Piatt v. Piatt

499 S.E.2d 567, 27 Va. App. 426, 1998 Va. App. LEXIS 294
CourtCourt of Appeals of Virginia
DecidedMay 26, 1998
Docket0410974
StatusPublished
Cited by56 cases

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Piatt v. Piatt, 499 S.E.2d 567, 27 Va. App. 426, 1998 Va. App. LEXIS 294 (Va. Ct. App. 1998).

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FITZPATRICK, Chief Judge.

Donna M. Piatt (wife) appeals the trial court’s order granting joint custody of the parties’ child but awarding John Piatt (husband) primary physical custody. Wife contends the trial court erroneously: (1) treated her post-separation sexual conduct differently from husband’s post-separation sexual conduct; (2) failed to make findings regarding the statutory factors relating to child custody;1 (3) ruled on the admissibili[430]*430ty of certain evidence; and (4) employed a conclusive presumption that homosexual parents are harmful to their children. For the following reasons, we affirm.

I.

Under familiar principles, we view the evidence in the light most favorable to husband, the party prevailing below. See Wilson v. Wilson, 12 Va.App. 1251, 1254, 408 S.E.2d 576, 578 (1991). Wife and husband were married in July 1989, and their child was born on January 13, 1993. Both parents worked, and child care was provided by Tara Angyal, who is a professional child care provider and a friend of wife’s, Sharon Piatt, who is husband’s sister-in-law, and both grandmothers. In December 1994, the parties separated while remaining in the marital domicile and entered into a settlement agreement under which they cared for the child on alternate weekdays and weekends. During this time, while husband was at work, his mother or Sharon Piatt often supervised the child and her slightly older female cousin. On wife’s days with the child, child care was provided by Tara Angyal and wife’s mother while wife worked. After wife vacated the marital residence in June 1996, the child spent alternate weeks with her parents, an arrangement both parties agree was unsatisfactory.

The parties’ settlement agreement also provided that a custody evaluation would be performed by Dr. Christopher D. Lane. In his report, Dr. Lane recommended that the parties share joint legal custody and that wife have primary physical custody with liberal visitation for husband. Dr. Lane based his recommendation in part on “the assessment of [wife’s] parenting abilities as being demonstrably broader in scope at this time than those of Mr. Piatt and in the perceived greater responsiveness of [the child] to her.” Dr. Lane also testified that his assessment of both parties’ parenting skills and [431]*431commitment to parenting “would be consistent with a high level of devotion to the care of [the] child.”

At trial, both parents presented evidence concerning their post-separation relationships with third parties. The evidence established that husband had been involved in one heterosexual relationship and wife had participated in two homosexual relationships following the parties’ separation. Husband and his female Mend testified that their involvement was serious, and they planned marriage with the full support of husband’s family. Wife acknowledged that she was “experimenting” and still dealing with the issue of her sexual orientation, and that as a result, her relationship with her father had been damaged.

Dr. Lane filed a supplemental report in which he reviewed several studies on the effects of homosexuality on children. He testified that “[t]here seems to be no credible documentation of damage to children” from being raised by a homosexual parent. Dr. Lane also indicated that wife “is still struggling with her own sexual identity,” and her “family is reverberating” from her “very angry estrangement from her father.”

The trial court ruled from the bench, finding that wife “is still in a turmoil, which is continuing and has continued over the last two years. This turmoil is as to her sexual orientation and how her life should go forward.” The court agreed with Dr. Lane that “both parents have good parenting skills. They both love their daughter, and their daughter loves both of them.” However, the trial court expressed doubt about the credibility of wife’s testimony and concluded:

I have to balance these things out. And there is no easy answer, but I believe that the father is better qualified at this point to be the primary caretaker of the child. I believe there is more stability in his surroundings and in his home. There is support on both sides of the family, but there is probably a little bit more support on the side of the father____
[432]*432I am going to make it joint custody, because I do not want anybody to think that they do not have a say in raising the child. The primary custodian will be the father.

The trial court awarded joint legal custody of the child, with husband having primary physical custody and wife having ten days per month visitation plus vacations and alternate holidays.

II. Post-Separation Sexual Conduct

Wife contends the trial court erred in treating her two post-separation relationships as having an adverse effect upon the child, but not so treating husband’s relationship. However, the record discloses no finding that either party’s post-separation sexual behavior had an adverse effect upon the child. Rather, the trial court treated the parties’ post-separation sexual behavior as evidence supporting its conclusion that husband provided a more stable home environment for the child. Consequently, wife’s contention is without merit.

In determining child custody, a trial court is required to “give primary consideration to the best interests of the child.” Code § 20-142.2(B). Because the trial court heard the evidence at an ore terms hearing, its decision “is entitled to great weight and will not be disturbed unless plainly wrong or without evidence to support it.” Venable v. Venable, 2 Va.App. 178, 186, 342 S.E.2d 646, 651 (1986).

In general, a court examines the sexual conduct of a parent to determine whether it has had any adverse impact on the child.2 See Brown v. Brown, 218 Va. 196, 199, 237 S.E.2d 89, 91 (1977) (“in determining the best interest of the child, the court must decide by considering all the facts, including [433]*433what effect a nonmarital relationship by a parent has on the child”). Here both parents’ relationships were facts for the trial court to consider, but the record does not reflect that those relationships provided the basis for the custody award.

The trial court referred to wife’s post-separation sexual relationships and her “experimentation” not as having a direct negative impact on the child, but as manifestations of wife’s inner “turmoil” and “lack of control.” These characteristics have a direct bearing on wife’s ability to provide a stable home environment and to “meet the emotional, intellectual and physical needs of the child.” Code § 20-124.3(3). See Bostick v. Bostick-Bennett, 23 Va.App. 527, 478 S.E.2d 319 (1996) (the degree of stability of the home environment is a matter of concern under Code § 20-124.3(3)).

The evidence supports the trial court’s conclusion that wife’s home environment was less stable than husband’s. The record demonstrates that wife often left the child in the care of others while she pursued recreational trips and activities. She occasionally took the child with her without regard to the child’s bedtime or evening routine.

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