrogate to the doctors’ appointments, and on occasion would stuff a pillow in her clothing to simulate the appearance of being pregnant.
The plaintiff and the defendant were married on January 7,1983, while the surrogate was approximately four months pregnant with the child. At the time of the child’s birth on April 30, 1983, the surrogate was admitted to the hospital under the plaintiffs name, social security number and other relevant data. The trial court also found that the defendant supplied the hospital with the pertinent data for the child’s birth certificate “under the ongoing ruse that the birth mother was [the plaintiff] . ” The court found further that, upon discharge from the hospital, the surrogate turned the child over to the plaintiff and the defendant, “who nurtured and raised the child with no further participation by the surrogate mother.”
The trial court noted that “[o]f significance is the fact that the surrogate mother was married at the time of the child’s birth, although she has since had that marriage dissolved.” Noting further the presumption that a child [412]*412bom during wedlock is the child of the husband, unless the presumption is rebutted by clear and convincing proof; Schaffer v. Schaffer, 187 Conn. 224, 226, 445 A.2d 589 (1982); the court determined that the presumption had not been rebutted by that standard of proof. In this connection, the court noted further that it was undisputed that the child was not the child of the plaintiff and was not, therefore, the “issue of the marriage.” The court also noted that there had been no evidence presented during trial that the parental rights of the surrogate or her then husband had been terminated, that blood testing of the defendant and the surrogate showed merely that the defendant could not be excluded as the father of the child but did not conclusively establish his paternity, and that there had been no evidence during trial that any probate court of competent jurisdiction had found that the defendant was the father of the child.
After the conclusion of the trial but before the trial court had issued its decision, the defendant filed two motions to open the evidence to include the two Probate Court judgments regarding the termination of the parental rights of the surrogate and her former husband, and the adjudication of the defendant’s parentage of the child. The trial court, however, denied these two motions, and made “its findings based upon the evidence presented during the seventeen days of trial.”12
[413]*413On the basis of those factual findings, the trial court concluded that it did not have subject matter jurisdiction to enter orders regarding the custody or support of the minor child because she was neither a child “bom issue of the marriage,” nor a child adopted by both parties or a natural child of one of the parties who had been adopted by the other. See General Statutes § 46b-58.13 Although its ruling left “a substantial number of issues unresolved regarding” the child, the court determined that “the best interests of the child are not legally sufficient” to overcome what it perceived as the “jurisdictional impasse which has been created by the actions and inactions of the two people she has always considered her parents.” The court also rejected the request of the child’s attorney to consider the psychological and family relations reports that had been introduced into evidence because, in the court’s view, “absent the court’s jurisdiction over [the child], such data is irrelevant in the context of the present action.”
The trial court, therefore, turned to the merits of the dissolution action, irrespective of any claims regarding the custody of the child and her support. The court found that the parties shared equally in the causes of the breakdown of the marriage. In this connection, the court found that the plaintiff had difficulty controlling her anger, particularly after consuming alcohol, and that the defendant had engaged in physical violence toward the plaintiff. The court found further that communication between them had been strained, “although they appear capable of accommodating each other [414]*414when it comes to decisions regarding [the child’s] religious education and nurturing in general.” It also found, however, that their “inability or unwillingness to subordinate their own hostilities in an effort to properly finalize [the child’s] legal status vis-a-vis each of them underscores the breakdown of the marriage.” In addition, the court found that the defendant, through inheritance and sound investment practices, had acquired substantial assets, and that the plaintiff had maintained a reasonably stable and fit home environment. The court also found that the plaintiff had limited employment skills that were diminished further as a result of her age and health problems. Accordingly, the trial court rendered a decree dissolving the marriage,14 from which these appeals followed.
In his initial brief on his appeal from the judgment of the trial court, the defendant challenged: (1) the court’s finding that the parties contributed equally to the breakdown of the marriage; (2) the court’s award of periodic alimony and the related life insurance order; and (3) the court’s order requiring him to pay both the plaintiffs and the child’s attorney’s fees. In their initial brief on their joint appeal, the plaintiff and the child’s [415]*415attorney claimed that the trial court had improperly: (1) failed to find that the defendant was estopped from denying that the child was the issue of the marriage; (2) failed to assert jurisdiction over the custody of the child, thus depriving her of her right to equal protection of the law; and (3) failed to consider the best interest of the child in determining that it did not have jurisdiction to determine the custody of the child. Following oral argument in these appeals, we decided, sua sponte, to consider the case en banc; see footnote 1 of this opinion; and to request supplemental briefs by the parties and by the two amici curiae, the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, Connecticut Chapter (academy), and the attorney general of Connecticut, on certain issues.15
In his supplemental brief, the defendant claimed that: (1) the plaintiff is not and cannot be considered a parent of the child; (2) even if the court were to adopt an “equitable parent” doctrine, the plaintiff would not qualify for that doctrine under the facts of this case; and [416]*416(3) under the law of the state, the child is not a “child of the marriage” of the parties. In their supplemental brief, the plaintiff and the child’s attorney claimed that: (1) the child is the issue of the parties’ marriage because her birth certificate establishes her legitimacy and her status as the parties’ child, and because of the legislative intent and policy behind the statutes governing artificial insemination; General Statutes §§ 45a-771 through 45a-779;16 and (2) the court should recognize the doctrine [417]*417of the “equitable parent,” and under that doctrine, the court had jurisdiction over the custody of the child.17
I
It is useful to note first what this case does not involve. It does not involve questions of how, if at all, [418]*418to reconcile our family relations statutes, as interpreted by this court, with scientifically new methods of conception that were not available when those statutes were enacted or when those interpretations were issued. Thus, we need not, and do not, in this case confront questions of parentage, under those statutes, resulting from such recent scientific innovations as, for example, in vitro fertilization using donated eggs that are then implanted in a woman’s womb; see, e.g., Office of Technology Assessment, Infertility: Medical and Social Choices (1988) p. 255; implantation into a woman’s womb of a frozen embryo formed by the sperm and egg of strangers to both the woman and her husband; see, e.g., G. Kolata, “Clinics Selling Embryos Made For ‘Adoption,’ ” N.Y. Times, November 23, 1997, p. 1; or other similar innovations in which a woman who gives birth to a child is not the same woman who produced the egg that was ultimately fertilized by a man’s sperm. See, e.g., 2 Royal Commission on New Reproductive Technologies, Proceed With Care: Final Report of the Royal Commission on New Reproductive Technologies (1993) pp. 662-63 (describing various “gestational” surrogacy arrangements).18 Furthermore, although the facts of this case are certainly unusual, neither the social arrangement by which the child was conceived and [419]*419delivered, surrogate motherhood, nor the method of conception, artificial insemination, is new.
Although it has become widespread only in recent decades; H. Ragone, Surrogate Motherhood: Conception in the Heart (1994) p. 194 n.2; surrogate motherhood is a practice with ancient roots. Throughout history couples unable to have children because of the woman’s inability to conceive or carry a child to term have arranged for impregnation of another woman with the husband’s sperm in order to produce a child for the couple to raise as their own. S. Phillips, “Reproductive Ethics,” 4 CQ Researcher 291, 301 (1994). The Bible’s Book of Genesis, for instance, records three instances of the practice. Genesis 16 (recounting surrogacy arrangement among Abram, Sarai and Hagar); Genesis 30:1-24 (recounting surrogacy arrangements among Jacob, Rachel and Bilhah, and among Jacob, Leah and Zilpah). Of course, as in the present case, surrogate motherhood today generally involves implantation of the sperm through artificial insemination instead of intercourse. This practice, however, is also neither new nor scientifically advanced.
Artificial insemination involving humans dates back at least to the late 1770s, when the first authoritatively reported use of the technique took place under the direction of an English physician, Sir John Hunter. F. Poynter, “Hunter, Spallanzani, and the History of Artificial Insemination,” in Medicine, Science and Culture (L. Stevenson & R. Multhauf, eds., 1968) pp. 97, 100. By the 1890s, artificial insemination had become an established medical specialty in numerous European cities; id., pp. 101-109; and by the 1940s, it had developed into an established treatment for fertility problems in the United States. Note, “The Socio-Legal Problems of Artificial Insemination,” 28 Ind. L.J. 620, 620-22 (1953). Essentially, the technique is simple, merely involving substitution of an instrument such as a syringe for the [420]*420traditional means of depositing semen into the woman’s vagina. D. Wikler & N. Wikler, “Turkey-baster Babies: The Demedicalization of Artificial Insemination,” 69 Milbank Q. 5, 8 (1991). It can be performed without the assistance of trained medical professionals, as it was in the present case.
We do not mean to imply that we are insensitive to the interests of the child in this case, in particular, or to the plight of couples who, faced with difficulties in conceiving a child, are required to resort to such recent scientific innovations, in general. Moreover, we do not seek to minimize the difficulties of the legal questions that are presented by this case. Our point here is solely that this case does not present questions involving the meaning of our statutes in the factual context of a scientifically new method of conception.19
II
We next consider the trial court’s denial of the defendant’s motion to open the evidence so as to admit the two probate decrees, which conclusively established that the defendant is the father of the child, and that the parental rights of the surrogate and her former husband had been terminated. We conclude that the [421]*421court abused its discretion in denying the defendant’s motion.
“Whether or not a trial court will permit further evidence to be offered after the close of testimony in the case is a matter resting within its discretion. State v. Levy, 103 Conn. 138, 145, 130 Atl. 96 [1925]; State v. Chapman, 103 Conn. 453, 479, 130 Atl. 899 [1925]; King v. Spencer, 115 Conn. 201, 203, 161 Atl. 103 [1932]; State v. Swift, 125 Conn. 399, 405, 6 Atl. (2d) 359 [1939], Hauser v. Fairfield, 126 Conn. 240, 242, 10 A.2d 689 [1940], In the ordinary situation where a trial court feels that, by inadvertence or mistake, there has been a failure to introduce available evidence upon a material issue in the case of such a nature that in its absence there is serious danger of a miscarriage of justice, it may properly permit that evidence to be introduced at any time before the case has been decided.” (Internal quotation marks omitted.) State v. Holmquist, 173 Conn. 140, 152, 376 A.2d 1111, cert. denied, 434 U.S. 906, 98 S. Ct. 306, 54 L. Ed. 2d 193 (1977).
Deciding this contested marital dissolution case without cognizance of the undisputed facts regarding the paternity of the child and the termination of the potentially competing parental rights, presented a serious danger of a miscarriage of justice. First, those facts undermined the court’s conclusion that it had no jurisdiction to consider the custody of the child, because they converted the case from one in which the presumed parents of the child were not before the court, to a case in which at least one conclusively established parent — the defendant — was before the court. Second, relegating the parties to a subsequent habeas corpus action, which the trial court contemplated, would have been unsatisfactory because, even after the close of evidence but before the court decided the case, it should have been apparent that a determination in a subsequent habeas proceeding regarding the custody of the [422]*422child would have also required a determination regarding her financial support, either in the habeas proceeding or upon a return to the dissolution action. That determination, in turn, would have necessitated the reworking of the financial orders that the trial court entered in this action regarding the other but inextricably linked financial issues. See Sunbury v. Sunbury, 210 Conn. 170, 175, 553 A.2d 612 (1989) (financial orders in dissolution action involve mosaic of inextricably intertwined issues). We therefore decide this case on the true state of the facts, namely, that the defendant is the biological father of the child, and that the parental rights of the surrogate and her husband have been terminated.
III
We turn next to the following issues, which are raised by the parties, the child and the amici: (1) the viability of the concept of a “child of the marriage” under our dissolution of marriage statute; General Statutes § 46b-56; see footnote 4 of this opinion; and (2) whether that concept deprived the trial court of jurisdiction to adjudicate the custody of the child under the facts of this case. We conclude that, although the phrase “child of the marriage” is no longer contained in § 46b-56, the concept that it embodies, as authoritatively interpreted by decisions of this court, remains implicit in our entire statutory scheme governing marital dissolutions and retains viability by continuing to define who is a parent for purposes of awarding custody in a dissolution action. We also conclude, however, that the jurisdictional limitations that the concept previously had imposed on the trial court operating under that statute have been overtaken by subsequent statutory changes. On the basis of these conclusions, we determine that the trial court had jurisdiction to award custody of the child in this case, as between the defendant, as the father of the child, and the plaintiff, as an interested [423]*423third party with a powerful, albeit nonparental, claim to custody.
We preface this inquiry by reaffirming the established proposition that, although the court has broad equitable remedial powers in the area of marital dissolutions; Pasquariello v. Pasquariello, 168 Conn. 579, 585, 362 A.2d 835 (1975) (“[t]he power to act equitably is the keystone to the court’s ability to fashion relief in the infinite variety of circumstances which arise out of the dissolution of a marriage”); our marital dissolution law is essentially a creature of, and governed by, statute. “The Superior Court’s power to grant divorces and thereby dissolve marriages comes from statutory authority, and from such jurisdiction over divorce derives the court’s jurisdiction to make and enforce orders for care, custody and education of children. White v. White, 138 Conn. 1, 9, 81 A.2d 450 (1951); LaBella v. LaBella, 134 Conn. 312, 316, 57 A.2d 627 (1948). . . .” (Citation omitted.) Kennedy v. Kennedy, 177 Conn. 47, 49-50, 411 A.2d 25 (1979). Furthermore, “Superior Court orders regarding custody of a minor child in an action for dissolution of a marriage are governed by General Statutes § 46b-56 . . . .” Hall v. Hall, 186 Conn. 118, 121, 439 A.2d 447 (1982). Thus, our task in the present case is not to determine what the equities of the case may say about whether the plaintiff should be considered as a parent of the child, or whether it would be in the child’s best interest for the plaintiff to be so considered. To do so would be inconsistent with our established jurisprudence identifying our statutes as the source of the court’s power to award custody of children in dissolution cases and interpreting the meaning of parenthood under those statutes. Our task, instead, is to determine, as a matter of statutory interpretation, the relationship between the plaintiff and the child for purposes of the court’s power to award custody under § 46b-56.
[424]*424“The process of statutory interpretation involves a reasoned search for the intention of the legislature. Frillici v. Westport, 231 Conn. 418, 431, 650 A.2d 557 (1994). In other words, we seek to determine, in a reasoned manner, the meaning of the statutory language as applied to the facts of this case, including the question of whether the language actually does apply. In seeking to determine that meaning, we look to the words of the statute itself, to the legislative history and circumstances surrounding its enactment, to the legislative policy it was designed to implement, and to its relationship to existing legislation and common law principles governing the same general subject matter. . . . Id.; Carpenteri-Waddington, Inc. v. Commissioner of Revenue Services, 231 Conn. 355, 362, 650 A.2d 147 (1994); United Illuminating Co. v. Groppo, 220 Conn. 749, 755-56, 601 A.2d 1005 (1992).” (Internal quotation marks omitted.) United Illuminating Co. v. New Haven, 240 Conn. 422, 431-32, 692 A.2d 742 (1997).
We begin with the language of § 46b-56.20 It deals with two separate but related situations. The first, and broader, situation is invoked by the first clause of the first sentence of § 46b-56 (a), which provides in relevant part: “In any controversy before the Superior Court as to the custody or care of minor children . . . .” That first clause, unlike the clause that follows it, is not addressed necessarily to the court’s dissolution jurisdiction. It grants the court power in “any controversy,” not limited to a dissolution action, to determine the custody or care of minor children. The first clause, [425]*425therefore, grants the court power to determine custody in, for example, a habeas corpus case involving custody of a minor child. The second clause of the first sentence of § 46b-56 (a), however, is more narrow and specific and provides in relevant part: “and at any time after the return day of any complaint under section 46b-45 . . . .” General Statutes § 46b-45 governs the filing of complaints for marital dissolution, annulment or legal separation.21 Thus, the second clause of the first sentence of § 46b-56 (a) grants the court power to determine custody in a dissolution case.
In either situation, however, the language of the section differentiates between parents of a child and third parties. The second sentence of subsection (a) of § 46b-56 provides that “[s]ubject to the provisions of section 46b-56a,22 the court may assign the custody of any child [426]*426to the parents jointly, to either parent or to a third party.” Subsection (a) of § 46b-56 further provides that “[t]he court may also make any order granting the right of visitation of any child to a third party, including but not limited to, grandparents.” Furthermore, subsection (c) of § 46b-56 requires the court, in making a support award for “a child,” to consider “the respective abilities of the parents to provide support,” and to “take into consideration all the factors enumerated in section 46b-84.” General Statutes § 46b-84, which is the statutory provision specifically governing the award of support for a minor child in a dissolution, annulment or legal separation case, uses the term “child” and the phrase “child of the marriage” interchangeably.23 The language of § 46b-56, therefore, by itself and by its specific connection with § 46b-84, strongly suggests that in the marital dissolution context a “child” means a child of the marriage.
[427]*427This suggestion is buttressed by reference to other, closely related statutes in this area of the law. General [428]*428Statutes § 46b-60,24 which governs the court’s power in annulments, provides that “the Superior Court may make such order regarding any child of the marriage and concerning alimony as it might make in an action for dissolution of marriage. The issue of any void or voidable marriage shall be deemed legitimate. Any child bom before, on or after October 1, 1976, whose birth occurred prior to the marriage of his parents shall be deemed a child of the marriage.” Thus, like § 46b-84, § 46b-60 uses the term “child” and the phrase “child of the marriage” interchangeably. It is highly unlikely that the legislature, in referring to the powers of the court over minor children, intended those powers to be different depending on whether the complaint seeks a dissolution or annulment of the marriage. We can perceive no rationale for such a distinction, and to read our statutes to create one would be inconsistent with the fundamental principle of statutory construction that we read related statutes to form a consistent, rational whole, rather than to create irrational distinctions. See, e.g., In re Valerie D., 223 Conn. 492, 524, 613 A.2d 748 (1992) (“ ‘[statutes are to be interpreted with regard to other relevant statutes because the legislature is presumed to have created a consistent body of law’ ”); [429]*429Powers v. Ulichny, 185 Conn. 145, 149, 440 A.2d 885 (1981) (“[w]e make every effort to construe a statutory scheme as a consistent whole”). Similarly, General Statutes § 46b-45a,25 which governs the situation in which a wife is pregnant during dissolution or annulment proceedings, provides that the “parties may in their pleadings allege and answer that the child bom of the pregnancy will or will not be issue of the marriage.”
Furthermore, the marital relations statutes consistently draw a linguistic distinction between a “parent” of a child and an interested “third party” with respect to custody of the child. See, e.g., General Statutes § 46b-56 (a)26 (court may assign custody of child “to the parents jointly, to either parent or to a third party”); General Statutes § 46b-56b27 (statutory presumption in dispute “involving a parent and a nonparent”); General Statutes § 46b-5728 (in controversy as to custody of [430]*430minor children, if there is “any minor child of either or both parties” court “may allow any interested third party or parties to intervene”); General Statutes § 46b-5929 (grant of visitation rights with minor child under section “shall not be deemed to have created parental rights in the person or persons to whom such visitation rights are granted”). This consistent distinction between the rights of parents and third parties further supports our conclusion, drawn from the language of our marital statutory scheme, that the concept of a child of the marriage is implicit in § 46b-56.
The legislative history of § 46b-56 also supports this conclusion. That history indicates that the concept of a child of the marriage has long been embedded in that section, and has been expressed both explicitly, by language such as “children of the marriage,” and implicitly, by language such as “children” and “minor children.”
Section 46b-56 traces its genealogy to 1837, when the legislature provided for the first time30 that, incident to [431]*431a divorce, the Superior Court could “make such order, as between the parties, for the custody, care and education of the children of the marriage, as such court may deem necessary and proper . . . .” General Statutes (1839) tit. XXIII, § 1 (1837) p. 187. The reference to “children of the marriage” remained in the statute providing for the granting of divorces through the statutory revisions of 1849 and 1866. See General Statutes (1849 Rev.) tit. VII, c. II, § 15; General Statutes (1866 Rev.) tit. 13, c. Ill, § 38.
In the revision of 1875, the statutes used the phrases “the children” and “minor child of such marriage” interchangeably. In the section providing for awarding custody incident to a divorce, the statute dropped the phrase “of the marriage,” and provided that the court may “make any proper order as to custody, care, and education of the children”; General Statutes (1875 Rev.) tit. 14, c. Ill, § 7; and in the section regarding the support of minor children the statute provided that “the parents of a minor child of such marriage, in need of maintenance, shall maintain it according to their respective abilities . . . .” General Statutes (1875 Rev.) tit. 14, c. Ill, § 9. There is no indication, however, in the extensive preface to that comprehensive statutory revision that any change in substance was intended by the elimination from one section and the retention in the other section of the phrase “of the marriage,” nor can we perceive any reason for such a difference in meaning between the two sections.
In 1883, the legislature enacted Public Acts 1883, c. XXVIII, entitled “An Act concerning the Custody of Children,” which provided that in any controversy in the court “between husband and wife as to the custody of minor children of the marriage, the court shall have power to assign the custody of such children to either parent according to its best judgment upon the facts of the case, and upon such conditions and limitations [432]*432as it shall deem proper.” The legislature amended the act in 1885, providing additional authority in the court to make such awards “when such court is not actually in session . . . .” Public Acts 1885, c. XCIX, § 1. This provision, which contained the language “minor children of the marriage,” was carried forward into the 1888 statutory revision, as was the language of the 1875 revision providing, in divorce cases, for orders “as to custody, care, and education of the children . . . .” General Statutes (1875 Rev.) tit. 14, c. Ill, § 7; General Statutes (1888 Rev.) §§ 2809, 2811. The interchangeable use of the phrases “of the children” and “minor children of the marriage” remained in the statutes through the general statutory revisions of 1902,1918,1930,1949 and 1958. See General Statutes (1902 Rev.) §§ 4558, 4560, 4561; General Statutes (1918 Rev.) §§ 5289, 5291, 5292; General Statutes (1930 Rev.) §§ 5184, 5186, 5187; General Statutes (1949 Rev.) §§ 7337, 7339, 7340; General Statutes (Rev. to 1958) §§ 46-23, 46-24, 46-26. Indeed, it continued until the eve of the extensive amendments to our divorce laws effected by the legislature in 1973. See General Statutes (Rev. to 1972) §§ 46-23, 46-24, 46-26.31
[433]*433In 1973, by No. 73-373 of the 1973 Public Acts (P.A. 73-373), the legislature effected an historic revision of our marital dissolution statutes.32 That legislation introduced certain new concepts to our family law, such as the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage as a ground for dissolution. See General Statutes (Rev. to 1975) § 46-48, now § 46b-51. Throughout that legislation, however, the legislature continued to use various terms — such as “minor children of the marriage,” “minor children,” and “minor children of the parties” — interchangeably, without any indication, either in the language of the legislation or in its legislative history that different meanings were intended by the slight linguistic differences.33 Thus, the legislature continued the prior legislative practice of referring to children, in the context of [434]*434a marital dissolution case, by terms that both explicitly and implicitly referred to the concept of a child of the marriage. These different linguistic formulations remain scattered throughout our current marital dissolution statutes. See, e.g., General Statutes §§ 46b-51 (a), 46b-53 (a), 46b-54 (a), 46b-56 (a), 46b-57, 46b-60, 46b-61, 46b-62, 46b-66 and 46b-84.
We ordinarily do not infer a legislative intent to change longstanding and fundamental legislative policies without a clear indication of such an intent. See, e.g., State v. Cobb, 234 Conn. 735, 750, 663 A.2d 948 (1995). There is no indication, however, that in the context of a marital dissolution case the legislature meant to eliminate from those statutes the longstanding concept of a child of the marriage. Indeed, the legislative history that does touch on this issue indicates that the legislature assumed that the legislation continued to embody the notion of children of the marriage. See, e.g., 16 S. Proc., Pt. 3, 1973 Sess., p. 1408, remarks of Senator George C. Guidera (“[t]he bill also provides that the court may, not shall, appoint counsel for the [435]*435children [of] the marriage”); 16 H.R. Proc., Pt. 4, 1973 Sess., p. 1466, remarks of Representative James F. Bingham (“counsel may be appointed to protect the interests of the children of the marriage”); id., p. 1479, remarks of Representative Alan H. Nevas (“this bill. . . [is] going to provide dignity for the parties involved and it’s going to provide supportive measures for the children of these marriages”).
Although the statutes have never explicitly defined the contours of the concept of a “child of the marriage,” our cases have interpreted that concept in a consistent manner, both before and after the historic 1973 revision. A review of that case law, read in connection with certain other statutory developments, leads us to conclude that the meaning of that concept, in the context of a marital dissolution case, is limited to a child conceived by both parties, a child adopted by both parties, a child born to the wife and adopted by the husband, a child conceived by the husband and adopted by the wife, and a child bom to the wife and conceived through artificial insemination by a donor pursuant to §§ 45a-771 through 45a-779. See footnote 16 of this opinion. Those sources also lead us to conclude that, although initially the concept of a child of the marriage imposed jurisdictional limitations on the power of the court to award custody of a minor child who did not fit within that concept, those jurisdictional limitations have been overtaken by statutory amendments that give a dissolution court the power to award custody of such a child to an interested third party. The concept of a child of the marriage, as established by our statutoiy and interpretive jurisprudence, however, continues to define who is a parent of the child for purposes of the ultimate custody determination.
In LaBella v. LaBella, supra, 134 Conn. 312, the husband and wife were childless, and had discussed adoption. While on a business trip, the husband wrote to [436]*436the wife that he had found a baby that they could adopt. The wife told him to bring the baby home, which he did. The next year, the husband disclosed to the wife that the child was, in fact, his child — the issue of an adulterous relationship. Id., 314. In the subsequent divorce action between them, this court held that: (1) divorce is a “creature of statute”; id., 316; (2) the applicable divorce statutes “refer to children of the marriage in terms or by implication”; id.; and (3) the child “is not a child of this marriage.” Id. Thus, we concluded that, under the statutory scheme as it then existed, the Superior Court did not have jurisdiction in the divorce action to award custody of the minor child. Id., 316-17.34
In Morrow v. Morrow, 165 Conn. 665, 345 A.2d 561 (1974),35 the wife and husband had been married in Scotland in 1964. At the time of the marriage, the wife had a one year old child bom out of wedlock. Although the husband had expressed interest in adopting that child, the parties decided that they could not afford an adoption. Instead, in 1965, they followed a Scottish procedure by which the husband, in the wife’s presence, swore before a sheriff that he was the child’s father, and the child’s birth records were then changed to indicate that fact. Id., 667. Thereafter, the husband treated the child as his own. The divorce action, in the Superior Court, took place five years later, in 1970. The trial court granted custody of the child to the husband. Id.
On appeal, this court reversed the judgment of the trial court and concluded that the trial court “lacked [437]*437jurisdiction to award custody of [the child] to the [husband].” Id., 670. The court stated that the “trial court had no jurisdiction to award custody of [the child] to the [husband] if she is not his child by paternity or adoption.” Id., 668. In addition to LaBella, the court relied on General Statutes (Rev. to 1972) § 46-26a, now § 46b-58, which “expanded the jurisdiction of the Superior Court, by providing that ‘[t]he authority of the [S]uperior [C]ourt to make and enforce orders and decrees as to . . . custody ... is extended to children adopted by both parties and any natural child of one of the parties who has been adopted by the other.’ ” Morrow v. Morrow, supra, 165 Conn. 668-69. The court stated: “Unless [the child] is deemed by law to be a child of the marriage of the [husband] and the [wife], the Superior Court was without jurisdiction over her person.” Id., 669.36 The court determined that “[o]n the undisputed facts of this case and the applicable law, we conclude that [the child] is not the legitimate child of the [husband] and that the court lacked jurisdiction to award custody of [the child] to the [husband].” Id., 670.
Remkiewicz v. Remkiewicz, 180 Conn. 114, 429 A.2d 833 (1980), involved a marital dissolution action between a wife, who had had a minor child by a former marriage, and her husband. During their marriage, the husband had filed an affidavit of parentage of the child, changing her birth certificate to reflect his paternity and changing her last name to his. Id., 116. During the marriage, the child regarded the husband as her father, and he treated her as his child, publicly acknowledging her as such and claiming her as a tax exemption. Id. The attorney general became a party to the dissolution action because the wife had been receiving public assistance, and moved for an order of support against the [438]*438husband. Id., 115. The trial court held that it had no jurisdiction to issue such an order because the husband was “neither the natural nor adoptive parent of [the chUd] . . . .” Id., 116.
This court affirmed. We held that the trial court had no authority “to issue [an order of support] against a husband who was neither the biological nor adoptive parent of the child for whom support was sought.” Id., 116-17. We stated that “the power of the Superior Court to dissolve a marriage emanates wholly from statute,” and that its “further authority to issue any order as to the custody, care and education of the minor children of the parties, as an incident of the dissolution action, is also governed by statute.” Id., 117. We then noted that authority “exists, under General Statutes [§ 46b-58] . . . to order support for minor children, including children adopted by both spouses and natural children of one spouse who are adopted by the other.” Id. The court also stated that the duty of support “is one imposed on parents,” and that the husband was not the child’s “parent because he was not her biological father, he was not her father by adoption, nor was he adjudged to be her father by” any of the statutory paternity provisions. Id. Finally, the court confronted the state’s public policy argument based on the husband’s written acknowledgment of paternity. The court stated: “In this case, however, public policy cuts two ways. The adoption statutes . . . express a legislative intent that no person shall acquire parental status unless certain formalities are observed. A parent has rights as well as duties. If a stepfather could acquire parental rights through the simple expedient of changing his stepchild’s birth certificate, all sorts of mischief could result.” Id., 120.
These cases stand for several propositions. First, the court’s power to adjudicate custody derives from statute, and cannot be expanded by equitable concerns. [439]*439Second, the concept of “child of the marriage” defines who is a parent for purposes of awarding custody in a dissolution action. The child of the marriage and the parent of the child are two sides of the same coin. Third, that concept derives from interpretations of the relevant statutes and not from common-law adjudication by this court. Thus, it confines the meaning of parentage to a child conceived by both of the parties,37 or to a child who either had been adopted by both parties or was a natural child of one party who had been adopted by the other.38 Fourth, under these cases, the concept of “child of the marriage,” and its corresponding definition of parentage, imposed jurisdictional limitations on the trial court’s power to enter custody orders in dissolution cases. If the child was not a “child of the marriage”— that is, if both parties were not parents of the child, within the meaning of our statutes — the court had no jurisdiction to render such orders.
The first three of these propositions remain part of our dissolution jurisprudence. In the absence of some powerful reason to overrule those precedents and a principled doctrine with which to replace them — particularly given that they have long been in existence without legislative disapproval — we would not be justified in doing so. See Conway v. Wilton, 238 Conn. 653, 682-83, 680 A.2d 242 (1996) (Peters, C. J., dissenting) (“[o]nce an appropriate interval to permit legislative [440]*440reconsideration has passed without corrective legislative action, the inference of legislative acquiescence places a significant jurisprudential limitation on our own authority to reconsider the merits of our earlier decision . . . especially . . . when the precedent involved concerns the interpretation or construction of a statute” [citation omitted; internal quotation marks omitted]).
The fourth proposition, however, namely, that the definition of parenthood imposes a jurisdictional limitation on a dissolution court with regard to custody' determinations, stands on a different footing. That proposition has been overtaken by legislation enacted as part of the 1973 revision of the dissolution statutes.
Prior to P.A. 73-373, although our dissolution statutes gave the court the jurisdiction to award to a third party visitation rights regarding a child of the marriage; General Statutes (Rev. to 1972) § 46-23;39 they limited the court’s jurisdiction to award custody of such a child to the parents of the child. General Statutes (Rev. to 1972) § 46-24;40 Michaud v. Wawruck, 209 Conn. 407, 413, 551 A.2d 738 (1988) (“[o]ur statutes recognize that visitation encompasses considerations that differ from those that govern custody”). These cases reflected that limitation.41
Section 15 of P.A. 73-373, however, eliminated that limitation by expanding the Superior Court’s jurisdiction to include the power to award custody of a child of the marriage to a third party. As codified in General [441]*441Statutes (Rev. to 1983) § 46b-56, after having been amended by No. 80-29 of the 1980 Public Acts42 and No. 81-402 of the 1981 Public Acts,43 that legislation provides in relevant part: “Subject to the provisions of section 46b-56a, the court may assign the custody of any child to the parents jointly, to either parent or to a third party, according to its best judgment upon the facts of the case and subject to such conditions and limitations as it deems equitable. ...” (Emphasis added.)
The legislative history of P.A. 73-373 supports the conclusion that this language was intended to expand the court’s jurisdiction in regard to custody orders in a dissolution case. See 16 H.R. Proc., supra, p. 1464, remarks of Representative Bingham (“[t]he only change [made by] the bill ... in the area of custody is that the court is given the right to assign custody to someone other than a parent if it is in the best interests of the children”).
In Manter v. Manter, 185 Conn. 502, 441 A.2d 146 (1981), we considered the question of third party intervention to seek custody of a child in a dissolution case pursuant to § 46b-57.44 That section procedurally supplements the third party provision of § 46b-56, by authorizing, although not requiring, the formal intervention in a dissolution case of an interested third party whose interest may not already be before the court. Cappetta v. Cappetta, 196 Conn. 10, 12-15, 490 A.2d 996 (1985). Observing that the court’s paramount consideration in a custody matter is the child’s welfare; Manter v. Manter, supra, 507; we stated that the court [442]*442may employ a flexible test in determining the varieties of interest that would authorize such an intervention, that those interests would not necessarily be confined to the traditional nuclear family model, and that they could include “such nontraditional parties as stepparents where the child’s welfare dictated that result.” Id., 508. Similarly, we have read Manter as indicating that “the [intervening] movant’s status as a former adoptive parent would not otherwise have been a disqualification automatically barring him from custody in an appropriate case.” Cappetta v. Cappetta, supra, 14. We have also recognized that, for purposes of third party custody and visitation determinations, “[traditional models of the nuclear family have come, in recent years, to be replaced by various configurations of parents, stepparents, adoptive parents and grandparents,” and we should not “assume that the welfare of children is best served by a narrow definition of those whom we permit to continue to manifest their deep concern for a child’s growth and development. ” Michaud v. Wawruck, supra, 209 Conn. 415.
The foregoing analysis demonstrates that: (1) the plaintiff is not a parent of the child within the well established definition of that term in our marital dissolution law; (2) she is, however, a third party who comes well within the ambit of § 46b-56 for consideration as a third party claimant to custody of the child; and (3) there is no jurisdictional barrier to that consideration by the trial court. The trial court’s conclusion, therefore, that it had no jurisdiction to consider the custody of the child was flawed, and the case must be remanded to that court for full consideration of the merits of the custody dispute, under the appropriate standards.
Before addressing those standards, however, we briefly and explicitly address certain of the contentions of the parties, the amici, and the concurring and dissenting opinion. First, implicit in our analysis is that [443]*443we reject the “equitable parent” doctrine.45 Using purely equitable concerns to reformulate the definition of parentage under our dissolution statutes would be inconsistent with our entire jurisprudence in the area of marital dissolution, which, as discussed, locates the source of judicial power in those statutes, and not in the court’s common-law powers of equity. Although, as we have stated, the court has broad equitable powers under those statutes; see Pasquariello v. Pasquariello, supra, 168 Conn. 585; it is clear that those powers concern the court’s authority to fashion appropriate remedies, and they have never been construed to permit the court to define parentage. Indeed, in both LaBella and Morrow, the unsuccessful adult who sought custody would have qualified under the most prominent formulation of that doctrine; see footnote 45 of this opinion; but those claims to custody were rejected by this court as a matter of statutory interpretation. Furthermore, acceptance of the equitable parent doctrine would also [444]*444be inconsistent with our statutory scheme for adoption. See General Statutes §§ 45a-706 through 45a-765. A court is not at liberty to bestow parental status independent of that scheme. Remkiewicz v. Remkiewicz, supra, 180 Conn. 120 (“adoption statutes . . . express a legislative intent that no person shall acquire parental status unless certain formalities are observed”).46 Finally, as we explain further in part IV of this opinion, where, as in this case, there is a custody disagreement between a parent and an interested third party with a powerful claim to custody, our statutes afford sufficient flexibility and discretion to the trial court to recognize that claim, [445]*445without the necessity of creating the legal fiction of an “equitable parent.”
We also reject the claim of the plaintiff and the attorney for the child, which the academy joins; see footnote 17; that the defendant is estopped from denying that the child is the issue of the marriage. In Morrow v. Morrow, supra, 165 Conn. 669, we rejected, as not supported by the record, the trial court’s determination that the husband had been estopped from recanting his declaration of parentage before the Scottish sheriff. In doing so, we noted that estoppel requires proof of two facts: (1) misleading conduct by one party; and (2) detrimental reliance thereon by the other party. Id. Likewise, the record in the present case does not support a finding of estoppel. Despite the plaintiffs claim in her brief that she did not pursue an adoption of the child because of the defendant’s assurance to her that she was the child’s mother, there is no such evidence in this record from which such an inference could be drawn.47
[446]*446The plaintiffs claim that the trial court’s conclusion that it lacked jurisdiction deprived her of equal protection of the laws must fail because of our conclusion that the trial court did have jurisdiction to adjudicate the child’s custody. On remand, the trial court will be required to exercise its custody jurisdiction.
The plaintiffs claim that the trial court was required by the child’s best interests to adjudicate her custody is simply contrary to basic jurisprudential notions. The court must first have jurisdiction in regard to the custody determination before deciding where the child’s best interests require custody to be located. In any event, on remand, the child’s best interests will be the critical factor for the court’s consideration in that custody determination.
We also reject the claim of the plaintiff and the child’s attorney that the child’s birth certificate conclusively established that the plaintiff is her mother. One does not gain parental status by virtue of false information on a birth certificate. See Remkiewicz v. Remkiewicz, supra, 180 Conn. 120 (“[i]f a stepfather could acquire parental rights through the simple expedient of changing his stepchild’s birth certificate, all sorts of mischief could result”).
Finally, we reject the reliance of the plaintiff and the child’s attorney on §§ 45a-771 through 45a-779.48 Those statutes govern the rights and status of children bom [447]*447through, and husbands and wives who consent to, the process of “heterologous artificial insemination, or artificial insemination with the semen of a donor,” referred to as “A.I.D.” General Statutes § 45a-772. They provide that “children born as a result of A.I.D. shall be deemed to acquire, in all respects, the status of a naturally conceived legitimate child of the husband and wife who consented to and requested the use of A.I.D.” General Statutes § 45a-774.
Recognizing that the plaintiff in this case does not come within the terms of these statutes, the plaintiff and the child’s attorney argue that the policy and legislative intent behind them support the plaintiffs claim of parentage. We disagree. These statutes are intended to codify, with respect to a child conceived as a result of A.I.D., “the public policy of this state . . . that every child bom to a married woman during wedlock is legitimate.” General Statutes § 45a-771 (a). Thus, to the extent that these statutes could be considered as having a public, policy effect beyond their terms, that policy would have legitimized the child as the child of the surrogate and her then husband; it could not have created parentage in the plaintiff.
We summarize the main points of the dissenting portion of the concurring and dissenting opinion in order to respond to it. First, the concurring and dissenting opinion agrees that, as a matter of statutory interpretation, the concept of “child of the marriage” is incorporated into § 46b-56 (a). The analysis of that opinion diverges from ours, however, starting with the proposition that, historically, the concept of the “child of the marriage,” as incorporated in § 46b-56 (a), was “to distinguish between illegitimate and legitimate offspring.” That opinion then asserts that “[c]hildren who otherwise might have been deemed illegitimate were presumed at common law to be ‘children of the marriage’ if they were bom to the wife during the course of the [448]*448marriage or, if bom prior to the marriage, they were adopted by the nonbiological parent.” (Emphasis added.) For these propositions, the opinion cites several authorities, principally Morrow v. Morrow, supra, 165 Conn. 668-69, 84 A.L.R.4th 655, 679-84 (1991), note, “Presumption of Legitimacy of a Child Born in Wedlock,” 33 Harv. L. Rev. 306 (1919-20), and J. Ayer, Jr., “Legitimacy and Marriage,” 16 Harv. L. Rev. 22, 23 (1902-1903).
The concurring and dissenting opinion then derives from the history of the dissolution statutes a legislative recognition “that there are certain factual circumstances under which a child who is the biological or adopted child of only one of the parties to the marriage is nonetheless considered a ‘child of the marriage’ for the purposes of determining . . . custody.” That opinion then asserts that the “historical significance” of the concept of the child of the marriage “obliges the court to expand the term ‘child of the marriage’ beyond the gatekeeping function assigned to it by the majority.” The concurring and dissenting opinion concludes that, although § 46b-56 continues to require that the subject of a custody dispute be a “child of the marriage,” it “no longer requires that in every case the child be the biological or the adopted child of both parties to the marriage.”
The concurring and dissenting opinion then attempts to explain away the conflict between this conclusion and Remkiewicz v. Remkiewicz, supra, 180 Conn. 114, Morrow v. Morrow, supra, 165 Conn. 665, and LaBella v. LaBella, supra, 134 Conn. 312, by distinguishing those cases on the basis that their holdings “are inapposite to the facts of this case, in which the parties were married to raise this child . . . .”49 (Emphasis added.) [449]*449In this connection, the concurring and dissenting opinion also asserts that “/b]oth the plaintiff and the defendant intended from the time the child was conceived that they should be the only mother and father the child ever knew.” (Emphasis added.) Finally, the opinion concludes that the child should be considered a child of the marriage because, “[although the parties failed to finalize their relationship with the child through the proper probate procedures,” it is clear that they intended that the plaintiff should have all the rights and responsibilities of a mother.
The reasoning of the concurring and dissenting opinion is flawed. First, there is little evidence for its historical assertion that the purpose of the concept of the child of the marriage, as used in § 46b-56 (a), was to distinguish between legitimate and illegitimate children.
For example, the reference to Morrow is unavailing in this regard. Although Morrow did, in quoting from LaBella v. LaBella, supra, 134 Conn. 316, refer to the fact that the mother is the guardian of the person “ ‘of an illegitimate child’ Morrow v. Morrow, supra, 165 Conn. 668; that hardly establishes the proposition that, when the legislature started using the term “child of the marriage” in 1837, its purpose was to distinguish between legitimate and illegitimate children. Moreover, the reference in the concurring and dissenting opinion to Morrow v. Morrow, supra, 669, to support its assertion that “[c]hildren who otherwise might have been deemed illegitimate were presumed at common law to [450]*450be ‘children of the marriage’ ... if bom prior to the marriage, they were adopted by the nonbiological parent,” is erroneous. (Emphasis added.) In fact, in discussing children bom prior to the marriage and subsequently adopted, the court referred, not to any common-law principle regarding legitimacy, but to then General Statutes § 46-26a. The court noted that “[o]ur present statutes have expanded the jurisdiction of the Superior Court, by providing that ‘[t]he authority of the superior court to make and enforce orders and decrees as to ... custody ... is extended to children adopted by both parties and any natural child of one of the parties who has been adopted by the other.’ General Statutes § 46-26a.” Morrow v. Morrow, supra, 668-69.
If anything, this reference reinforces our view that the concept of parentage under our dissolution statutes has developed legislatively, rather than by a process of case-by-case judicial lawmaking based on equitable principles. Indeed, the concurring and dissenting opinion cannot cite one case, because there is none, in our more than 160 years of statutory dissolution jurisprudence, in which the court, rather than the legislature, has expanded the definition of a child of the marriage. Additionally, whenever such a judicial expansion has been sought, the court has reiterated the principle that our power over custody matters derives from the statutes.
Moreover, the other authorities that the concurring and dissenting opinion marshals for its historical assertion do not strongly support it. Although the two Harvard Law Review articles cited in that opinion discuss the law of legitimacy of children in great detail, neither of them refers in any way to the concept of a “child of the marriage.”50 See note, supra, 33 Harv. L. Rev. 306; J. Ayer, Jr., supra, 16 Harv. L. Rev. 22.
[451]*451Second, even if we were to accept the assertion that, originally, the legislative purpose of the concept of the child of the marriage was to differentiate between legitimate and illegitimate children, that does not mean, as the concurring and dissenting opinion suggests, that we are free to jettison what has become its established meaning and jurisprudence, and to supply a new meaning contrary to that jurisprudence. As we have indicated, the history of our dissolution statutes makes clear that, despite what might be the historical origins of the concept of a child of the marriage, its statutory function for many decades has been to define who is a parent for purposes of determining custody in a dissolution action. That history also establishes that our power to adjudicate custody derives from statute and not from considerations of equity, and that, despite the suggestion of the concurring and dissenting opinion to the contrary, the meaning of the concept of a child of the marriage has been the result of statutory amendment and interpretation and not common-law adjudication unfettered by statutory interpretation. Indeed, it was not until 1976, when the legislature enacted what is now the last sentence of § 46b-60,51 that a child bom to an unmarried couple who later married was “deemed a child of the marriage.” Thus, we disagree with the contention in the concurring and dissenting opinion that, despite this history, we are “obliged” — the opinion does not explain the source of this obligation — to expand the concept beyond its established meaning.
[452]*452Third, the factual underpinnings of the conclusion in the concurring and dissenting opinion that the child in this case is a “child of the marriage” is not supported by the record. That opinion brings this child within that language by its factual assertions that “the parties were married to raise this child,” and that “the [parties] intended from the time the child was conceived that they should be the only mother and father the child ever knew.” There are no such findings by the trial court, however, and neither the evidence nor the court’s findings necessarily imply these facts. The court found that, although both parties desired to have children, “the defendant clearly expressed his determination to have a child, with or without the plaintiff’s cooperation.” (Emphasis added.) Consistent with that determination, the court also found that it was the defendant who sought the surrogate through the newspapers. Furthermore, it is undisputed that the parties’ marriage did not take place until approximately four months after the child was conceived. Thus, it cannot be definitively said on the basis of this record that the purpose of this marriage was to raise this child, or that when the child was conceived both the plaintiff and the defendant intended that they would both be the only parents that the child would ever know. Although those would have been permissible inferences, had the court drawn them, they are not necessary inferences from either the findings or the undisputed evidence. We simply do not know what specifically was in the defendant’s mind, regarding marriage to the plaintiff, when the artificial insemination took place.
Indeed, the reliance of the concurring and dissenting opinion on these assertions — that the purpose of this marriage was to raise this child and that, therefore, this is a “child of the marriage” — demonstrates the fragility of the reasoning of that opinion. Had the parties been married and without children for two or three years, [453]*453and then decided that they wanted a child and went through the same surrogacy arrangement and child rearing, under the rationale of the concurring and dissenting opinion it could not be said that the parties were married in order to raise the child. Presumably, therefore, under that scenario the child would not be a “child of the marriage.” It is difficult to see, however, why in principle that child would be any more or less a child of the marriage than the child in this case. This inconsistency demonstrates that the concurring and dissenting opinion really relies on its own unarticulated version of the equitable parent doctrine, despite its disavowal of that doctrine.
Fourth, the concurring and dissenting opinion passes over the pertinence of our adoption statutes with only a passing reference to the parties’ “failure] to finalize their relationship with the child through the proper probate procedures.” Our adoption statutes embody significant substantive and procedural requirements that the legislature has mandated must be met before one may become an adoptive parent. See General Statutes §§ 45a-706 through 45a-765. These requirements rest on important public policies for the protection of all concerned — the child, the biological parents and the adoptive parents. The concurring and dissenting opinion, through what may be a laudable desire to supply a “legal” mother for this child for purposes of § 46b-56, ignores those statutes and the public policies on which they rest, and in effect would validate a kind of de facto adoption in this case. We decline to do so.
At bottom, despite its disavowal of the equitable parent doctrine, the concurring and dissenting opinion is most plausibly read as an unarticulated application of that doctrine. By focusing on the admittedly sympathetic facts of this particular marriage and this particular child, while simply sweeping away our established law and the history of dissolution and custody matters, [454]*454the concurring and dissenting opinion would transform the legislative concept of the child of the marriage into the judicial concept of the equitable parent. For the reasons articulated elsewhere in this opinion, we decline to follow that path.
IV
Having concluded that the trial court had jurisdiction to adjudicate the custody of the child as between the defendant, as the child’s father, and the plaintiff, as a third party asserting a claim to custody, giving due regard to the statutory presumption afforded by § 46b-56b, we turn to a discussion of the potential effect of that statutory presumption in this case, in order to give some guidance to the trial court on remand. Section 46b-56b provides: “In any dispute as to the custody of a minor child involving a parent and a nonparent, there shall be a presumption that it is in the best interest of the child to be in the custody of the parent, which presumption may be rebutted by showing that it would be detrimental to the child to permit the parent to have custody.”
“This statute was enacted to counteract the holding of McGaffin v. Roberts, 193 Conn. 393, 479 A.2d 176 (1984), cert. denied, 470 U.S. 1050, 105 S. Ct. 1747, 84 L. Ed. 2d 813 (1985), which held that [General Statutes] § 45-43 (now § 45a-606)52 did not create a presumption that a surviving parent is entitled to preference in a custody dispute.” Bristol v. Brundage, 24 Conn. App. 402, 405, 589 A.2d 1 (1991); see also Hao Thi Popp v. Lucas, 182 Conn. 545, 551, 438 A.2d 755 (1980) (in custody contest between parent and third party, constitutional right to family integrity requires presumption in favor of parent).
[455]*455“The presumption, which is one of public policy, places upon the nonparent the burden of proving sufficient facts to put the presumed fact [that it is in the best interest of the child to be in the custody of the parent] into issue.” (Internal quotation marks omitted.) Garrett’s Appeal from Probate, 44 Conn. Sup. 169, 183, 677 A.2d 1000 (1994), aff'd, 237 Conn. 233, 676 A.2d 394 (1996). “The presumption . . . does not shift the burden of proof in a custody dispute between a parent and a nonparent, but makes that burden easier [for the parent] to sustain because it gives the parent an initial advantage. [H. Clark, Law of Domestic Relations (1968) § 17.5, p. 591].” Evans v. Santoro, 6 Conn. App. 707, 711 n.3, 507 A.2d 1007 (1986). So long as due regard is given to the presumption, however, “[t]he best interests standard remains the ultimate basis of a court’s custody decision.” (Internal quotation marks omitted.) Garrett’s Appeal from Probate, supra, 183; Hao Thi Popp v. Lucas, supra, 182 Conn. 551.
As these authorities make clear, the presumption does not mean that the nonparent must, in order to rebut it, prove that the parent is unfit. It means that the parent has an initial advantage, and that the nonpar-ent must prove facts sufficient to put into issue the presumed fact that it is in the child’s best interest to be in the parent’s custody. Once those facts are established, however, the presumption disappears, and the sole touchstone of the child’s best interests remains irrespective of the parental or third party status of the adults involved. In that instance, then, neither adult— the parent or the third party — enjoys any advantage or suffers any disadvantage as a result of his or her parental or third party status.
We next address, therefore, the effect of the presumption, if any, in this case. Ordinarily, that would be a [456]*456question that we would leave to the trial court for its factual determination in the first instance. Under the extraordinary circumstances of this case, however, we conclude, for two reasons, that it is appropriate to address the effect of the presumption in the course of this appeal.
First, it is clear to us that, based on the undisputed facts of this case, the presumption has been sufficiently rebutted. Put another way, were the trial court upon our remand to fail to determine that the presumption was sufficiently rebutted, the undisputed facts of this case would compel us to conclude that its determination would be clearly erroneous. Those facts are as follows. The defendant participated in the public ruse that the plaintiff was the child’s birth mother. Furthermore, for the nearly first eight years of the child’s life, before the initiation of this action, the plaintiff and the defendant together raised and nurtured the child. In addition, for the more than seven years while this case has been litigated, in the trial court and on appeal, the parties have, by virtue of a court-approved stipulation, shared joint custody of the child, with the principal residence of the child being with the plaintiff. Under these facts, the trial court would abuse its discretion if it were to determine that the statutory presumption were not rebutted, under the standards for that determination that our case law articulates. Thus, we conclude that, as a matter of law, the presumption has been rebutted in this case.
Second, as we have noted, this case is now more than seven years old. The question of the ultimate custody of the child has been left in limbo for an extraordinary length of time. Under these circumstances, it is incumbent on us to shorten, to the extent possible, the remaining time it will take to resolve that question. By addressing and disposing of the question of the remaining effect, if any, of the statutory presumption [457]*457in this case, we exercise our sound appellate discretion so as to eliminate at least one significant question for determination following our remand.
On remand, therefore, the trial court will be required to adjudicate the custody of the child, without regard to the statutory presumption in favor of the parent afforded by § 46b-56b, based on the ultimate factor of the child’s best interest. There was ample evidence in this record that, if credited, would have been sufficient to justify an award of joint custody to both parties.53
V
We next consider the claims of the defendant that the trial court improperly: (1) found that the parties contributed equally to the breakdown of the marriage; (2) awarded periodic alimony and certain related life insurance benefits to the plaintiff; and (3) required the defendant to pay the attorney’s fees of the plaintiff and the minor child. With respect to the factual claim of the parties’ contribution to the causes of the marital breakdown, it is not necessaiy to detail the evidence supporting the court’s finding. Suffice it to say that we have examined the entire record with care, and are satisfied that the finding is supported by the evidence and must stand.
In light of our conclusion, however, that the court will be required to adjudicate the custody of the child on remand, we decline to consider the defendant’s [458]*458financial claims. The court’s custody determination may also necessitate an award of child support, and in light of the fact that the court’s financial awards ordinarily constitute a mosaic; Sunbury v. Sunbury, supra, 210 Conn. 175; the child support award may alter the other financial awards. Thus, it would serve no useful purpose to review those awards at this stage of the litigation.
The judgment of dissolution of the marriage is affirmed; the remainder of the judgment is reversed and the case is remanded for a prompt trial on the custody of the minor child and on the financial issues.
In this opinion CALLAHAN, C. J., and NORCOTT and PALMER, Js., concurred.
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