Marriage of F.M. & M.M.

CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedJune 3, 2021
DocketA160669
StatusPublished

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Filed 5/28/21; Modified and Certified for Pub. 6/3/21 (order attached)

IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA

FIRST APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION ONE

In re the Marriage of F.M. and M.M.

F.M., A160669 Appellant, v. (Alameda County Super. Ct. No. HF18918839) M.M., Respondent.

F.M. (mother) appeals the trial court’s denial of her application for a domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) against her former husband M.M. (father).1 Mother alleges that the trial court erroneously refused to consider evidence of abuse committed following the filing of her application, failed to properly evaluate the evidence of domestic violence that the court did agree to hear, and improperly found that physical separation alone could

1Father did not file a respondent’s brief, so we “may decide the appeal on the record, the opening brief, and any oral argument by the appellant.” (Cal. Rules of Court, rule 8.220(a)(2).) “Nonetheless, [mother] still bears the ‘affirmative burden to show error whether or not the respondent’s brief has been filed,’ and we ‘examine the record and reverse only if prejudicial error is found.’ ” (Smith v. Smith (2012) 208 Cal.App.4th 1074, 1078.) substitute for the legal protections afforded by a restraining order. We agree the court erred in all of these respects, and reverse. I. FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND A. Dissolution Proceedings Are Filed Mother and father married in June 2002. The parties are originally from Nigeria. In August 2018, mother filed a petition for dissolution of the parties’ marriage, listing June 7, 2017, as the date of separation. At the time of filing, the parties resided together with their six children, who were between the ages of 3 and 13. Throughout the marriage, mother was a stay- at-home parent and the primary caregiver for the children. In December 2018, mother filed a request for child and spousal support. In her moving papers, she stated that father had abused her throughout their marriage. Over the next six months, the dissolution proceeded without resolution through a series of status conferences. During this time mother, father, and their children continued to reside together. B. Mother’s DVRO Request On August 15, 2019, mother filed in pro. per. a DVRO application seeking protection from father for herself and their children under the Domestic Violence Prevention Act (Fam. Code,2 § 6200 et seq.; DVPA). She requested orders forbidding father from committing abuse, compelling him to stay away and to move out of their shared residence, and to be restrained from travelling with their children. In support of her request, she claimed that on four occasions during the previous two months father had called her vulgar names in front of their children, seized her cell phone, demanded that she leave the house, thrown her belongings outside, and tried to strike her

2All statutory references are to the Family Code unless otherwise indicated.

2 with his hands. She also stated that father had made multiple threats to kill her. According to mother’s declaration, she had suffered no physical injury from these incidents but had been beaten by father in the past. She also alleged that father had moved their eldest daughter to another location without her permission. The trial court granted mother’s application, in part, and issued a temporary restraining order (TRO). Father was ordered not to abuse mother and to stay at least five yards away from her. The court denied mother’s other requests pending a September 2019 hearing, including her requests to add the children as protected parties, to require father to move out of their shared residence, and to prevent father from traveling with the children. In denying these requests, the court explained that mother had not described the alleged abuse in sufficient detail and had failed to provide a legal basis for a move-out order. The court also noted that parenting orders would be issued after the parties met with family court services. Before the scheduled hearing, father filed a response to mother’s DVRO application. He stated that he was financially supporting the family without any contribution from mother. He reported that mother was verbally abusive towards him and the children, and that she would threaten to call the police whenever he asked her for help in paying household expenses. According to father, their oldest daughter was so upset at mother’s treatment of her that she had asked to move out. He denied committing any acts of violence, claiming that when mother harassed him he would not respond and would try to avoid her. C. DVRO Hearings The DVRO matter was heard over several days in the latter part of 2019. Before the first hearing, mother and father met with a child custody

3 counselor who recommended that mother be given sole legal and physical custody of the parties’ children. The counselor’s report noted that mother and father had argued during the entire meeting and were unable to make good use of mediation. The report also detailed father’s unilateral decision to send their eldest daughter to live in Elk Grove with the mother of his other child. Mother said she had not seen her daughter for almost a month and that father would not disclose their daughter’s exact location. The counselor opined that father’s decision to relocate the child was “peculiar” and “unusually controlling.” 1. September 2019 DVRO Hearing At the September 5, 2019 hearing, the trial court adopted the child custody counselor’s recommendations. Regarding mother’s DVRO application, the court stated, “[C]learly, you two do not need to be living together. I think that’s the big issue.” The court continued, “[T]he problem is you are living together, and if you were just living in separate households, you wouldn’t be encountering each other— [¶] . . . [¶] . . . and there wouldn’t be problems.” Mother responded that she was looking for an apartment and would move out as soon as she found one. The court replied that it wanted to set a date certain for mother’s move-out, saying the court was “not as much concerned with this request for this restraining order because I think the allegations you’ve made in this request have to do with the fact that the two of you are living together.” Mother said she would move out by the end of the month. The trial court asked mother whether she thought a restraining order would still be necessary once the parties had separate residences. Mother expressed concern about father being around her and the children because “[h]is behavior, it’s not good.” As an example, mother said that father calls

4 her a “motherfucker bitch” in the presence of the children. The court decided to continue the hearing for two months to allow the parties’ oldest daughter to be interviewed by the family court counselor since both parents had alleged the other was manipulating the child. Mother was directed to present a court order to the Elk Grove police to obtain a standby and retrieve the child. Even though father had not filed a request for a DVRO, the court ordered mother to move out of the parties’ home by the end of the month. The court granted mother’s request to reissue the TRO. Father was denied visitation. In October 2019, mother attended her scheduled custody counselor meeting, but father missed his own appointment. The counselor’s report noted that mother had moved out of the family home and was temporarily living in a motel. She also described a recent incident in which father had pushed her when she returned to their former shared residence to collect some of her personal belongings. Mother called the police, who arrested and jailed father. Additionally, mother had attempted to retrieve their eldest daughter but was unsuccessful because her court paperwork lacked the trial court’s signature and stamp.

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