Cooper v. Bettinger

242 Cal. App. 4th 77, 194 Cal. Rptr. 3d 772, 2015 Cal. App. LEXIS 1015
CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedNovember 12, 2015
DocketB257664
StatusPublished
Cited by35 cases

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Cooper v. Bettinger, 242 Cal. App. 4th 77, 194 Cal. Rptr. 3d 772, 2015 Cal. App. LEXIS 1015 (Cal. Ct. App. 2015).

Opinion

*80 Opinion

CHANEY, J.—

SUMMARY

Eric Bettinger appeals from an order renewing a civil harassment restraining order against him under section 527.6, subdivision (j), of the Code of Civil Procedure. 1 2 We reverse and remand.

FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND

After 40 years without any contact or communication between them, Bettinger initiated a series of unreciprocated contacts with Shelley Cooper, a childhood neighbor and junior high classmate with whom he had minimal contact from 1968 to 1970. Cooper is a jewelry designer and owns a jewelry store in Gardena with an online Web site and occasionally appears in vendor videos on an Internet marketing site selling her jewelry.

At the end of 2010, Bettinger sent a letter to Cooper at her store, congratulating her on her career and success and telling her, “I would like to talk to you again. You were my friend for many years and to this day I still think of you every March 24” — Cooper’s birthday. Bettinger then told Cooper that he fixed cars in Marina Del Rey and provided his work and home phone numbers, but told Cooper, “I don’t own a cell phone. I don’t have e-mail, but I do have a meteorite I’d like you to look at. Please give me a call.” He closed the letter with, “Your old friend, Eric.” Cooper did not call Bettinger.

About two months later, Bettinger sent a letter dated March 3, 2011 — not to Cooper — but to “any staff member” at Cooper’s store along with $20 “for a few minutes” of the person’s time. It starts by stating: “This letter is for the person that saw Shelley’s anger on Wednesday, Jan. 5 when she got a letter from me.[ 2 ] . . . What I am about to tell you most people will say is impossible .... The only reason I contacted her 2 months ago was to share a telepathic experience with her.” The March 2011 letter then purports to describe Cooper’s thoughts and responses while reading the first letter until “the link was broken,” including Cooper thinking, “He was here the whole time” based on his address, getting “very mad” when she got to the part about his lack of a cell phone, thinking “this is eerie” twice, and how she “spun *81 around and faced South — toward me — (as I gave her 2 locations to direct her energy — my home and work).” The letter then states that Bettinger “was going to write about a week later, but [Cooper’s] anger gave me a headache for 2 weeks. Then I was embarrassed for another month.”

The March 2011 letter also talks about how Bettinger was “representing myself with thought” and wanted Cooper “to experience E.S.P.” He notes that “If you were there that day, you know all of this is true. This is not a trick.” The letter states that his first telepathic experience was in 1977 and that he started talking to Cooper about the mind before he last saw her in “June 1980.” 3 Bettinger describes his December 2010 letter as “lousy” but explains that “I wrote it that way on purpose. First, I showed respect, then I create a mystery so I could hear her thoughts. Even the stamp was put on wrong on purpose.” 4 The letter again expresses a desire to talk to Cooper and “hear her voice again without the anger” but claims, “I will not contact Shelley any more” and ends stating that “It is her choice.” Cooper did not call Bettinger. She spoke to a Gardena police officer who advised her not to respond or contact Bettinger.

In a six-page letter dated June 1, 2011, Bettinger again contacted Cooper. This letter to Cooper was enclosed with a cover letter for a “Staff Member” and another $20 “for your time,” asking the staff member to give Cooper the enclosed letter and acknowledging, “Yes, I know I said I wouldn’t contact Shelley again, but after her TV show[ 5 ] — this is too important. Shelley is to Jewelry what the Beatles are to Music.” The enclosed letter 6 to Cooper starts: “I saw your show and I cried my eyes out. Not only was it really you, but your jewels were so beautiful. I was in shock. ... I tried to work the next day, but I ended up breaking down and drove home, got a bottle of whisky and cried until I passed out. I can’t believe what I’ve done. My first letter was so immature and ridiculous that I thought you would see through it.” 7 (Italics added.) He then tells Cooper that “Fourteen and Fifteen year old Eric wanted to tell you he loves you, so for his sake, I’m telling you now I still have love for you.” The letter goes on to explain, “I’m not just saying that because you are a famous jewelry designer, but because I’ve been telling my best friend/girlfriend Sherry for 25 years that she replaced you.” The letter *82 claims that Bettinger and Cooper “used to talk for hours and if we have nothing in common at 55,1 will go away on my own.” The letter then states: “I still need to know what happened between June 1980 and 1987. You were in Chicago? ... I lost track of you, but my God I never, ever forgot you.” Bettinger then recounted his memories from their childhood, including when Cooper kissed Bettinger on the cheek as a thank you, telling her, “I wonder if you remember that, because I sure do. It still means a lot to me over 40 years later.”

The June 1, 2011 letter also discusses Bettinger’s anger at himself for missing by two weeks Cooper’s jewelry showing nearby in September 2010, explaining, “I googled your name while I was looking for jewelry stores in October.” Apparently Bettinger believed that if he had seen Cooper in person rather than writing his first letter, “This whole mess I made would have been avoided. I am begging you for one more chance.” Bettinger also describes how after January 5, his “karma was so bad” and people were yelling at him — including his boss, his brother and strangers — leading him to wonder what he had done. He concluded, “I have angered the GODS. I was just trying to prove clairvoyance. I’ve had no training. And until then I have never intentionally initiated it. Which brings me to the question I’ve been trying to ask for 5 months. Did it happen?”

Bettinger’s June 1, 2011 letter then describes an event that “changed his life.” The letter details how Bettinger was in a bar in 1985 with his back to the four-woman band that was performing when “a feeling came over me. Really strong feeling- — -Someone on stage is gay. It was powerful and I turned around and saw an aura — an almost magnetic aura around one of the girls and I knew she was gay and I was seeing her love for her girlfriend. That was it for me! It was my second psychic/telepathic experience and I was hooked.” The letter then describes making friends with the girls in the band and how, “although our friendship of course is all platonic, Sheila, the one I saw the aura around told me about 3 years ago she loved me. That was so special. She changed my life in 1985.” After telling Cooper he is writing songs and telling her to visit his YouTube account, Bettinger tells Cooper, “Now You have changed my life after my experience on Jan. 5.

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