Kreis v. Dollings

2025 Ohio 1329
Ohio Court of Appeals·Decided April 14, 2025·No. CT2024-0135 & CT2024-0136·Published

Opinion

COURT OF APPEALS

MUSKINGUM COUNTY, OHIO

FIFTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

DUSTIN MATTHEW KREIS : JUDGES:

: Hon. William B. Hoffman, P.J.

Plaintiff - Appellant : Hon. Robert G. Montgomery, J.

: Hon. David M. Gormley, J.

-vs- :

:

CAITLIN REBECCA DOLLINGS : Case Nos. CT2024-0135 : CT2024-0136 Defendant - Appellee :

OPINION

CHARACTER OF PROCEEDING: Appeal from the Muskingum County Court of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations Division, Case Nos.

DE2022-0523 and DE2024-0449

JUDGMENT: Affirmed

DATE OF JUDGMENT: April 14, 2025

APPEARANCES: For Plaintiff-Appellant

Brian W. Benbow 803 Taylor Street Zanesville, Ohio 43701

Gormley, J.

{¶1} Plaintiff Dustin Matthew Kreis appeals the judgment of the Domestic Relations Division of the Muskingum County Court of Common Pleas. That court, in response to a request from defendant Caitlin Rebecca Dollings, disqualified attorney Brian Benbow from representing Kreis in two cases involving the custody of Dollings’s two children because Attorney Benbow previously represented Dollings in a divorce action involving one of the children. Although Kreis argues that the trial court erred in disqualifying Attorney Benbow from representing him, we find no error in the trial court's judgment. Facts and Procedural History

{¶2} Dustin Matthew Kreis and Caitlin Rebecca Dollings were in a relationship and had one child together, A.K., who was born in 2017. Kreis and Dollings resided together for three years after A.K. was born.

{¶3} In September 2022, Kreis filed a complaint in Muskingum County and asked the Domestic Relations Division there to recognize his status as the father of A.K. and to allocate parental rights and responsibilities between the parties. The trial court in that case granted temporary custody of A.K. to Kreis. The parties then agreed in June 2023 to the terms of a proposed court order that, once it was filed, designated Kreis as the residential and legal custodian of A.K. and granted supervised parenting time to Dollings.

{¶4} About ten months later, Kreis filed a motion asking the trial court to suspend Dollings’s parenting time. A magistrate granted that motion in part, requiring Dollings to exercise all parenting time at a facility where her visitations with A.K. could be supervised.

{¶5} In July 2024, Kreis filed a new complaint seeking custody of a second child:

L.D., who is Dollings’s teenage daughter with her ex-husband. Kreis contended that both L.D.’s father and Dollings were unsuitable as legal guardians for L.D. and that the teenager’s interests would be best served if Kreis were granted legal custody.

{¶6} When Dollings filed her answer to that new complaint in September 2024, she also filed a motion asking the trial court to disqualify Kreis’s attorney, Brian Benbow, from continuing to represent Kreis not only in the new case involving the custody of L.D. but also in the 2022 case involving the younger child A.K. In her disqualification requests in the two cases, Dollings cited the fact that Benbow had represented Dollings in divorce proceedings involving L.D.’s father.

{¶7} The trial-court magistrate assigned to the two custody cases issued an order in October 2024 finding that an attorney-client relationship had existed between Dollings and Attorney Benbow when he represented Dollings in the prior divorce case, that the subject matter of the current custody cases was substantially related to the prior divorce case, and that Attorney Benbow had acquired confidential information through his representation of Dollings in that prior divorce case. The magistrate found that a conflict of interest for Attorney Benbow now exists under Ohio Rule of Professional Conduct 1.9, and, therefore, the magistrate disqualified Benbow from representing Kreis in both of the ongoing child-custody cases.

{¶8} Kreis filed objections to the magistrate’s decision. The trial court then set a deadline for the parties to file written arguments and any evidence and also ordered Dollings to file a verified statement specifying the circumstances supporting her request for Benbow’s disqualification. In response, Dollings filed an affidavit stating that she had discussed sensitive and confidential information with Attorney Benbow when he represented her in her prior divorce case, and she indicated that the two of them had talked confidentially about matters that would be directly related to custody issues in the present cases. Dollings also stated that her delay in raising the issue of Benbow’s alleged conflict was attributable to the intimidation that she now feels as a result of past experiences with domestic violence. She explained, too, that she has struggled with substance abuse in recent years.

{¶9} The trial court issued judgment entries in December 2024 disqualifying Attorney Benbow from representing Kreis in both child-custody cases. It is from these entries that Kreis now appeals. Dollings’s Motion Is Not Barred by Waiver or Laches

{¶10} We choose to first address Kreis’s argument that Dollings has waived any objection to Attorney Benbow’s representation of Kreis by failing to file much earlier her motion seeking the recusal or disqualification of Attorney Benbow. In the alternative, Kreis argues that Dollings’s request for disqualification is barred by the doctrines of estoppel or laches.

{¶11} “Waiver is the ‘intentional relinquishment or abandonment of a known right.’”

State v. Hairston, 2006-Ohio-4925, ¶ 9 (9th Dist.), quoting United States v. Olano, 507 U.S. 725, 733 (1993). “‘Mere negligence, oversight, or thoughtlessness does not create a waiver.’” Hicks v. Estate of Mulvaney, 2008-Ohio-4391, ¶ 13 (2d Dist.), quoting Russell v. City of Dayton, 1984 WL 4896, * 3 (2d Dist. May 18, 1984). Waiver is established by demonstrating “(1) that the party knew of its right to assert an argument or defense and (2) that the totality of the circumstances establish that the party acted inconsistently with that right.” Gembarski v. PartsSource, Inc., 2019-Ohio-3231, ¶ 25, citing Donnell v. Parkcliffe Alzheimer’s Community, 2017-Ohio-7982, ¶ 21 (6th Dist.).

{¶12} The doctrine of estoppel, on the other hand, “‘precludes a party from asserting certain facts where the party, by his conduct, has induced another to change his position in good faith reliance upon the party’s conduct.’” State Farm Mut. Auto. Ins. Co. v. Ingle, 2008-Ohio-6726, ¶ 32 (2d Dist.), quoting Turner Liquidating Co. v. St. Paul Surplus Lines Ins. Co., 93 Ohio App.3d 292, 295 (9th Dist. 1994).

{¶13} Attorney Benbow, without any objection from Dollings, represented Kreis for two years in the case involving the parental rights of and the custodial arrangements for A.K. Dollings first objected to Attorney Benbow’s representation of Kreis after Kreis filed a second custody action seeking custody of Dollings’s teenage child from her prior marriage.

{¶14} Dollings’s delay in seeking Benbow’s disqualification was not insignificant.

In light of all of the circumstances, however, we cannot say that her delay amounts to an intentional abandonment of her right to seek the disqualification of Kreis’s counsel.

{¶15} Dollings’s affidavit, together with the allegations in Kreis’s filings, shows that Dollings has struggled with alcoholism and has only recently achieved a period of sustained sobriety. Kreis’s July 2024 filing of a complaint for custody of L.D. also appears to have served as the impetus for Dollings’s request for Benbow’s disqualification, which Dollings first sought in September 2024. Notably, too, the alleged conflict for Benbow involves his representation of Dollings in her divorce case against L.D.’s father, and Dollings indicated in her affidavit in the trial court that she and Attorney Benbow discussed custody arrangements for L.D. when Benbow represented Dollings in that divorce case.

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