Amodeo v. Alamiri

2025 IL App (3d) 240472-U
Appellate Court of Illinois·Decided September 2, 2025·No. 3-24-0472·Unpublished

Opinion

NOTICE: This order was filed under Supreme Court Rule 23 and is not precedent except in the limited circumstances allowed under Rule 23(e)(1).

2025 IL App (3d) 240472-U

Order filed September 2, 2025

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS THIRD DISTRICT

2025

MARIA AMODEO, ) Appeal from the Circuit Court ) of the 18th Judicial Circuit, Petitioner-Appellee, ) Du Page County, Illinois, )

) Appellate Court No. 3-24-0472 v. ) Circuit No. 24-OP-886 )

RAED ALAMIRI, ) Honorable ) Jeffery Scott MacKay, Respondent-Appellant. ) Judge, Presiding.

JUSTICE HETTEL delivered the judgment of the court.

Justices Anderson and Bertani concurred in the judgment.

ORDER

¶1 Held: (1) Trial court’s conduct during order of protection complied with rules of judicial conduct; (2) trial court did not err in overruling respondent’s objections based on hearsay; (3) trial court’s grant of a one-year plenary order of protection was not against the manifest weight of the evidence; and (4) duration of emergency order of protection did not violate statutory requirements and, thus, did not render plenary order of protection void.

¶2 Petitioner, Maria Amodeo, filed a pro se petition seeking an order of protection against respondent, Raed Alamiri, alleging harassment, physical abuse, stalking, and interference with

personal liberty. The trial court granted Maria emergency relief and, following an evidentiary hearing, issued a one-year plenary order of protection. Raed appeals, and we affirm.

¶3 I. BACKGROUND ¶4 On June 10, 2024, Maria filed a verified pro se petition for an order of protection against her husband, Raed. In her petition, Maria (age 64) alleged that Raed (age 53) verbally harassed and abused her on June 9, 2024, by yelling at her and calling her names. Raed complained that she did not know how to cook or clean, calling her “ ‘stupid, ass hole, [and] mentally ill.’ ” He also told her she was “ ‘a bitch’ ” and “ ‘a dog and donkey’.” Maria further alleged that Raed isolated her and refused to allow her to communicate with her family in Italy. Maria claimed that she lived “in fear” and felt “like a prisoner in [her] own home.”

¶5 The petition included allegations of other incidents. Maria averred that on April 10, 2024, she was cooking in the kitchen and Raed started calling her “trash” and “garbage.” When Maria told him to be respectful, Raed said that he did not care. Maria stated that Raed “got close to my face and threatened me that if I ever answer him back, that he’ll break my head.” Raed then bumped Maria on the shoulder, which caused her pain because she suffers from psoriatic arthritis. He took Maria’s phone and keys and would not return them. Maria paced back and forth while Raed continued to yell at her and call her names. Eventually, Raed left her phone and keys on the table. He went to the bathroom, and she “grabbed [her] purse and everything and [she] left.”

¶6 On November 17, 2023, Maria and Raed had another argument about cooking and cleaning. Maria alleged that Raed “was in my face calling me names and threatening that if I talk back, he’ll break my neck.” Raed forbade Maria from going out unless she asked him.

¶7 The final incident alleged in the petition occurred on October 21, 2023. According to Maria, Raed yelled at her and said she was “ ‘a bitch, loser, you donkey, asshole, idiot, ding dong.”

Raed then grabbed her hand and squeezed it tightly. Maria tried to move her hand away, but Raed squeezed it harder. Maria alleged that, as she tried to pull away again, her hand slammed against the counter. Her fingers began to swell due to prior surgeries on her fingers, so Raed took Maria to the emergency room. While they waited to be seen, Raed became upset and started yelling at the medical staff, calling them “bitches.” Police arrived, and Raed and Maria “had to leave [the hospital].” When they returned home, Maria wrapped her hand in ice and took some Tylenol. According to Maria’s allegations, Raed’s actions caused so much trauma to her hand that it “turned purple and black.”

¶8 At the conclusion of the petition, Maria requested, among other things, that Raed be barred from threatening or committing acts of abuse against her, including: (1) harassment, (2) physical abuse, (3) stalking, and (4) interference with personal liberty. She also sought exclusive possession of the parties’ residence.

¶9 The trial court found that Raed abused Maria and granted a 14-day emergency order of protection, with temporary exclusive possession of the residence awarded to Maria. The court then scheduled a hearing on a plenary protective order for June 24, 2024.

¶ 10 At the plenary hearing, Maria testified that she and Raed have been married for 9½ years. She stated that Raed monitors everything she does, particularly when she leaves the house. The only time she is allowed to leave unattended is when she has a doctor’s appointment, and even then, Raed calls her multiple times to verify her location. Maria testified that Raed raises his voice on a regular basis and that, when he yells at her, he “comes close to [her] face” and threatens her.

¶ 11 Regarding the April 10, 2024, incident, Maria testified that Raed yelled at her and she threatened to call the police. At that point, Raed took her phone and her car keys away from her. Maria described Raed as 6-feet, 2-inches tall, and weighed 250 pounds, and stated that she is only

5-feet, 3-inches tall, and weighed 129 pounds. She stated that, given his size, she fell backwards when Raed bumped her with his shoulder. Raed told her that he would “break [her] head” if she did anything. Eventually, he placed her phone and keys on the table. When he went to the bathroom, she grabbed them and left.

¶ 12 She further testified that during the incident in October 2023, Raed grabbed her hand and squeezed it so hard that it hurt. As they drove to the hospital for treatment, Raed instructed her to say that she injured herself and that she hit her hand against “something” in the kitchen. At the hospital, they waited for more than three hours to be seen, and Raed became upset. He started yelling at the medical staff and calling them derogatory names. Security and police officers arrived because Raed was getting aggressive, and they asked Raed to leave. As Maria described the incident further, the following discussion occurred:

¶ 13 “Q. What was he saying to them?

A. It was very aggressive. Saying bad words. He even called her a bitch or something.

MR. ALAMIRI: Objection, your Honor.

THE COURT: What’s your objection?

MR. ALAMIRI: This is a hospital, a third party. It’s irrelevant to what she stated on the papers here. So what she stated on the papers much of what she is saying is irrelevant.

THE COURT: I disagree I find it relevant. It’s also a statement you made.

So the objection is overruled.”

¶ 14 Maria further testified that Raed’s acts of abuse aggravated her medical condition and affected her ability to sleep:

“Q: How has this affected you other than the ways that you just described?

A: Oh, gosh, because I’m diabetic and I have psoriatic arthritis and I have high blood pressure, you know, it doesn’t help my sugar level. It’s always extremely high. I see a specialist every three months[,] I have to go in for injections every month, and it’s always because of the aggravation that my sugar level will not go down because of all of this aggravation. I‘ve just had enough with him.

Q: Does this ever affect your ability to sleep?

A: Absolutely. Yes. Big time. I can’t sleep well. I haven’t been sleeping well. He’s mentally been abusing me in every which way.”

“MR. ALAMIRI: Objection, your Honor.

COURT: Go ahead.

MR. ALAMIRI: One of these statements wasn’t here and her statement and the emergency order of protection. None of them were not there.

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