B.D.K. v. T.D.K.

CourtSuperior Court of Pennsylvania
DecidedSeptember 30, 2020
Docket1083 MDA 2019
StatusUnpublished

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B.D.K. v. T.D.K., (Pa. Ct. App. 2020).

Opinion

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NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT I.O.P. 65.37

B.D.K. : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA : v. : : : T.D.K. : : Appellant : No. 1083 MDA 2019

Appeal from the Order Entered June 10, 2019 In the Court of Common Pleas of Cumberland County Civil Division at No(s): 2019-04775

BEFORE: PANELLA, P.J., BENDER, P.J.E., and FORD ELLIOTT, P.J.E.

MEMORANDUM BY BENDER, P.J.E.: FILED SEPTEMBER 30, 2020

T.D.K. (“Husband”) appeals from the order issued on June 6, 2019 and

entered on June 10, 2019, granting a final protection from abuse (“PFA”) order

in favor of B.D.K. (“Wife”). We affirm.

We glean the following relevant facts and procedural history from the

record: At the time this action was initiated, Husband and Wife had been

married for approximately 27 years, had two sons (17 years and 23 years of

age), and were in the process of obtaining a divorce. Wife filed a petition for

a PFA order against Husband on April 29, 2019, wherein she accused Husband

of “verbally and emotionally abusing her, causing her great anxiety and

distress.” PFA Petition, 4/29/19, at 2 ¶ 8. She claimed that the emotional

distress and anxiety “greatly exacerbated her multiple sclerosis symptoms[.]” J-S34030-20

Id.1 Wife’s petition also included allegations of prior incidents of physical,

verbal, mental, and financial abuse by Husband. Id. at 2 ¶ 9. The trial court

granted the petition and issued a temporary PFA order the same day.

A hearing was held on the matter on June 5 and June 6, 2019, at which

both Husband and Wife testified regarding the allegations in Wife’s petition.

Following is a summary of Wife’s testimony:

On April 24, 2019, [Wife] fell in the kitchen from soapy dishes [Husband] had left out. After confronting [Husband] about the incident, he became very angry toward [her]. A few days later, on April 27, 2019, [Husband] was at work and [Wife] found herself to be a “sitting duck[,”] wondering whether [Husband] would be angrier when he returned home. [She] called [him] to attempt to resolve the issue, but this led to a heated argument that lasted ninety (90) minutes…. [D]uring that call, [Husband] threatened her[,] stating that she was “pathetic and useless” with no way to support herself. [Wife] stated that because her MS symptoms are exacerbated under stress, the phone call lead [sic] to her left leg becoming paralyzed and she experienced severe chest pains that lasted six (6) hours. [She] went to West Shore Emergency Room the next morning[,] as she believed she was having a heart attack … directly due to [Husband’s] actions toward her.

[Wife] also alleged incidents of abuse[,] which occurred between June 16, 2018 and July 5, 2018. During June of 2018, [Wife] had tried an experimental[,] medically[-]approved treatment that caused a rare reaction, including life[-]threatening falls in her home. While many injuries [she] sustained were attributed to her constant falls, she testified to an incident when [Husband] angrily “stomped on her thigh,” telling her to “Move. Hurry up!” [Husband’s] stomping on [Wife’s] thighs left bruises and caused pain.

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1 Wife was diagnosed in 2013 with secondary progressive multiple sclerosis (hereinafter referred to as “MS”), which causes mobility issues and fatigue. Wife’s Brief at 3.

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[Wife] believed her continuous falls were partially caused by [Husband’s] intentionally giving her the wrong medications at the wrong times, causing serious side effects. [Wife] stated that she had “everything written down in a binder,” but “was not given those [medications]” by [Husband]. [She] also testified that she had not injected herself with any medication from June 16th until June 29th, but nonetheless a month’s supply was gone in two weeks. This discovery led [to] her … continued fear that [Husband] was attempting to cause her serious bodily injury through misapplication of her medication.

On June 29, 2018, the parties’ oldest son told [Husband] that the amount of Benadryl he was giving [Wife] could cause an overdose. [Husband] became angry, dismissed the son to go upstairs, [and] proceed[ed] to force [Wife] to take the medicine. At this time, [Wife] experienced a “lucid moment” and began to vomit up any medication she was unable to refuse and forced to consume by [Husband]. Following this incident, [she] intentionally did not take any medication until July 18, 2018, when she was able to visit the doctor and confirm which medication she should be taking.

On July 1, 2018, [Wife] was incontinent and urinated on the bathroom floor due to paralysis in her legs. [She] testified that [Husband] used her shirt to clean the urine, and then made her wear it after she crawled naked back to her bed in the dining room[,] as [he] refused to assist or care for her. [Husband] rejected … [Wife’s request for] a new shirt, telling her to ask one of her sons who were in the basement playing video games.

[Wife] also testified that [Husband] mentioned getting a gun on two occasions, stating that [she] could not put the “family through any more trouble” with her MS. [Wife] was also prevented from using the master bathroom between 8:00 p.m. and 8:00 a.m.[,] when [Husband] was sleeping and had the door barricaded…. [Wife] was fearful of [Husband’s] having the gun, and fearful to come into the bedroom or [of] upsetting him[,] knowing he had a gun.

Lastly, [Wife] testified to an incident on July 5, 2018, when [Husband] blocked [her] from going to her scheduled doctor’s appointment at 8:00 a.m. [Wife] was legally and physically capable of driving after stopping her medication on June 29, 2018. She testified that [Husband] told her, “[Y]ou are not going to your appointment…. [Y]ou are going to the nursing home today and will

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never see your children again[,] and you are not in charge of you. I am in charge of you.” When [she] attempted to raise herself from her walker, [Husband] threw her back down into her walker so hard that [she] tore the rotator cuff in both shoulders, and her arms immediately went limp. Despite the tears in both shoulders, [Wife] tried to pull herself up, but [Husband] grabbed her thumbs and bent them back so hard until they touched her forearm and tore the tendon of her right hand. As a direct result of this serious bodily injury inflicted by [Husband], [Wife] was unable to lift her arms above her bellybutton for 2 months and could not use her hands to eat, open things, or play the piano anymore. Immediately following the incident, [Husband] prevented [Wife] from going to a doctor to seek help, so she called 911. However, [she] did not tell the police what had happened because she had been ”severely beaten and starved and drugged for two weeks” and “didn’t want to get more injuries” from [Husband].

On July 18, 2018, thirteen days after [Husband] caused the tears in her rotator cuffs and thumbs, [Wife] was eventually taken to the hospital by her cleaning lady and friend, but explained to the doctors that it was her fault, as she was required to say by [Husband]. [Wife] testified that she was a “classic victim” at this point, as she lied to doctors about what had actually occurred.

Wife’s Brief at 3-7 (citations to record omitted).

Throughout Husband’s testimony, he denied the events as purported by

Wife.2 Husband testified that:

[He] never knew about [Wife’s] cardiac event. [He] never stated he would withdraw [Wife’s] medical or physical treatment[,] and to the opposite, spent thousands of dollars to provide for [her] needs.

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