S.B. v. J.R. CA3

California Court of Appeal·Decided July 29, 2026·No. C102802·Unpublished

Opinion

Filed 7/29/26 S.B. v. J.R. CA3 NOT TO BE PUBLISHED

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IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA THIRD APPELLATE DISTRICT (Sacramento)

S.B., C102802 Plaintiff and Appellant, (Super. Ct. No. 22FL04683) v.

J.R., Defendant and Respondent.

Plaintiff father S.B. (father) and defendant mother J.R. (mother) were previously in a relationship and had a daughter together (the daughter).1 In April 2023, mother obtained a one-year domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) against father. In October 2024, the trial court granted mother’s request to renew the DVRO for five years. Father, appearing in propria persona, appeals from that order, arguing that (1) at the renewal hearing, the trial court denied him due process, and (2) the trial court’s order rests on the false premise that his conduct during custody exchanges constituted violations of the DVRO, and (3) the trial court misapplied the standard for renewal. In a February 2025 order, the trial court found that father failed to rebut the presumption in Family Code section 3044, which provides, where applicable, that “an

1 To protect their privacy, we refer to all involved by their initials and/or by their relationships to one another. (Cal. Rules of Court, rule 8.90(b)(1), (10), (11).)

1 award of sole or joint physical or legal custody of a child to a person who has perpetrated domestic violence is detrimental to the best interest of the child….” (Fam. Code, § 3044, subd. (a).)2 Father also appeals from that order, arguing that it rests on the materially false premise that he failed to comply with a 52-week batterer’s treatment program requirement which, according to father, was never ordered. We will affirm both orders.

BACKGROUND

Prior Proceedings On April 28, 2023, after a hearing, the trial court found that mother satisfied her burden of proving by a preponderance of the evidence that father engaged in conduct that amounted to abuse as defined in the Domestic Violence Prevention Act of 1993. (§ 6200 et seq.) The court issued a DVRO for a term of one year. Mother and her son from a prior relationship were the protected persons. The court stated that, as a result of the domestic violence finding, the presumption in section 3044 would apply. More than a year after issuance of the original DVRO, and following the extension of the DVRO, in an order filed June 18, 2024, the trial court ordered an exception to the DVRO’s no-contact and stay-away orders for custody exchanges on Thursdays, when the police department where those exchanges occurred was open. In an order filed July 16, 2024, the court added Saturdays to this exception, with the additional requirements that father not exit his vehicle at the Saturday exchanges, and that an adult over 21 years old be present to facilitate those exchanges.

2 Further undesignated section references are to the Family Code.

2 Hearing on Request for Renewal of DVRO

The Mother’s Case E.M. was mother’s mother. She had participated in custody exchanges at a police station in Sacramento. On two or three occasions, father asked her to deliver items to mother, but she told him that mother would not accept them. One was a gift for Mother’s Day, and one was a gift for mother’s birthday. Father made disparaging remarks about mother in the daughter’s presence, including that mother was crazy and not mentally correct. E.M. also testified that, after the most recent exchange, a car followed them, frightening her. J.C. was mother’s boyfriend. He had been present for custody exchanges. On every occasion, father would get out of his car. Father would record the exchanges, including mother, with a video camera. After the exchanges, father would sometimes wait around, seemingly for mother to come out of the police station. After one exchange, someone who had been talking to father in the parking lot followed mother and J.C. when they drove away. Mother was scared. Mother testified that, under the first restraining order, father was not supposed to show up at the custody exchanges, yet he showed up every time. Father would send gifts for her with the daughter, including flowers, cards, and a photo, and she would throw the gifts away. Father would also try to convey items to her through others during the custody exchanges. Additionally, he would relay messages with family members instead of communicating through the app they were supposed to use to discuss custody matters. Mother felt uncomfortable during the custody exchanges because father was constantly recording her with a video camera. He recorded the entirety of the exchanges. Mother also stated that father was confrontational during the exchanges. In one instance, he “stormed into the police station, [father] was accusing [her] of lying, speaking to the cop. [Father] [was] very loud, aggressive, and confrontational.” On another occasion,

3 mother was inside the police station and father sent text messages stating that he would wait out front. Mother had to get a police officer to walk her outside, and the officer effectuated the custody exchange. Father would wait outside the police station after custody exchanges until mother walked out. Then he would stand around watching her until she left. Mother testified that she had been followed by a man after a custody exchange. J.C. told her that the man who followed them had pulled into the police station parking lot at the same time as father, and he had talked with father. On another occasion, when mother and E.M. drove away from the police station, father’s father followed them. Mother testified that father had disturbed her peace or emotional calm. He never stayed 100 yards away during exchanges. She had found it necessary to call law enforcement to intervene. Mother was worried about future harm in the event the restraining order was terminated.

The Father’s Case Father testified that he was more afraid of mother than she was of him based on the way she abused the restraining orders. He claimed that mother was highly manipulative. He testified that no order prohibited him from being present at custody exchanges. He denied being aggressive or threatening. Father emphasized he had no criminal record. He testified he never instructed his parents to follow mother. Father acknowledged that, when performing custody exchanges, he did come closer than 100 yards of mother. He acknowledged on one occasion going into the police station and coming within approximately 10 to 15 feet of mother. He repeatedly testified that he used a video recorder during custody exchanges to protect himself from false allegations. He acknowledged breaking a door after a conflict. He acknowledged throwing a soda can against a garage door in frustration. He also acknowledged spanking mother’s son

4 while he was naked in the shower. Father denied that the court ordered a 52-week batterer’s treatment program.

Order Renewing DVRO In findings and an order after a hearing filed October 14, 2024, the trial court found that mother met her burden for renewal. The court based its determination on the parties’ demeanors and interactions. The court stated that father presented as aggressive, and he spoke over witnesses, counsel, and the court. The court noted that mother presented as fearful of father. The court did not find credible father’s representation that he was more afraid of mother than she was of him. The trial court relied on mother’s testimony about father’s violations of the original DVRO, including surreptitiously recording custody exchanges, including inside the police station.

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