Willis v. Willis

775 N.E.2d 878, 149 Ohio App. 3d 50
CourtOhio Court of Appeals
DecidedJuly 22, 2002
DocketCase No. CA2001-09-204.
StatusPublished
Cited by36 cases

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Bluebook
Willis v. Willis, 775 N.E.2d 878, 149 Ohio App. 3d 50 (Ohio Ct. App. 2002).

Opinion

Valen, Judge.

{¶ 1} Defendant-appellant, Chris Willis, appeals a decision of the Butler County Court of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations Division, restricting his visitation with the parties’ minor children and finding him in contempt for failing to pay the children’s medical expenses not covered by health insurance.

{¶ 2} Chris and plaintiff-appellee, Rhonda Willis, n.k.a. Rhonda Stegner, were divorced for the second time on March 5, 1998. They have three minor children, Ciara (born September 28, 1990), Cody (born January 12, 1993), and Chloe (born July 19, 1995). Under the parties’ shared parenting agreement,- Rhonda was named residential parent for school purposes and Chris was granted “Schedule B” visitation with an additional Sunday per month from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. Except on a few occasions, Chris has not exercised his extra Sunday visitation.

{¶ 3} Between August 2000 and January 2001, both parties filed several motions. In particular, Rhonda filed motions to find Chris in contempt for failing to pay his portion of the children’s uncovered medical bills and for failing to comply with his “Schedule B” visitation. Rhonda also filed a motion to modify and/or restrict Chris’s visitation and a request that he undergo psychological counseling. In turn, Chris filed motions to find Rhonda in contempt for failing to comply with his “Schedule B” visitation and for failing to keep him informed of the children’s medical needs and extracurricular activities. Chris also filed a motion to increase his visitation. The parties and all three children were subsequently evaluated at the Children’s Diagnostic Center, Inc. (“CDC”). A hearing on the parties’ motions and a report from the CDC revealed the following facts:

{¶ 4} Rhonda lives in Richmond, Indiana, and has been engaged to Michael Simmons since January 2001. Chris lives in Middletown, Ohio, and is not involved in a relationship. In fact, Chris still considers himself biblically married to Rhonda and continues to wear his wedding band. Chris has told his children as well as Simmons that he is still biblically married to Rhonda even though he is no longer married to her legally. Chris has referred to Simmons as the “imposter” and once asked the children to refer to Simmons as such. On two occasions, Chris told Simmons that he wanted to set up an appointment with Simmons, Simmons’s minister, and himself so they could discuss Simmons’s *54 relationship with Rhonda. Chris testified that Simmons’s presence imposes on Chris’s relationship with Rhonda, preventing any possible reconciliation.

{¶ 5} When the children are with their father, they regularly attend church on Sundays and engage in extensive bible study. Part of the bible study concerns passages in the bible about adultery. Although he denies calling Rhonda an adulteress, Chris has on many occasions told the children that if Rhonda and Simmons were having sex, they would be committing adultery. Chris has also told Ciara, his then ten-year-old daughter, that he does not want her (Ciara) to be an adulteress. Chris believes that it is his right to discuss such issues with the children. Chris does not believe that such discussion affects the children. Chris denied calling Rhonda a “slut” or a “whore.” He admitted, however, telling the children that their mother is not appropriately dressed and asking them “what they thought about what kind of wife she [had] been to [him]” since the divorce. Chris testified that the children are very close to their mother and that Rhonda is a good mother.

{¶ 6} Rhonda testified that Chris cannot accept their 1998 divorce, that he is very bitter, and that he is taking the hostility out on the children. Rhonda also testified that Chris is a good man who loves his children. Rhonda testified that the children love their father but that they are fearful of him and that they do not like some of the things he does and says. Rhonda testified that the children often act up, start to cry, or work themselves into physical illness, especially Ciara, at the thought of going to visit their father. Rhonda stated that she often has to stop the car when driving to Chris’s house to hug the children and to reassure them that everything will be all right. Rhonda testified that upon returning from Chris’s house, the children are very upset, very clingy, and in need of attention. While she believes that Chris’s visitation with the children should be supervised, Rhonda does not want to take Chris’s parental rights away.

{¶ 7} Chris testified that when the children are dropped off at his house, they are happy to see him and hug him. Chris stated that the children love him and that they do not seem to be afraid of him. Rather, Chris believes that the children are brainwashed by Rhonda who is consistently trying to drive a wedge between the children and him. Chris does not believe that he has a problem with Ciara and describes their relationship as normal. Chris described his relationships with Cody and Chloe as good and very good respectively. Chris admits that he is not a perfect parent, that he has shortcomings, and that he could be more patient with and more encouraging to the children. Chris testified that he would refuse to participate in any court-ordered or voluntary counseling, including family counseling, because he does not need it.

{¶ 8} Two fellow churchgoers testified on behalf of Chris. They both testified that they never saw the children afraid of their father. One churchgoer stated *55 that he had never observed Chris hit his children or be mean or harsh to them. The other churchgoer observed signs of affection between the children and their father such as kissing and holding hands. Beverly Willis, Chris’s mother, testified that Chris is a stern but very good father who is doing an exceptional job with the children. Willis testified that Ciara has commented, at times, about being in the middle of her parents’ dispute. Willis stated that neither Ciara nor Chris needs counseling. Remarkably, despite the parties’ animosity, visitation has continued in substantial compliance with the shared parenting agreement.

{¶ 9} During the hearing, upon questioning by the children’s guardian ad litem, Chris also testified about the following incident that took place at his house: upon receiving his copy of the CDC report, Chris became upset about some of the children’s allegations about him. Chris admitted that when the children walked in the front door for their weekend visitation with him, he started videotaping them, especially Ciara, asking them to recant some of the statements that were in the CDC report. Chris testified that he was feeling falsely accused and that videotaping the children was the only way to defend himself. Chris stated that videotaping the children and asking them to recant had no more of a negative impact on the children than someone else talking to them about it. Chris agreed, however, that the video camera could have a negative effect. Chris also testified that it was not inappropriate for him to discuss the false allegations in the CDC report with the children. Doing so did not put the children on the spot any “more than the psychologist puts them on the spot.”

{¶ 10} During the hearing, the children’s guardian ad litem testified and was cross-examined by counsel for both parties. Upon order of the magistrate, her testimony was subsequently sealed. The day after the hearing, the magistrate interviewed the children in camera.

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