Opinion No. (2004)

Oklahoma Attorney General Reports·Decided March 19, 2004·Published

Opinion

Dear Speaker, Larry E. Adair,

¶ 0 This office has received your request for an official Attorney General Opinion in which you ask, in effect, the following questions:

1. Does Oklahoma law consider marriage to be between one woman and one man?

2. Is Oklahoma required to recognize as valid and binding a marriage performed in another state which is not between one woman and one man?

I.
Introduction
¶ 1 Your questions relate to Oklahoma law regarding marriage. While marriage has long been recognized as one of the most fundamental of rights, courts have also historically recognized that the subject of marriage is a matter for the individual states to regulate. It is against this backdrop that we review your questions.

II.
Oklahoma Law Regarding Who May Marry
¶ 2 You first ask whether Oklahoma law considers marriage to be between one woman and one man. The definition of marriage, adopted by the Oklahoma Legislature in 1903, has remained constant. See Okla. Rev. Ann. Stat. ch. 51, art. 1, § 1 (1903). Title 43 O.S. 2001, § 1[43-1] defines marriage as follows:

Marriage is a personal relation arising out of a civil contract to which the consent of parties legally competent of contracting and of entering into it is necessary, and the marriage relation shall only be entered into, maintained or abrogated as provided by law.

Id.

¶ 3 To determine who is legally capable of contracting to marry under this definition and what is "provided by law" in Oklahoma, we look to 43 O.S. 2001, § 3[43-3] governing who may marry. That statute provides:

Any unmarried person of the age of eighteen (18) years or upwards and not otherwise disqualified1 is capable of contracting and consenting to marriage with a person of the opposite sex but no person under the age of eighteen (18) years shall enter into the marriage relation, nor shall any license issue therefor, except upon the consent and authority expressly given by the parent or guardian of such underage applicant in the presence of the authority issuing such license, or on the written consent of the parent or guardian of such underage applicant executed and acknowledged in person before a judge of the district court or the court clerk of any county within the State of Oklahoma.

Id. (emphasis added) (footnote added). The legislative intent is clear from these statutes that, under Oklahoma law, marriage is limited to those persons who are of the opposite sex. The Oklahoma Supreme Court recognized this limitation as early as 1925 when it stated:

"Marriage" as at common law creates the status of husband and wife under the law of this state. Whenever the minds of the parties meet in a common consent thereto, the marriage immediately arises. It is a contract between the man and woman, each accepting the other into the ties of that relation, neither remiss to its possible sorrows, nor the enjoyment of its incidental pleasures.

Mudd v. Perry, 235 P. 479 (syllabus) (Okla. 1925) (emphasis added). The court also made clear, through its recognition of common law marriage, that marriage is between a man and a woman.See Estate of Stinchcomb v. Stinchcomb, 674 P.2d 26, 28-29 (Okla. 1983) ("A party asserting a common law marriage must prove . . . an actual and mutual agreement between the spouses to behusband and wife; a permanent relationship; an exclusive relationship, proved by cohabitation as man and wife; and the parties to the marriage must hold themselves out publicly ashusband and wife. . . ."). Lest there be any doubts, a husband is defined as "[a] married man" and a wife is defined as "[a] woman united to a man by marriage." Black's Law Dictionary 875, 1598 (6th ed. 1990).

¶ 4 Therefore, to answer your first question, Oklahoma law considers marriage to be a contract between one man and one woman.

III.
Oklahoma Law Provides That A Marriage Between Persons Of The Same Gender Performed In Another State Is Not Valid Or Binding In Oklahoma.
¶ 5 Next, you ask if Oklahoma is legally required to recognize a marriage entered into in another state which is not between one man and one woman. The Oklahoma Legislature specifically spoke to the issue of recognizing same-gender marriages at 43 O.S. 2001,§ 3.1[43-3.1] when it provided:

A marriage between persons of the same gender performed in another state shall not be recognized as valid and binding in this state as of the date of the marriage.

¶ 6 An analysis of this provision begins with recognizing that the institution of marriage is a contract wholly created by state law. In Williams v. Williams, 543 P.2d 1401 (Okla. 1975), the Oklahoma Supreme Court noted that marriage and divorce are creatures of statute and recognized that the State has absolute power to prescribe the conditions for marriage and divorce. "The State has a constitutional right to declare and maintain a policy in regard to marriage and divorce as to persons domiciled within its borders." Id. at 1403; see also In Re McDade's Estate,218 P. 532, 541 (Okla. 1923) ("As between the federal and state governments, the power to control and regulate marriages is retained by the latter. The Legislature of each state has the power and authority to prescribe the qualifications of the contracting parties, the forms or proceedings essential, the duties and obligations created, and the effect of marriage upon property rights.").

¶ 7 The United States Supreme Court also recognized that marriage "has always been subject to the control of the legislature." Maynard v. Hill, 125 U.S. 190, 205 (1888); seealso Haddock v. Haddock, 201 U.S. 562, 575 (1906) ("No one denies that the states, at the time of the adoption of the Constitution, possessed full power over the subject of marriage and divorce.").

¶ 8 Exercising this power, the Oklahoma Legislature has made clear the State of Oklahoma shall not recognize as valid and binding same-gender marriages performed in other states. 43 O.S.2001, § 3.1[43-3.1].2

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