In re Marriage of Langhans

2021 IL App (2d) 200613-U
Appellate Court of Illinois·Decided September 8, 2021·No. 2-20-0613·Unpublished·Cited by 1 cases

Opinion

No. 2-20-0613

Order filed September 8, 2021

NOTICE: This order was filed under Supreme Court Rule 23(b) and is not precedent except in the limited circumstances allowed under Rule 23(e)(l).

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS

SECOND DISTRICT

In re MARRIAGE OF TRESSA M. LANGHANS, ) Appeal from the Circuit Court ) of Du Page County.

Petitioner-Appellee, )

)

and ) No. 20-OP-406 )

RONALD LEE LANGHANS, JR., ) Honorable ) Michael W. Fleming,

Respondent-Appellant. ) Judge, Presiding.

JUSTICE BRENNAN delivered the judgment of the court.

Justices Hudson and Birkett concurred in the judgment.

ORDER

¶1 Held: We affirm the trial court’s order of protection.

¶2 Respondent, Ronald Lee Langhans, Jr., appeals an order of protection against him as to petitioner, Tressa M. Langhans, and their three minor children. Ronald essentially raises three arguments: (1) the trial court failed to comply with section 8-2601 of the Code of Civil Procedure (Code) (735 ILCS 5/8-2601 (West 2020) (concerning the admission of out-of-court statements by a child under age 13 concerning any act of child abuse)); (2) the trial court failed to comply with section 214(c)(3) of the Illinois Domestic Violence Act (Act) (750 ILCS 60/214(c)(3) (West 2020)

(requiring the trial court to make certain express findings)); and (3) the trial court’s entry of the plenary order of protection was against the manifest weight of the evidence because (a) there were insufficient grounds to enter the firearms restriction pursuant to section 214(b)(14.5)(a) of the Act (750 ILCS 60/214(b)(14.5)(a) (West 2020)) and (b) the trial court did not comply with section 214(c) of the Act (750 ILCS 60/214(c)(2) (West 2020) (requiring the trial court to compare relative hardships in awarding possession of the family home)). Ronald also argues that the trial court erred in denying his motion to reconsider based on many of these same arguments. For the reasons that follow, we reject Ronald’s arguments and affirm.

¶3 I. BACKGROUND

¶4 At the time relevant to this case, Ronald and Tressa were engaged in divorce proceedings. They had three minor children, ages two, five, and nine. On May 4, 2020, Tressa filed for an order of protection against Ronald. The petition alleged that Ronald committed acts of verbal abuse and property damage and that this created a fearful home environment. Specifically, Tressa wrote: “I filed the order of protection because our kids locked themselves in a bedroom screaming in fear that he was going to get [them].” She also reported that one of their children stated: “I don’t want to be alone with Deeda he is so scary.” The trial court granted an emergency order of protection. The transcripts from the emergency hearing are not in the record, nor is there a bystanders’ report.

¶5 On May 19, 2020, the trial court conducted the plenary hearing. Tressa and Ronald, each appearing pro se, testified. Tressa testified that she did not believe that matters had genuinely improved since the entrance of the emergency order. Ronald was trying to be “nicer,” but he continued to blame Tressa for their circumstances. Primarily, she worried about the “mental and emotional” issues. For example, Ronald went through Tressa’s phone. He told her that he did not trust her anymore and, to regain her trust, she must hand over her phone. He stated that when she

paid the phone bill, he would stop going through her phone. Ronald also called her “really bad names” in front of the kids. He thought she was cheating on him, but she was not. To Tressa, he would say: “I’m done with you. You can tell him to have you.” In front of the children, he would say: “I’m done with you. Get out of here.”

¶6 The trial court asked Tressa whether there had ever been any physical abuse. Tressa answered:

“Not [toward] me, but throwing, breaking, slamming, very loud slamming. Doesn’t matter what time it is. It could be 2:00 in the morning ***. He has not hit anybody, but he does throw his physical anger around.”

Also, Ronald damaged property. He broke beer bottles on the floor. He punched a vehicle because he was mad at Tressa.

¶7 Tressa testified that Ronald showed no “concern as to who sees or hears the mistreatment.” For example, one day, they went to Delnor Hospital for their two-year-old’s orthopedic appointment. In the drop-off area, in front of other people, he screamed at her “so loud[ly], he got out of the car, he slammed the door, he continued to scream at me in front of the people leaving the hospital.” She told him that a bystander was going to “call the cops,” and he replied: “I don’t give a s**t. Don’t make me angry.”

¶8 Tressa testified to the effect of Ronald’s behavior on the children. Her older son is experiencing distress. “He can’t sleep at night. He’s scared that people are coming to get him.” His teacher contacted her because he told the teacher that he was “really stressed out.” He did not complete his assignments. Also, two of the children have told different neighbors that “their dad yells at their mom so bad that she cries, and they don’t want to be at home.”

¶9 Tressa concluded that Ronald’s anger has been “progressing” for the last 18 months. “I’m

worried [because] each time that things have happened, it has been a little bit louder and a little bit worse. *** And I just don’t want to see if there is a next time, because I don’t want think we should have to deal with that.” She also stated: “He needs to seek help ***. Otherwise, it’s just not safe in our house with him.”

¶ 10 Ronald testified that “there is a lot of truth to some of the things that [Tressa] is saying.” Ronald admitted that he yelled: “We were arguing late into the night. And yes, I did allow myself to shout or scream, and I should not have done that.” He also admitted that he committed property damage:

“As far as breaking things, I broke a beer bottle on the garage floor; [a] picture frame ***; and I believe something else.

That’s what I’ve broken. Yes, I did punch an older car, hers, and put a little dent in it. That was probably six, seven years ago.”

Ronald further agreed that the arguments caused the children to feel unsafe. Without being directly questioned on the matter, he chose to explain the allegation in the petition that the children had locked themselves in their bedrooms. He explained:

“This instance, I was leaving for work. In our basement, we have a back room where I keep my firearms and some tools. *** I went into this room to grab a tool.

Now, I cannot recall if we had been fighting that day, or you know, if the tensions were high in the house that day. But somewhere in that, my kids thought that I had a knife, and I was going to hurt myself.

Tressa called me when I got to work trying to explain the situation and what had happened. And I said no, absolutely not. I didn’t bring anything out of the basement to hurt myself or anyone else. I talked to the children on the phone. Kind of calmed them

down immediately after that.

The very next day, I had a conversation with all three kids, and I literally watched the tension, well, not so much the two year old, but the five year old and the nine year old, I watched the tension melt out of their bod[ies] as I explained to them I would never in a million years do anything to hurt you or your brothers or your mother or myself. Never.

And I watched that tension leave my children.”

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