Allport v. Allport

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedNovember 5, 2025
Docket24-369
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA24-369

Filed 5 November 2025

Mecklenburg County, No. 17CVD009299-590

PTOLEMY T. ALLPORT, Plaintiff,

v.

SIMON J. ALLPORT, Defendant.

Appeal by defendant from order entered 23 May 2023 by Judge Paige B.

McThenia in District Court, Mecklenburg County. Heard in the Court of Appeals 29

January 2025.

James, McElroy & Diehl, P.A., by Preston O. Odom, III and G. Russell Kornegay, III, for plaintiff-appellee.

Sellers Ayers Dortch & Lyons, PA, by Dorian H. Gunter, for defendant- appellant.

STROUD, Judge.

Simon J. Allport (“Husband”) appeals from an Order Regarding Permanent

Alimony (“Alimony Order”) directing him to pay $14,767.52 per month to Ptolemy T.

Allport (“Wife”).

Husband introduced his case on appeal in this manner:

This case is about a trial judge erroneously concluding that a woman with an estate worth approximately $4 million, who has three degrees and three bar memberships, could not make a substantial contribution to her own support. ALLPORT V. ALLPORT

Opinion of the Court

The trial court ignored Wife’s available income and ordered Husband to indefinitely fund her artificially inflated lifestyle as punishment for his extramarital affair.

No doubt this is an accurate reflection of Husband’s personal feelings about this case,

but the courts do not decide cases based on the personal feelings of either party. Trial

courts decide cases based on the facts as presented in the evidence and on the law.

This Court reviews the trial court’s orders based on the appropriate standards of

review as applied to the trial court’s order and law and evidence in the record.

Husband’s introduction overlooks the standards applied by this Court, so with

these standards in mind, we will introduce Husband’s appeal as follows: This case is

about a trial judge carefully considering four days of testimony and voluminous

evidence, making determinations of the credibility and weight of all the evidence,

preparing an order with over 15 single-spaced pages of detailed findings of fact

addressing each fact necessary to determine alimony – none of which are challenged

on appeal as unsupported by the evidence – and concluding that Husband can and

should pay alimony to Wife. The trial court fully considered the incomes of both

parties, their established standard of living during the marriage, and the factors

stated in North Carolina General Statute Section 50-16.3A, including Husband’s

“illicit sexual behavior,” a factor which requires an award of alimony if the supporting

spouse has the ability to pay and the dependent spouse needs alimony. See N.C. Gen.

Stat. § 50-16.3A(a) (2023).

I. Factual and Procedural Background

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This summary of the factual background is based on the trial court’s

unchallenged findings of fact. The parties first met in April 1986 while they both

were working as engineers for Shell International in the Middle East and began

dating shortly thereafter in June of that year. Husband was dissatisfied with his

career as an engineer. Wife encouraged him to apply to medical school and assisted

him in completing and submitting his applications. Ultimately, Husband was

accepted and began attending Westminster Medical School at the University of

London. Wife resigned from her position at Shell and moved with Husband to London

in 1987.

While in London, Wife completed a two-year program to obtain a master’s

degree from the London School of Economics. Wife then enrolled at Tulane

University School of Law in Louisiana. The parties got married on 19 October 1989,

while Husband was still in medical school and Wife was in law school.

Husband graduated medical school in 1992 and began his internship and

residency at the University of Arizona in 1993. Wife moved to Arizona with Husband,

passed the Arizona bar exam, and began practicing at a large firm before accepting a

job at a district attorney’s office to gain trial experience.

In July 1996, Husband accepted a Fellowship in Gastroenterology in Atlanta,

Georgia. Wife moved to Georgia with Husband, passed the Georgia bar exam, and

began working for a boutique law firm while Husband completed his fellowship.

During their time in Georgia, Wife gave birth to the parties’ first child in August

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1998. Wife returned to full-time employment following her maternity leave. During

the years of Husband’s medical training in both Arizona and Georgia, Wife was the

primary income earner for the family.

After his fellowship, Husband accepted a position at Gastroenterology

Associates, PA in Hickory, North Carolina. The parties and their child moved to

North Carolina for Husband’s new job, and Wife began working for a law firm in

Hickory after passing the North Carolina bar exam. In May of 2000, Wife gave birth

to the parties’ twins and later returned to work at the law firm at a reduced caseload

to ensure flexibility to care for their children. In 2009, the parties agreed it would be

best for Wife to quit her job at the law firm to become a full-time stay-at-home wife

and mother. Wife resumed employment as an assistant district attorney in 2014 but

resigned after about nine months because it was “unmanageable[ ]” to support the

children and a career due to Husband’s demanding work schedule. After leaving the

district attorney’s office, Wife became inactive from the North Carolina Bar and

remained a stay-at-home wife and mother.

After moving to North Carolina, the parties began enjoying a high standard of

living due to Husband’s income as a physician. During their marriage, the parties

acquired several properties and real estate interests throughout North and South

Carolina. The parties also drove “luxury” vehicles, owned a boat and jet ski, and

“routinely spent over $50,000” annually on vacations.

In fall of 2012, Husband began having a secret romantic affair with a nurse

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colleague, Darla. During the time of their affair, Husband and Darla had an intimate

sexual relationship, often spending nights together at one of the parties’ homes while

Wife and the children remained at one of their other homes. This clandestine affair

continued for about three years, until September 2015, when Wife discovered text

messages between Husband and Darla on Husband’s laptop. The parties ultimately

separated on 25 September 2015, shortly after Wife discovered this affair.

On 30 May 2017, Wife filed a Complaint and Motion for Interim Distribution

in District Court, Mecklenburg County, asserting claims for child custody and child

support, postseparation support (“PSS”), alimony, attorney fees, and equitable

distribution. After the parties divorced on 9 November 2017, Husband proposed to

Darla on 24 December 2017 and they married on 23 June 2018.

On 2 November 2017, a hearing was held before Judge Sean P. Smith. In an

order entered 5 February 2018 (“PSS Order”), Judge Smith made findings of fact and

conclusions of law addressing PSS, temporary child support, temporary support

arrears, attorney fees, and interim equitable distribution. At the time of this hearing,

the parties had two minor children: one who remained in the custody of Wife, and the

other who remained in the custody of Husband.

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