Zasueta v. Zasueta

126 Cal. Rptr. 2d 245, 102 Cal. App. 4th 1242, 2002 Daily Journal DAR 12080, 2002 Cal. Daily Op. Serv. 10505, 2002 Cal. App. LEXIS 4820
CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedOctober 17, 2002
DocketF039600
StatusPublished
Cited by18 cases

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Zasueta v. Zasueta, 126 Cal. Rptr. 2d 245, 102 Cal. App. 4th 1242, 2002 Daily Journal DAR 12080, 2002 Cal. Daily Op. Serv. 10505, 2002 Cal. App. LEXIS 4820 (Cal. Ct. App. 2002).

Opinion

Opinion

WISEMAN, J.

Some cases hit closer to home than others. Deciding whether grandparents should have visitation with their grandchildren over the objection of a parent is the type of case that tugs at the hearts of most trial judges, evoking memories of personal experiences with their own families—both good and bad. As a result, the temptation seems to be (more than in other types of cases) to allow the heart to rule over the letter of the law. It is for this reason that we publish here: to remind our district’s able trial bench of the law governing these emotionally difficult cases and the need to set aside personal feelings and experiences when making these rulings.

Stephanie Zasueta, mother of the minor child (the minor child), appeals an order granting visitation to the minor child’s paternal grandparents, Erasmo *1244 and Cynthia Zasueta, 1 under Family Code 2 section 3102. Stephanie contends section 3102 is unconstitutional, both facially and as applied. We conclude section 3102, as applied in this case, unconstitutionally infringed on Stephanie’s fundamental rights. Accordingly, we reverse the order in its entirety.

Factual and Procedural Histories

Stephanie and Paul Zasueta were married sometime in 1998. On February 28, 1999, Stephanie gave birth to the minor child. Stephanie and Paul separated the following year. They were in the process of obtaining a marital dissolution when Paul committed suicide on June 13, 2001.

On September 7, 2001, the Zasuetas filed a petition in superior court requesting visitation with the minor child. Stephanie opposed the petition. A hearing was held on October 16, 2001.

During the hearing, Cynthia testified that before her stepson Paul died she saw the minor child about every other weekend. Paul would usually bring the minor child over to visit with the Zasuetas on Saturdays at their car wash business in Bakersfield. The visits would last two to three hours. The minor child never spent the night at their home. However, they occasionally would go out to eat pizza together.

Cynthia stated that she had not been able to visit with the minor child since Paul’s death. She had called Stephanie at work about two months afterward and asked whether they would be able to see the minor child. Stephanie told her that “it wasn’t the right time.” When Cynthia asked why, Stephanie said they first needed to “ ‘sort out things’ ” regarding Paul’s personal belongings. Cynthia then told Stephanie to “ ‘[g]ive us yes or no if you will let us see her.’ ” Stephanie repeated that she did not think it was the right time and indicated she would not allow any visitation with the minor child until some of Paul’s belongings were returned to her.

Cynthia testified that she and Erasmo lived in a mobilehome behind their car wash business. According to Cynthia, their home was clean and suitable for a two year old to visit. Cynthia denied there was “drinking and swearing going on constantly.” She was not aware that Stephanie had ever spent time inside her home to be able to observe such behavior.

Cynthia indicated that the minor child was Paul’s only child. However, she had other' grandchildren, including a three-year-old grandson and a *1245 one-year-old granddaughter. According to Cynthia, these grandchildren visited during the weekends and sometimes spent full days or spent the night at the Zasuetas’ home. Cynthia explained that she had beds for them to sleep in, and their parents would bring high chairs or whatever else they needed.

On cross-examination, Cynthia acknowledged that Stephanie was a good mother. Cynthia also confirmed that, although she did not agree with Stephanie’s decisions, she had no grounds for suggesting that Stephanie would do anything other than what she believed was best for the minor child.

Erasmo testified that he occasionally drank alcohol when he got off from work. However, he did not drink around his grandchildren. Erasmo loved his grandchildren and played with them when they visited. He also agreed with Cynthia’s testimony regarding their past contact with the minor child.

Stephanie testified that after Paul died, members of his family, including Cynthia, would call and accuse her of saying or doing something to cause Paul to commit suicide. As a result, Stephanie tried to avoid the Zasuetas.

Stephanie further testified that, prior to the separation, she used to go with Paul to visit the Zasuetas at their previous homes in Bakersfield and Tehachapi. During these visits, Stephanie observed members of Paul’s family drinking alcohol excessively and becoming loud and boisterous. According to Stephanie, Erasmo swore, using “[t]he ‘F’ word a lot; bitch and beaver.” Stephanie testified she did not want the minor child to be around alcohol or any individual who used such language. She further stated that Paul spoke like his father when they first started dating, but he never spoke in that manner around the minor child.

Stephanie testified that she “definitely” thought the minor child should, at some point, spend time with the Zasuetas. However, she currently objected to visitation because she believed it would be traumatizing for the minor child. Stephanie explained that before Paul died, the Zasuetas only visited once every three or four months. When they came over, it would take a couple hours for the minor child to get used to them. Stephanie was also concerned about the feelings the Zasuetas would express about Paul’s death and the minor child’s physical resemblance to him.

Stephanie did not know where Paul took the minor child on his visitation days. She had told Paul not to take the minor child to his parents’ home because “[the minor child] came back upset, tantrums and dirty.”

On cross-examination, Stephanie testified that, although it might be important to the Zasuetas to have a continuing relationship with their grandchildren, it was not necessarily important to the minor child, who would not *1246 know the difference. Stephanie explained that the minor child had a close relationship with Stephanie’s parents and received “plenty of love.” Stephanie indicated that visitation with the Zasuetas would be acceptable when the minor child “gets older and understands what happened and wants to, that is her decision.”

Stephanie testified regarding another source of animosity between herself and the Zasuetas. She explained that after Paul died, the Zasuetas took all his personal belongings, including his watch, wedding band, cologne, clothing, and home videos. Stephanie felt the Zasuetas had acted disrespectfully toward the minor child by leaving her without anything to remind her of her father. Stephanie indicated she would be willing to allow some visitation, “[m]aybe limited to a couple hours a month,” if the Zasuetas would be helpful in resolving the issues pertaining to Paul’s belongings.

After listening to argument from both sides, the court ruled in favor of granting visitation to the Zasuetas. The court’s reasoning in support of this ruling is reflected in the following discussion:

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