McGrath v. Dockendorf

793 S.E.2d 336, 292 Va. 834, 2016 Va. LEXIS 187
Supreme Court of Virginia·Decided December 15, 2016·No. Record 160262·Published·Cited by 6 cases

Opinion

OPINION BY JUSTICE STEPHEN R. McCULLOUGH

**836 We resolve in this appeal whether the "heart balm" statute, Code § 8.01-220, bars an action in detinue for recovery of an engagement ring following the breakoff of the engagement. We conclude that the heart balm statute does not bar such an action, and, therefore, we affirm.

BACKGROUND

On August 25, 2012, Ethan L. Dockendorf proposed to Julia V. McGrath. She accepted. He offered her a two-carat engagement ring worth approximately $26,000. In September 2013, after the relationship deteriorated, he broke off the engagement. The parties never married. Love yielded to litigation, and Dockendorf filed an action in detinue seeking, among other things, the return of the ring. In response, McGrath demurred to Dockendorf's complaint, arguing **837 that it was barred by Code § 8.01-220. Following a hearing, the trial court agreed with Dockendorf. The court found that the ring was a conditional gift. It also held that Code § 8.01-220 did not bar the action in detinue for recovery of the ring. The court ordered McGrath to either return the ring within 30 days or it would enter judgment in the amount of $26,000 for Dockendorf. This appeal followed.

ANALYSIS

The issue before us is one of statutory construction, which we review de novo. Jones v. Williams , 280 Va. 635 , 638, 701 S.E.2d 405 , 406 (2010).

Virginia previously recognized suits for breach of a promise to marry. Such suits allowed an aggrieved fiancée to recover damages for improper breach of an engagement. See Grubb v. Sult , 73 Va. 203 , 207 (1879). Because it was "impossible to fix any rule or measure of damages," the factfinder could "take into consideration all the circumstances of the case, the loss of comfort, the injury to the feelings, affections and wounded pride of the plaintiff." Id. at 209 . The plaintiff could seek "expectation damages to place [him or] her in the financial and social position [he or] she would have attained had the marriage taken place (very much akin to the rights of *338 a divorced spouse)." Alan Grant & Emily Grant, The Bride, the Groom, and the Court: A One-Ring Circus , 35 Cap. U. L. Rev. 743 , 745 (2007). The plaintiff could also ask for "traditional tort damages to recover for the emotional anguish and humiliation of the broken engagement." Id. Finally, the plaintiff could seek "reliance damages including the lost economic security, opportunity costs of a foregone alternative such as employment, and also the impaired prospects of marrying another due to the [plaintiff's] status now as 'damaged goods.' " Id.

"By the late nineteenth century, breach of promise to marry suits were more popular in America than they were in England." Id. at 746 . Such "trials had become 'social phenomen[a]'-entertainment for the entire town and fodder for sensationalistic tabloid media." Id. Over time, such actions were severely "criticized as being anachronistic, contrary to modern notions of justice, and subject to abuse by blackmail." Note: Heartbalm Statutes and Deceit Actions , 83 Mich. L. Rev. 1770 , 1770 (1985). Breach of **838 promise to marry actions were criticized for excessive verdicts, fueled by "[l]ax evidentiary standards [that] allowed for private and sensational details to be admitted and often skewed the outcome of the case in favor of the plaintiff." Grant & Grant, 35 Cap. U. L. Rev. at 746.

In response, beginning in the 1930's, states began to enact "statutes colloquially called 'heart balm' acts that abolished actions for breach of promise to marry and often abolished the related common law actions for alienation of affections, criminal conversation, and seduction as well." Heartbalm Statutes and Deceit Actions , 83 Mich. L. Rev. at 1771. See also Matthew v. Herman , 56 V.I. 674 , 682-84 (V.I. 2012) (discussing reasons underlying legislative and judicial abrogation of amatory torts of alienation of affection and criminal conversation, as well as cause of action for breach of promise to marry). In 1968, 1 the Virginia General Assembly enacted Code § 8.01-220, which currently provides in subsection (A):

Notwithstanding any other provision of law to the contrary, no civil action shall lie or be maintained in this Commonwealth for alienation of affection, breach of promise to marry, or criminal conversation upon which a cause of action arose or occurred on or after June 28, 1968.

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