Nancy Renee McReynolds (Delbridge) v. Robert Irving McReynolds

Court of Appeals of Tennessee·Decided October 3, 1997·No. 01A01-9702-CH-00064·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE WESTERN SECTION AT NASHVILLE

NANCY RENEE ) McREYNOLDS (DELBRIDGE), )

)

Plaintiff/Appellant, ) Bedford Chancery No. 19,185 )

VS. ) Appeal No. 01A01-9702-CH-00064 )

ROBERT IRVING McREYNOLDS, )

)

Defendant/Appellee. )

APPEAL FROM THE CHANCERY COURT OF BEDFORD COUNTY AT SHELBYVILLE, TENNESSEE THE HONORABLE TYRUS H. COBB, CHANCELLOR

FILED

October 3, 1997

TERRY A. FANN Cecil W. Crowson R. STEVEN WALDRON Appellate Court Clerk WALDRON AND FANN Murfreesboro, Tennessee Attorneys for Appellant

JOHN H. NORTON, III NORTON & SMITH Shelbyville, Tennessee Attorney for Appellee

AFFIRMED

ALAN E. HIGHERS, J.

CONCUR: W. FRANK CRAWFORD, P.J., W.S. HOLLY KIRBY LILLARD, J.

Nancy Renee McReynolds Delbridge (Mother) appeals the trial court’s order denying her counterpetition to modify the joint custody arrangement previously agreed to by the parties and set forth in their final divorce decree. For the reasons stated hereinafter, we affirm the trial court’s judgment.

The Mother and Appellee Robert Irving McReynolds (Father) were divorced in Bedford County in July 1994. Per their agreement, the final divorce decree awarded the parties joint custody of their two minor daughters. Although the decree awarded the Mother primary physical custody of the children, the decree set forth an arrangement whereby the children spent three nights per week (Wednesday, Thursday, Friday) with the Father and the remaining four nights per week with the Mother. Additionally, the decree permitted the Father to pick up the children and take them to church every other Sunday.

In March 1995, the Father filed a petition to change custody in which he asked the trial court to terminate the joint custody arrangement and to award him sole custody of the children. As grounds for this change, the Father alleged that the Mother was engaging in overnight visits with a male friend while the children were present and, further, that the Mother was consuming intoxicants around the children. The Father’s petition also described conflicts over joint custody issues which had arisen between the parties since the divorce.

The Mother answered and filed a counterpetition in which she similarly requested the trial court to modify the joint custody arrangement by awarding her sole custody of the children. The Mother’s counterpetition alleged that the following material change of circumstances warranted modification of the joint custody arrangement:

That [the Father] constantly harasses [the Mother] to the point where she has been forced to place a block on her telephone.

That, further, [the Father] intentionally places the minor children of the parties in the middle of an argument with [the Mother] even though [the Mother] has repeatedly advised him that doing so causes emotional harm to the children. That, [the Mother] has tried to cooperate with [the Father] in every respect in order to assure that the children’s best interests are

preserved; however, [the Father’s] attitude makes cooperation impossible.

The parties’ daughters were six and seven years old, respectively, in August 1996 when the custody modification hearing took place. At the hearing, the Mother testified that the Father’s hostility toward her had increased since the parties’ divorce and had made the joint custody arrangement unworkable. According to the Mother, these problems began in August 1994, the month following the divorce. When the Father arrived at the Mother’s house one day to pick up the children, the Father discovered that a male friend of the Mother was there working on an air conditioner. The Father became very hostile and initiated a loud, verbal confrontation with the man, whose name was Tom Delbridge. The Father terminated the confrontation only after Delbridge reminded him that the children were present.

After the Father filed his modification petition, the Mother married Delbridge and moved to the Rockvale community of neighboring Rutherford County. The Mother’s relationship with the Father has continued to deteriorate since the divorce. As recently as July 1996, the month before the hearing, another angry confrontation occurred between the Father and Delbridge at a ballpark. The Father coached the children’s softball team, and the Mother and Delbridge were there to watch the game. After the game, the Father and Delbridge argued over what time the Father was going to pick up the children for visitation the next evening. Again, with the children present, the Father became very loud and made threatening statements toward Delbridge.

In addition to the Father’s confrontations with Delbridge, the Mother testified that the Father had made joint custody difficult in other ways. For example, the Mother testified that the Father had enrolled the children in a soccer camp and other programs without first consulting the Mother. Generally, the Father is 35 to 40 minutes late returning the children to the Mother’s house. A dispute also arose after the divorce over whether the Father had paid his share of the children’s child-care expenses. The Mother testified that she blocked

her telephone from receiving calls from the Father because he called so many times when the Mother had the girls that the Mother felt the Father was harassing them.

Despite these conflicts with the Father, the Mother acknowledged that both children were healthy and were very good students. Although both children are students in the Bedford County school system, and both the Mother and Delbridge are employed by the school system, the Mother and Delbridge live over 30 miles away in Rutherford County. Accordingly, on the three school mornings each week when she has the children, the Mother drives over 60 miles round trip to Bedford County. The Mother expressed a desire to enroll the children in Rutherford County schools the following school year. The Mother also acknowledged that the Father’s problem of returning the children late began after the Mother moved to Rutherford County. Despite the inconvenience to the Father and the extra travel time for the children, on the weekends when the Father was permitted to take the children to church on Sunday morning, the Mother still insisted that the Father return the children at the scheduled time on Saturday evening. The Mother justified this decision by explaining that her time with the children was “very precious” to her.

In his testimony, the Father acknowledged that he had engaged in hostile confrontations with Delbridge, including the incident at the ballpark the month before the hearing, but the Father denied being the aggressor in these situations. The Father believed that the initial confrontation with Delbridge occurred before the parties’ divorce was final. The Father testified that there was hostility between the parties at the time of the divorce and that, if anything, he was not as vocal in his animosity now as he used to be. The Father believed that the Mother put the block on the phone, not because his calls were harassing, but because the Mother did not want him to talk to the children. The Father admitted telling the Mother about the children’s soccer camp on the Friday before the Monday the camp started, and he admitted often returning the children as much as 20 minutes late. The Father testified, however, that he alone handled the responsibility of transporting the children between his house in Bedford County and the Mother’s house in

Rutherford County. The Father further testified that the children had always attended school and church in Bedford County and that most of their relatives lived there.

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