Ellis v. Lyons CA2/5

2 Cal. App. 5th 404, 206 Cal. Rptr. 3d 687, 2016 Cal. App. LEXIS 668
CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedJuly 14, 2016
DocketB264040
StatusUnpublished
Cited by23 cases

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Ellis v. Lyons CA2/5, 2 Cal. App. 5th 404, 206 Cal. Rptr. 3d 687, 2016 Cal. App. LEXIS 668 (Cal. Ct. App. 2016).

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Opinion

BAKER, J.

—Appellant Crystal L. Lyons (Mother) appeals the denial of her request for sole legal and physical custody of her minor daughter (Minor) and to reinstate child support from respondent Jonathan C. Ellis (Father). Father engaged in a physical altercation with his brother-in-law in a room where Minor was present. When informed of the altercation, Mother sought and obtained a temporary protective order in Massachusetts, her state of residence, that barred Father from contacting Minor. The Massachusetts court continued that order in force until the Los Angeles Superior Court—where the family law proceedings had originated—heard Mother’s request to change the existing joint custody order. We consider whether the family law court abused its discretion when it denied Mother’s request for sole custody of Minor, and in answering that question, we address what effect California law required the family law court to give to the Massachusetts court’s findings.

I. BACKGROUND

Minor was born to Mother and Father in February 2001. Mother and Father’s relationship ended that same year, and in 2002, Father filed a [407]*407paternity action. Pursuant to a November 2009 stipulated judgment, the parents share joint legal and physical custody of Minor, and she lives most of the year in Massachusetts with Mother, who has since remarried. Father lives in Southern California at his parents’ home, and he has custody of Minor for five weeks every summer, on spring breaks, and on alternating winter breaks.

A. Father Gets in a Physical Altercation in Minor’s Presence

In April 2014, Minor was in Southern California for her weeklong spring break visit with Father. Generally, Father and Minor would go shopping, play games, play softball and tennis, and go to the bookstore during her visits. While at Father’s house, Minor would sleep on the sofa in his bedroom and Father would sleep downstairs.

On April 21, 2014, the day after her arrival, Minor witnessed an argument between Father and his adult brother-in-law Andy. Andy began to touch the cables behind Father’s TV console, and Father asked him not to do so. Andy responded, “I can do what I want. What are you going to do about it?” Andy’s 12-year-old son Stevie then began to mishandle Father’s video game controller, and Father became upset and repeatedly told him to stop. Father told Stevie to go into the other room until he “learn[ed] to listen to instructions.” Andy became angry and told Father not to correct Stevie, adding that Father was acting like an “asshole.”

What transpired next was the subject of some disagreement between the parties, but the core facts are undisputed. Father and Andy engaged in a physical confrontation while Minor was still seated on a couch roughly three feet away. Father pushed Andy and Father used his fist to strike Andy in his face two or three times. During the altercation, which lasted only seconds, Andy’s wife (Father’s sister) jumped on Father’s back in an attempt to separate both men. They did separate, and neither sustained significant injuries. Minor was not hit in any way during the altercation.

When the altercation between Father and Andy ended, Father noticed Minor had left the room. Father saw an upstairs bathroom door was closed, and he found Minor inside on the phone. Believing Minor had called Mother, Father asked for the phone and instead heard a 911 operator on the other end asking for their address. Father told the 911 operator there was no need to send help because it was just a family squabble and no one had been hurt; as a result, the police did not respond to the home. After hanging up with the 911 operator, Father returned Minor’s cell phone to her; she contended he did so only on condition that she promise not to call 911 again, but he said he willingly returned the phone without conditions.

[408]*408In the aftermath of the incident, Father and Minor discussed it, and Minor’s grandmother (Father’s mother) joined the conversation at some point. All parties agree that at some point during that discussion, Father threatened to slap Minor. The parties disagree, however, about the tinting of when the comment was made and what prompted it.

According to Father, Minor began yelling, telling him that he was overweight, suffering from OCD (obsessive-compulsive disorder), unemployed, antisocial, and not her “real father,” which caused him to lose his temper and tell her to stop speaking disrespectfully or he would slap her. Minor admitted telling Father he was overweight, suffering from OCD, and words to the effect that he was antisocial, but she said that was not what prompted his statement that he would slap her. Rather, according to Minor, Father said “[wjell, do you want me to slap you” earlier in the conversation when she told him that he should not have hit Andy. It is undisputed that Father apologized to Minor for the threat to slap her shortly after he said it. And Father did not hit Minor that day, nor was there any evidence before the family law court that he had hit her at any other time.

The next two days were largely uneventful—Father and Minor went out to play tennis and softball, and they also watched television together. Mother called Minor the day after the altercation, but Minor did not tell her what had transpired between Father and Andy; according to Mother, Minor did say “something was wrong” and that she would talk to Mother about it later when she could. The next day, Minor called Mother and told her about the confrontation between Father and Andy, explaining she was “really scared.” Mother was concerned for Minor’s safety and told Minor she would help Minor “get out of there,” i.e., the home where Father was living.1

B. The Massachusetts Protective Order

Having learned of the altercation between Father and Andy, Mother contacted her attorney in Los Angeles, who on April 23, 2014, attempted to obtain an ex parte restraining order against Father in Los Angeles Superior [409]*409Court. Mother’s attorney sought the order not in the Pomona courthouse where the case had been litigated, but instead in another courthouse in downtown Los Angeles. The commissioner who heard the application for the ex parte order declined to issue an order without notice to Lather and without Mother being present. The commissioner instead suggested Mother could notice the matter to be heard in the Pomona courthouse two days later, on April 25, 2014. Mother did not proceed as the court commissioner proposed; as she would later claim, she feared for Minor’s safety if she gave notice to Lather of her intention to seek a restraining order.

Instead, on April 25, 2014, Mother applied for a domestic violence abuse prevention order from the Newton District Court in Massachusetts. After entering a temporary emergency order, the Massachusetts court held a hearing on May 6, 2014, at which Mother and Minor were present. Lather was not present for the hearing, but an attorney appeared on his behalf. The Massachusetts judge received in evidence an affidavit submitted by Mother that summarized Minor’s account of the April 21 altercation, and the court asked several questions of Minor directly. Minor told the court: “Lrom the day that the incident happened, I was always fearful of . . . [Lather], [H]e’s a very intimidating person and I would be asked to go to Kung [Lu] lessons where we would practice moves. And even then, I wouldn’t be able to . . . budge him or . . .

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