Toni Marie Steendahl, V. Marcus George Steendahl

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedJanuary 27, 2025
Docket85727-4
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

In the Matter of the Marriage of: No. 85727-4-I TONI MARIE STEENDAHL, DIVISION ONE Respondent, UNPUBLISHED OPINION and

MARCUS GEORGE STEENDAHL,

Appellant.

COBURN, J. — After Marcus Steendahl failed to respond to Toni Young’s 1 petition

for dissolution, Young obtained an order on motion for default. Steendahl later appeared

and moved to vacate the decree of dissolution and final divorce order. Trial was held

after the superior court partially granted Steendahl’s motion to vacate. Steendahl

asserts the trial court abused its discretion when it awarded Young spousal

maintenance and attorney fees. We disagree and affirm.

FACTS/PROCEDURAL HISTORY

Steendahl and Young were married in November 2018. Around that time, Young

lived and worked as a medical assistant in Kirkland. When her lease was up, Steendahl

Upon the dissolution of the parties’ marriage, the petitioner’s last name changed from 1

Steendahl to Young. We refer to the parties by their current surnames. 85727-4-I/2

wanted Young to move in with him in Lynnwood and asked her to not work. As Young

described it at trial:

since … [Steendahl] had never been married before, he said he wanted an old-fashioned wedding where the wife stays home, cooks and cleans. I’d have to have his dinner ready for him by 6:00, 6:30 at night, and that’s what he wanted. And I did that for a little over a year, and I didn’t want to do that anymore.

Steendahl denied at trial ever asking Young to not work. While still married, Young then

got a job as a medical assistant in Everett and was still working for the same employer

at the time of trial, though in a different secretarial position. Steendahl works as a

journeyman technician with the International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers.

The couple took many trips to Las Vegas during the marriage to gamble,

sometimes flying first class. Both Steendahl and Young participated in the gambling.

Young sometimes paid for tickets and paid for “VIP” entertainment for Steendahl’s

birthday, and Steendahl paid for the parties’ other expenses in Las Vegas, including

gambling and food. Young split her gambling winnings with Steendahl. Steendahl

testified to the parties receiving gambling income in amounts of $17,230 and $24,599.

In March 2022 Young petitioned for dissolution of the marriage. In May the

superior court granted Young’s motion for default due to Steendahl’s failure to respond.

In August Young filed for a domestic violence restraining order because Steendahl

falsely told police that she and her children had guns and threatened to hit her. The

order required Steendahl to leave the residence. The restraining order was ultimately

dismissed based on no domestic violence occurring between the parties. After

Steendahl moved out, he visited Young unexpectedly and uninvited, looking through the

window to see if anybody was there. He did this three or four times and would

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sometimes stay 10 hours and talk about the divorce.

On September 13 the court issued the final dissolution decree and its findings

and conclusions about the marriage. Ten days later Steendahl, through counsel, 2

moved to vacate the dissolution decree. The court vacated the decree only as to the

division of the parties’ assets and liabilities, spousal maintenance, and attorney fees.

Steendahl filed a response to Young’s petition.

A one-day bench trial occurred in July 2023. The court heard testimony from

Steendahl and Young. Young testified that Steendahl controlled bill payments and

“controlled the money.” “[S]ince he filed the taxes, everything went into his account.”

Steendahl did not share his paychecks with Young, deposit money into an account for

her, or pay her for bills she paid for while the couple lived together. Young said her

current gross monthly income is $6,496. Her 401(k) retirement account through her

employment had $1,167.36 in it at the time of trial. Young has no other retirement funds,

inheritance, real property, or assets.

Steendahl testified he withdrew money from his 401(k) account when the parties

took trips to Las Vegas. Steendahl, in addition to his 401(k) account, testified to having

three separate inheritance accounts. During the marriage Steendahl withdrew more

than $80,000 from his inheritance and explained, when questioned about the

withdrawals, that he paid for things throughout the marriage, including bills and trips.

According to Steendahl, he bought a Sleep Number bed valued at almost $6,000, spent

more than $5,400 on furniture, and bought Young a ring totaling $22,427.55. Steendahl

provided one statement from his 401(k) account from 2020 that showed an amount of

The record shows that Steendahl’s trial counsel filed a notice of appearance on 2

September 12, 2022. 3 85727-4-I/4

$155,376.31. 3

Steendahl declined to provide straightforward information in answers to some

interrogatories, and also during cross examination, as demonstrated when he was

asked about his living situation and expenses:

Q. Where do you reside? A. Right now, since I was kicked out of my apartment, my townhouse, I’ve been living at my sister’s for, like, a thousand dollars a month. Okay? Q. And do you have any proof that you’re paying your sister a thousand dollars a month? A. I can get it. Q. Do you have canceled checks that you are ready to – A. I usually pay them in cash. Q. Your sister, does she own a house? A. Yes. Q. Do you know what her mortgage is? A. She don’t have a mortgage. Q. So you just give her a thousand dollars a month as a contribution for your living expenses? A. Well, do you pay rent? Q. I’m asking the questions, sir. A. Well, I mean, it’s a pretty stupid question because a person pays rent for living. Q. Sir, does that cover your food and part of the utilities or just – A. Yes, it does. Q. And the rental? A. I just pay her a flat thousand dollars for the rent every month. Q. And again, it’s cash? A. Yes. Q. Where were you living last month? A. I just told you. At my sister’s. Q. So in June, you were living at your sister’s? A. Yes. Q. I’m handing you what has been marked Exhibit 5. Do you know what that is a copy of? A. Yes. Q. What is it a copy of? A. Well, not – I don’t know. It’s mistaken, because I was living

3 The 2020 amount in Steendahl’s 401(k) account was not testified to, but the court stated the $155,376.31 amount in its oral ruling, which Steendahl does not challenge. Young’s counsel stated that Steendahl provided the 2020 account information as part of discovery. It appears the 2020 statement is in the record. 4 85727-4-I/5

at my sister … I have two sisters. … Okay? Q. What is that a copy of? A. A response to interrogatories. MS. TRUA [Young’s counsel]: Move to admit Exhibit 5. THE WITNESS [Steendahl]: Yes. MS. TRUA: Move to admit. THE COURT: That’s to me. …. THE WITNESS: The only problem is that It’s my – THE COURT: Sir, let’s wait until after we address this.

Steendahl’s testimony continued:

Q. Could I please direct you to Exhibit 5, Mr. Steendahl? These are your responses. Question 4, was, What is your present address, email, and telephone number? Your answers contained on Exhibit 5, you listed, Carl Gaul, correct? Is that what you listed, sir? A. No. No. Q. So this – these answers aren’t what you – what you listed? A. The way you’re asking them, okay, then no. I didn’t answer these. Yeah. …. A. All these things are written. I didn’t fill out anything like this.

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