Charles C. Pattillo, Jr. v. Alison Pattillo

CourtCourt of Appeals of Virginia
DecidedMay 29, 2018
Docket1334172
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA

Present: Judges Chafin, Decker and AtLee UNPUBLISHED

Argued at Richmond, Virginia

CHARLES C. PATTILLO, JR. MEMORANDUM OPINION* BY v. Record No. 1334-17-2 JUDGE RICHARD Y. ATLEE, JR. MAY 29, 2018 ALISON PATTILLO

FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF SPOTSYLVANIA COUNTY Ricardo Rigual, Judge

Lawrence D. Diehl (Barnes & Diehl, P.C., on brief), for appellant.

Alan C. Bowden (Michael E. Kinney; Bowden Cooch & Meyer PLLC; Turner & Kinney, A Professional Corporation, on brief), for appellee.

Charles Pattillo, Jr. (“husband”1) appeals a decision of the Circuit Court of Spotsylvania

County (“the circuit court”) in favor of Alison Pattillo (“wife”). Husband’s seven assignments of

error2 present essentially one question: Did the circuit court err when it awarded spousal support

to wife? We find no such error, and affirm.

* Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication. 1 We use the designations “wife” and “husband” for clarity, recognizing that such terms actually describe the parties’ former, rather than current, legal relationship. 2 On November 9, 2017, pursuant to Rule 5A:25(d), husband filed a total of eight assignments of error with this Court. One of those assignments of error read as follows: “The trial court erred in its award as to the amount and duration of the award of spousal support as excessive and an abuse of the trial court’s discretion under § 20-107.1 of the Code of Virginia.” Husband omitted this assignment of error from his brief, and for that reason we deem it abandoned and decline to address it. I. FACTS

As an appellate court, we “view the facts in the light most favorable to the party

prevailing before the trial court.” Bottoms v. Bottoms, 249 Va. 410, 414, 457 S.E.2d 102, 105

(1995). We also draw “all reasonable inferences fairly deducible” from those facts. Bajgain v.

Bajgain, 64 Va. App. 439, 443, 769 S.E.2d 267, 269 (2015) (quoting Anderson v. Anderson, 29

Va. App. 673, 678, 514 S.E.2d 369, 372 (1999)). Here, wife prevailed in the circuit court.

A. Background

Married in 1997, husband and wife separated in 2015. In 2016, citing wife’s adultery,

husband filed for divorce. Prior to trial, the parties resolved all issues but two: the grounds upon

which divorce would be granted, and whether wife would receive spousal support. Ultimately,

the circuit court granted husband a divorce on the ground of wife’s adultery, and awarded wife

$3,000 per month in spousal support, indefinitely.

B. The Parties’ Financial Positions and Lifestyle

The parties enjoyed a relatively high standard of living during the marriage. They lived

in a home worth in excess of half a million dollars, in a lakeside community where they also kept

a boat. They traveled, both together and separately. When the parties married, husband was in

the Air Force. He retired in 2007, and has worked since then as a defense contractor, and later a

civilian employee of the federal government. Husband has a college degree and three master’s

degrees; he earns nearly $260,000 per year.3 By contrast, wife (a native of Great Britain) has the

equivalent of a high school diploma.

3 This amount includes both income from his current job and retirement income from his military service. -2- Wife spent the majority of the marriage as a stay-at-home mother to the parties’ two

children.4 The circuit court observed that “[a]fter the parties were married in 1997 and had

children, the parties agreed that Wife would stay home to take care of the children and the

home.” As a result, the circuit court concluded, “Wife sacrificed having a job to support the

children.” She worked outside the home only sporadically, and at the time of the trial she was

working retail earning $9.00 per hour. At trial, husband’s vocational expert testified that wife’s

annual earning capacity was less than $25,000.

C. Adultery

At the start of the trial, wife conceded that she had committed pre-separation adultery.

That adultery involved two different men, both of whom were neighbors and friends of the

parties. The adultery spanned several years leading up to the parties’ 2015 separation. In

addition to exchanging sexual texts and photos with the two men, wife had sex with them in cars

around the parties’ neighborhood and in the parking lot of a local Home Depot.

D. Other Factors Contributing to the Breakdown of the Marriage

In its letter opinion, the circuit court declared that although “[t]here is no doubt that

Wife’s adulterous behavior led to the demise of the marriage” it was “clear to the [c]ourt that

Husband’s inattention to Wife and the amount of time he devoted to his career, which often took

him away from home at least one week of every month, led to the gradual dissolution of the

marriage before Wife committed adultery.” In reaching this conclusion, the circuit court found

that husband, who “wakes up at 3:15am to get ready for work and gets home between 5pm and

6pm,” worked so much “that he paid little to no attention to Wife or the children once he got

home from work.” Although husband “would acknowledge the family when he got home,” he

4 By the time of trial, one of the children was preparing to enter college, and the other had nearly finished high school. -3- “would be glued to his computer once he sat down until he went to sleep.” The circuit court’s

opinion letter went on to summarize the disintegration of the marriage in this way:

Wife testified that the marriage was a loveless and lonely place as far back as the early 2000’s. Husband was unemotional and both parties were non-confrontational which would result in the parties failing to communicate with each other. Both parties admitted that their lack of communication was a large component in the dissolution of the marriage.

Several witnesses who knew Wife and Husband over the years testified that Husband always tried to make Wife happy. However, Wife would complain about Husband’s lack of socializing with her and their friends and his unwillingness to spend money. Wife approached Husband in 2011 about her unhappiness and Husband agreed to attend counseling. Husband maintains that he took many steps to improve the marriage including pastoral counseling, attending Christian-based therapy and church men’s groups, and reading Christian-based books. Additionally, Husband claims he made [an] intentional effort to be more social, attend more social events and stay longer at social events. A year or so after Husband attended counseling, Husband asked Wife about the state of their marriage and Wife felt Husband had made no positive changes thus resulting in her continued unhappiness in the marriage.

Because Husband maintained strict control over their financial accounts, Wife was not privy to the family finances at any time during the marriage. Per Wife’s testimony, Husband was very strict about how much money they could spend every month. Husband, without Wife’s approval, would give the church $300 every week but only allotted Wife $100 a month for discretionary spending. Per Husband’s testimony, Wife went on multiple trips with her girl friends during the marriage and witnesses testified that she never seemed to want for anything.

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