MURPHY, Chief Judge.
Judges and lawyers are often confronted with the difficult process of determining precisely how a legal principle that is easy to state should be applied to a particular set of facts. Over fifty years ago, Dean McCormick declared that cases dealing with the admissibility of “other crimes evidence” are “as numerous as the sands of the sea.” McCormick, Evidence, 1954, p. 307 n. 2. In Judge Weinstein’s Evidence treatise, he comments that “the question of when evidence of a particular criminal act may be admitted is so perplexing that the cases sometimes seem as numerous ‘as the sands of the sea’ and often cannot be reconciled.” 2 Weinstein’s Evidence, P 404(08), p. 404-40 (1978). In Yorke v. State, 315 Md. 578, 556 A.2d 230 (1989), while affirming the denial of a motion for new trial, the Court of Appeals stated:
All in all, we are constrained to conclude that the courts generally play by ear with an ad hoc approach whether the newly discovered evidence calls for a new trial, no matter what words they use to describe the standard alleged to support the decision. It seems that they actually lean on [597]*597the assertion, which has become a cliche, regarding hardcore pornography made by Justice Stewart, concurring in Jacobellis v. Ohio, 378 U.S. 184, 197, 84 S.Ct. 1676, 12 L.Ed.2d 793 (1964): “I know it when I see it.”
Id. at 586-87, 556 A.2d 230. These observations are equally applicable to cases that involve the principal issue in the case at bar: whether a dependent spouse is entitled to “rehabilitative” alimony or “indefinite” alimony.1
The parties to this appeal from the Circuit Court for Montgomery County — Susan Simonds, appellant, and Robert Simonds, appellee — were divorced by a judgment of absolute divorce entered on March 6, 2004. That judgment included an award of “rehabilitative” alimony to appellant, who argued for an award of “indefinite” alimony. Appellant now argues to us that, in deciding the financial issues raised by the parties, the circuit court made seven erroneous rulings:
I. The trial court erred in denying Ms. Simonds’ claim for indefinite alimony, by failing to make required findings about whether Ms. Simonds is capable of becoming self-supporting, the time necessary for her to become so, and whether, after making as much progress as she could reasonably be expected to make before becoming self-supporting, an unconscionable disparity would not still exist between the parties respective standards of living.
II. The court erred in denying indefinite alimony and awarding Ms. Simonds oniy rehabilitative alimony for three years in a decreasing amount, given the vast disparity in the parties’ incomes, the duration of the marriage, the grounds for divorce, Ms. Simonds’ significant hiatus from the workforce to care for the children, her continuing childcare responsibilities, the specific finding that she was not voluntarily impoverished, and the lack of any discussion in the [598]*598Court’s opinion to distinguish the many other appellate cases which suggest that an award of indefinite alimony is appropriate when the payor’s income is twenty-nine times that of the recipient.
III. The trial court erred in providing for an automatic downward modification of the alimony payable to Ms. Simonds at a specific date in the future, without regard to what the actual financial circumstances of the parties might be on the future date when the automatic modification is ordered to take place, and without any explanation justifying the amount to which Mr. Simonds’ support obligation will be adjusted.
IV. The trial court erred in providing for an automatic in futuro modification of Mr. Simonds’ child support payments without regard to what the actual financial circumstances of the parties might be at the time each future modification is to take place.
V. The trial court erred in not finding that payments made by Mr. Simonds to, on behalf of and for the benefit of his girlfriends constituted dissipation of marital assets warranting the court’s treatment of those funds as extant for purposes of the monetary award to Ms. Simonds.
VI. The trial court erred by ordering that the parties repay from the proceeds of sale of the family home a $25,000 loan from Mr. Simonds’ father to him.
VII. The trial court erred by denying, without explanation, Ms. Simonds’ request for contribution to her attorney’s fees, suit money and court costs, when the parties’ incomes were vastly disparate, Ms. Simonds received no more than one-half of the marital property, incurred far less in attorneys’s fees than Mr. Simonds even though she was the one who had to pursue the bulk of the discovery regarding marital assets, and where Mr. Simonds, during the course of the litigation, retained control of almost all of the [599]*599liquid marital assets and utilized nearly $100,000 of them to pay his own attorney’s fees, while Ms. Simonds was relegated to borrowing from her family to pay her fees.
For the reasons that follow, we shall (1) vacate those portions of the judgment that (a) deny appellant’s claims for permanent alimony and attorney’s fees, and (b) establish the amount of appellant’s monetary award; (2) remand for further proceedings not inconsistent with this opinion; and (3) direct that the portions of the judgment that are vacated be transformed into pendente lite orders that shall remain in force and effect until the parties are once again before the circuit court.
Background
The circuit court’s JUDGMENT OF ABSOLUTE DIVORCE included the following findings of fact and conclusions of law:
The parties are residents of Montgomery County, Maryland and have resided in the county for at least one year. [Appellant] is forty-five (45) years of age and [appellee] is forty-four (44) years of age; they were married on July 25, 1981 in San Mateo, California. [They] separated May 11, 2002 when [appellee] moved out of the family home after having an extra-marital affair with a co-worker.
[Appellant] obtained her Bachelor of Science Degrees in English and History. Throughout the marriage she remained out of the workforce for approximately fifteen (15) years to care for the children and maintain the household. Since the separation, [appellant] has worked part-time working approximately twenty (20) hours at two positions. One position is as a part-time office assistant in a medical office earning approximately $12.50 per hour. The other position is at a publishing company from home earning $20.00 per hour. Prior to having children, [appellant] worked for a publishing company in California as a promotion assistant and then as a copyright assistant. [Appellant] testified that she is capable of working greater hours but does not in order to have greater availability for the [600]*600children in the afternoons when they arrive home from school, the benefit they have had while attending school.
[Appellee] is presently Vice President of Content Management of EMC (formally Legato); his base salary in this position is $205,000 with bonus opportunity that ranges from zero to $15,000 a year.
Three children were born of the marriage; Mary Simonds was born June 12,1.986 and will be graduating from Churchill High School in June 2004, Rebecca Simonds was born June 25, 1989 and is a freshman at Churchill High School. Robert Simonds was born September 12, 1995 and is in school full-time.
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Monetary Award
Pursuant to Family Law § 8-205(a), after the Court determines which property is marital, and the value of that marital property, the Court may transfer ownership of an interest in pension, retirement, profit sharing, or deferred compensation plan for one party to either or both parties, grant a monetary award, or both as an adjustment of the equities and rights of parties concerning marital property. To accomplish an equitable division of marital property in this case, the Court will grant a monetary award subject to the factors in order to determine the amount and the method of payment of a monetary award, or the terms of the transfer of the interest in the pension, retirement, profit sharing, or deferred compensation plan, or both as follows:
1. The contribution, monetary and non-monetary, of each party to the well being of the family.
Both parties contributed to the marriage, however, [Appellant] contributed more non-monetarily, as she stayed at home with the children. However, Defendant contributed more monetarily as he was the principal wage earner for the family. The Court finds that both parties contributed to the marriage in their respective ways.
[601]*6012. The value of all property interest in each party. [The opinion includes a chart which identified each party’s interest in each piece of marital property. The value of the property was $1,565,439.43. The total liens were $891,808.66. The total value of the property (minus liens) was $698,630.82. Appellant’s share was $308,714.68, and appellee’s share was $398,916.13.]
3. The economic circumstances of each party at the time the award is to he made.
There is a substantial disparity between the incomes of the party, as [Appellant] is currently only employed part-time. [Appellee]’s base salary in this position is $205,000 with bonus opportunity that ranges from zero to $15,000 a year. [Appellant] currently earns $12.50 per hour as a medical receptionist and $20.00 per hour as a publishing assistant.
A The circumstances that contributed to the estrangement of the parties
The court finds that there was marital discord towards the end of the marriage, but ultimately it was [Appellee]’s infidelity that led to the demise.
5. The duration of the marriage
The parties married on July 25, 1981. The parties have been mariied for over 22 years.
6. The age of the parties
The [Appellant] is forty-five (45) years of age and [Appellee] is forty-four (44) years of age.
7. The physical and mental condition of each party Both parties are under no physical or mental impairments, and therefore are in good health.
8. How and when specific marital property or an interest in pension deferred compensation, etc was acquired, including th,e effort expended by each party.
The parties acquired [the] majority of the property during the duration of [their] marriage. The IRAs, savings, and checking accounts accrued value during the marriage. A [602]*602QDRO has been executed in reference to the [Appellee]’s Stock options from Legato, Inc.
9. Contributions to the acquisition of real property held by tenants by entirety.
The parties obtained approximately $25,000 from [Appelleers father as a loan. This is a marital debt that must be paid off equally between the parties from the proceeds of the sale of the home.
10. Any award of alimony.
The court has determined based on the disparity of the incomes of the parties, that the [Appellant] is entitled to Rehabilitative alimony for a period of 3 years because of her skills and marketability as well as her young age.
11. Any other factors, as the Court determines necessary to consider in order arriving at a fair and equitable monetary award.
The [Appellant] asserts that the [Appellee] dissipated the marital funds. The Court deems that there was no evidence presented in court to support this allegation. Further, [Appellee] asserts that [Appellant] has involuntarily impoverished herself by not working more hours. Again, the Court deems that there was no evidence presented in court to support this allegation.
The Court upon review of the factors for monetary award determines that the [Appellant] shall be awarded $43,100.73.
ORDERED, that the Judgment in the amount of $43,100.73 be entered in favor of the [Appellant] against the [Appellee]; and it is further
ORDERED, that the $25,000 loan from [Appellee]’s father be reimbursed equally between the parties.
Alimony
The Court finds that there is substantial disparity between the parties’ incomes. The [Appellant's past employment skills, combined with her young age, will aid in her [603]*603obtaining employment in the future. For the reasons stated above, the Court finds that [Appellant] is entitled to rehabilitative alimony for a period of 3 years, until April 5, 2007. Therefore, it is
ORDERED, the [Appellee] shall pay [Appellant] $5,500 per month for the first twenty-four (24) months beginning April 5, 2004; and it is further
ORDERED, that [Appellee] will pay the last twelve (12) months of alimony to [Appellant] in the amount of $4,500 per month to allow the [Appellant] to find suitable employment and become self-sufficient ....
Child Support
The Court finds that [Appellee] has sufficient means to provide for child support for the three minor children. The Court has determined that there will be four levels of child support. Each level corresponds to the alimony awarded to [Appellant]. The first level corresponds to [Appellant’s alimony award of $5,500[,] and until Mary graduates from high school in June 2004[,] Child support of $3,133.00 per month will be awarded in accordance with the Statutory Child Support Guidelines as calculated on the Court’s worksheet attached thereto. The second level corresponds to [Appellant’s] alimony award of $5,500 for the first two years of alimony and after Mary graduates. Child support of $2,502.00 per month will be awarded in accordance with the Statutory Child Support Guidelines as calculated on the Court’s worksheet attached thereto. The third level corresponds to [Appellant’s alimony award of $4,500 for the last year of alimony. Child support of $2,608.00 per month will be awarded in accordance with the Statutory Child Support Guidelines as calculated on the Court’s worksheet attached thereto. The fourth level corresponds to the years following the end of alimony and Rebecca graduating from high school. Child support of $1,961.00 per month will be awarded in accordance with the Statutory Child Support Guide[604]*604lines as calculated on the Court’s worksheet attached thereto.
Attorney’s Fees
The Maryland Annotated Code, Family Law § 11— 110(c)(1), states that prior to ordering payment of attorney’s fees [generated] in the quest for alimony, “the Court shall consider, (1) the financial resources and financial needs of both parties, and (2) whether there was substantial justification for prosecuting or defending the proceeding.”
The financial resources and needs of the parties, which were presented at trial through exhibits and testimony, and have been considered. It is
ORDERED, that each party will be responsible for [his/ her] respective attorney’s fees[.]
This appeal followed.
In determining whether an award of alimony is appropriate the trial court must consider “all of the [12] factors necessary for a fair and equitable award” set forth in the Md.Code Ann., Family Law Article (“FL”) § 11-106(b) (2003).2 These factors are non-exclusive, and “although the [605]*605court is not required to use a formal checklist, the court must demonstrate consideration of all necessary factors.” Roginsky v. Blake-Roginsky, 129 Md.App. 132, 143, 740 A.2d 125 (1999). After considering the twelve factors, the trial court must then decide whether to grant rehabilitative or indefinite alimony.
[I]t is well settled in Maryland that the ‘statutory scheme generally favors fixed-term or so-called rehabilitative alimony,’ rather than indefinite alimony. Tracey v. Tracey, 328 Md. 380, 391, 614 A.2d 590, 596 (1992) see also Turrisi v. Sanzaro, 308 Md. 515, 524-525, 520 A.2d 1080, 1085 (1987). Underlying Maryland’s statutory preference is the conviction that “the purpose of alimony is not to provide a lifetime pension, but where practicable to ease the transition for the parties from the joint married state to their new status as single people living apart and independently.” Tracey, 328 Md. at 391, 614 A.2d at 596 (citing the 1980 Report of the Governor’s Commission on Domestic Relations Laws, at 4, hereinafter “1980 Report”). Nonetheless, rehabilitative alimony alone may not be appropriate in every case. Id. at 391, 614 A.2d at 594 (citing Turrisi, 308 Md. at 525, 520 A.2d at 1085).
Solomon v. Solomon, 383 Md. 176, 194-95, 857 A.2d 1109 (2004).3 Two years earlier, this Court stated:
[606]*606The essential purpose of alimony was changed with the adoption of the Maryland Alimony Act in 1980 (“Act”). Where the principal function of alimony once had been maintenance of the recipient, dependent spouse’s standard of living, upon passage of the Act, that function became rehabilitation of the economically dependant spouse.
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The exceptions [to the general rule that alimony be temporary and rehabilitative] are addressed in Md.Code (1999 RepLVol., 2000 Supp.), section 11-106(c) of the Family Law Article (“FL”).... Under the second exception, the court may award indefinite alimony upon a finding that
even after the party seeking alimony will have made as much progress toward becoming self-supporting as can reasonably be expected, the respective standards of living of the parties will be unconscionably disparate.
' FL § ll-106(c)(2).
Karmand v. Karmand, 145 Md.App. 317, 327-29, 802 A.2d 1106 (2002).
In Karmand, while affirming the circuit court’s denial of indefinite alimony, we emphasized that “[a] mere difference in earnings of spouses, even if it is substantial, and even if earnings are the primary means of assessing the parties’ post-divorce living standards, does not automatically establish an ‘unconscionable disparity’ in standards of living. To constitute a ‘disparity,’ the standards of living must be fundamentally and entirely dissimilar.” Id. at 336, 802 A.2d 1106.
Last year, while vacating an award of indefinite alimony and remanding for further proceedings on that issue,4 this Court stated:
[607]*607The spouse seeking indefinite alimony bears the burden of proof as to the existence of the prerequisites to entitlement to such an award. Thomasian v. Thomasian, 79 Md.App. 188, 195, 556 A.2d 675 (1989).
In order to exercise its discretion to award indefinite alimony on the ground of “unconscionable disparity,” under FL section 11 — 106(c)(2), the equity court must find that, even though the party seeking indefinite alimony can make substantial progress toward becoming self-supporting, at the time that maximum progress reasonably is expected, the standards of living of the parties will be unconscionably disparate. Blaine, supra, 336 Md. at 64, 646 A.2d 413; Roginsky v. Blake-Roginsky, 129 Md.App. 132, 141-42, 740 A.2d 125 (1999). Thus, deciding a request for indefinite alimony under FL section 11-106(c)(2) entails projecting forward in time to the point when the requesting spouse will have made maximum financial progress, and comparing the relative standards of living of the parties at that future time. Roginsky, supra, 129 Md.App. at 146, 740 A.2d 125. See Blaine, supra, 336 Md. at 64, 646 A.2d 413 (commenting that, because the language of section ll-106(c)(2) is prospective, it “in effect requir[es] ... the court [to] make a prediction as to the success of the dependent spouse’s efforts to become self-sufficient”).
Francz v. Francz, 157 Md.App. 676, 692, 853 A.2d 839 (2004).
“In cases where ... the dependent spouse will be self-supporting but still a gross inequity will exist, a court may award alimony for an indefinite period.” See Brewer v. Brewer, 156 Md.App. 77, 100-101, 846 A.2d 1 (2004); quoting Roginsky, 129 Md.App. at 141, 740 A.2d 125. Whether unconscionable disparity does or does not exist presents a question of fact, and the circuit court’s finding of fact is reviewed under the clearly erroneous standard. Solomon, 383 Md. at 196, 857 [608]*608A.2d 1109. The amount of alimony awarded is reviewed under the abuse of discretion standard. Id.
In the case at bar, the circuit court found that there is — at the present time — a “substantial disparity” between the parties’ incomes. A finding to the contrary would have been clearly erroneous. Based upon that finding, the circuit court proceeded to award rehabilitative alimony for three years, explaining that “appellant’s past employment skills, combined with her young age, will aid in her obtaining employment in the future.” The circuit court, however, did not address the issue of whether a “gross inequity” will continue to exist once appellant is employed in a position that maximizes her earning potential.5 It is true that “the factors underlying alimony, a monetary award, and counsel fees are so interrelated that, when a trial court considers a claim for any one of them, it must weigh the award of any other.” Turner v. Turner, 147 Md.App. 350, 400, 809 A.2d 18 (2002). It is also true, however, that the circuit court must make specific findings regarding the incomes of the parties and the ability of the alimony recipient to become self supporting. Brewer v. Brewer, 156 Md.App. 77, 100, 846 A.2d 1 (2004).
In Solomon, while analyzing an indefinite alimony award that Mr. Solomon claimed was sufficient,6 the Court of Appeals stated:
There are very few reported Maryland cases in which a challenge to the adequacy of the amount of an indefinite alimony award was mounted. Usually the attack has been on the threshold determination of whether an uneonsciona[609]*609ble disparity existed at all. There are several cases in which Maryland appellate courts found unconscionable disparity based on the relative percentage the defendant spouse’s income was of the other spouse’s income. See Tracey, 328 Md. at 393, 614 A.2d at 597 (28 percent); Caldwell v. Caldwell, 103 Md.App. 452, 464, 653 A.2d 994, 999 (1995)(43 percent); Blaine v. Blaine, 97 Md.App. 689, 708, 632 A.2d 191, 201 (1993) aff'd on other grounds, 336 Md. 49, 646 A.2d 413 (1994)(23 percent); Rock v. Rock, 86 Md.App. 598, 613, 587 A.2d 1133, 1140 (1991)(20-30 percent); Broseus v. Broseus, 82 Md.App. 183, 186, 570 A.2d 874, 880 (1990)(46 percent); Bricker v. Bricker 78 Md.App. 570, 577, 554 A.2d 444, 447 (1989)(35 percent); Benkin v. Benkin, 71 Md.App. 191, 199, 524 A.2d 789, 793 (1987)(16 percent); Zorich v. Zorich, 63 Md.App. 710, 717, 493 A.2d 1096, 1099 (1985)(20 percent); Kennedy v. Kennedy, 55 Md.App. 299, 307, 462 A.2d 1208, 1214 (1983)(33 percent). Although we do not adopt a standard that unconscionable disparity exists based on a particular percentage comparison of gross or net income, the relative percentages in these cases offer some guidance in assessing whether the amount of the indefinite alimony award alleviated adequately the unconscionably disparate situation found to exist in the present case.
383 Md. at 198, 857 A.2d 1109.
In Solomon, the circuit court found that (1) if Mrs. Solomon worked to her employment potential, she could earn $25,000 per year, and (2) Mr. Solomon earned $1,050,000 per year. Based upon these findings, the circuit court concluded that, “even after the party seeking alimony will have made as much progress toward becoming self-supporting as can be reasonably expected, the respective standards of living of the parties will be unconscionably disparate.” Mrs. Solomon had been awarded $60,000 per year in indefinite alimony. The Court of Appeals held that, “although the Circuit Court was correct in recognizing an unconscionable disparity between the parties, the indefinite alimony award it provided did not alleviate that disparity adequately.” Id. at 201, 857 A.2d 1109.
[610]*610The “unconscionable disparity” cases cited with approval in Solomon involved awards of permanent alimony that ranged from a dependent spouse making 16 percent of the other spouse’s income to a dependent spouse making 43 percent of the other spouse’s income. The Solomon Court made a numerical comparison of the Solomons’ yearly incomes, an approach taken by this Court in Turner v. Turner, 147 Md.App. 350, 809 A.2d 18 (2002), when we (1) calculated the income of Mrs. Turner, including alimony and imputed earnings, and (2) calculated Mr. Turner’s income, less alimony payments, to determine that Mrs. Turner’s income was 35 percent of Mr. Turner’s income. The Solomon Court found “the analytical approach employed in Turner to be persuasive in the present case.” Solomon, 383 Md. at 199, 857 A.2d 1109. In Solomon, a court-ordered employment assessment was used to predict that Mrs. Solomon’s potential earning capacity would be close to 8.5 percent of Mr. Solomon’s income.7 Id. at 199-200, 857 A.2d 1109.
The Conflicting Factual Findings that Require a Remand
In the case at bar, appellant’s current income is approximately $12,000 per year. Taking the evidence in a light most favorable to appellee, appellant has a potential earning capacity of $45,000 per year. As stated above, the circuit court’s opinion includes its finding that appellee’s “base salary ... is $205,000 with [a] bonus opportunity that ranges from zero to $15,000 a year.” Although that factual finding is consistent with appellee’s testimony, it is in conflict with the findings that were “calculated” by the circuit court on the Child Support Obligation Worksheet that the circuit court “attached” to its opinion.8 On the Worksheet, the circuit court found that (1) appellee’s “Monthly Actual Income-Before Tax[611]*611es” is $29,000, and (2) appellee’s “Monthly Adjusted Actual Income” (adjusted for health insurance premiums and alimony) is $23,292. Thus, appellee’s child support obligation was established on the basis of a finding that his annual adjusted actual income is $279,504. We are unable to reconcile these conflicting factual findings, and must therefore remand for further proceedings at which the circuit court will (1) resolve the conflict in its factual findings on the issue of appellee’s present income, which cannot be one amount for purposes of alimony and a different amount for purposes of child support, and (2) make the additional determinations that are necessary to resolve the alimony, dissipation, and attorney’s fees issues that must be revisited in conformity with this opinion.
Required Considerations upon Remand
Appellant argues that we should (1) conclude as a matter of law that the circuit court abused its discretion in denying appellant’s claim for indefinite alimony, (2) reverse the decision to deny that claim, and (3) remand for further proceedings at the conclusion of which the circuit court must award indefinite alimony in an amount that will alleviate “adequately the unconscionably disparate situation found to exist in the present case.” Solomon, 383 Md. at 198, 857 A.2d 1109. This argument, however, is based upon the calculation of appellee’s income that appears on the Child Support Obligation Worksheet. In the case at bar, the circuit court (1) made inconsistent findings of fact on the question of appellee’s present income, and (2) made no findings of fact on the question of appellee’s future income. Under these circumstances, it was “error to deny [appellant’s] request [for indefinite alimony] without explicitly discussing the disparity issue.” Kelly v. Kelly, 153 Md.App. 260, 279, 836 A.2d 695 (2003). We are therefore persuaded that the circuit court must once again address the “rehabilitative”/“permanent” alimony issue by applying the following principles.
While it is useful to make a “percentage comparison” with other cases, it cannot be overemphasized that “[w]hether the post-divorce standards of living of former spouses are [612]*612unconscionably disparate only can be determined by a fact-intensive case-by-case analysis.” Karmand, 145 Md.App. at 338, 802 A.2d 1106. As the above quoted cases make clear, to determine whether there is an unconscionable disparity between the parties’ post-divorce standards of living, the circuit court cannot merely “do the math.” For example, when dissolving a 22-month marriage that (1) produced no children, (2) was entered into at a time when the 45-year old wife was earning $45,000 per year, and the 44-year old husband was earning $348,000 per year, and (3) was terminated solely as a result of the wife’s adultery, denial of the wife’s claim for indefinite alimony on the ground of unconscionable disparity would not constitute error. In the case at bar, however, the parties were married on July 25,1981, when they were in their early twenties, and the circuit court found that it was appellee’s “infidelity that led to the demise [of the marriage].” Under these circumstances, in addition to determining each party’s present and potential earning capacity, the circuit court must determine whether and/or the extent to which appellant “contributed to [appellee’s] success in building his professional career.” Solomon, 383 Md. at 201, 857 A.2d 1109. The Solomon Court emphasized that, “[although Mrs. Solomon did not play as direct a role in promoting the financial aspects of her marriage as [the dependent spouse did in Turner, supra.], her work in the home no doubt contributed to Mr. Solomon’s success in building his professional career.” Id. at 201, 857 A.2d 1109.
While this evaluation begins with a determination of each party’s actual income and/or earning potential as of (1) the day that they were married, and (2) the date of their divorce, the contributions made by the dependent spouse cannot be measured by a “one size fits all” mathematical formula. “Each divorce situation is different, and must be evaluated individually.” Alston v. Alston, 331 Md. 496, 509, 629 A.2d 70 (1993).
Upon remand, the circuit court must (1) determine each party’s actual income and/or earning potential as of (a) the day [613]*613that they were married, and (b) the date of their divorce, (2) determine whether and/or the extent to which appellant contributed to appellee’s professional success during their 22 years of marriage, and (3) include that “contribution” evaluation in its FL 11-106 analysis. Until the circuit court has the opportunity to resolve the conflicting factual findings on the question of appellee’s income, and resolve appellant’s claim for indefinite alimony in conformity with this opinion, the rehabilitative alimony award that we vacate as a “final” judgment shall be given the force and effect of a pendente lite award.
Although we vacate the child support award because the circuit court must revisit that issue, we direct that the award remain in place as a pendente lite order until the circuit court completes the further proceedings required by this opinion. For the guidance of the parties and the circuit court, however, we shall address the issue of whether the circuit court can enter a child support order that contains a provision for in futuro modifications.
In Unkle v. Unkle, 305 Md. 587, 505 A.2d 849 (1986), the Court of Appeals disapproved of an order that provided for an in futuro modification of child support based on the future sale of the marital home. In that case, however, the circuit court did not explain how it was able to predict the financial circumstances of each party at the time when the reductions would take effect. In Smith v. Freeman, 149 Md.App. 1, 814 A.2d 65 (2002), while holding that the circuit court erred in ordering an in futuro modification of child support, this Court stated: “We do not believe that it is appropriate for a court to make child support determinations on the basis of events that have not occurred yet. Life after all is full of uncertainty.” Id. at 35, 814 A.2d 65.
Unkle and Freeman are distinguishable from the case at bar. In Unkle and Freeman, the in futuro reductions were based on uncertain events. That a child will reach the age of emancipation and/or will graduate from high school is suffi[614]*614ciently probable to constitute the basis of a future reduction in child support.
Dissipation
Appellant alleges that appellee dissipated marital funds by spending money on airfare, jewelry, and other recreational activities.9 Although appellee concedes that he spent discretionary funds on behalf of non-family members, the circuit court stated that appellant had presented “no evidence” of dissipation. In Jeffcoat v. Jeff coat, 102 Md.App. 301, 649 A.2d 1137 (1994), this Court stated:
The burden of persuasion and the initial burden of production in showing dissipation is on the party making the allegation. Choate v. Choate, 97 Md.App. 347, 366, 629 A.2d 1304 (1993). That party retains throughout the burden of persuading the court that funds have been dissipated, but after that party establishes a prima facie case that monies have been dissipated, i.e. expended for the principal purpose of reducing the funds available for equitable distribution, [615]*615the burden shifts to the party who spent the money to produce evidence sufficient to show that the expenditures were appropriate.
It appears that appellant has established a prima facie showing of dissipation. The burden is now upon appellee to produce evidence of the bona fides of his expenditures.
Id. at 311-12, 649 A.2d 1137. That statement is applicable to the case at bar. While appellant was required to persuade the circuit court by a preponderance of the evidence that appellee “expended [the money at issue] for the principal purpose of reducing the funds available for equitable distribution,” id. at 311, 649 A.2d 1137, and while the circuit court might not have been persuaded that appellee did so,10 the circuit court could not reject appellant’s “dissipation” claim on the basis that she had produced “no evidence.”
Proceeds from the Sale of the Family Home
The circuit court ordered that appellant and the children would have use and possession of the family home for a period of three years. When the home is sold, the parties must pay $25,000 to appellee’s father from the proceeds of the sale. Appellant argues that the circuit court erred by finding that the loan was made to the parties jointly. We are not persuaded, however, that the circuit court was either clearly [616]*616erroneous in finding that the loan constituted “marital” debt, or abused its discretion in ordering that the loan be repaid from the proceeds of the sale.11
Appellant argues that she is entitled to attorney’s fees, suit money, and court costs. The Family Law Article permits, but does not require, an award of counsel fees, etc. to a dependent spouse.12 The circuit court has discretion to grant or to deny a request for attorney’s fees. Petrini v. Petrini, 336 Md. 453, 468, 648 A.2d 1016 (1994). That discretion must be exercised in conformity with FL § 12-103. While it is true that the denial of a dependent spouse’s request for counsel fees in a divorce action should not be reversed by the appellate court unless the ruling was “arbitrary” and/or “clearly” incorrect,13 it is also true that the appellate court cannot affirm such a ruling when the circuit court has made conflicting findings of fact on the issue of the other spouse’s income. We therefore vacate the denial of appellant’s request [617]*617for counsel fees and remand for further proceedings on this issue.
JUDGMENT AFFIRMED IN PART, AND VACATED IN PART; CASE REMANDED FOR FURTHER PROCEEDINGS NOT INCONSISTENT WITH THIS OPINION; ALIMONY AND CHILD SUPPORT PROVISIONS TO REMAIN IN FORCE AND EFFECT AS PENDENTE LITE ORDERS PENDING FURTHER ORDERS OF THE CIRCUIT COURT; APPELLANT TO PAY 25% OF THE COSTS; 75% OF THE COSTS TO BE PAID BY APPELLEE.