Mendez v. May

778 F.3d 337, 2013 U.S. App. LEXIS 26275, 2015 WL 627215
CourtCourt of Appeals for the First Circuit
DecidedFebruary 13, 2015
Docket15-1126
StatusPublished
Cited by11 cases

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Mendez v. May, 778 F.3d 337, 2013 U.S. App. LEXIS 26275, 2015 WL 627215 (1st Cir. 2015).

Opinion

STAHL, Circuit Judge.

Petitioner-Appellee Federico Mendez filed a petition pursuant to the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of Child Abduction (“the Convention”), as implemented by the International Child Abduction Remedies Act, 22 U.S.C. § 9001 et seq., to return his seven-year-old son C.F.F.M. to Argentina. Petitioner claims that Respondenh-Appellant Maya K. May, the child’s mother, wrongfully removed the child to the United States in February 2014. After a three-day bench trial, the district court granted the father’s petition and ordered the child’s return, reasoning that, inter alia, C.F.F.M.’s habitual residence lay in Argentina because Petitioner never fully agreed to allow C.F.F.M. to move to the United States. We disagree, and reverse the district court’s grant of the petition and order returning the child to Argentina.

I. Background

Petitioner is a citizen of Argentina who resides in Buenos Aires. Respondent is a U.S. citizen and permanent resident of Argentina. The two began dating in 2005 and lived in the U.S. for a brief period of time before settling in Buenos Aires in 2006. Respondent gave birth to their child, C.F.F.M., in Buenos Aires on December 3, 2007. C.F.F.M. is a citizen of both Argentina and the United States. He attended school in Buenos Aires from 2010 through the end of the Argentine school year in December 2013.

Though Petitioner and Respondent never married, the family lived together until 2009, when the couple’s romantic relationship deteriorated and Petitioner moved out. 1 That summer, the parties reáched a child custody agreement which provided that C.F.F.M. would reside with his mother and granted the father visitation from Thursday evenings until Sunday nights. Per the 2009 agreement, Respondent could travel outside Argentina with C.F.F.M. for fifteen days in the Argentine winter and up to forty-five days during the Argentine summer; the agreement required Petitioner to authorize Respondent’s travel with C.F.F.M. in accordance with that plan. *341 Respondent took C.F.F.M.' on multiple trips to the United States in accordance with this plan.

The parties experienced difficulties in their parenting relationship after they ceased cohabiting. In 2011, they argued outside Respondent’s apartment the day she returned from a forty-five day trip to the United States with C.F.F.M. Although he was not entitled to visitation that day, Petitioner asked to see the child, and Respondent told him it was not a good time. Petitioner forced his way into her apartment and pushed her to the ground in the process. Later that year, the two engaged in a yelling match in C.F.F.M.’s presence during a car ride. ■ Petitioner called Respondent “trash” and locked her out of the car, driving away with the child. After that argument, Respondent denied Petitioner visitation for four months. Petitioner sought judicial intervention and the Argentine family court restored his visitation rights. Additionally, the parties filed domestic violence .complaints against each other. After an investigation, an Argentine board issued a report finding that Respondent was the victim of Petitioner’s physical and psychological violence and that C.F.F.M. was a victim insofar as he witnessed the fight in the car.

In December 2012, the parties negotiated and executed a new coparenting agreement. Respondent retained custody and the agreement reduced Petitioner’s visitation. The 2012 agreement permitted Respondent to travel abroad with the child for up to forty-five days each year; Petitioner would execute trip-specific authorization each time.

In spring 2013, Respondent began to consider leaving Argentina to find work elsewhere. She discussed her interest in moving with Petitioner, who opposed her leaving Argentina with C.F.F.M. The district court found that Respondent had “raised such an interest” before and that “the parties had various discussions prior to this time about [Respondent] relocating out of the country.” The parties were unable to come to an agreement, even after mediation in July 2013.

The next month, Respondent accepted a job offer in Boston with a September 2013 start date. The parties discussed her upcoming move shortly after she accepted the job offer. During an August 13, 2013 Skype conversation, Respondent urged Petitioner to pursue work or educational opportunities in Boston. Petitioner expressed openness to potentially moving to Massachusetts along with Respondent and C.F.F.M., but the parties reached no agreement during the conversation.

The two met in person three times in August and September 2013 to discuss potential arrangements if C.F.F.M. were to relocate to the United States. During the third meeting, Petitioner agreed to allow C.F.F.M. to move to Massachusetts with Respondent. Respondent proposed that C.F.F.M. could travel back to Argentina during U.S. school vacations and agreed to increase Petitioner’s visitation time in anticipation of the move. The same day, the two relayed these plans to C.F.F.M.

In accordance with their discussions, Respondent left Argentina to begin her job in mid-September 2013. C.F.F.M. remained in Argentina in the care of Respondent’s mother, and Petitioner, assumed the agreed-upon increased visitation schedule. The parties corresponded by email after her departure to discuss a new coparent-ing agreement and to set an exact date for C.F.F.M.’s move. Petitioner preferred a January 2014 move so that the child could complete his school year in Argentina; Respondent wanted him to move before the December holidays so that he could spend time with her family before beginning school in Boston. Petitioner objected to *342 the December departure, reasoning that Respondent’s family could see C.F.F.M. any time now that the child was moving to the United States, but confirmed a January 8, 2014 move date.

In their correspondence, Respondent expressed frustration that even though the two had agreed that C.F.F.M. should move to the United States and Respondent had relocated to Boston with that decision in place, Petitioner had yet to draft or sign a new coparenting agreement.- After an acrimonious Skype exchange on October 23, 2013, Respondent emailed Petitioner and asserted that she would invoke her forty-five days per year vacation time in order to allow C.F.F.M. to leave for Boston in early December.

After that email, the parties’ communication broke down. Petitioner initiated multiple court proceedings, including an emergency petition to obtain temporary .custody of C.F.F.M. and criminal complaints against Respondent and her mother. The district court found that Petitioner included numerous unfounded statements about Respondent in these filings, which stated, among other falsehoods, that she had “abandoned” C.F.F.M. and left for the United States “without any notice” to Petitioner. Respondent returned to Argentina in late November and again in late December to attend court proceedings. At a hearing on Petitioner’s criminal complaints, a criminal court judge reduced Petitioner’s visitation and prohibited him from having overnight visits with C.F.F.M.

Respondent returned to Boston and then came back to Argentina on February 9, 2014.

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