Gray v. Gray

885 S.W.2d 353, 1994 Tenn. App. LEXIS 145
CourtCourt of Appeals of Tennessee
DecidedMarch 23, 1994
StatusPublished
Cited by18 cases

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Bluebook
Gray v. Gray, 885 S.W.2d 353, 1994 Tenn. App. LEXIS 145 (Tenn. Ct. App. 1994).

Opinion

OPINION

TODD, Presiding Judge.

The captioned defendant has appealed from a divorce decree, presenting the following issues:

1. Whether the Chancellor erred in awarding Mr. and Mrs. Gray joint custody of their two daughters, ages 10 and 5.
2. Whether the Chancellor erred in not awarding Mrs. Gray sole custody of the two Gray daughters and in setting Mr. Gray’s regular visitation as he did.
3. Whether the Chancellor erred in not awarding Mrs. Gray child support in the amount of $1,165 per month in compliance with the Tennessee Child Support Guidelines.

At the time of trial, plaintiff was thirty-five years old and employed in Nashville at a base pay of $40,000 per year enhanced by an annual bonus which has amounted to as much [354]*354as $22,000. His working time is from 7:00 A.M. to 3:30 P.M., Monday through Friday.

At the same time, defendant was employed in Nashville from 7:00 P.M. to 7:00 A.M., Saturday to Monday morning (two shifts of twelve hours, each) for which she earns approximately $40,000 per year.

Both parties live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, and commute from that city to Nashville to work.

The two children, aged ten and five, were enrolled in private schools.

Although joint child custody is generally disfavored, Dodd v. Dodd, Tenn.App. 1987, 737 S.W.2d 286; Malone v. Malone, Tenn.App.1992, 842 S.W.2d 621, there is no invariable rule against joint custody which is expressly provided by statute. T.C.A. § 36-6-101, Baggett v. Baggett, Tenn.App.1973, 512 S.W.2d 292; Garner v. Garner, Tenn. App.1989, 773 S.W.2d 245.

The Trial Court made the following pertinent findings:

... In many ways when we look at these parties as potential custodians for these children, the parties complement themselves, candidly, very well.
Mr. Gray, it appears, has been very much as we say, “a hands-on father.” He has done a whole lot as far as these children are concerned; and, candidly, it appears that as the children were growing up both of these parents were very active in the day-to-day care for the children.
The evidence shows, I think, that probably Mr. Gray is more affectionate to the children, and in terms of affection and touching, warmth of the relationship, probably he excels in that area. That is not to say that either parent loves the children more than the other or that the children love one parent more than the other.
Mr. Gray’s family is here in town. That appears to be positive, although we have heard that perhaps there may be some negatives associated with that. The children are certainly closer to Mr. Gray’s family than they are to Mrs. Gray’s folks.
The distance involved in families may account for part of that, of course.
The circumstances concerning the work schedule, I suppose for lack of a better term, the time that each of these parties are able to spend with the children, again frankly complement each other very well.
Mr. Gray is extremely busy during the week. He has to get up early in the morning_ But Mr. Gray has weekends pretty well free except an occasional requirement that he has to work on Saturday.
Mrs. Gray, on the other hand, has the weeks free during the weekdays, but her weekends — by the time she works 12-hour shifts and has staff meetings on some Sundays, commutes back and forth to Nashville also, sleeps some, but the weekends are pretty well taken for her.
... Mr. Gray has been-the one that has provided the religious training and nurturing for the children.
The work with the children in other activities also appears to be one of those areas where perhaps both parents are involved and have been involved, but perhaps the evidence shows that Mrs. Gray has done more in this area recently.
Candidly, it appears to the Court because of the work schedules as much as anything else, that this may be one of those rare eases where it is appropriate for the Court to divide custody. The custody then would be on a divided basis. The parties would be charged with the responsibility then for continuing to make decisions for the children. The children will be with Mrs. Gray primarily during the week and with Mr. Gray primarily on the weekends.

The evidence does not preponderate against the foregoing findings which are adopted by this Court. T.R.A.P. Rule 13(d).

The determination of custody and visitation rests within the sound discretion of the Trial Judge who is in a superior position to judge the credibility and competency of the parents as custodians. Edwards v. Edwards, [355]*355Tenn.App.1973, 501 S.W.2d 283, Scarbrough v. Scarbrough, Tenn.App.1988, 752 S.W.2d 94. Such findings must therefore be affirmed by this Court. Dodd v. Dodd, Tenn.App.1987, 737 S.W.2d 286.

The quoted findings justify the joint custody ordered by the Trial Court. If at any time the problems ordinarily characteristic of joint custody should develop in the present case, the Trial Court retains the power to change the form of custody. Such change will undoubtedly militate against the custodial rights of one of the parents. It therefore behooves both parents to strive mightily to make joint custody work.

No reversible error is found in the consideration of the first issue.

As above indicated, the second issue states two issues, (1) failure to award sole custody to appellant, which has been concluded by the above ruling on the first issue, and (2) the visitation granted to the father, which will now be considered.

The divorce decree specifies visitation as follows:

1. The parties will share the joint custody of them children with the children residing primarily with Mrs. Gray during the week and with Mr. Gray on the weekend. During weeks when there is no school on Friday, Mr. Gray will have the children with him from 5:00 p.m. on Friday until 5:00 p.m. the following Monday. On weeks when the children attend school on Friday, Mr. Gray will pick up the children at 8:30 a.m. on Saturday morning rather than 5:00 p.m. on Friday. During those weeks, Mr. Gray will have the children with him on Wednesday evening when he shall pick the children up as soon as he is able after getting off work and he is to return the children by 7:45 p.m.
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