Interest of I.A.D., L.J.D., and C.M.D.

2023 S.D. 36
South Dakota Supreme Court·Decided July 19, 2023·No. 29965·Published·Cited by 3 cases

Opinion

#29965-a-PJD 2023 S.D. 36

IN THE SUPREME COURT

OF THE

STATE OF SOUTH DAKOTA

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In the Matter of the

Termination of Parental Rights over I.A.D, L.J.D., and C.M.D., Minor Children.

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APPEAL FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE SIXTH JUDICIAL CIRCUIT HUGHES COUNTY, SOUTH DAKOTA

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THE HONORABLE CHRISTINA L. KLINGER Judge

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EDWARD S. HRUSKA III of Bachand & Hruska, P.C. Pierre, South Dakota Attorneys for appellant mother.

AARON P. PILCHER Huron, South Dakota Attorney for appellee father.

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ARGUED

OCTOBER 5, 2022

OPINION FILED 07/19/23

DEVANEY, Justice [¶1.] Mother petitioned the circuit court under SDCL chapter 25-5A for the involuntary termination of Father’s parental rights, claiming that such termination is in the best interests of the children and that Father’s consent to the termination could be waived pursuant to SDCL 25-6-4. In response, Father indicated that he did not consent to the termination of his parental rights and asserted that his consent could not be deemed waived because Mother is not requesting that the children be adopted. After an evidentiary hearing on the merits of Mother’s petition, the circuit court concluded that it did not have statutory authority to terminate Father’s parental rights against his wishes in the absence of an adoption. The court alternatively held that termination would not be appropriate because Mother failed to comply with the provisions in chapter 25-5A and failed to meet her burden of proving waiver of consent and that termination would be in the children’s best interests. Mother appeals, and we affirm the circuit court’s determination that SDCL chapter 25-5A cannot be used to involuntarily terminate a parent’s rights without a corresponding adoption.

Factual and Procedural Background [¶2.] Mother and Father are the natural parents of three minor children, I.A.D., L.J.D., and C.M.D. Mother and Father were married in 2011, approximately one and a half years after I.A.D. was born. After having two more children, the couple divorced in 2017, when the youngest child, C.M.D., was approximately two years old. Father admits he has a long history of substance abuse and criminal

activity. It is undisputed that Father was addicted to opiates, and in 2009, he was convicted in federal court of distribution of marijuana. [¶3.] Father also admits that his continued drug use and criminal activity negatively affected Mother and the children. Mother testified about a particular incident that had occurred in 2012, wherein a man to whom Father owed money entered the home, demanded money from Father, and pushed Mother against the wall while I.A.D. and L.J.D. were there. Mother testified that after this incident, she moved out of the home with the two children (the youngest had not been born yet). [¶4.] After Mother moved out, Father was not involved in the children’s lives. However, by the end of 2013 and beginning of 2014, Mother and Father began to reconcile. She became pregnant with their third child, and in 2015, she and all three children were living with Father. However, according to Mother, Father was frequently absent from the home, and he continued to use substances. Father also had emotional and physical outbursts that negatively affected her and the children. These included acts of physical violence against Mother. Despite such incidents, the couple continued to live together, but according to Mother, she kept her distance from Father as much as she could. [¶5.] In February 2016, Father was driving around town with the two younger children in his vehicle. He stopped the vehicle outside a home and left the children in the vehicle while he burglarized the home to support his drug addiction. Father was apprehended by law enforcement and was later charged in an eight- count indictment with, among other charges, second-degree burglary, intentional

damage to private property, and contributing to the abuse, neglect, or delinquency of a child. At the time of this 2016 incident, Father had charges pending in two other criminal files, including charges in a June 2015 indictment for grand theft by possession of stolen property and in an October 2015 indictment for second-degree burglary and intentional damage to property. [¶6.] In a July 2016 court proceeding, Father was sentenced to five years in prison for grand theft by possession of stolen property; ten years in prison with five years suspended for second-degree burglary; and ten years in prison with five years suspended for third-degree burglary. These sentences were ordered to run concurrently. The couple divorced in July 2017, while Father was incarcerated. Although the judgment and decree of divorce is not included in this record, Mother testified that she has sole legal and physical custody of the children and that Father agreed to these terms. [¶7.] According to Father, he decided during his incarceration that he wanted to live a different life and be a better father to his children. He acknowledged his harmful parental conduct and claimed that it was the result of his drug addiction. Father also claimed that he worked on his addiction recovery in prison by attending counseling and working on a treatment plan. [¶8.] Father was released from prison in November 2018 and on the day he was released, he picked his children up from school and began exercising regular visitation with them thereafter. The record does not disclose a written custody or visitation agreement, but both Mother and Father testified that they had verbally agreed that after his release, visitation would occur with Father every other

weekend and one night a week. Father testified that from February 2019 to July 2020, he exercised regular visitation with the children, and from January 2020 to July 2020, this included overnight visits every other weekend. Mother did not dispute that Father exercised regular visitation. She noted, however, that she and Father did not get along and communications concerning the children occurred between Mother and Father’s new wife. 1 Mother also noted that in March 2019, Father was arrested for driving under the influence on his way to pick up the older two children from school, and that despite being employed, he was not paying child support. [¶9.] In July 2020, Mother stopped allowing Father visitation with the children, and in response, Father sent Mother a letter dated August 6, 2020, with a proposed stipulation and agreement governing custody, visitation, and child support. In her written reply on August 28, Mother identified her concerns with past visits and requested that Father address twenty-six issues, which she described in detail, before she would allow visitation to resume. Among other issues, Mother requested that Father take a drug test before each visit; sign a release giving his parole officer permission to provide information to Mother; remove any firearms from his possession; not leave the children alone at events or at home; not have the children babysit other children (Father’s wife’s children); take anger management classes; allow the children to have access to their phones; and start paying child support and his share of the children’s expenses.

1. Father remarried on May 23, 2019.

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