Bolander v. Bolander CA1/2

CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedJuly 25, 2013
DocketA133834
StatusUnpublished

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Filed 7/25/13 Bolander v. Bolander CA1/2 NOT TO BE PUBLISHED IN OFFICIAL REPORTS California Rules of Court, rule 8.1115(a), prohibits courts and parties from citing or relying on opinions not certified for publication or ordered published, except as specified by rule 8.1115(b). This opinion has not been certified for publication or ordered published for purposes of rule 8.1115.

IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA

FIRST APPELLATE DISTRICT

DIVISION TWO

RINSKE BOLANDER, Plaintiff and Respondent, A133834 v. FREDERICK BOLANDER, (San Mateo County Super. Ct. No. CIV 492551) Defendant and Appellant.

RINSKE BOLANDER, A134509 Plaintiff and Appellant, v. (San Mateo County Super. Ct. No. CIV 492551) FREDERICK BOLANDER, Defendant and Respondent.

Plaintiff Rinske Bolander (Rinske) sued her now ex-husband, defendant Frederick (Rick) Bolander, for domestic violence after he twice drugged her with Ambien and engaged in nonconsensual sexual intercourse with her while she was incapacitated.1 A jury found in favor of Rinske, awarding her $30,000 in economic damages, $175,000 in noneconomic damages, and $200,000 in punitive damages, for a total award of $405,000. After the trial, Rinske filed a motion for attorney’s fees, seeking $455,600 plus a 1.5 multiplier, and a memorandum of costs seeking $155,622. The trial court denied

1 For clarity, and as is common in cases involving spouses, we refer to the parties by their first names. We intend no disrespect.

1 Rinske’s fee request and, on Rick’s motion to tax costs, awarded Rinske only a fraction of the costs requested. Both sides appeal. Rick’s appeal asserts multiple errors that he claims require reversal of the judgment. We reject his arguments, and we affirm the judgment. Rinske’s appeal argues that the trial court abused its discretion in denying her request for attorney’s fees in its entirety and in rejecting a substantial portion of her costs. We conclude that, based on a misunderstanding of the applicable law, the trial court abused its discretion in ruling on Rinske’s requests for fees and costs. We therefore remand for the trial court to reconsider Rinske’s motion for attorney’s fees and Rick’s motion to tax costs in a manner consistent with this decision. FACTUAL BACKGROUND Rick and Rinske met in 1995 and dated for two years before marrying in 1997. The relationship was characterized by an active sex life, with Rick having very high expectations concerning the frequency of sexual intercourse. He expected sex “every day or sometimes twice a day” when he was not away on business. The marriage produced four children, all very close in age.2 By the time Rinske had their second child, she was worn out from the demands of motherhood. Despite her exhaustion, Rick maintained very high expectations in terms of their sex life. His sexual demands were becoming a burden to Rinske, and by 2006, the marriage was strained. The couple sought help from a marriage counselor, and Rinske began to communicate to Rick that she needed rest and that she wanted to have sex less frequently. Despite her request, Rick’s expectations did not lessen. In fact, his demands increased, and he wanted to have sex with Rinske “a couple different times every morning and every evening.” Rinske felt worn down by his demands, and began to reject Rick’s advances more and more. Rick took it personally and became angry.

2 At the time of the incidents that were the subject of Rinske’s lawsuit, the children were three, five, six, and seven years old.

2 By early January 2007, after a weekend away when the couple had intercourse seven times, Rinske told Rick that she was no longer able to acquiesce in his sexual demands. She wanted him to treat her with respect and to recognize and honor her needs and feelings. She began sleeping on a small cot in the youngest child’s nursery instead of in the master bedroom with Rick. Rick responded with anger and isolation, questioning Rinske’s love for, and commitment to, him. On March 7, 2007, Rick, who had been traveling for work, arrived home around 8:00 p.m., after the children had gone to bed. He opened a bottle of red wine in the kitchen and, out of Rinske’s view, poured her a glass. Unbeknownst to Rinske, Rick then put one-half of an Ambien tablet in the wine.3 After drinking the glass of wine, Rinske “fell asleep and . . . kind of nodded [herself] awake.” As she described it at trial, “I didn’t feel well, but I was also very concerned that I fell asleep because I had never nodded off, you know—even given all the strange hours with all the kids, I never nodded off at the table, but I kind of nodded myself awake. I did not feel well. I felt very nauseous and light-headed and dizzy. And I just did not feel well. I didn’t know what was happening.” Because Rinske felt ill, she told Rick she was going to go to bed. She walked upstairs to the bedroom and “just fell in bed.” The next thing she remembered was Rick on top of her having sex with her. She was unable to speak or move her arms: “I remember not being able to move my arms. And I remember not being able to speak. I remember feeling like I was under water. And my vision—I could see directly in front of me but not—everything else was kind of faded out, but I couldn’t move.” She did not want to be having sex with Rick, and she was terrified because she was “frozen.” Rinske’s next memory was waking up in the morning and immediately asking Rick if they had had intercourse. He told her they had, describing it as “wonderful.” She asked if he had worn a condom, and he told her, with a smile, he had not. Rinske feared he was trying to get her pregnant so she would not leave him.

3 Rick obtained a prescription for Ambien from a former fraternity brother who was a physician. He filled the prescription on March 7, 2007, the same day he drugged Rinske for the first time.

3 Rinske then went into the bathroom to take a shower. In the shower, she fell down when she closed her eyes to rinse her hair. She lost her balance and “felt very disoriented like the room was spinning . . . .” A second, similar incident occurred seven weeks later. On the evening of April 22, 2007, Rick poured Rinske a glass of wine to drink with dinner. Again, he laced it with Ambien without Rinske’s knowledge. After the children went to bed, Rick and Rinske sat down to watch a movie in the family room, with Rick getting up during the movie to get them more wine. As they were watching the movie, Rinske suddenly experienced double vision, so she sat up and tried to regain her normal vision. An erotic scene set in a strip club then came on, and Rick moved next to Rinske on the couch, telling her that the scene was exciting and he wanted to touch her. She told him to focus on the movie because she did not want to have sex. She suddenly felt “really drunk,” “wasted,” “just like a rag doll.” Despite Rinske having told Rick she did not want to have sex, he unbuttoned her shirt and began to fondle her. Rinske was “completely out of it” and could not say “No,” or tell him to stop. Rick performed oral sex on Rinske, and then forced her to perform it on him, only stopping when she gagged from his forceful thrusting. He then engaged in sexual intercourse with her, first from the front and then from the back, at one point forcing her head down onto the ottoman and pulling her hair tight. Rinske’s last memory of the incident was seeing the gray leather of the ottoman. When Rinske woke up the next morning, she was in the master bedroom. She felt “heavy-headed,” “off-center,” and disoriented. Rick, who was in the room getting ready for work, described their sex of the night before, again proclaiming it “wonderful.” On April 27, five days after the second incident, Rinske walked in on Rick in the kitchen as he was slipping Ambien into a glass of red wine he had just poured for her.

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