Bacon v. Bacon

351 S.E.2d 37, 3 Va. App. 484, 3 Va. Law Rep. 1475, 1986 Va. App. LEXIS 386
Court of Appeals of Virginia·Decided December 2, 1986·No. Record No. 1050-85·Published·Cited by 60 cases

Opinion

Opinion

MOON, J.

Jean S. Bacon seeks reversal of a divorce decree and an equitable distribution award, alleging that the court: (1) incorrectly applied a “clear and convincing” standard for her to prove that her husband deserted the marriage; (2) erroneously denied her a divorce on the ground of desertion; (3) failed to con *486 sider her husband’s fault in making the equitable distribution award; (4) abused its discretion by failing to properly consider the value of her husband’s civil service retirement benefits in making the equitable distribution award; and (5) abused its discretion in failing to award her spousal support or, in the alternative, making an expressed reservation for future spousal support in the final decree.

We reverse and remand the case because the court incorrectly required the wife to prove by clear and convincing evidence that her husband deserted the marriage. The proper standard of proof in such a case is proof by a preponderance of the evidence.

I.

Jean S. Bacon and John E. Bacon, both fifty-six years old, were married for thirty-two years when Mr. Bacon left the marital home on December 4, 1982. They raised four sons, all over eighteen years of age at the time the divorce decree was entered. Both parties are generally in good health except that both have hypoglycemia, which is not disabling in either case. Mrs. Bacon was a registered nurse, having received her degree prior to the marriage. Mr. Bacon is retired after thirty years of service in the CIA.

During the marriage, both parties made monetary and non-monetary contributions to the well-being of the family. Mr. Bacon was the primary wage earner although Mrs. Bacon did occasional work outside of the home. Mrs. Bacon was the primary homekeeper although Mr. Bacon did some maintenance, repairs, and improvements, as did Mrs. Bacon, and he occasionally helped with household chores and the care of the children. Prior to their separation, the parties had contemplated retiring after Mr. Bacon completed thirty years of service.

Mrs. Bacon, who continued to reside in the marital home, contended that her monthly needs and expenses exceeded her income by $560.84 per month and that Mr. Bacon, who rents a room, had income that exceeded his expenses.

On December 4, 1982, Mr. Bacon left the marital home and filed a bill of complaint for divorce on June 11, 1984. He previously told his wife in September, 1982, that he intended to leave her and get a divorce.

*487 Mr. Bacon testified that in October, 1982, and again in November, 1982, his wife told him she wanted him out of the house. He stated that the marriage had been a disastrous inter-personal relationship for the last eighteen years, characterized by hostility and dissension in the home. He testified that their sexual relations had been nonexistent for several years and that, during that time, his wife had locked him out of the bedroom. However, a matter of days after the first incident, Mrs. Bacon no longer locked her door, but Mr. Bacon continued to maintain a separate bedroom until the separation. There was no verbal abuse nor physical violence by Mrs. Bacon against Mr. Bacon although she threatened numerous times to leave him or to divorce him; however, in the year prior to the separation she had made only one such threat. Mr. Bacon believed the separation was for their mutual benefit. He had no witnesses to corroborate his reasons for leaving the marriage.

Mrs. Bacon’s evidence consisted of her own testimony and that of her son, Francis. He supported his mother’s contention that she had done a good job of rearing the four children. He testified that his father told him at Thanksgiving in 1982 that he planned to leave the home and that he did so on December 4, 1982, giving as the reason for leaving: “to reconcile the differences between the family.” Francis corroborated his mother’s testimony that her bedroom door was always open. He described his mother as a “very loving, thoughtful woman,” and his father as a person who spent a lot of time alone in their house. He never heard his mother mention a divorce. Mrs. Bacon denied ever asking her husband to leave or locking him out of her bedroom or refusing any request for sexual intercourse. She testified that his drinking became intolerable in recent years and, while she did not want the situation to continue, she never asked her husband to leave or asked for a divorce.

The court granted Mrs. Bacon a divorce on the ground of a one year separation but denied her a divorce on the ground of desertion, stating: “The standard of proof being by clear and convincing evidence, the court does not find such clear and convincing evidence of desertion in this case.” The court also denied Mrs. Bacon’s request for permanent spousal support.

*488 II.

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