In Re Marriage of Wilson

55 P.3d 1106, 184 Or. App. 212, 2002 Ore. App. LEXIS 1563
CourtCourt of Appeals of Oregon
DecidedOctober 9, 2002
Docket9908-67658 and 0004-63675; A113524
StatusPublished
Cited by13 cases

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In Re Marriage of Wilson, 55 P.3d 1106, 184 Or. App. 212, 2002 Ore. App. LEXIS 1563 (Or. Ct. App. 2002).

Opinion

*214 SCHUMAN, J.

The trial court in this dissolution case awarded husband custody of two children. The older child is the biological daughter of wife and the stepchild of husband. The younger child is the biological daughter of husband and wife. The trial court also awarded husband $10,000 for attorney fees. Wife appeals the custody and attorney fees decisions. We review the custody decision de novo, State ex rel Johnson v. Bail, 325 Or 392, 394, 938 P2d 209 (1997), and the attorney fee award for abuse of discretion, ORS 20.075(3). We reverse and remand the trial court’s custody judgment and vacate the attorney fee judgment.

Husband and wife were married in September 1992. At that time, wife already had a 22-month-old daughter, C, from an earlier relationship. From the first days of their relationship, husband and wife have been more or less equally involved in nurturing and caring for C. Although husband never adopted C, he is the only father figure she has known; her natural father does not maintain any contact with either C or wife. C uses husband’s last name and learned that he was not her biological father only after husband and wife separated. Nonetheless, because husband is a stepfather, his claim to custody of C is governed by ORS 109.119, which involves the rights of a parent vis-á-vis a stepparent who has established a “child-parent relationship.” ORS 109.119(1). Another daughter, E, was born to the parties in July 1995. Custody of E is governed by ORS 107.137, dealing with the rights of legal parents vis-a-vis each other.

Each party acknowledges that the other has a strong and loving bond with the children. Those acknowledgments are remarkable, because shortly after E’s birth in 1995, wife took a job working nights and weekends as a 9-1-1 operator, a situation to which husband reacted with resentment and jealousy, and the marriage became increasingly tense, so that by the time of the separation and litigation, the parties were locked in a relationship characterized by vitriolic noncooperation, mutual threats, and low-level violence. In three days of trial testimony and in extensive written submissions, *215 each party attempted to draw a convincingly repugnant portrait of the other, complete with mutual accusations of assault, false reports to law enforcement authorities, psychological mistreatment of the children, inability to subordinate selfish interests to the children’s welfare, new relationships with unsavory partners, and other misdeeds, detailed recital of which would not serve the bar or bench and would affirmatively disserve the parties and the children.

The trial court found that neither of the parties is the monster depicted by the other. The court found, rather, that “other than their conflict with each other,” each is “nurturing, attentive,” with “adequate parenting skills.” That finding echoes the court-appointed custody evaluator’s, and, on de novo review of the extensive record, we agree. The parties are both devoted parents who, trapped in the emotional vortex of a dramatically failing relationship, on a few occasions acted very badly to each other and to the children.

We also agree with the trial court and the custody evaluator that, under the pure “best interest of the child” standard applied in both child and stepchild custody cases at the time of this dissolution, husband prevails, albeit barely. The court made careful and detailed application of the “best interest” factors in ORS 107.137(1)(a) to (f). In summary, it found that the children had closer emotional ties with husband’s family than wife’s; that husband had a “slight edge” over wife with respect to the parties’ attitude toward and interest in the children; that husband was “in a better position and more inclined to continue and foster” relationships with other family members; that, although “there’s been a history here of mutual and extreme anger which has been borderline in terms of violence,” husband, unlike wife, “has grown and learned how to deal with his anger”; that husband was the primary caretaker, once again by only a “slight edge”; and that, with respect to each spouse’s willingness and ability to foster a relationship between the children and the other spouse, a “mixed picture” emerges with another slight advantage to husband.

Based on those findings, the trial court awarded custody to husband. But because the trial court regarded the “best interest” inquiry to be close, it ordered a visitation *216 schedule approaching joint custody. Wife received parenting time Monday afternoon to Thursday morning during the school year and Mother’s Day; half of summer vacations; and alternate Christmas vacations, spring breaks, children’s birthdays, and Thanksgivings.

On appeal, wife contends that the 2001 amendments to ORS 109.119 apply retroactively to the dispute over custody of C; that under those 2001 amendments, wife, not husband, must be awarded custody, because the 2001 amendments require more than a mere “best interest of the child” finding in order to award custody to a nonparent over the objection of a parent; that if the earlier version of ORS 109.119 was the correct statute, it is facially unconstitutional because it permitted an award of custody to a nonparent under a mere best interest standard; that if not facially unconstitutional, it was applied unconstitutionally in this case; and that, in any event, even if the “best interest of the child” standard is correct and constitutional, as it undeniably is with respect to E, the natural child of husband and wife, that standard was not met here.

Understanding the relationship and rationale of those assignments of error requires a brief review of some case law from this court, the Oregon Supreme Court, and the United States Supreme Court, as well as recent legislation.

As relevant to this case, ORS 109.119 (1997) provided:

“(1) Any person, including but not limited to a * * * stepparent * * * who has established emotional ties creating a child-parent relationship or an ongoing personal relationship with a child, or any legal grandparent may petition or file a motion for intervention with the court having jurisdiction over the custody, placement, guardianship or wardship of that child * * *.

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