Shelby Brightheart-Pixie v. Dain Olsen

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided December 29, 2020·No. 53416-9·Unpublished

Opinion

Filed

Washington State

Court of Appeals

Division Two

December 29, 2020

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON DIVISION II

SHELBY SHRAUNER (n/k/a No. 53416-9-II BRIGHTHEART-PIXIE),

Appellant,

v.

DAIN OLSEN, UNPUBLISHED OPINION Respondent.

CRUSER, J. — Shelby Brightheart and Dain Olsen had a son, EB, in 2013. Brightheart and Olsen eventually separated and shared residential time with EB under an informal agreement, with Brightheart taking the role of primary residential parent. In 2017, after filing a petition for a parenting plan, Brightheart received an opportunity to become a part-owner of Skalitude, a retreat center located in the Methow Valley. Olsen opposed Brightheart’s relocation, and the parties went to trial. The trial court restrained Brightheart’s relocation and entered a parenting plan and child support order designating Olsen as EB’s primary residential parent.

Brightheart appeals from the trial court’s memorandum opinion, the order denying her petition for relocation, the final parenting plan and child support order, and the order denying her motion for reconsideration. Brightheart argues that the trial court (1) abused its discretion in denying her petition for relocation with EB because it failed to apply the statutory presumption under former RCW 26.09.520 (2000), and its findings were either unsupported by substantial

evidence or irrelevant under the factors enumerated in former RCW 26.09.520. Brightheart also requests that this court remand this case for a fact finding hearing on entry of a permanent residential schedule because (2) the trial court abused its discretion in entering the final parenting plan by not considering whether switching primary residential parents was in EB’s best interest under RCW 26.09.187(3), and (3) the trial court abused its discretion in denying her motion for reconsideration by declining to consider evidence that Brightheart would not relocate following the trial court’s denial of her petition. Brightheart further requests that this court (4) vacate the child support order and (5) remand with instructions to assign this case to a different judge.

We hold that the trial court abused its discretion in denying Brightheart’s petition for relocation. Accordingly, we reverse the trial court’s order denying Brightheart’s petition seeking relocation and remand to the trial court for further proceedings. In addition, because we reverse the trial court’s relocation order, we also reverse and vacate the permanent residential schedule and child support order, and we vacate the award of attorney fees imposed on Brightheart for filing her motion for reconsideration. On remand, we order that this case be assigned to a different judge.

FACTS

I. BACKGROUND FACTS

Brightheart and Olsen first met at a pagan spiritual gathering in 2009. The following year, the two met again when Olsen came to an “intentional community”1 and farm in Chimacum. Verbatim Report of Proceedings (VRP) (Dec. 31, 2018) at 25. Olsen was “traveling around” at

1 As the term is used by Brightheart, an “intentional community” describes a “way that people are choosing to live and work together,” and in this instance refers to a “plot of land in Chimacum where there were several families living there and working together.” Verbatim Report of Proceedings (VRP) (Dec. 31, 2018) at 25.

that time in his life, but he settled on the farm in Chimacum and became part of the community. Id. Brightheart eventually joined Olsen on the farm. While living on the farm, Brightheart and Olsen shared mutual values focused on “a connection and an honoring of the earth and of the elements of nature.” Id. at 26.

Brightheart and Olsen began their romantic relationship in 2010. Eventually, they moved to a cabin in Discovery Bay in 2011 and had a son, EB, in 2013.

Both Brightheart and Olsen have children from prior relationships. Brightheart has an older son, HS, who resides with her. Olsen has two daughters from a prior marriage. In 2008, Olsen left the Army National Guard, left his family, and took a backpack to travel the west coast of the United States, eventually arriving in Washington State where he met Brightheart. Olsen has not seen his daughters since 2010 and has no present relationship with them.

Brightheart and Olsen lived together in the Discovery Bay cabin until their separation in 2015. Olsen continues to reside in the cabin. The space consists of one large open room, a bathroom, and an upstairs bedroom loft. The cabin also has a yard and a garden patch. It is located just off Highway 101 and is surrounded by approximately 40 acres of “wooded” and “timber” property. VRP (Jan. 2, 2019) at 445. A fire station is less than one mile down the road from the cabin, and the nearest neighbors are about 150 to 200 yards away.

While Brightheart and Olsen lived on the farm in Chimacum, Olsen worked as an in-home caregiver. Olsen then started his own carpentry business in 2013. After the couple separated, Olsen worked as a security guard for two years, until 2018. He later obtained a position as a materials handler for the Department of Defense, where he continues to work.

In 2009, Brightheart received an education in childbirth and labor support, obtaining a certificate of completion from Bastyr University. She worked as a birth assistant for some time and later did an apprenticeship with an herbalist. Brightheart briefly worked at the Port Townsend Food Co-op in the herbal medicines and wellness department. However, since EB was born, Brightheart has not had traditional full time or wage-based employment. Brightheart operated the Wild Rose Forest School, a nature-based education program for children that EB attended, and she ran her herbal healing business. Her work allowed her to be present with her children and she specifically oriented her career and employment around her role as a mother.

The family also attended an event called the “Fairy and Human Relations Congress,” at the Skalitude Retreat center in the Methow Valley. Id. at 227-28. Brightheart was involved in setting up the event and coordinating the children’s program, and Olsen attended mostly to support her. The event spans several days and includes educational seminars and other activities.

Brightheart and Olsen separated in April of 2015 and Brightheart moved out of the cabin and into a “wooden-walled” yurt that she rented in Irondale with EB, then 17 months old, and HS, who was 7 years old. VRP (Dec. 31, 2018) at 77. A “yurt” is a “tent-style dwelling” that has an “open, round structure.” Id. There were no interior walls in the yurt, but the yurt did contain a kitchen with a stove, oven, refrigerator, and sink. There was no shower or bathroom inside the yurt itself, but there was a bathroom on the property.

Brightheart continued to operate the Forest School from which she earned approximately $250 to $500 a month. Although Olsen was under no legal obligation to do so, Olsen paid Brightheart $400 per month as an informal child support payment. Brightheart relied on this money, but occasionally the payments were late or were not provided at all. Olsen contends that

he was consistent in making his voluntary payments to Brightheart. Brightheart also relied on Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program benefits to make ends meet.

The parties had an informal arrangement for visitation, with Olsen spending time with EB as frequently as his work schedule permitted. This meant that Olsen spent two or three overnights per week with EB.

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