Sears v. Sears

79 P.3d 359, 190 Or. App. 483, 2003 Ore. App. LEXIS 1550
CourtCourt of Appeals of Oregon
DecidedNovember 13, 2003
Docket01-2933; A117631
StatusPublished
Cited by2 cases

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Sears v. Sears, 79 P.3d 359, 190 Or. App. 483, 2003 Ore. App. LEXIS 1550 (Or. Ct. App. 2003).

Opinion

*485 LINDER, J.

Mother appeals from a judgment awarding custody of her son (AM) to his paternal grandparents. Resolution of mother’s appeal requires that we determine whether the trial court awarded custody to grandparents consistently with ORS 109.119. We review the facts de novo. ORS 19.415(3); State v. Wooden, 184 Or App 537, 540, 57 P3d 583 (2002). Because we conclude that grandparents have not rebutted the statutory presumption that mother acts in the best interest of AM, we reverse.

AM was born on January 1,1999, when mother was 17 years old and father was 15 years old. Mother and father never married. According to mother, the relationship was “off-and-on the whole time we were together. There were periods where we didn’t see each other and periods where we did.”

Father never contributed financially. Apparently, during the times that they were together, mother paid the rent and bills. As mother testified,

“[h]e was more like a kid than anything else. He would ask me for the money to go out and do stuff with a friend and ask me for new clothes, buy his clothes and food and anything else just like another kid.”

The testimony 1 showed that father has anger management and substance abuse problems. Grandmother, father’s mother, testified that father “has anger,” and mother indicated that father “has a real bad temper.” According to mother, father had punched holes in the doors and walls of one of their apartments, and he had

“gotten in fights with just about all landlords. He cusses people out and, I mean, I’ve never had a landlord that ever *486 liked him or anything. I mean, * * * we were staying at some friends of [grandparents] for a little while and they sat down with us and was telling [father] that he should get a job and help out and he got really mad and started cussing at them and ran out of their house after yelling a bunch of cuss words at them and I think they are pretty mad about that.”

Mother has seen father “use numerous amounts of drugs. For a while he was selling drugs. He’s pretty much constantly on drugs or looking to buy drugs.” John Sears, father’s brother, also testified that he has seen father use marijuana and has known father to be under the influence of substances that Sears referred to at the custody hearing as crank, acid, and mushrooms. Grandparents testified, however, that they were uncertain whether father has a drug and alcohol problem.

Mother gave birth to another son with father in April 2000. That child was released for adoption.

Mother testified that, during the late spring of2000, she obtained a restraining order against father “because he was getting really angry, and really violent [.]” In response, mother and father apparently agreed to joint custody of AM in June 2000. Under their agreement, AM was to reside with grandparents for at least three days per week and with mother for the remainder of the week. The agreement also provided that neither mother nor father was obligated to pay child support to the other for a period of one year. Mother testified that she agreed to that arrangement so that father could have supervised visitation with AM. Mother believed that this agreement was legally binding. Apparently, the court eventually dismissed the case concerning the restraining order.

By the end of January 2001, mother and father’s relationship ended. In June 2001, grandparents petitioned for custody of AM, and the custody hearing was held in November. 2

*487 When grandparents petitioned for custody in June 2001, AM was approximately two-and-one-half years old and had been regularly living with them for the majority of his life. AM lived with mother for at least the first seven weeks of his life. After that time, grandparents began babysitting AM while mother worked. AM’s time with grandparents increased. Eventually, by the time that AM was eight months old, he was regularly living with grandparents. 3 For the most part, mother and father have not contributed financially toward AM’s care. Grandmother testified that parenting AM, the same as parenting her own children, involved:

“Getting up at night and feeding him his night bottles, * * * at 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning, maybe, again, at 6:00 in the morning; * * * changing his diaper; giving him baths. When he started teething, * * * making sure he had teething gel on his gums and the baby aspirin; taking him in for his immunizations; just all the things you do with a baby, * * * the same as I did with my own children; make sure he’s well. When he had a cold, * * * make sure he had his medicine.”

At the time of the custody hearing, grandparents were toilet training AM. In general, grandparents play with AM, read to him, and show him educational videos. AM has a bedroom, toys, and an outdoor play area at grandparents’ home.

AM loves grandparents, and they love him. Grandfather described his relationship with AM as

“very strong. I told [mother] and [father] at the time that we would bond with this baby as our own, getting up with him nights, my nights off. I work graveyard. And rocking for the teething and watching him grow. Just — it’s almost like giving birth to another child, so the relationship is extremely strong. We told him this repeatedly, the longer we have this child, the stronger this bond is going to grow.”

*488 In sum, grandparents have demonstrated that, for most of AM’s life, they have parented him and have provided him with food, clothing, and shelter. 4

While AM has lived with grandparents, mother has had contact with him. AM has spent time at mother’s homes and has had extended visits with several of mother’s relatives. Also, mother had some visitation with AM while he was with those relatives. Before mid-June 2001, mother’s contact with AM was extremely limited, and there were periods during which mother had no contact with him. 5 After mid-June 2001, however, mother regularly has had AM two days per week. Those ongoing and regular visits continued through the time of the custody hearing in November 2001.

Although AM’s contact with mother has been limited, they have developed a relationship. As even grandmother acknowledged, mother loves AM. He calls her “Mom.” Kathleen Cherry, mother’s mother, testified that her daughter is protective, loving, and sincere and “good in her ways with [AM]” and that mother’s one concern is AM’s welfare. Mary Troub, mother’s aunt with whom AM has spent time, testified that mother has never abused or neglected AM, is patient and loving with him, and “talks to him and teaches him” when he does something wrong.

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