S.Y. v. A.L.

2023 Ohio 3964
Ohio Court of Appeals·Decided October 27, 2023·No. WD-22-068·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF OHIO SIXTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

WOOD COUNTY

S.Y. Court of Appeals No. WD-22-068 Appellant Trial Court No. 2022 JO 0480 v. A.L. DECISION AND JUDGMENT Appellee Decided: October 27, 2023

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Brian C. Morrissey, for appellant.

Alex M. Savickas, for appellee.

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MAYLE, J.

{¶ 1} Appellant, S.Y., appeals the October 3, 2022 judgment of the Wood County Court of Common Pleas, Juvenile Division, denying his petition for a civil protection order against appellee, A.L. For the following reasons, we affirm.

I. Background and Facts

{¶ 2} In May 2022, S.Y., who was almost 19 years old, filed a petition for a juvenile civil protection order (“CPO”) against A.L., who was 14 years old. In his petition, S.Y. alleged that A.L., his ex-girlfriend, was “continually” reaching out to him on social media platforms through follow requests; “[i]n the near past,” A.L. and her family members had been “stalking/driving past” his house to try to intimidate him and his family; A.L. had told “multiple people” at her high school that S.Y. had raped her and her younger sister; “in the past[,]” A.L. had “threatened to have her parents cause physical harm * * *” to S.Y. and his property; and A.L. “continued to show up to [his] place of employment.” The magistrate who heard S.Y.’s request for an ex parte CPO denied the “specific relief [he] requested at the hearing,” but ordered A.L. to have no direct or indirect contact with S.Y.

{¶ 3} In July 2022, the magistrate held a hearing on S.Y.’s request for a CPO. At the hearing, S.Y. presented the testimony of his father and testified in his own behalf. A.L. testified in her own behalf.

{¶ 4} According to S.Y., he and A.L. were in a romantic relationship that soured because her parents did not approve. In October 2021, S.Y. consented to a protection order against him under which A.L. was the protected person. Before that, on August 10, 2021, A.L.’s mother, on A.L.’s behalf, had obtained an ex parte protection order against S.Y. All told, S.Y. had six criminal complaints filed against him in the Bowling Green

Municipal Court relating to his relationship and behavior with A.L. The docket sheets that A.L. submitted as exhibits show that S.Y. was convicted of one charge of unlawful sexual conduct with a minor and three charges of violating a protection order, is on community control until October 2026, and served more than seven months in jail. S.Y. said that he went to jail three separate times for violating the protection order: “the first two times * * * because I responded to a message she sent me, and the third time was because I walked across the street * * * to talk to a neighbor, and that neighbor’s house is within 500 feet [of A.L.’s house].”

{¶ 5} After his final conviction in December 2021 (which resulted in a 180-day jail sentence), S.Y. claimed that A.L. contacted him on several occasions. These contacts were all in the form of requests to connect on social media. Specifically, S.Y. claimed that A.L.’s accounts sent him five follow requests on Instagram and added him as a friend twice on Snapchat. She also communicated with him through a shared Google Docs document (which led to his final violating-a-protection-order conviction), both before and after he went to jail in late 2021. Additionally, in September (presumably of 2021), he and A.L. created a Twitter account that they each had access to and could use to communicate.

{¶ 6} S.Y. presented as exhibits screenshots from his phone that, he claimed, showed that A.L. sent him five follow requests on Instagram. The majority of these screenshots did not have a date on them, but S.Y. recalled that he received two in May 2022, one the day he filed the CPO petition and one several days later; one in June 2022; and one in the week before the CPO hearing in July 2022. He could not remember the date he received the final follow request, but said it was also after he filed his CPO petition and the magistrate issued a no-contact order against A.L. The other notifications in the screenshots were different—i.e., the screenshots were not identical, despite each containing a follow request from A.L.’s account—which S.Y. pointed to as evidence that each follow request from A.L.’s Instagram account was a new, unique request. He also claimed that each request was new and unique because he blocks the account and “delete[s] the[ requests] as soon as they come in so they’re not on [his] phone so [he] can’t accidentally press confirm.”

{¶ 7} In addition to the follow requests on Instagram, S.Y. presented screenshots showing that A.L.’s account (with a different username) viewed his Instagram story in November (presumably of 2021). The same exhibit also contains a screenshot of a message that S.Y. received through Instagram from a user named “Emma Tanner.” Although S.Y. did not know for sure that A.L. was behind the Emma Tanner account, he believed that she was because their shared Twitter account also included the name “Emma;” the Emma Tanner account was new, had no profile picture, and “blocked [S.Y.] immediately after[;]” and the message said only “[A.L.]’s wife[.]”

{¶ 8} S.Y. also presented two screenshots showing that A.L.’s Snapchat account had added him as a friend, despite S.Y. blocking A.L.’s account. Neither of these screenshots had a date on them, but each had a different list of “Quick Add” accounts below the notification that A.L.’s account “Added Me.” He believed that the Snapchat adds were unique adds because he “blocked her before and then it happened again. So when you block someone, the notification gets removed so you can’t see them.” S.Y. did not testify to the dates he received the Snapchat notifications.

{¶ 9} S.Y. said that the repeated requests from A.L. had been “stressful” and he had to “make sure [he’s] not putting [him]self at risk.” He blocked A.L.’s Instagram and Snapchat accounts. He also got a new phone number. He said that he was afraid for his health and safety “because I have an order of protection on me, * * * I’ve moved. A lot of things have changed in my life. And it just, you know, keeps happening. It’s like I cannot really, you know, use my phone or really anything without worrying like, you know, who texted me, who called me, who is this adding me * * *.” He also claimed that the requests from A.L. were causing him mental distress, and that he “stopped using social media” so that he would not “accidentally accept” a request from A.L. S.Y. summarized the ways his life was different because he was trying to avoid contact with A.L.:

[W]here I live. * * * I don’t go see my parents anymore because there’s been instances where she’s been outside our house. I mean, I don’t talk to a lot of * * * my old friends at Bowling Green High School because either rumors have been spread about me * * *, it’s just risky because I don’t know who’s texting * * * me, if it’s her using someone else’s phone or if it’s the actual person. It’s just too risky so I don’t do it.

In short, S.Y. said that he “changed a lot in [his] life to avoid * * *” further charges related to the protection order against him. He wanted a CPO against A.L. so that he could “just kind of move on and, you know, pick up the remains and just kind of move on with life.”

{¶ 10} On cross, S.Y. said that the existence of the protection order against him caused him emotional distress, but acknowledged that his conduct was what led to a court granting the order. He also admitted that he could simply not respond to any requests to connect on social media. Although S.Y. had filed police reports related to the social media requests, A.L. had not been criminally charged as a result.

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