Cody H. v. Kathryn H.

CourtNebraska Court of Appeals
DecidedJanuary 9, 2024
DocketA-23-323
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE NEBRASKA COURT OF APPEALS

MEMORANDUM OPINION AND JUDGMENT ON APPEAL (Memorandum Web Opinion)

CODY H. V. KATHRYN H.

NOTICE: THIS OPINION IS NOT DESIGNATED FOR PERMANENT PUBLICATION AND MAY NOT BE CITED EXCEPT AS PROVIDED BY NEB. CT. R. APP. P. § 2-102(E).

CODY H., APPELLEE, V.

KATHRYN H., APPELLANT.

Filed January 9, 2024. No. A-23-323.

Appeal from the District Court for Dakota County: EDWARD H. MATNEY, Judge. Reversed and remanded with directions. Robert B. Deck, of Deck Law P.L.C., for appellant. John S. Moeller, of John S. Moeller, P.C., for appellee.

PIRTLE, Chief Judge, and MOORE and BISHOP, Judges. BISHOP, Judge. I. INTRODUCTION Cody H. filed a “Petition and Affidavit to Obtain Domestic Abuse Protection Order” against his wife, Kathryn H., in the Dakota County District Court. Cody sought a protection order for himself and on behalf of the parties’ minor child. An ex parte domestic abuse protection order was entered, and it was subsequently affirmed after an evidentiary hearing. Kathryn appeals, claiming there was insufficient evidence in the record to support that she abused Cody and the minor child. We agree, and we therefore reverse and remand with directions to vacate the domestic abuse protection order entered against Kathryn.

-1- II. BACKGROUND 1. PETITION AND EX PARTE ORDER On February 15, 2023, Cody, for himself and on behalf of the parties’ son, filed a “Petition and Affidavit to Obtain Domestic Abuse Protection Order” against Kathryn pursuant to Neb. Rev. Stat. § 42-924 (Cum. Supp. 2022). Cody requested a county court judge to preside over the action. See § 42-924(2) and Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-2740 (Cum. Supp. 2022) (petition for protection order may be heard by county court or district court but petition shall be filed in district court and is considered district court proceeding). We will refer to the county court judge presiding over the matter as the trial court. In his petition and affidavit, Cody attached a journal describing various dated incidents of alleged abuse which took place from “Approx. Early 2020” to February 13, 2023. He prefaced his itemized list by saying that he had documented for 2 years “the major bulletins of [Kathryn’s] domestic abuse,” and that it was “mental except for three instances,” one of which involved his “first son.” He alleged that he had been blamed for Kathryn’s self-harm and suicidal thoughts “over the last few years,” and that he had been “manipulated and gaslighted to question even [his] own truth at times.” He claimed to have “lived in fear of her for too long, thinking that if [he] stayed his son would be safe and in turn, [Cody] could help her as well.” The incidents described in the journal included instances wherein Kathryn: had a “random man over and was sitting next to him with leg draped over him” who “she admitted to talking” to on a “sex website”; used marijuana; failed to take her medications; expressed difficulty caring for the parties’ child (indicated to be 1 year of age); admitted being suicidal in January 2023; told Cody he needed to leave the house; was “visibly shaking and clenching fists at [Cody] and [he] was in fear for [his] safety” and the child’s; threw dishes into the sink and yelled at Cody about how he did not “do anything” and “how worthless [he was] around the house”; told Cody’s “first son” (from a prior relationship) he needed to color if he wanted to go home, threw a crayon at him, and “grab[bed] him . . . and force[d] him to color with what look[ed] like a lot of crayons at the same time almost in a shaking manner”; communicated with prior romantic partners; claimed that Cody did not “intellectually stimulate her and that’s what causes her to seek out other people”; was self-harming in “[e]arly 2020”; and was admitted to a mental health crisis center “due to self harm and suicidal thoughts.” Cody also alleged that in “Fall 2022,” Kathryn hit him “across the face” in front of a coworker when he “said some sort of joke,” and in October 2022, the parties’ son slapped Kathryn “in the face so [she] slapped him back.” On February 15, 2023, the trial court issued an ex parte domestic abuse protection order, prohibiting Kathryn from “imposing any restraint upon the person or liberty of [Cody and the child]” or “threatening, assaulting, molesting, attacking, or otherwise disturbing the peace of [Cody and the child].” The court further ordered that Kathryn be “removed and excluded from the residence” where Cody stated the parties resided with the child. The court also granted Cody temporary custody of the child. On February 16, Kathryn filed a “Request for Hearing – Protection Order,” which the court granted that same day.

-2- 2. SHOW-CAUSE HEARING On February 22, 2023, the trial court held a hearing on the matter; Cody and Kathryn each appeared with counsel. At the beginning of the hearing, the court indicated that Kathryn was to present her evidence first. Kathryn’s counsel argued that the initial burden of proof was on the petitioner. The court disagreed, stating that it was the burden of the respondent to show why the order should not remain in effect, and that the “first burden is on the respondent.” Kathryn’s counsel made an objection regarding the court’s procedure before the parties proceeded to put on their evidence, beginning with Kathryn. (a) Parties’ Relationship History Kathryn testified that the parties were married in August 2020 and that Cody was a jealous and possessive partner. She stated that he “never liked [her] male friends.” She described an incident that took place before they were married where a male friend took a sip of Kathryn’s drink at a bar, and in response, Cody followed the male friend, put his hands around the friend’s neck, and told him that “it was not okay behavior and that he needed to stop.” Kathryn also stated that she “never berated” Cody for their differences. According to Kathryn, Cody looked at her phone when she was “gone or in the shower, and then days later or weeks later,” he would tell her she had “broken his trust.” According to Cody, after Kathryn told him she wanted a divorce, he told her he would move his “stuff” to the basement, and he hoped they would “make this a civil matter.” However, a couple of days later when he saw Kathryn with an unknown man on their couch, he called the police because he did not feel safe “confronting her and him.” (b) Minor Child Kathryn took maternity leave for 2 months following the birth of the parties’ son, then temporarily returned to work on a “[p]er request” basis, working 8 hours per week. However, Kathryn and Cody ultimately decided Kathryn should stay home with their son to care for him. Their son was born with various medical conditions which increased his care needs. Kathryn testified that she had been the child’s primary caretaker since his birth. She took him to all his appointments, including weekly physical therapy. Until she was excluded from the family residence because of the ex parte protection order, she had not been apart from her son for more than 2 days since he was born. According to Kathryn, she and her son woke up, got ready for the day, made breakfast, prayed, and ate every meal together. She also clothed him, took him shopping, and entertained him. The child’s physical therapist provided testimony on Kathryn’s behalf. The physical therapist testified that she worked at the Educational Service Unit in Wakefield, Nebraska. She began seeing the minor child in December 2021, initially visiting every week.

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