CHIPMAN, Judge.
This is an appeal from a habeas corpus proceeding. The action was instituted by appellant Ted Collins to gain custody of his three children who were living with their stepfather, William Gilbreath. The court awarded Collins custody of the children but ordered him to permit Gilbreath visitation rights and pay Gilbreath $750 in support arrearages. Collins’ appeal protests the visitation and support arrearages orders. We affirm in part and reverse in part.
FACTS
The marriage of Ted and Lynne Collins produced three children — Ronda, Staci and Traci. On September 10, 1974, in Johnson County, Indiana, Ted and Lynne were divorced and Lynne was awarded custody of the children. In August of 1975 Lynne married William Gilbreath. Ted also remarried. On September 4, 1977, Lynne committed suicide. Within ten days Collins brought this habeas corpus action to regain custody of his children from Gilbreath.
ISSUES
The issues necessary to our resolution of this appeal are:
I. Was it an abuse of discretion for the court to grant the stepfather, William Gil-breath, the right of visitation?
II. Whether the court erred in ordering Collins to pay Gilbreath support arrearages?
I. VISITATION
Collins vigorously contends the court’s visitation order is contrary to law. He asserts the awarding of visitation to Gilbreath, an unrelated third person, is not authorized by Indiana law and may adversely affect the children’s well-being. He also points up Gilbreath’s failure to file any pleadings or counterpetition in response to Collins’ habeas corpus petition. Unfortunately, Gilbreath has failed to provide this court with a brief. Thus we may reverse if Collins has established a prima facie case. E. g., Colley v. Carpenter, (1977) Ind.App., 362 N.E.2d 163. We note this rule is for the benefit of this Court, not appellant. Its application is wholly discretionary. Ligon Specialized Haulers, Inc. v. Hott, (1979) Ind. App., 384 N.E.2d 1071.
There is a dearth of Indiana law on the precise issue before us. Ind. Code 31-1-11.-5-24 grants a parent the right of reasona[923]*923ble visitation, but is silent on the existence of such rights for. nonparents. Turning to foreign jurisdictions, we perceive a thread running through the cases. Where the parent who has custody of the child objects to visits by a third party the courts generally deny visitation rights. This is particularly true where the relationship between the parties is so strained as to affect the well-being of the child. E. g., Veazey v. Stewart, (1971) 251 Ark. 334, 472 S.W.2d 102; Odell v. Lutz, (1947) 78 Cal.App.2d 104, 177 P.2d 628. But see Commonwealth ex rel. Goodman v. Dratch, (1960) 192 Pa.Super. 1, 159 A.2d 70. If the. custodial parent raises no serious objections, however, visitation rights are usually extended to the third party. E. g., Bookstein v. Bookstein, (1970) 7 Cal.App.3d 219, 86 Cal.Rptr. 495; Lucchesi v. Lucchesi, (1947) 330 Ill.App. 506, 71 N.E.2d 920.
We find these cases instructive but not determinative of the issue before us. When the judicial system becomes involved in family matters concerning relationships between parent and child, simplistic analysis and the strict application of absolute legal principles should be avoided. The mere protest of a parent who asserts that visitation by another person would somehow harm his or her child should not be enough to deny visitation in all cases. See Lo Prestí v. Lo Prestí, (1976) 51 A.D.2d 578, 378 N.Y.S.2d 487. This is especially true where the third party has cared for a child as his or her own. As in custody ( disputes, the well-being of the child must be paramount. See Spencer v. Spencer, (1977) Okl.App., 567 P.2d 112. Although the legal right of a parent to custody of a child is superior to the legal right of all others, this right is not absolute. As one court appropriately observed, a parent’s right of custody is not akin to a property right, but is more in the nature of a trust which may be subject to the well-being of the child as perceived by the courts of this state. Looper v. McManus, (1978) Okl.App., 581 P.2d 487, citing Carignan v. State, (1970) Okl, 469 P.2d 656.
In this case the trial court was faced with a difficult dilemma. The court had before it two men equally fit to be a father to the three young girls. Each man was capable of providing a comfortable home and each expressed a great deal of love for the children. An in camera hearing with the children revealed they loved both their father and stepfather very much. They were understandably confused and frightened, given the recency of their mother’s suicide and the hastily called habeas corpus hearing to determine with whom they would live. Under these facts the court properly granted custody to Collins, the natural father.
The court also acted properly in granting visitation to Gilbreath, the stepfather. Although there was some evidence of “bad blood” between Collins and Gilbreath these feelings were manifested shortly after Lynne’s death, an emotional period for both men. In view of the situation and the well-being of the children, this was not sufficient to justify denying Gilbreath visitation. As the trial court pointed out Gil-breath had loved and cared for the children as a father for two and one-half years. To abruptly end this close relationship and deny him the privilege of ever seeing the girls again would be unfair and traumatic to both Gilbreath and the three young girls. The children would in essence lose their second parent in ten days — one by suicide and one by court decree. Visitation with their stepfather provided a necessary transition to their new life with their natural father. The trial court apparently had these thoughts in mind when it granted Gilbreath visitation despite the lack of a specific request to do so. This order was not only well within the court’s discretion but a wise decision by a thoughtful and insightful judge.
In so holding we do not intend to diminish the rights of a natural parent concerning his or her minor children. Nor do we intend to open the door and permit the granting of visitation rights to a myriad of unrelated third persons, including grand[924]*924parents,1 who happen to feel affection for a child. Our decision is explicitly limited to the type of factual situation presented by this case, i. e., where the party' seeking visitation has acted in a custodial and parental capacity. Simpson v. Simpson, (1979) Ky., 586 S.W.2d 33 (stepmother who had cared for child from 17 months to 6 years old should not be denied visitation); Looper v. McManus, (1978) Okl.App., 581 P.2d 487 (grandparents and stepmother who were “surrogate parents” for years granted visitation).
II. SUPPORT ARREARAGES
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CHIPMAN, Judge.
This is an appeal from a habeas corpus proceeding. The action was instituted by appellant Ted Collins to gain custody of his three children who were living with their stepfather, William Gilbreath. The court awarded Collins custody of the children but ordered him to permit Gilbreath visitation rights and pay Gilbreath $750 in support arrearages. Collins’ appeal protests the visitation and support arrearages orders. We affirm in part and reverse in part.
FACTS
The marriage of Ted and Lynne Collins produced three children — Ronda, Staci and Traci. On September 10, 1974, in Johnson County, Indiana, Ted and Lynne were divorced and Lynne was awarded custody of the children. In August of 1975 Lynne married William Gilbreath. Ted also remarried. On September 4, 1977, Lynne committed suicide. Within ten days Collins brought this habeas corpus action to regain custody of his children from Gilbreath.
ISSUES
The issues necessary to our resolution of this appeal are:
I. Was it an abuse of discretion for the court to grant the stepfather, William Gil-breath, the right of visitation?
II. Whether the court erred in ordering Collins to pay Gilbreath support arrearages?
I. VISITATION
Collins vigorously contends the court’s visitation order is contrary to law. He asserts the awarding of visitation to Gilbreath, an unrelated third person, is not authorized by Indiana law and may adversely affect the children’s well-being. He also points up Gilbreath’s failure to file any pleadings or counterpetition in response to Collins’ habeas corpus petition. Unfortunately, Gilbreath has failed to provide this court with a brief. Thus we may reverse if Collins has established a prima facie case. E. g., Colley v. Carpenter, (1977) Ind.App., 362 N.E.2d 163. We note this rule is for the benefit of this Court, not appellant. Its application is wholly discretionary. Ligon Specialized Haulers, Inc. v. Hott, (1979) Ind. App., 384 N.E.2d 1071.
There is a dearth of Indiana law on the precise issue before us. Ind. Code 31-1-11.-5-24 grants a parent the right of reasona[923]*923ble visitation, but is silent on the existence of such rights for. nonparents. Turning to foreign jurisdictions, we perceive a thread running through the cases. Where the parent who has custody of the child objects to visits by a third party the courts generally deny visitation rights. This is particularly true where the relationship between the parties is so strained as to affect the well-being of the child. E. g., Veazey v. Stewart, (1971) 251 Ark. 334, 472 S.W.2d 102; Odell v. Lutz, (1947) 78 Cal.App.2d 104, 177 P.2d 628. But see Commonwealth ex rel. Goodman v. Dratch, (1960) 192 Pa.Super. 1, 159 A.2d 70. If the. custodial parent raises no serious objections, however, visitation rights are usually extended to the third party. E. g., Bookstein v. Bookstein, (1970) 7 Cal.App.3d 219, 86 Cal.Rptr. 495; Lucchesi v. Lucchesi, (1947) 330 Ill.App. 506, 71 N.E.2d 920.
We find these cases instructive but not determinative of the issue before us. When the judicial system becomes involved in family matters concerning relationships between parent and child, simplistic analysis and the strict application of absolute legal principles should be avoided. The mere protest of a parent who asserts that visitation by another person would somehow harm his or her child should not be enough to deny visitation in all cases. See Lo Prestí v. Lo Prestí, (1976) 51 A.D.2d 578, 378 N.Y.S.2d 487. This is especially true where the third party has cared for a child as his or her own. As in custody ( disputes, the well-being of the child must be paramount. See Spencer v. Spencer, (1977) Okl.App., 567 P.2d 112. Although the legal right of a parent to custody of a child is superior to the legal right of all others, this right is not absolute. As one court appropriately observed, a parent’s right of custody is not akin to a property right, but is more in the nature of a trust which may be subject to the well-being of the child as perceived by the courts of this state. Looper v. McManus, (1978) Okl.App., 581 P.2d 487, citing Carignan v. State, (1970) Okl, 469 P.2d 656.
In this case the trial court was faced with a difficult dilemma. The court had before it two men equally fit to be a father to the three young girls. Each man was capable of providing a comfortable home and each expressed a great deal of love for the children. An in camera hearing with the children revealed they loved both their father and stepfather very much. They were understandably confused and frightened, given the recency of their mother’s suicide and the hastily called habeas corpus hearing to determine with whom they would live. Under these facts the court properly granted custody to Collins, the natural father.
The court also acted properly in granting visitation to Gilbreath, the stepfather. Although there was some evidence of “bad blood” between Collins and Gilbreath these feelings were manifested shortly after Lynne’s death, an emotional period for both men. In view of the situation and the well-being of the children, this was not sufficient to justify denying Gilbreath visitation. As the trial court pointed out Gil-breath had loved and cared for the children as a father for two and one-half years. To abruptly end this close relationship and deny him the privilege of ever seeing the girls again would be unfair and traumatic to both Gilbreath and the three young girls. The children would in essence lose their second parent in ten days — one by suicide and one by court decree. Visitation with their stepfather provided a necessary transition to their new life with their natural father. The trial court apparently had these thoughts in mind when it granted Gilbreath visitation despite the lack of a specific request to do so. This order was not only well within the court’s discretion but a wise decision by a thoughtful and insightful judge.
In so holding we do not intend to diminish the rights of a natural parent concerning his or her minor children. Nor do we intend to open the door and permit the granting of visitation rights to a myriad of unrelated third persons, including grand[924]*924parents,1 who happen to feel affection for a child. Our decision is explicitly limited to the type of factual situation presented by this case, i. e., where the party' seeking visitation has acted in a custodial and parental capacity. Simpson v. Simpson, (1979) Ky., 586 S.W.2d 33 (stepmother who had cared for child from 17 months to 6 years old should not be denied visitation); Looper v. McManus, (1978) Okl.App., 581 P.2d 487 (grandparents and stepmother who were “surrogate parents” for years granted visitation).
II. SUPPORT ARREARAGES
In his second argument, Collins argues the court erroneously ordered him to make arrearage payments to Gilbreath. It is Collins’ position that Gilbreath was not a real party in interest to the support order and thus could not be awarded arrearages in this habeas corpus proceeding. We agree.
The support order upon which the arrear-ages were based was entered by the Johnson Superior Court. The two parties to that action were Ted and Lynne Collins. Thus, any support arrearages were due Lynne Collins Gilbreath, or more particularly, her estate. Although Gilbreath may be the primary beneficiary of Lynne’s estate there was no evidence whatsoever on this point. Therefore, we must conclude the court’s arrearages order was based upon speculation and conjecture, however reasonable. This was improper. See Credit Bureau of Fulton County, Inc. v. Fauistitch, (1964) 135 Ind.App. 511, 195 N.E.2d 359.
We also note the Marion Superior Court was not the proper venue for the resolution of the arrearages question. This issue should be decided in the Johnson Superior Court where the support order was first issued. Pund v. Pund, (1976) Ind.App., 357 N.E.2d 257. Collins, however, has failed to preserve this issue for review, Pund v. Pund, supra.
Affirmed in part, reversed in part.
MILLER, P. J., concurs.
YOUNG, J., dissents with opinion.