C.M.E. v. M.E. (FM-15-0891-19, OCEAN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided September 29, 2022·No. A-3545-20·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-3545-20

C.M.E., Plaintiff-Respondent, v. M.E.,

Defendant-Appellant.

Submitted September 12, 2022 – Decided September 29, 2022 Before Judges Mayer and Enright.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Ocean County, Docket No. FM-15-0891-19.

The Goldstein Law Group, attorneys for appellant (David M. Meth, of counsel and on the briefs; Mark Goldstein, on the briefs).

Charles C. Berkeley, attorney for respondent.

PER CURIAM

Following a dissolution trial in the Family Part, defendant M.E.1 appeals from certain provisions of a June 28, 2021 judgment of divorce (JOD).2 We affirm in part, and vacate and remand in part for further proceedings.

I.

Defendant and plaintiff C.M.E. married in March 2014; six months later, plaintiff gave birth to the parties' only child, A.E. (Ann). At that time, defendant worked as a heavy equipment operator for his father, earning approximately $80,000 per year. Although plaintiff briefly worked during the marriage as a waitress and a part-time nursing assistant, the parties agreed she would stop working and stay at home with Ann. But because plaintiff received a $100,000 inheritance from her great uncle in 2014, she continued contributing to the parties' household expenses, paying off defendant's credit card debt of approximately $14,000, $22,000 in rental expenses for the family, and "all debts between the two of" them.

1 We use initials for the parties and a pseudonym for their daughter to protect their privacy. R. 1:38-3(d)(10). 2 The original JOD from June 24, 2021 was amended on June 28, 2021 to correct a clerical error.

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In March 2015, defendant was injured at work when "a manhole cover dropped into . . . [a] chute," causing "an electrical explosion." The Social Security Administration (SSA) deemed him permanently disabled due to injuries he sustained in the accident. Defendant later received a settlement from his former employer for "lost wages" totaling approximately $320,000. In 2018, he received a lump sum payment of roughly $90,000 from the SSA for "back wages."

When Ann was approximately eight months old, plaintiff discovered certain family bills were not being paid. She confronted defendant and he revealed he had a gambling addiction. After defendant confessed that he "gambled everything," plaintiff "took over" the family's finances.

During the next few years, the parties experienced significant marital discord. Defendant attributed the breakdown of the marriage to a change in plaintiff's "demeanor" after she underwent bariatric surgery in 2018. Plaintiff contended the marriage suffered from defendant's fixation with various lawsuits after his 2015 accident. According to plaintiff, defendant provided "[v]ery little" assistance with household chores and "would just lock himself up" to "work[ on] . . . his workers' comp[ensation] case, his personal injury case, and that was his job, so he said."

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In January 2019, plaintiff filed for a temporary restraining order, alleging defendant physically assaulted her. She obtained a final restraining order (FRO) following a trial before the same judge who presided over the parties' divorce trial.3 In February 2019, plaintiff filed a complaint for divorce. Although the parties retained counsel and attempted to mediate their differences, they were unsuccessful.

By the time the divorce trial began in February 2021, the parties were no longer represented by counsel. They proceeded to trial virtually, due to COVID-19 restrictions. Because the parties appeared without counsel, the judge elicited testimony directly from them and allowed them to cross-examine each other, despite that plaintiff's FRO barred defendant from communicating with her.4 Initially, the judge questioned plaintiff about her educational and employment background. She testified she was a high school graduate and a

3 We were not provided with transcripts from the domestic violence proceeding. 4 The transcripts from the dissolution trial show the judge repeatedly had to instruct the parties not to interrupt each other; he also had to remind defendant several times he would "not . . . retry [the parties' domestic violence] case" as part of the divorce trial.

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certified phlebotomist. Additionally, she stated she was unemployed and collecting $230 per week in unemployment benefits "because of [COVID]" and having to "homeschool [Ann] three days a week." Plaintiff anticipated that once Ann returned to school full-time, she would resume her part-time job as a nursing assistant and earn $17.50 per hour. Plaintiff estimated she would gross $408 per week by working three eight-hour shifts a week.

The judge asked plaintiff why she could not work a forty-hour week.

She explained she was "in school full-time," and reiterated she was "homeschooling [Ann] three days a week." Plaintiff also stated she was pursuing an Associate degree at Ocean County College, and hoped to secure a bachelor's degree in elementary education by the end of 2023.

Regarding her requests for alimony and child support, plaintiff stated defendant "bankrupt[ed]" her and "continue[ed] this court stuff for the last two years [by] just playing these games." Accordingly, she testified she was "broke" and sharing household expenses by living with her brother and father.

Plaintiff acknowledged Ann received "derivative benefits" of $674 per month and a lump sum payment from the SSA of approximately $31,000 based on defendant's disability. But she was concerned defendant owed over $7,000 in support arrears, a debt she believed "should have been cleared up with any

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money [defendant] received." Plaintiff explained defendant was awarded approximately $90,000 in back wages from the SSA, but "went and . . . spent [it] down in Atlantic City." Further, she recalled that despite being ordered by the court not to spend a state income tax refund, "he came into the courtroom and said, 'no sorry, gambled that, too.'"

Challenging defendant's claim he could not pay child support or alimony, plaintiff pointed out "he has three cars," including "a brand-new car" and "great credit." She also suspected defendant had a "stash of money somewhere." Additionally, she asserted he could work to assist her financially, despite his back injury, because he was "able to carry . . . groceries for his mother" and "sit at a computer all day long."

Regarding issues of custody and parenting time, plaintiff stated defendant had two-hour supervised visits on Tuesdays and Sundays, per court order, and the visits were "going okay." But given Ann's reports of her father "watching TV" during the visits or "putting her in front of the TV ," plaintiff assumed Ann mostly "play[ed] with . . . her grandma" when she visited defendant.

The judge questioned plaintiff about her preferences for custody and parenting time going forward, stating, "[n]ormally, we would require you to

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file . . . a Parenting Plan. . . . So, I'm asking you, . . . what do you propose in terms of a Parenting Plan, Custody Plan for [Ann]?" Plaintiff replied she did not want defendant to only see Ann "two hours two days a week," but believed he "need[ed] a psych[iatric] eval[uation]" before the court considered expanding his parenting time. She pointed to the possibility defendant would drive with Ann during visits, and rhetorically asked, "what medications is he even on . . . at this point?"

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