C.M.E. v. M.E. (FM-15-0891-19, OCEAN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedSeptember 29, 2022
DocketA-3545-20
StatusUnpublished

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-3545-20

C.M.E.,

Plaintiff-Respondent,

v.

M.E.,

Defendant-Appellant. __________________________

Submitted September 12, 2022 – Decided September 29, 2022

Before Judges Mayer and Enright.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Ocean County, Docket No. FM-15-0891-19.

The Goldstein Law Group, attorneys for appellant (David M. Meth, of counsel and on the briefs; Mark Goldstein, on the briefs).

Charles C. Berkeley, attorney for respondent.

PER CURIAM Following a dissolution trial in the Family Part, defendant M.E.1 appeals

from certain provisions of a June 28, 2021 judgment of divorce (JOD).2 We

affirm in part, and vacate and remand in part for further proceedings.

I.

Defendant and plaintiff C.M.E. married in March 2014; six months later,

plaintiff gave birth to the parties' only child, A.E. (Ann). At that time,

defendant worked as a heavy equipment operator for his father, earning

approximately $80,000 per year. Although plaintiff briefly worked during the

marriage as a waitress and a part-time nursing assistant, the parties agreed she

would stop working and stay at home with Ann. But because plaintiff received

a $100,000 inheritance from her great uncle in 2014, she continued

contributing to the parties' household expenses, paying off defendant's credit

card debt of approximately $14,000, $22,000 in rental expenses for the family,

and "all debts between the two of" them.

1 We use initials for the parties and a pseudonym for their daughter to protect their privacy. R. 1:38-3(d)(10). 2 The original JOD from June 24, 2021 was amended on June 28, 2021 to correct a clerical error.

A-3545-20 2 In March 2015, defendant was injured at work when "a manhole cover

dropped into . . . [a] chute," causing "an electrical explosion." The Social

Security Administration (SSA) deemed him permanently disabled due to

injuries he sustained in the accident. Defendant later received a settlement

from his former employer for "lost wages" totaling approximately $320,000.

In 2018, he received a lump sum payment of roughly $90,000 from the SSA

for "back wages."

When Ann was approximately eight months old, plaintiff discovered

certain family bills were not being paid. She confronted defendant and he

revealed he had a gambling addiction. After defendant confessed that he

"gambled everything," plaintiff "took over" the family's finances.

During the next few years, the parties experienced significant marital

discord. Defendant attributed the breakdown of the marriage to a change in

plaintiff's "demeanor" after she underwent bariatric surgery in 2018. Plaintiff

contended the marriage suffered from defendant's fixation with various

lawsuits after his 2015 accident. According to plaintiff, defendant provided

"[v]ery little" assistance with household chores and "would just lock himself

up" to "work[ on] . . . his workers' comp[ensation] case, his personal injury

case, and that was his job, so he said."

A-3545-20 3 In January 2019, plaintiff filed for a temporary restraining order,

alleging defendant physically assaulted her. She obtained a final restraining

order (FRO) following a trial before the same judge who presided over the

parties' divorce trial.3

In February 2019, plaintiff filed a complaint for divorce. Although the

parties retained counsel and attempted to mediate their differences, they were

unsuccessful.

By the time the divorce trial began in February 2021, the parties were no

longer represented by counsel. They proceeded to trial virtually, due to

COVID-19 restrictions. Because the parties appeared without counsel, the

judge elicited testimony directly from them and allowed them to cross-examine

each other, despite that plaintiff's FRO barred defendant from communicating

with her.4

Initially, the judge questioned plaintiff about her educational and

employment background. She testified she was a high school graduate and a

3 We were not provided with transcripts from the domestic violence proceeding. 4 The transcripts from the dissolution trial show the judge repeatedly had to instruct the parties not to interrupt each other; he also had to remind defendant several times he would "not . . . retry [the parties' domestic violence] case" as part of the divorce trial.

A-3545-20 4 certified phlebotomist. Additionally, she stated she was unemployed and

collecting $230 per week in unemployment benefits "because of [COVID]"

and having to "homeschool [Ann] three days a week." Plaintiff anticipated

that once Ann returned to school full-time, she would resume her part-time job

as a nursing assistant and earn $17.50 per hour. Plaintiff estimated she would

gross $408 per week by working three eight-hour shifts a week.

The judge asked plaintiff why she could not work a forty-hour week.

She explained she was "in school full-time," and reiterated she was

"homeschooling [Ann] three days a week." Plaintiff also stated she was

pursuing an Associate degree at Ocean County College, and hoped to secure a

bachelor's degree in elementary education by the end of 2023.

Regarding her requests for alimony and child support, plaintiff stated

defendant "bankrupt[ed]" her and "continue[ed] this court stuff for the last two

years [by] just playing these games." Accordingly, she testified she was

"broke" and sharing household expenses by living with her brother and father.

Plaintiff acknowledged Ann received "derivative benefits" of $674 per

month and a lump sum payment from the SSA of approximately $31,000 based

on defendant's disability. But she was concerned defendant owed over $7,000

in support arrears, a debt she believed "should have been cleared up with any

A-3545-20 5 money [defendant] received." Plaintiff explained defendant was awarded

approximately $90,000 in back wages from the SSA, but "went and . . . spent

[it] down in Atlantic City." Further, she recalled that despite being ordered by

the court not to spend a state income tax refund, "he came into the courtroom

and said, 'no sorry, gambled that, too.'"

Challenging defendant's claim he could not pay child support or

alimony, plaintiff pointed out "he has three cars," including "a brand-new car"

and "great credit." She also suspected defendant had a "stash of money

somewhere." Additionally, she asserted he could work to assist her

financially, despite his back injury, because he was "able to carry . . . groceries

for his mother" and "sit at a computer all day long."

Regarding issues of custody and parenting time, plaintiff stated

defendant had two-hour supervised visits on Tuesdays and Sundays, per court

order, and the visits were "going okay." But given Ann's reports of her father

"watching TV" during the visits or "putting her in front of the TV ," plaintiff

assumed Ann mostly "play[ed] with . . . her grandma" when she visited

defendant.

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