Durastanti v. Durastanti

2020 Ohio 4687
Ohio Court of Appeals·Decided September 30, 2020·No. C-190655·Published·Cited by 4 cases

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS

FIRST APPELLATE DISTRICT OF OHIO HAMILTON COUNTY, OHIO

MELISSA : APPEAL NO. C-190655 TOWNSEND DURASTANTI, TRIAL NO. DV-190584 :

Plaintiff-Appellee, : O P I N I O N.

vs.

:

RONALD JOSEPH DURASTANTI, :

Defendant-Appellant.

:

Civil Appeal From: Hamilton County Domestic Relations Court Judgment Appealed From Is: Reversed and Cause Remanded Date of Judgment Entry on Appeal: September 30, 2020

Melissa Townsend Durastanti, pro se,

Brafford & Rivello, Suellen M. Brafford, for Defendant-Appellant. BERGERON, Judge.

{¶1} In this appeal from the trial court’s grant of a domestic violence civil protection order, we consider whether the trial court erred in overruling the magistrate’s denial of the protection order. The result hinges on the narrow standard of review provided for by Civ.R. 65.1, which contrasts in many ways with the more expansive standard under Civ.R. 53. Because we find that the trial court applied the incorrect standard under Civ.R. 65.1 in its order overruling the magistrate, we reverse the trial court’s grant of the protection order and remand for additional proceedings consistent with this opinion.

I.

{¶2} Melissa Townsend (formerly Durastanti) and Joe Durastanti married in March 2017. The couple initially lived together in Mississippi with Ms. Townsend’s three children (unrelated to Mr. Durastanti), before relocating to Cincinnati, Ohio at different points in 2019. Beyond these basic details, the parties disagree on nearly all of the relevant facts in this case—particularly the backdrop leading to the request for the protection order. These divergent tales, chronicled below, place witness credibility as the centerpiece of this case.

{¶3} According to Ms. Townsend, Mr. Durastanti engaged in three acts of “erratic physical abuse” between 2017 and 2019. The first act of abuse, in April 2017, involved pushing and shoving in the couple’s Mississippi home—but that did not result in any visible bruising or medical treatment. The second act of abuse relates to a trip the couple took to Columbia in the summer of 2018. In the aftermath of that trip, Ms. Townsend recalled an argument (in connection with disputes emanating from their international excursion) during which Mr. Durastanti allegedly shoved her against a door and into an adjacent room, whereupon she fell and bruised her

shoulder. Ms. Townsend took a picture of the bruise after the incident, which she entered into evidence at the hearing before the magistrate.

{¶4} The third event stems from Ms. Townsend’s decision to leave her husband. In November 2018, she broke the news to Mr. Durastanti that she wanted a divorce and planned to move to Cincinnati, with the dual purposes of obtaining treatment for her son (who has a rare stomach condition) and distancing herself from their tumultuous relationship. A few months later, Ms. Townsend embarked for Cincinnati, after agreeing with Mr. Durastanti that he would come periodically to visit her and the children in Cincinnati, ostensibly to see if they could maintain some type of on-going amicable relationship. Between January 2019 and Ms. Townsend’s filing for a protection order, Mr. Durastanti appeared (unannounced) to visit her and the children three times.

{¶5} These visits did not go well, bringing us to the third incident of alleged abuse in May 2019. At trial, Ms. Townsend explained that she informed Mr. Durastanti that she no longer wanted a relationship with him, agreeing to meet him at a grocery store in Cincinnati to discuss the break-up in person. Ms. Townsend testified that at some point during the conversation, she left the store and entered Mr. Durastanti’s car, and that he proceeded to drive extremely fast (upwards of 100 miles per hour) and erratically, before shoving her out of the car in her driveway. As she fell out of the car, her leg hit the door, resulting in bruising. Ms. Townsend submitted a picture of the bruise on her leg as evidence at trial. A few days after this argument, Mr. Durastanti texted Ms. Townsend: “I know what I’m about to do! If you don’t stop your taking my family again I’ll take yours.” Ms. Townsend understood this and a related text to represent threats to her and her children.

{¶6} Unsurprisingly, Mr. Durastanti paints a very different picture of his relationship with Ms. Townsend. He maintains that he “never [] laid a hand on her” or threatened her in any way. As to the post-Columbia trip argument, Mr. Durastanti claims he was lying on the couch when Ms. Townsend started screaming at him: “I can’t believe you’re mad. You’re abusive.” Mr. Durastanti bounded up the stairs when Ms. Townsend grabbed his arm and shoved his face in the closet door; in response, he pushed her off of him in defense. Similarly, Mr. Durastanti denies physically abusing Ms. Townsend after the grocery store encounter, insisting that they simply had a conversation: “We talked in her car. I left in my car and she left in her car.”

{¶7} Mr. Durastanti also contested the circumstances of the couple’s divorce and Ms. Townsend’s January 2019 move to Cincinnati. According to Mr. Durastanti, Ms. Townsend informed him that they needed to get divorced because his income precluded her son from getting into the desired treatment program at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital. Mr. Durastanti obliged, filing for divorce and purchasing a home for Ms. Townsend and her children in Cincinnati.

{¶8} By March 2019, with the divorce finalized, Mr. Durastanti claimed that Ms. Townsend had second thoughts and wanted to get remarried, prompting the couple to discuss buying another house in Cincinnati where they and the children could live together. To support this assertion at trial, Mr. Durastanti submitted a text message into evidence in which Ms. Townsend discussed a May date for their (encore) wedding. The couple looked at homes together, but Ms. Townsend then changed her mind, deciding to stay in her current home and not to remarry. Nevertheless, Mr. Durastanti purchased a home in Cincinnati just a few miles from Ms. Townsend, seemingly convinced that Cincinnati provided a better place to live

than Mississippi. Ms. Townsend filed her petition for a protection order shortly after this purchase.

{¶9} After sorting through all of the evidence and testimony in this case, the magistrate dismissed Ms. Townsend’s petition, deeming the evidence “insufficient to demonstrate an act of domestic violence.” The trial court initially adopted the magistrate’s decision (see Civ.R. 65.1(F)(3)(c)(ii)), but Ms. Townsend timely objected, prompting the trial court to convene a hearing on the objections. A day after the hearing, the trial court sustained Ms. Townsend’s objection and issued a protection order for one year as to Ms. Townsend (though not to her children). Significantly, in its entry, the trial court cited only the May 2019 incident and corresponding bruise as evidence “support[ing] a finding that [Mr. Durastanti] attempted to cause or recklessly caused bodily harm to [Ms. Townsend] pursuant to R.C. 3113.31(A)(1)(a)(i).”

{¶10} On appeal, Mr. Durastanti raises two assignments of error. First, he contends that the trial court erred by granting a protection order as against the manifest weight of the evidence. Next, he maintains that the trial court applied the incorrect legal standard and failed to accord the magistrate due deference in his decision. We address the second assignment of error first, as we find that dispositive.

II.

{¶11} Unlike other civil proceedings referred to a magistrate—which are generally governed by Civ.R. 53—proceedings for a domestic violence civil protection order under R.C. 3113.31 implicate Civ.R. 65.1. Key distinctions between Civ.R. 53 and Civ.R. 65.1 drive our decision in today’s case, so we take a moment to explore and contrast the two standards before applying them to this case.

A.

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