Bahceli v. Bahceli

409 N.E.2d 207, 10 Mass. App. Ct. 446, 1980 Mass. App. LEXIS 1299
CourtMassachusetts Appeals Court
DecidedAugust 28, 1980
StatusPublished
Cited by13 cases

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Bahceli v. Bahceli, 409 N.E.2d 207, 10 Mass. App. Ct. 446, 1980 Mass. App. LEXIS 1299 (Mass. Ct. App. 1980).

Opinion

Nolan, J.

These are appeals seeking appellate review of (1) the original judgment of divorce (No. 79-988), (2) the judgment ordering dismissal of the plaintiff’s motion for relief from judgment (No. 79-949), and (3) the judgment dismissing a complaint for modification filed by the plain *447 tiff’s brother (No. 79-846). For reasons which will unfold in the opinion, we find no error in the judgment in No. 79-988 and No. 79-949, but we reverse the judgment in No. 79-846.

There was sufficient evidence for the trial judge to find the following facts. The plaintiff (wife) and defendant (husband) were married in New York on March 3,1971. The only child of the marriage, Sabrina, was born on September 10, 1971. The wife is a teacher in New York city and the husband is a veterinarian who practices in Massachusetts.

The husband was born in Turkey and educated there in veterinary medicine. He emigrated to the United States in 1966 where he studied English in New York and biochemistry at the University of Wisconsin and later in New York. When they met in New York in the fall of 1970, the wife, who had been thrice married, was a social worker and the husband was still a student. He received loan grants and supported himself by a variety of part-time jobs. This arrangement continued after they were married while the husband prepared to take the certification examination in veterinary medicine. Both contributed to their common living expenses.

The husband passed the examination and worked successively as a veterinarian in New York, Connecticut and in New Jersey, contributing his salary to the living expenses of the parties. When Sabrina was born in 1971, the wife was too nervous to care for her and left her with her mother until 1973.

In the fall of 1974, the husband accepted an attractive offer to work as a veterinarian in Massachusetts. He moved here in September, followed by his wife and daughter in November, 1974. At that time, they all lived together at a very modest level in a small apartment in Brookline until June, 1975. The wife ceased working outside the home in November, 1974. The husband held two veterinarian jobs, one by day and the other by night.

The marriage was unidyllic from the start. Storms always gathered around the subject of money and both par *448 ties displayed their worst sides because of financial pressure. They separated in June, 1975, and in August of that year the husband opened his own veterinary clinic in Cambridge, in part at least, on money borrowed from a bank. The husband lived in a single room in Boston, but continued to support the wife and Sabrina, visiting Sabrina weekly until early 1976, when the wife no longer permitted him to see Sabrina. In March, 1976, the wife moved to New York with Sabrina without informing the husband. They lived with the wife’s mother in Brooklyn, from March, 1976, until November, 1977. Despite his efforts, the husband was denied the right to see Sabrina.

An order for separate support with custody of Sabrina being awarded to the wife and visitation rights for the husband was entered against the husband on July 6, 1976. The husband fulfilled his support obligation until he was denied the right to see Sabrina. The wife filed a complaint for divorce on August 25, 1976, seeking custody of Sabrina and an allowance for support of herself and Sabrina. In March, 1977, the husband filed a complaint for contempt against the wife for failure to permit him to visit Sabrina. The court adjudged the wife in contempt on June 13, 1977, for refusing to permit the husband to visit Sabrina. In spite of the fact that the support order was ultimately reinstated on condition that the wife permit visitation, she continued to refuse to allow him to see Sabrina.

In November, 1977, the wife left the child with her mother in Brooklyn and moved to a one-room apartment in New York city. In December, 1977, the husband filed another complaint for contempt based on the wife’s persistent refusal to permit visitation. This complaint was met in January, 1978, by a cross complaint by the wife for nonpayment of support.

Following a trial on the wife’s complaint for divorce, on September 26, 1978, a judgment of divorce was entered in which the husband was awarded custody of Sabrina, the wife was given visitation rights and the husband was ordered to pay alimony in the amount of $200 per month *449 until November 1, 1979, at which time such payments would cease. The husband was also ordered to pay arrears on his support order in the sum of $5,500.

The wife commenced an action in New York on October 31, 1978, seeking custody of Sabrina. The husband countered with a cross motion seeking return of the child pursuant to the Massachusetts judgment. The wife was adjudged in contempt on April 21, 1979, in New York for refusing to yield custody of Sabrina to the husband.

1. Judgment of Divorce.

a. Property and support. In her complaint for divorce, the wife sought custody and an allowance for support of herself and Sabrina. Curiously, she did not seek a division of property in her complaint. However, consistent with his obligation under G. L. c. 208, § 34, the trial judge made detailed findings on each item in the statutory collocation. See Bianco v. Bianco, 371 Mass. 420, 422-423 (1976). The trial judge has broad discretion in awarding alimony after he has considered all the statutory factors. See Rice v. Rice, 372 Mass. 398, 401 (1977). In this instance, the judge did not abuse his discretion. Contrast Meghreblian v. Meghreblian, 9 Mass. App. Ct. 889 (1980).

b. Custody. The wife claims to be aggrieved by the judge’s award of custody of Sabrina to the husband. The overriding concern of the court must be the best interests of the child. Hersey v. Hersey, 271 Mass. 545, 555 (1930). Jenkins v. Jenkins, 304 Mass. 248, 250 (1939). A proceeding for custody is not designed to reward one parent and punish the other. Hersey, supra.

The judge predicated the award of custody to the husband on factors which are highly significant for the welfare of Sabrina. The child had not lived with her mother for a considerable period of time. The grandmother with whom Sabrina had been living was 77 years of age at the time of the trial, in poor health, living in an unsafe neighborhood whose public school was decadent. The grandmother “yelled and screamed during the trial at witnesses, became very emotional, and despite repeated warnings by the court, had to be physically removed several times.”

*450 The wife lived in a one-room apartment in Manhattan. She was highly emotional and unstable. During a recess in the proceedings below, she twice spat in her husband’s face, calling him obscene names in the presence of Sabrina. While her husband was sending money to support Sabrina, she kept it for herself and did not use it for Sabrina’s support.

The husband had displayed a volatile temperament in the past, but, on balance, he was relatively calm and rational.

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