David Jay Didio v. Sara Thoits Didio

CourtCourt of Appeals of Virginia
DecidedDecember 18, 2007
Docket0204072
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA

Present: Judges Clements, Haley and Beales Argued at Richmond, Virginia

DAVID JAY DIDIO MEMORANDUM OPINION * BY v. Record No. 0204-07-2 JUDGE RANDOLPH A. BEALES DECEMBER 18, 2007 SARA THOITS DIDIO

FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF CHESTERFIELD COUNTY Timothy J. Hauler, Judge

W. Todd Watson (Hargett & Watson, PLC, on brief), for appellant.

G. Russell Stone, Jr. (Aileen F. Tucker; Bowen, Champlin, Carr, Foreman & Rockecharlie, on brief), for appellee.

David Jay Didio (husband) appeals from a final decree entered on December 21, 2006,

awarding a divorce to Sara Thoits Didio (wife). He argues that the trial court erred (1) in

granting a divorce to wife rather than to husband; (2) in failing “to fairly and fully consider the

evidence” related to equitable distribution presented by husband; (3) in considering husband’s

student loans as income; (4) in refusing to award husband spousal support; (5) in limiting

husband’s visitation with the parties’ daughter to the recommendations of the daughter’s

therapist and requiring him to pay all costs associated with visitation; and (6) in awarding

attorney’s fees to wife. Wife argues that husband has presented this Court with an incomplete

record, and so his appeal should be dismissed under Rule 5A:25(c)(3). Finding errors in the trial

court’s rulings, we remand for further consideration by that court, consistent with this opinion.

We also deny wife’s request for an award of attorney’s fees and costs associated with this appeal.

* Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication. Given the parties are familiar with the evidence, and this opinion is not designated for

publication, we limit our discussion of the facts to those particularly relevant to our holding on

each issue.

I. Award of Divorce

Husband argues that the trial court should have granted the divorce on the ground pled in his

petition – desertion. He contends the trial court erred in granting the divorce to wife based on the

parties having lived separate and apart for one year. We hold the trial court did not err in granting

the divorce to wife on the grounds that the parties had lived apart for a year.

The parties agree that they had lived separate and apart for over a year by the time the

final decree was entered. They also agree that wife moved out of the marital home while

husband was away on a camping trip and that husband did not expect wife to move. They also

agree that husband filed for divorce first, and wife then filed a cross-petition.

Although husband claims the trial court erred in awarding the divorce to wife, the court

acted within its discretion. When the evidence supports both grounds, a trial court may choose to

award the divorce on either ground. As this Court previously explained in Williams v. Williams,

14 Va. App. 217, 220, 415 S.E.2d 252, 253-54 (1992) (footnote omitted),

The record establishes that the parties had been separated in excess of one year when the trial court granted the divorce on this ground. See Code § 20-91(9). Nevertheless, the husband asserts that his evidence proved the wife’s adultery, and he was entitled to this determination by the court, with its attendant effect, if any, on the issues of spousal support and attorney’s fees.

Assuming, without deciding, that the husband sufficiently proved the wife’s adultery, the trial court was not compelled “to give precedence to one proven ground of divorce over another.” Robertson v. Robertson, 215 Va. 425, 426, 211 S.E.2d 41, 43 (1975). It is well established that “where dual or multiple grounds for divorce exist, the trial judge can use his sound discretion to select the grounds upon which he will grant the divorce.” Lassen v. Lassen, 8 Va. App. 502, 505, 383 S.E.2d 471, 473 (1989) (citing Zinkhan v. Zinkhan, 2 Va. App. 200, 210, 342 S.E.2d 658, 663 -2- (1986)); see Derby v. Derby, 8 Va. App. 19, 25, 378 S.E.2d 74, 77 (1989).

We find the trial court did not err in awarding the divorce to wife on the grounds that the

parties had lived apart for over a year.

II. Equitable Distribution

The evidence in this case was presented via de bene esse depositions. No evidence was

presented ore tenus. When they submitted the evidence to the trial court, both parties also

submitted briefs that, inter alia, set forth their recommendations for division of the marital estate.

The trial court did not enter a pretrial order requiring that these briefs follow a particular

structure. Although husband’s brief did not address each of the factors in Code § 20-107.3

individually, his brief discussed each asset and the evidence relevant to its characterization as

marital, also making a recommendation for division of the assets based on the evidence. Wife’s

brief discussed the evidence related to each of the statutory factors in turn.

After reviewing the evidence, briefs, and oral argument of the parties, the trial court

issued a letter opinion. The letter stated, in part:

Only Mrs. Didio has presented the Court with an organized summary of the evidence with regard to the equitable distribution factors. The Court is not in a position to parse through evidence submitted by Mr. Didio in this matter in order to provide a comprehensive summary in support of each equitable distribution factor.

* * * * * * *

As Mr. Didio has failed to provide the Court with a memorandum or summary illustrating the evidence deemed to be important with regard to each factor, any objections to the scheme of equitable distribution suggesting that this Court has failed to consider all of the equitable distribution factors are deemed waived.

The court then proceeded to address each factor in Code § 20-107.3, stating several times that the

“[e]vidence with regard to this factor is set forth more fully below.” In the section “below,” the

-3- trial court discussed each marital asset and divided it, rather than setting an overall percentage

for division of the entire marital estate. 1

The court’s opinion letter discussed at least some of husband’s evidence and some

argument presented in his brief. Husband, however, points to two specific issues where he

contends the trial court did not consider his evidence and argument: (A) the amounts in the

parties’ financial accounts and (B) husband’s payment of the expenses for the parties’ horses.

A. Financial Accounts

The parties presented the trial court with a stipulation regarding the value of various

financial accounts as of “the time of separation.” After the separation, husband withdrew

$49,922 from three of these marital accounts. He testified that he withdrew this money to pay

for his living expenses, the mortgage on the home, and the expenses associated with boarding the

horses owned by the parties. 2 Husband had been laid off from his job prior to the separation, and

the money from his severance package was essentially gone when wife left the marital home.

Husband was a full-time student at Virginia Commonwealth University at the time of the

separation and did not have a regular income.

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