M.E. v. T.J.

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedDecember 31, 2020
Docket18-1045
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA18-1045

Filed: 31 December 2020

Wake County, No. 18 CVD 600773

M.E., Plaintiff-Appellant,

v.

T.J., Defendant-Appellee.

Appeal by Plaintiff from order entered 7 June 2018 by Judge Anna Worley in

District Court, Wake County. Heard in the Court of Appeals 17 September 2019.

Sharff Law Firm, PLLC, by Amily McCool, and ACLU of North Carolina Legal Foundation, Inc., by Emily E. Seawell and Irena Como, for Plaintiff-Appellant.

Lorin J. Lapidus, court appointed amicus curiae.

Governor Roy A. Cooper, III, and Attorney General Joshua H. Stein, by Deputy Solicitor General Ryan Y. Park, for North Carolina Department of Justice, amicus curiae.

Brooks, Pierce, McLendon, Humphrey & Leonard, L.L.P., by Sarah M. Saint and Eric M. David, and Equality NC, by Ames B. Simmons, for North Carolina LGBTQ+ Non-Profit Organizations, amici curiae.

Womble Bond Dickinson, by Amalia Manolagas, Kevin Hall, pro hac vice, and Allen O’Rourke, Legal Aid of North Carolina, by Celia Pistolis, Amy Vukovich, and Elyisa Prendergast-Jones, and North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence, by Sherry Honeycutt Everett, for Legal Aid of North Carolina, North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence, and several local domestic violence support organizations, amici curiae.

McGEE, Chief Judge.

I. Factual and Procedural Background M.E. V. T.J.

Opinion of the Court

A. Introduction

M.E. (“Plaintiff”) and T.J. (“Defendant”) were in a dating relationship that did

not last. Plaintiff decided the relationship had reached its end and, on 29 May 2018,

Plaintiff undertook the difficult task of informing Defendant that their relationship

was over. According to Plaintiff, Defendant did not accept Plaintiff’s decision, and

responded in a manner that ultimately led Plaintiff to visit the Wake County Clerk

of Court’s office on the morning of 31 May 2018, seeking the protections of a Domestic

Violence Protective Order (“DVPO”), as well as an ex parte temporary “Domestic

Violence Order of Protection” (“ex parte DVPO”), pursuant to Chapter 50B of the

North Carolina General Statutes: “An Act to Provide Remedies for Domestic Violence”

(the “Act” or “Chapter 50B”). 1979 North Carolina Laws Ch. 561, §§ 1–8. At the time

of the enactment of Chapter 50B, same-sex marriage was not legal, and the General

Assembly specifically limited the protections of Chapter 50B to unmarried couples

comprising “persons of the opposite sex.” Id.

Although the trial court determined Plaintiff’s “allegations [we]re significant,”

and “[P]laintiff ha[d] suffered unlawful conduct by [D]efendant,” the trial court

denied Plaintiff’s request for an ex parte DVPO. The order denying Plaintiff’s request

for an ex parte DVPO states that the “only reason [P]laintiff [is] not receiving [an ex

parte] 50B DVPO today” is because Plaintiff and Defendant had been in a “same sex

relationship and [had] not live[d] together[.]” Plaintiff received the same result at a

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7 June 2018 hearing on her request for a permanent DVPO. The trial court denied

Plaintiff the protections of a Chapter 50B DVPO in a 7 June 2018 order that stated:

“A civil no-contact (50C) order was granted contemporaneously on the same

allegations and had the parties been of opposite genders, those facts would have

supported the entry of a [DVPO] (50B).” As the trial court note, it contemporaneously

entered a “No-Contact Order for Stalking” granting Plaintiff the lesser protections

afforded by Chapter 50C.

On appeal, Plaintiff argues that the denial of her requests for ex parte and

permanent DVPOs under Chapter 50B violated her Fourteenth Amendment and

state constitutional rights to due process and equal protection of the laws. We set

forth additional relevant facts and address Plaintiff’s arguments below.

B. Additional Facts

Plaintiff went to the Clerk’s office on 31 May 2018 and explained her situation

to the staff members, who gave Plaintiff the appropriate forms to file a Chapter 50B

“Complaint and Motion for Domestic Violence Protective Order” (“AOC-CV-303”),

which also includes a section to request a temporary “Ex Parte Domestic Violence

Order of Protection.” See N.C.G.S. § 50B-2(d) (2017) (“The clerk of superior court of

each county shall provide to pro se complainants all forms that are necessary or

appropriate to enable them to proceed pro se pursuant to this section. The clerk shall,

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whenever feasible, provide a private area for complainants to fill out forms and make

inquiries.”).

Plaintiff filled out AOC-CV-303 and additional forms she had been given,

alleging Defendant had committed physical and otherwise threatening actions

against her, and stating her concern that Defendant had “access to [Defendant’s]

father’s gun collection.” Plaintiff requested “emergency relief” by way of “an Ex Parte

Order,” based upon her belief that “there [wa]s a danger of [further] acts of domestic

violence against [her]” before a formal DVPO hearing could be set. Plaintiff stated:

“I want [] [D]efendant ordered not to assault, threaten, abuse, follow, harass or

interfere with me[;]” “I want [] [D]efendant to be ordered to have no contact with me.”

Plaintiff also asked the trial court to order Defendant “not to come on or about”

Plaintiff’s residence or her place of work; to take anger management classes; and “to

prohibit [] [D]efendant from possessing or purchasing a firearm.”

Form AOC-CV-303 is based on the requirements for a DVPO as set forth in

Chapter 50B, including the definition of “domestic violence” found in N.C.G.S. § 50B-

1. The definition of “domestic violence” in N.C.G.S. § 50B-1 includes acts by a

defendant “[a]ttempting to cause bodily injury, [] intentionally causing bodily injury[,

or] [p]lacing the aggrieved party . . . in fear of imminent serious bodily injury or

continued harassment . . . that rises to such a level as to inflict substantial emotional

distress” when the defendant’s acts were against a “person,” the plaintiff, with whom

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the defendant was in a “personal relationship.” N.C.G.S. §§ 50B-1(a)(1)-(2). Relevant

to Plaintiff’s appeal, the definition of “personal relationship” required that Plaintiff

and Defendant were either “in a dating relationship or had been in a dating

relationship.” N.C.G.S. §§ 50B-1 (b)(6). Therefore, pursuant to the definitions in

N.C.G.S. § 50B-1, violence against a person with whom the perpetrator either is, or

has been, in a “dating relationship” is not “domestic violence,” no matter how severe

the abuse, unless the perpetrator of the violence and the victim of the violence “[a]re

persons of the opposite sex[.]” N.C.G.S. § 50B-1(b)(6). The only box on AOC-CV-303

relevant to the “dating” nature of Plaintiff’s relationship with Defendant was the one

that stated: “The defendant and I . . . are persons of the opposite sex who are in or

have been in a dating relationship.” Having no other option, Plaintiff checked that

box and filed her complaint.

Plaintiff first spoke with the trial judge concerning her “request for Ex Parte

Order” during the morning family court session on 31 May 2018, but was informed

that because both she and Defendant were women, and only in a “dating” type

relationship, N.C.G.S.

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