Eneaji v. Ubboe

229 Cal. App. 4th 1457, 178 Cal. Rptr. 3d 162, 2014 Cal. App. LEXIS 866
California Court of Appeal·Decided September 25, 2014·No. B247885A·Published·Cited by 72 cases

Opinion

Opinion

FERNS, J.

Pamela Chimezie Ubboe (Ubboe) appeals from an order denying her request for a renewal of a Domestic Violence Prevention Act (Earn. Code, § 6200 et seq. 1 ) restraining order against her former spouse, Baldwin Eneaji (Eneaji). 2

On February 12, 2014, we filed an opinion reversing an order denying Ubboe’s request for renewal of a domestic violence restraining order against Eneaji. On March 18, 2014, we certified the opinion for publication. On March 19, 2014, Eneaji filed a petition for rehearing which asserted that he did not receive notice that the appeal was pending. We granted the petition for that reason. On rehearing, after consideration of the additional materials and arguments that have been submitted, we reinstate our original opinion reversing the order denying the request for a renewal of the domestic violence restraining order.

FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND

Ubboe and Eneaji were married in March 2003 and divorced in May 2010. On June 26, 2009, during the divorce proceedings, Ubboe filed a request for a *1460 domestic violence prevention restraining order against Eneaji. Ubboe described a history of verbal and physical abuse by Eneaji during the marriage. She also declared that the violent conduct continued after he moved out of their home on May 9, 2009.

Ubboe alleged that in March 2009, Eneaji asked her to move out of the house and rent an apartment; but she replied that she was not going to move. Later that day, Eneaji made her go with him to look at apartments. He tried to force her to sign a lease, but she refused. Later that day, they went to a friend’s house. While they were at the friend’s house, Eneaji got upset with Ubboe and pushed her to the ground and tried to choke her. The friend intervened and stopped Eneaji from choking Ubboe. Four days later, Ubboe filed a police report concerning the incident.

Ubboe also alleged the details of an incident that had occurred several years prior to their divorce. It happened while they were sitting in a car and talking to each other. Ubboe said something Eneaji did not like so he slapped her face with the back of his hand. In the application, Ubboe further declared “there are too many incidents in which [Eneaji]” physically abused her. Whenever he became angry, he would throw her against the wall, and would also slap and punch her. He would leave bruises all over her body whenever they argued. She would not call the police; however, her family knew that he beat her every time he got angry.

On June 26, 2009, when she and Eneaji were leaving the courthouse after a hearing in the dissolution proceedings, Eneaji asked if Ubboe could give him a ride to his car. As they were driving to his car, he told her she “could die” because she was fighting over her rights to their house. She asked if that meant that she could get killed, Eneaji said, “yes.” Because she feared for her safety, she returned to the courthouse to request a restraining order. The trial court issued a domestic violence temporary restraining order that prohibited Eneaji from, among other things, harassing, attacking, threatening, hitting, following, or stalking Ubboe. He was also ordered to remain 100 yards away from Ubboe’s person, home, job and vehicle.

On July 17, 2009, the trial court issued a domestic violence prevention restraining order against Eneaji for a term of three years. Eneaji was prohibited from doing the following things to Ubboe: harassing, attacking, striking, threatening, assaulting, hitting, following, stalking, molesting, destroying her personal property, disturbing the peace, keeping her under surveillance, or blocking her movements. Eneaji was ordered not to directly or indirectly contact or telephone Ubboe. He was ordered to stay 100 yards from Ubboe, her home, job and vehicle.

*1461 On July 16, 2012, Ubboe filed a request for a permanent renewal of the domestic violence prevention restraining order. In the request, Ubboe declared that she continued to fear Eneaji because of the abuse during the marriage. Eneaji had also communicated with her, in violation of the restraining order. She alleged that on March 7, 2010, she was driving to church when Eneaji pulled up in a car next to her and looked over at her. She panicked and sped up in front of him. When she pulled into the church parking lot, he followed her. Because she was afraid, she pulled out her cell phone to call the police. When she picked up the cell phone, the car Eneaji was in drove away. Ubboe filed a police report of the incident, which was attached to her renewal application.

In the application, Ubboe further alleged that in early 2011 she went to a Ross Dress for Less store in West Los Angeles. When she was about to check out, she saw Eneaji at the checkout counter. He began calling to her in Nigerian, which is their native language. He told her to come over to him because he wanted to show her some pictures. This contact frightened her since she just wanted him to leave her alone. After he checked out, he stood outside the entrance to the store, watched Ubboe and smiled at her. This encounter terrified her. She headed back into the store and called a friend. Ubboe thought she needed to tell someone what was happening in case Eneaji harmed her.

In addition to the above incidents, Ubboe believed that there were times when Eneaji was lurking outside her home in the evening, but could not be sure it was him. On two occasions around August 2009, she saw the shadow of a man, “who seemed to be” Eneaji, moving around outside of the front of the house the two had shared during the marriage. Ubboe was terrified and pushed 911 on the telephone in case he tried to force the door open. She stayed very quiet, with the lights out, so it appeared that no one was at home.

Ubboe declared that, while they were married, Eneaji was “extremely physically abusive” to her after he learned she was unable to have a child. When he was angry he threw her against the wall, floor or furniture. He would slap, kick and punch her leaving bruises all over her body. He threatened to kill her “on numerous occasions, too many to count.”

Ubboe described Eneaji as a “vengeful person” and was afraid he would carry out the threats to kill her. Because of that fear, she had disconnected herself from the Nigerian community and only participated in her church.

At a contested hearing, on October 31, 2012, Eneaji appeared in propria persona. He testified that he did not follow Ubboe in a car in March 2010 and denied ever being in Santa Clarita. He admitted being in the same Ross store *1462 with her; however, he denied making any comments or having any contact with her. He testified that he had moved on with his life since the divorce. He moved back to Nigeria, remarried, had one child and was expecting another child. He comes to UCLA (University of California at Los Angeles) for medical appointments and had three appointments during the month of November 2012.

Ubboe testified that she did not call the police when the two were at the Ross store because she thought 911 was only for life and death emergencies. She called a friend because she wanted someone to know about it.

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