Matter of Marriage of Austin

62 P.3d 413, 185 Or. App. 720, 2003 Ore. App. LEXIS 65
CourtCourt of Appeals of Oregon
DecidedJanuary 15, 2003
Docket00P-2049; A113121
StatusPublished
Cited by4 cases

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Matter of Marriage of Austin, 62 P.3d 413, 185 Or. App. 720, 2003 Ore. App. LEXIS 65 (Or. Ct. App. 2003).

Opinion

*722 BREWER, J.

In the judgment dissolving the parties’ marriage, the trial court awarded custody of three children to father. The two younger children are the parties’ sons. The oldest child is mother’s son from a previous relationship, whose custody the trial court awarded to father under ORS 109.119 (1999). Mother appeals from the custody and parenting-time awards, arguing that the trial court erred in awarding custody of the oldest child to father and in providing inadequate parenting time for her with the younger children. We review those decisions de novo, ORS 19.415(3), and affirm.

The parties were married in 1995. At the time of the marriage, mother’s oldest child, Stephen, was three years old. Stephen’s biological father played no role in Stephen’s life during the course of the marriage. Two children were born of the parties’ marriage, Donald and Theodore, in 1996 and 1997, respectively. The parties separated in February 2000. Father was awarded temporary custody of all three children after a hearing held in March 2000. Mother then moved out of the family home.

The following evidence was adduced at trial in August 2000. Mother suffers from a disability arising from medical conditions that have required several brain surgeries. The disability causes mother to easily become tired, to lose her balance, and to suffer memory loss. Mother complained to several witnesses, including an in-home counselor, Christine Pahl, that she was overwhelmed by the responsibilities of parenting. She told a neighbor that the children should be split up, with father receiving custody of the younger boys and Stephen residing with her. The evidence showed that the children are very close to each other. Three of the parties’ neighbors testified that they were concerned for the safety of the children in mother’s care because the parties’ home was dirty and food, dirty diapers, and curdled milk were often left on the floor. One neighbor testified that mother did not have “the energy, the desire, or just be able to make the self-sacrifice that it takes to take care of kids.”

The evidence also showed that mother inadequately supervised the children, including their outside play, so as to *723 expose them to physical danger. For example, one of the witnesses testified that

“[t]he kids are very small; we live in a very busy road. They were out a lot unattended. They were often not clothed appropriately for the weather. And they seemed to be not on any kind of feeding schedule, they didn’t seem to be fed at any regular interval.”

Another witness testified that

“you’d see a child, only so tall, you know, standing in the street.
“And with the way cars would whip into our cul-de-sac and come along the highway, they wouldn’t see a child until it was too late.
“And I would — you’d just get uptight looking at it. So the lack of supervision really bothered me.
“Having been inside the home, the conditions were, were ones that you wouldn’t imagine people would be living in.* * *
“There was lack of sanitation, lack of proper care, things that just * * * you felt someone should step in and do something about.”

After mother moved from the family home in March 2000, father, with the help of a nanny, maintained the home in an organized, safe, and clean condition. Although mother had told her that father was a controlling person, Pahl testified that she found him to be a consistent, capable parent. He has been active in the lives of all three children and has been the only father figure that Stephen has known. According to one of the neighbors, Stephen, who had previously experienced anger control problems, became calmer and better adjusted after the temporary custody hearing.

Mother also called a number of witnesses, including family members, another in-home counselor and a Services to Children and Families (SCF) caseworker. The caseworker testified that SCF had investigated a complaint of neglect involving the parties’ children and had determined that it was not well founded. The counselor, lisa Bitikofer, preceded Pahl as mother’s in-home counselor. She testified generally that mother had sought various support services, had *724 improved her household management, and that she was a loving parent. However, Bitikofer had refused to meet with father. Mother’s family members also testified that they believed mother was a good parent. The family members testified that mother could move with the children to Washington and receive assistance from them. In addition, a nurse practitioner testified that mother’s physical condition was only mildly disabling.

In awarding custody of all three children to father, the trial court found that mother was well intentioned but that “[l]ife raising three boys is too overwhelming for [mother] and will continue to be overwhelming for too long of a time. She cannot remain focused for the long-term.” The court explained its assessment of the evidence:

“Pursuant to a temporary decision all three boys have been living with their father in the marital home * * *. The home is 1,500 square feet and located on the comer of a cul-de-sac and a busy city thoroughfare.
“Three of four witnesses whose opinion is that it would be in the best interests of the children to remain with their father were neighbors of the Austin household. Each of the three were more acquainted with [mother]. Each testified about the constant squalor and their concerns for the safety of the boys inside and outside the home. Each testified to seeing the boys outside the home without supervision while in the vicinity of a busy street. Each testified favorably as to the changes to the [boys’] physical environment as well as their physical and mental well being since custody of the children was awarded to [father] and [mother] moved out. Each was adamant that it would be in the best interests of the children to live with [father].
“[Mother’s] support comes from her family. They also testified to the bucolic environment awaiting the children in rural Washington. To sanction that situation is to ‘gut’ a meaningful parenting time for the children and their father.
“[Bitikofer], from Options [Counseling Services] also testified in favor of [mother]. She is certainly not unbiased. Her view of this family is shaped by her discussions with [mother]. She refused to meet with [father]. Her employer then brought in Christine Pahl who had heard of this family *725 from briefings at Options. She testified to having preconceived views of [father], which quickly dissipated after meeting him. In fact, she testified on his behalf.”

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