E.E. v. O.M.G.R.

20 A.3d 1171, 420 N.J. Super. 283
New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided June 10, 2011·Published·Cited by 5 cases

Opinion

SANDSON, J.S.C.

The question presented to the court is whether two parties can enter into a private contract regarding a self-administered “artificial insemination” procedure whereby one party may contract with another to terminate their parental rights. This is a case of first impression under New Jersey law. This court has determined, first, that parties cannot by contract terminate their parental rights under common law. Rather, the termination of parental rights is controlled by statute. Second, the Legislature did not intend for this type of procedure to lead to the termination of parental rights under the New Jersey Artificial Insemination statute N.J.S.A. 9:17—14, and therefore the parental rights of the donor in this matter will not be terminated.

The facts of this case are unusual. Plaintiff is a single woman without a partner who wished to have a child. She did not wish to assume the expense of purchasing sperm through a sperm bank or use a licensed physician in order to effect the insemination. Rather she secured her friend, O.M.G.R., to donate his sperm, which she transported to its intended location with a kitchen [286] turkey baster. Shortly following the child’s conception, the parties entered into an agreement dated April 12, 2010, whereby defendant contracted to surrender and terminate all future rights and responsibilities to the child and plaintiff assumed all financial responsibility for the child. The Agreement contained the following provisions:

Voluntary Relinquühment/Termiimtim of Parental Rights
This is a voluntary relinquishment of any and all parental rights and obligations such as child support, visitation and custody in relationship to the donation of the sperm either through in-vitro fertilization, artificial insemination/intrauterine insemination or sexual relations from [defendant] to [plaintiff].
If a child is conceived or bom through the sperm donations given by [defendant] through in-vitro fertilization, artificial insemination/intrauterine insemination or sexual relations to [plaintiff] this document serves as a voluntary relinquishment of any and all parental rights and obligations such as child support, visitation & custody in relation to the bora child or children in the event of multiple birth. This relinquishment & termination of all legal parental rights to the sperm, fetus, or bom child is completely voluntary and without force, gift, monetary exchange or promises.
[Plaintiff] shall be the sole parent and provider for the child and relinquishes any rights to seek financial or emotional support from [defendant] at any time.

Both parties signed and dated the document in the presence of a notary on April 19,2010.

On December 17, 2010, the child, G.J.E., was born. No name was listed on the birth certificate as the child’s father. Following the child’s birth, the parties again signed a consent order, indicating again that defendant had surrendered all rights and responsibilities relating to the child and plaintiff had assumed full responsibility for the child’s health and well-being. The consent order was submitted to this court.

Under New Jersey law, a child has the right to the security of two parents at the time of birth. C.M. v. C.C., 152 N.J.Super. 160, 167, 377 A.2d 821 (Ch.Div.1977). The Supreme Court of New Jersey noted that parental rights can be legally terminated under New Jersey law only when a parent has been declared unfit, an adoption has taken place, or if [the Division of Youth and Family Services] has removed a child from a parent. Monmouth County Div. of Soc. Serv. for D.M. v. G.D.M., 308 [287] N.J.Super. 83, 90, 705 A.2d 408 (Ch.Div.1997) (citing In re Baby M, 109 N.J. 396, 426, 537 A.2d 1227 (1988)). Accordingly, the parental rights of one parent may not be terminated by consent except when it is accompanied by the adoption of the child by another party. See, e.g., R.H. v. M.K., 254 N.J.Super. 480, 484, 603 A.2d 995 (Ch.Div.1991). A detailed consent agreement designed to terminate a biological father’s parental rights and spell out the mother’s ability to fully care for the child was definitively struck down by the court in R.H., supra, 254 N.J.Super. at 484, 603 A.2d 995. The parties in R.H., with the help of counsel, entered into a comprehensive agreement, whereby the biological father fully and unequivocally gave up his rights to the child that the parties had conceived. Id. at 483, 603 A.2d 995. The parties argued, under the adoption procedure then in effect, that a natural parent may consent to an adoption of a child conceived per N.J.S.A. 9:3-48.1

By analogy, the parties argued, since they both consented to the termination of plaintiffs parental rights, their agreement should be upheld by the court. Id. at 486, 603 A.2d 995. The court did not find the analogy persuasive and held the agreement invalid. The court reasoned, first, the adoption statute provides for an approved agency investigation, a preliminary hearing and a finding of fitness. Ibid. Secondly, the court reasoned that an adoptive parent is a second parent to the child noting “[t]he adopted child will be raised (presumably) by two individuals with different (perhaps complementary) strengths and weaknesses.” Id. at 487, 603 A.2d 995.

The guiding principle necessary to resolve the case at hand is that a permanent contractual surrender of parental rights is not provided for under New Jersey law. In re Baby M, supra, 109 N.J. at 433, 537 A.2d 1227. The Court has unequivocally stated that a child’s relationship with his or her parents is so significant that all doubts are to be resolved against the destruction of that [288] relationship. Ibid.; see also In Re N.M., 96 N.J.Super. 415, 425, 233 A.2d 188 (App.Div.1967). Rather, the case law demonstrates that the termination of parental rights is strictly governed by statute. In re Baby M, supra, 109 N.J. at 425-26, 537 A.2d 1227. In this case, there is no second party to adopt the child. Therefore, the termination of defendant’s rights cannot be accomplished by the parties’ contract.

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